₦airaland Forum

sheer narrow mindedness

Mrs, Chima:
Pendo  

No, men shouldn't be dragged to the altar.  A man should make a well-informed decision to marry such lady.  It is very important that he does it on his own volition and a woman should make a decision if such man is compatible to her in all areas not just sexually and financially.  

The reason I mentioned sexually and financially because many marriages today are based on sex and money which also explains the rise in divorce/separation/abandonment not just in the "West" either.  

Before marriage subject is introduce into any stage of relationship, two parties need to know basic information about the person, spend time with each other in different surroundings, grow slowly in love with each other through intimacy and bonding, and ask uncomfortable questions during bonding stage.  

Without proper foundation, relationships will not survive and dragging a man to the altar will not change anything.  A man should ask himself, if his relationship with his woman is built on cards or cement before wasting any more time.

Well said! Unfortunately some ladies have sort of programmed themselves that  the next guy they date will be their husband. Now tell me if this kind of person will even want to "waste precious time' getting to know the guy and letting the love grow.

kpolli:
Who is this one forming for? Is he gonna be the first guy u have slept with?

LMAO!!

Basildon1:
Get a pair of knitting pins and make a few cardigans!

Thank you jare

Very soon peeps would start up threads requesting details where a woman's p^nny is located and what to do with it.
The kind of topics on nl sef!

slimshay:
A-40 abeg which Mikel? John Mikel, Mikel Sylvestre or Mikel Art-Enter-The-Pitch?

Abeg, clarify, just so we don't confuse zobo with chapman

Can't wait for Jack to return in Jan, at least we can afford to let Arteta rest, he's the man making all the connects right now

ceomike:
President Goodluck Jonathan opening ceremony of the biennial Honourary International Investors Council Meeting (HIIC) in Paris, assured Nigerians that his administration would deal with he menace of Boko Haram

``With the renewed vigour by Nigeria's security agencies to curb the menace of Boko Haram, the existence of the group in the shores of Nigeria will soon be history,'' he said.

The President decried the hijacking of Boko Haram by prominent politicians, describing the development as ``unfortunate''.

``There must be concrete evidence before you make an arrest to avoid blackmail of the government because when very senior politicians are involved such as a distinguished senator one must get his facts right.

``Unfortunately, a serving senator, a distinguished senator is one of the suspects,'' the President said.

Source: http://www./2011/11/25/jonathan-assures-nigerians-on-boko-haram/

Ode

pendo89:
yep the reason they must be dragged cz agreeing meant investing emotions

Funny, but a lady should know if her man is serious enough about her to make her his wife.
Thing with most guys is that once you start asking where the relationhip's headed, you're looking for trouble

^^
None. It's a chance she has to take. Afterall, she agreed to date him

Lol @ Topic. I don't think dragging him is the solution. What's the guarantee that it will be a happy union.
Now don't think i embrace the "user" term quoted by the poster, it's just one of those things ladies goes through

sweet_gala:
My granpapa marry 11 wifes and born 64 pickin, sango fire thunder for anyone that says he was promiscuous. All children were well educated at oxford, Yale, hazard etc, or whatever you are having. And this was in the 1930-1950

aloy/emeka:
Excluding you of course unless you are the one who attended HAZARD university.

i no fit shout!

seriously, u no well!! gone are the days when u say such things, nigerians are only trying to adapt to the present inconveniences,

its bad leaders!!

not d poor masses,

@ Imanuelle, you need help seriously, Bad leaders the problem? smh

Keep ya head up - 2pac

There is only ONE problem, NIGERIANS

Tsun:
He has taken after his father.
Yeye Man!!!!1

how is it any of your business? Ode

Epistle

was directed by google.

warripekin:
I was looking for IICE who used to be a neighbour back in the day. Then I found Pweety4them who lead me to mamagee, who introduced me to Iyatrustee but Iyatrustee unfriendly posturing got me entangled with Ileke idi who happened to be a yoruba irredentist. On my own I found Babe in her girly ways whose musings made me notice Rokiatu in her motherly advice, then it was miss potato the filipino princess who made a mistake by falling in love with a nigerian dude. From misspotato I got to know Naya, sweet as ever and always ready to share in your pains but mrs chima the feminist will antagonize you all the time. Ogugua88 may be sweet but I don't buy her moral relativism bulshit and Ujujoan understands this but Ogugua's supporters like freecocoa,inked-nerd, goldie will always call my bloff. All in all, my spirits rest in chaircover in nairaland.

story

Angry, i hate this job

slimyem:
breaking up with her is enough to hurt her.however you choose to do it doesnt matter.may you reap what you sow.Amen.

Lol.

I go yarn- el Dee

The mask - Fugees

Save tonight - Eagle Eye Cherry

R.Kelly - Heart of a woman

donugapi:
We want to thank the President for bringing Facebook to Nigeria, Some dumb hausa politician!

You're joking!

Blue skies - Jamiroquai

What i've done - Linkin Park