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HealthRe: Nigerian Defence Academy Produces Ventilators To Curb COVID-19 (Photos) by ModestGal(f): 1:49pm On Apr 21, 2020
Most of you condemning this, doesn't understand the use of ventilators. One of the most painful death is when you cannot breathe in oxygen for minutes and you are still alive. Not too different to drowning. Those minutes before your death would be the most painful thing you ever experienced.
Those that are saying they won't use it, your relatives would beg to use anything even worse for you if you are in that stage. Its like you think all those they are using ventilators for have choices to pick, or even have the time to think whether to use ventilators for them or not.

Something is better than nothing, because nothing is instant death
HealthRe: Nigerian Defence Academy Produces Ventilators To Curb COVID-19 (Photos) by ModestGal(f): 1:42pm On Apr 21, 2020
realestate99:
To really say the truth, I love your approach, to answer your question, I would prefer the elon's ventilator if both are available at the same time but waiting for elon's ventilator for 4 hours, NO!!! I will definitely go for the NDA ventilator. if we are to go by your logic, I would like to ask you if you are to choose between Camry 2020 and the latest innoson car........you see, the problem with your people is, they see things from their own angle alone, I know if this ventilator was made in Aba , you wouldn't bring up the elon's ventilator debate, you would be very happy that @ least your people are able to make a ventilator, no matter the quality but I do not know the reason why your people always turn out sad or give irrelevant excuses when things are done by other group of people in the country.
Another thing is that, ventilators are used to sustain lifes, many people have died because of a 10minutes shortage of ventilators. Something is always better than nothing, if we have this in our hospitals across the country, we will loose lesser people to deatg
PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky: Shiite Members Protest In Abuja Despite Lockdown, Rock Face Masks by ModestGal(f): 4:33pm On Apr 01, 2020
Even though I'm not a Shiite, I will stand with Justice for anyone, no matter their religion, tribes or culture. The federal Government should obey the law and release these people, because truth is that they are a very peaceful Muslims, more than SUNNIS. I'm sure if SUNNIS is in the position of Elzaky zaky today, they would have bombed so many places, kill so many innocent citizens. If I'm lieing, check Afghanistan and other SUNNI dominated Countries. Even they burnt a mosque recently because the government asked them to stay home to safe themselves.
But because of religious difference between SUNNI and SHIite, the SUNNIS will never speak the truth.

Yes, I'm so much against the dominatory and killings by the SUNNIS in every country in the world, and their corruption. The history of the SUNNIS start with blood drinking, killing of Hussein and a 9month old baby just to gain power.

Everyone deserves justice no matter who the person is, young, old, married, single, and no matter the religion, beliefs as well as Atheist. Injustice doesn't do anything than to cause more war in the land. The reason we have the Shiite today is because of the injustice of the SUNNIS with hazrat Ali, the killing of Hussein and a 9month old baby, after more than 500years, that injustice is still causing Havocs in the land. Even Nigeria, with no affiliation with either Hussein, Ali, or the Ummayyads or even the Arabs.

The reason the Igbo's are angry today is because of injustice. We should all support justice no matter who is in question and our differences
PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky: Shiite Members Protest In Abuja Despite Lockdown, Rock Face Masks by ModestGal(f): 4:20pm On Apr 01, 2020
bionixs:
i am a Christian, LET THAT MAN GO! LET US NOT SIDE INJUSTICE BECAUSE IT DOESNT CONCERN US. That man is not more of our problem that those caging him! So what are we giving likes about herehuh??The law has not found him guilty. Doesn’t he deserve a second chance even if he has defaulted. Boko haram butchers are being released and given compensation for what exactly huh Are we dumb in this country that we don’t reason well again even if it is not within our power to take action. He is your number one problem in this country ,you saidhuh?? You don’t even know what your problem is
You are a truthful person, We need to be friends. Your type is rare
PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky: Shiite Members Protest In Abuja Despite Lockdown, Rock Face Masks by ModestGal(f): 4:18pm On Apr 01, 2020
Solorrman3310:
Yes as a Sunni Islamic follower i will have to agree with u because the shiit are more Christian than being like Muslims. But u need to understand that illitrates are the ones that believe a man Jesus Christ was a God despite witnessing and hearing his characteristics where far away from being God. Jesus was the only guy that buffoons accepted to be god while having follow come ,automatic natural penix and anus,he was the only guy to be a God and at the same time visiting toilet to shitt and urinate. Illitrates are those said educated ones that blindly following him to be a God despite all this.
Sunnis are the Book haramist, Isis, Isil, Afghanistan Talibans. I'm sorry for you
PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky: Shiite Members Protest In Abuja Despite Lockdown, Rock Face Masks by ModestGal(f):
Purifiedsoul:
Stop Commenting on what you don't really know.
Just because someone said he is Sunni doesn't makes him to be one.
Action speaks louder than voice.
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PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky: Shiite Members Protest In Abuja Despite Lockdown, Rock Face Masks by ModestGal(f): 4:03pm On Apr 01, 2020
Salvador1:
Shiites are peace Muslim while Sunni are violence Muslim
Everyone knows this, the Sunnis are very brutal, dominating, arrogant
PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky: Shiite Members Protest In Abuja Despite Lockdown, Rock Face Masks by ModestGal(f): 4:01pm On Apr 01, 2020
Nebuchadnezar:
at least they're better than their sunni counterpart burning police stations and terrorising

they're maintaining social distancing and with protective equipments
Exactly, the Sunnis is a curse to ISLAM
SportsRe: Who Is Really Nigeria's Greatest Footballer? by ModestGal(f): 3:35pm On Apr 01, 2020
Rashidi Yekini. That's because old whites people even remember him abroad, and they will call Nigerians in Mecca, by doing the thumb up, Rashidi yekini. I want that Nigerian again, if u think we can still have that type of country again, kindly quoute me. Let's build our people together
HealthRe: Coronavirus: 381 Die In UK In 24 Hours by ModestGal(f): 3:29pm On Apr 01, 2020
MrPRevailer:
Sorry I meant no offence whatsoever. I didn't want to make my post long. But I'm not mistaken words when I said that.

To answer your question, based on the Bible, the man has been on Earth for about 7000years old.
Earth may have been created the same period man was created.

I estimate that the Earth will end in at most, 1050 years from now.

How? Since the Rapture ans One world Government event is near, and the One World will last 7 years, I estimate it will be concluded atleast 30 years or less....

Immediately after 7 years, Jesus will come to rule for 1000 years of total peace and prosperity with his resurrected saints. At the end of the millennium, the Devil will be loosed and he will gathered a numerous host but he and his host will be defeated with fire from heaven.
This event will mark the end of the world/Earth and the Final Judgement of the damned which will be given by Jesus Christ himself.

50 years is too generous/loose. I think 20 years should be rational based on the calls and actions being taken now to erect the one world Government.
Same Jesus Christ that was judged by king, whipped and got crucified without being able to do anything about it? He will come and judge the world with his powers? Don't you Christians think at all?
HealthRe: Coronavirus: 381 Die In UK In 24 Hours by ModestGal(f): 3:25pm On Apr 01, 2020
Correcto:
Stop all this bullshit intelligence. If this was a game by the Chinese on US, then China should get ready for the worse. US is no joke.
Exactly bro, they just spit nonsense. China wouldn't try that shit
HealthRe: Coronavirus: 381 Die In UK In 24 Hours by ModestGal(f): 2:54pm On Apr 01, 2020
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 1:47pm On Apr 01, 2020
TrippleEEE:
Truth is Wise peeps are everywhere just that the wise rich are more attractive.

So how are you keeping up with the Kovikk 1. 9?
What do you classify as Wise?
You are right, the wise rich are definitely more attractive and more celebrated.
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 6:39pm On Mar 31, 2020
Amanofwisdom:
Emm, OCD means obsessive compulsive disorder, it means you like to keep everything in order or properly arranged even when there's no need to, what you just described is the opposite of OCD, I could be wrong but sounds more like AS- Amotivational syndrome which is a lack of care for social activities or task.
Someone with OCD is a perfectionist and would be obsessed with keeping everything clean and intact but someone with AS might be the opposite, he/she might not care enough or at all to keep everything intact kinda like you not caring about cleaning.

I could be wrong, I'm no verified physiologist just a man trying to help. smiley
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 9:49am On Mar 31, 2020
Amanofwisdom:
Emm, OCD means obsessive compulsive disorder, it means you like to keep everything in order or properly arranged even when there's no need to, what you just described is the opposite of OCD, I could be wrong but sounds more like AS- Amotivational syndrome which is a lack of care for social activities or task.
Someone with OCD is a perfectionist and would be obsessed with keeping everything clean and intact but someone with AS might be the opposite, he/she might not care enough or at all to keep everything intact kinda like you not caring about cleaning.

I could be wrong, I'm no verified physiologist just a man trying to help. smiley
Please help me to remove that from quote, thanks
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f):
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FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 9:49pm On Mar 30, 2020
Shout out to women, I've read all these, from page one to last, and mothers are better than fathers. But there are actually some good men out there, just that they are very scarce. But all you men should learn and be good to your children, the truth is all these men didn't plan to be wicked to their family, but sometimes psychological disturbances, life stress, can make people become what they won't be proud of, for instance, all those that said their fathers were drunkards.
You need to be constantly evaluating yourself, and ask your wives, children what they think about you as a father. Sometimes, it could be heredity as well, my fathers aggression is hereditary, and he tell us every time and thus work on himself. Comparing children sometimes can be natural when we feel frustrated, especially when children are in their teen ages.
We should learn to accept our flaws, it is only then we can work on those flaws.
Sometimes, it could actually be their wives not making them happy, and thus they transfer it to the children.
And many times, abusive children become abusive parents, most of you commenting here would turn out to be just like your parents, in another way because you are dealing with children of another generation, you won't know you are like them because you will be in denial and look for what to blame instead.
Ask your children, or you can even talk to your child's teacher to help you with a secret parental survey if you think your child may not want to tell you the truth.
Don't ever think children are young, they understand everything going on and how you treat their mothers. I understood things since I was age two, how we do in my family. Don't beat your wife, don't curse on them, your children are watching you and would judge you on how you treat their mothers.
Self evaluation is key, learn to stay strong in difficult times, learn to control your emotions, pray to God, marry a good wife, discipline your emotions and wants, understand that children are gifts and you need to be the best for them
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 9:25pm On Mar 30, 2020
Coolcalmcollect:
you really do understand my point jare....
Maybe you are my cousin now, who knows. Me and those my cousins don't talk at all, not my daddy's direct brother, far uncle like that. The man behaves like an animal, very wicked and promiscuous. He has never helped any family member before and he's so arrogant, proud.
And that's how all his brothers and sisters fight and hate each other, my dad always trying to settle their fights. The only thing he does for my daddy is to give him bad advices to marry a second wife at age above 60, or to disown his children. The CURSE on his head alone will affect his children, because he's always causing rift between my parents and my siblings. So please, if your dad behaves that way, pray on your head so his curse don't meet you.
And this man killed his wife o, with his promiscuity and unchallant attitude, he won't take care of her when she was sick and treats her badly.
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 9:10pm On Mar 30, 2020
Mikehot:
Don't get emotional here, nobody hates his/her parents, people here have amplified their strength and weakness of parents.

Truth is this our Africa parenting method of imposition, fright is obselete, yes parents want the best for their kids but alot of parents have derailed the destinies of their kids, suffocate their confidence, etc, (most of the issues here are common stuff a parent and child can seat and discuss like it's done in civilised societies)

Parents ought to have a rapole with their children, understand their strength and weakness, forge a future path based on what they both agree is a sustainable path which the child has a deal for, such bond never knows qualms

Even God himself abolished the old testament approach to establish father child relationship
I love disciplining children, but not in the way my dad and mum did, it's child abuse, I don't even like to remember how my parents used to behave when I was 2,3,4,5. I was a very bright child, I remember and know everything.
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 8:54pm On Mar 30, 2020
paix:
I salute you. I think we have some things in common.
Really? Like what and what? It's bad for people not to voice out when angry, it can make them become a killer, or a very wicked person in the future when they have the power.
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 8:49pm On Mar 30, 2020
Amanofwisdom:
No
OCD isn't a good thing, it wasn't called a mental disorder for no reason, lemme give you an example.
Someone without OCD could wash he's plate after eating and head back to sleep without stress WHILE
Someone with OCD could wash he's plate after eating and head back to sleep but will most likely wake up to check if they washed that plate again and again probably more than twice.
Someone that has OCD is like a perfectionist, someone that can run mad by the smallest error.
People would OCD could change a whole shirt just because of a small insignificant shirt.

Again, it wasn't classified as a mental disorder for nothing

Imagine being told to clean something 5 times a day even tho it's obviously clean ,that's what OCD is like.
I think I have OCD or I'm a perfectionist, but in a different way. Are you a psychologist?
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 8:46pm On Mar 30, 2020
Chidorx60:
Hmm we understand ....at times we just need to let out pent up emotions....when parents are overly too nice it doesn't really make their children want to be like them...instead it could even lead to resentment and a need to the kids to have the mentality of putting thereself first before anyone
I agree
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 5:27pm On Mar 30, 2020
Coolcalmcollect:
please face front, what use is a parent that won't allow the use of their property even when it's most necessary....does training me to be hardworking involving having to warm all the cars in the morning and den trek 30mins to the bustop to look for bus? una go just dey talk nonsense. people wey they drive deir papa motor get two heads
I understand you, I have a stupid uncle like that, I hate home so much because that's how he treats his children, and would be angry because my dad is more liberal with his car for my elder sibling. I imagine what his child is going through. The man is a wicked person. But be a good child, don't wish them death
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 5:19pm On Mar 30, 2020
paix:
Wow, so how is it with you now, any regrets?
No regret, it was best for us at that time but I can't raise my child in such a way
1. We were poor and fighting can lead to spending on wounds
2. My parents had too much on their mind to sort because we were poor and adding fights would add to their worries
3. My university rusticates people that fight(both of them regardless who is wrong or right,even of they slap/beat you first), and thus if she had not trained me that way, I would have fought and maybe got expelled, because people like to really look for my trouble,froy secondary schools, because I am gentle, an introvert, fearless (which means I solely take decisions), I don't bow to anyone, I don't play too much, I look very innocent as well and weak. Normally, people like me would bow for the bosses in class, or follow stupid decisions, hate on people/lecturers everyone hates, I'm not, I do my things how I feel is right, and I was always having the A's so they prey on me very well. there was a day a girl(in university) even held my cloths and I just ran away from her. And also there were men/ladies that ask me out/want to be friends, and when I don't, they lie and start quarreling with me. If not for my mums training, I would have killed nothing less than two people. I just walk away from them and continue my life.
Naturally, people like to prey/bully on weak ones, and I was weak because I was poor.
I won't train my children that way because, they won't even be bullied as I won't make them look weak, they won't attend schools with stupid razz idiots, they won't live in the type of house I lived while in the university so no one will quarrel with them. I will train them not to fight but will always support them if they are right, and even if they slap people in the university and they get rusticated, I will enroll them in another university.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 5:04pm On Mar 30, 2020
Its been so long I've been here, thanks to coviq1-9, im here now. I'm an introvert, and I enjoy every bit of it. Nothing makes me angry at myself as talking to stupid people, or arguing. Some think I don't like talking, but I'm actually a talkative when I see people like myself.
I love wise people, (not brilliant people), critical thinkers, and someone very truthful.
Everyday, I wish to meet people like myself to be friends with, but I have not been able to. I see them though, but they are usually at a very top status that I am yet not, and thus we can't be friends. I meet some and I feel too shy to be friends or talk to them because they are in a very high social rank than myself.
I believe I would one day I would and would finally love to chat
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 4:55pm On Mar 30, 2020
ModestGal:
My parents are good but I love my mum the most. On a scale of 1-100, my mum takes 100,my dad takes 45.
I've never seen a woman as great and good as my mother, and she sacrifices, very pure hearted, she wants to see people grow, and she is a very good friend to teenagers/young adults in the streets, they always like my mother and tell her things they wont tell their parents, if you come to our house today, my mother would advice you to buy gift for your wife, go and do your masters or tell you how to google to get a good job. She has helped many people in our street to attend polytechnic, Nce, university and solve many teenage parents fight through her advice.
But she easily get jealoused by people, so she doesn't do deep friendship, and doesn't allow us to have any friends, if she sees you with a friend, you are dead. She has had very bad experience with friends, so when we were young, she highly discourages any form of friendship with people.
My mother would disconvinient herself for the whole family, she's always the last to serve herself in case the food is not enough, if food is not enough, she would drink garri or sleep like that.
When my mother receives salary, we are all happy because it means all of us are rich, because, she would give us out of her money and buy things for us, she would always tell us when she receives salary as if we do the work together.
My mother is not in anyway stingy, and Shes not harsh,and she manages her money very well, she collects about #40,000 lesser than my father,but her money would take her through the month, but my father, his money would have finished before the middle of the month. My daddy buys the foods, and he would refuse to give my mother money for soup and if she wants to give her, it would be #2000. And my mummy would make soup as much as #5,000. And she would still give my daddy the biggest fish and she usually end up not eating any fish because she would save it for my father and children. And my daddy will not say he didn't give her money, he would eat it(the biggest share).
My daddy does not know how to spend money, he doesn't think of tomorrow if he's spending outside or giving people money. He's too social and participatory, he would involve himself in community development, he will be the one to contribute the biggest share, family meetings, he would contribute the biggest, mosque programs, useless different community programs, in all these things, we would be the one to suffer it at home when his money finishes. If my daddy is broke and you dare ask him money, you are dead, just don't ask him money when he's broke. But if he just receive salary, ehn ehn, if you pester him, there's no amount he can't give me in particular without thinking of tomorrow.
My daddy will bring visitors to our house, even people that don't want to come, my daddy will encourage them to come visit him, and he will not give my mum a dime to cook soup for them, its my mum that will entertain the visitors, she would say, ''so they don't say her wife is bad'', if my uncles are visiting, my mother must pound yam, cook very nice soup''
I hate her for always sacrificing her health, money for people like that, if she tell my daddy not to receive visitor, my daddy will turn it into fight, and he knows he does not have money to entertain them o, and in our house, we must entertain visitors. If anything happens to my daddy's family member, my mother will take up the responsibility of taking care of them, but if my mothers family member should visit, my daddy would not contribute a dime, sometimes, he would go out so as not to spend anything for them, but my mother carry his own family on top her head.
I will tell my mother not to borrow my father any money, she will not hear, because I know my daddy will not want to pay back again, and will even turn it into a fight and say, won't he buy food in the house. What I used the money for is for the benefit of all of us, bla bla bla, And my mum would turn to us, reporting, I already told her she should never report anything to me again, if she knows she has pity heart to be borrowing him money.
My mother is very intelligent, she has a great foresight, but my father is a follow follow somebody, there's nothing my mother would tell him that won't come to pass, but he will not listen, so far its what his friend did or his siblings advised him to do. He likes people too much and tend to trust them, while he would not think about what my mother is telling her.
My mother likes to do things the best way, but my father, anyhow way, he would always go against everything my mum wants, for instance, my mother wanted us to go to private schools, but my father put us in the worst public schools, told my mother that, a child that would be brilliant would be brilliant, my mother would fight him, but he would not yield, and that set all of us backward in many ways, because we are all very brilliant, my siblings would win awards in primary schools for an exam in the whole of the town and schools, we were more brilliant that children in private schools, with lesson teachers, but my daddy did not allow them to go to even a good public secondary school, my siblings went to the worst of public secondary schools, where they climb cashew tree, farm and play all day, they were doing local champion though. From there, I got to know that, if you are a genius, with bad secondary school(especially at jss1-3), there's likelihood, your brilliance disappear.
My daddy can compare for Africa, he would compare our house with Mr Salami's house, would tell us how Bola is helping their parents, bla bla bla.
My mother likes to do business/earn money, my daddy would say, thank God for the one he has, (we were very poor o)and that some people does not have where to sleep, and would always make jest of my mother when she fails in a business or when she plans to do a business and wasnt able to. My father would tell her she can plan for Africa, and use mouth to do business, he would advice her to do business that cannot be fruitful.
My mum doesn't get angry often, but once she's angry with us, from morning till night, she would be repeating that thing,sometimes, she would start at 5:00am before and after prayers, but truth is that, you would have done something bad.
My mum is very beautiful, but she doesn't take care of herself, she doesn't buy cloth, shoes, nothing, her work colleagues used to make jest of her because she would wear nonsense, so you won't know she's very beautiful. Its my mother that I resemble, and I'm very beautiful, all thanks to her, and my hair is very long and very black just like hers
My Mum too nice behavior made me to be very cold, as I hate it every time we have visitors, how she would sacrifice her health, money. But I'm starting to be nice now, but I can never be like her, because it is love your neighbour as yourself, not more than yourself. I always tell her that and I still told her that this morning. If I cook, I will make sure I have already taken the biggest fish, I will even double it, eat first round in the kitchen, serve another one, put fish, cover it with rice,put stew.
If I borrow you money, and you even frown when paying back, I will never borrow you again. I will not be poor that I would need to sacrifice anything for my child so I'm delaying marriage till I earn very good. But my fiancée is just too nice, very soft hearted, and cannot quarrel for four hours, I can quarrel for 10years.
My dad is very good and nice to me, (I'm the last child), and would do anything for me, likewise my mother and my siblings, and I can do anything for them as well. I don't blame my father in anyway, that's just who he is and my mum made him that way because She's too nice, and that's her mistake. Don't be too nice with husband, and skip their mistakes, if my mum had shown my dad pepper, he won't be doing what he does. My daddy is a good man, though get influenced by stupid relatives and friends, and he wants to be very good outside, but he's not rich enough, to be a philanthropist
Sorry for the long story
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 4:49pm On Mar 30, 2020
paix:
My grandfather was a person who wanted us to overcome fears. He hated every act of cowardice. Anytime I came home crying because a friend beat me, that day my body go see hell. He would send me to go and fight back. Gradually I became rascally, I started keeping bad company and school became less important to me. But thank God, today I am completely a changed person.
I wish my parents were like yours, my mum won't want to hear you fight, if she hears,she would beat you, and you would be wrong no matter how you explain. She would say, would you fight a mad man
FamilyRe: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ModestGal(f): 4:47pm On Mar 30, 2020
Hhh
HealthRe: Coronavirus: FG Confirms Five New Cases by ModestGal(f): 2:01pm On Mar 18, 2020
People should please wash their hands,and clean surfaces commonly touched. Don't forget to cover your nose
HealthRe: Coronavirus: FG Confirms Five New Cases by ModestGal(f): 1:57pm On Mar 18, 2020
foleskay:
I still believe the pandemic won't spread beyond two digits in Nigeria. The disease is almost reaching its peak, so in few weeks time there'll be drastic fall in cases. No new cases again in Wuhan, the epicenter anymore. Let's just relax and not panick
Amen, I'm relying on God and your words. I can't sleep anymore in the night
CultureRe: A Short History Of Yorubaland With Pictures by ModestGal(f): 9:24am On Feb 29, 2020
MetaPhysical:
Someone has to have a repository, wether in oral or written form, of the ancestry and bloodline of a lineage. In a society in which these records are transmitted down orally from one head to the other, the constituted head of the lineage becomes the steward of that knowledge. This is so because the purity of the bloodline is valued and if every memberof the family know what the head know or if there are unauthorized keepers of the knowledge then they run a risk of diluting their pedigree. The family ancestry is a treasure of inestimable value. Great societies therefore have distinct creeds, cognomen, guilds, coat of arms, totems, family compound, even body tattoos and facial marks to distinguish its pedigree from others. As always in these societies, the stewardship of the knowledge rests in the Head and not in multiple heads. The Head could be a council or a court or a elders forum..but the authority is distinguishable and is always one, not two or multiples.

This is an orally transmitting society, it maybe different practice in societies where the records are writtfn and available in libraries or internet.

Lets us scale this basic understanding to the Empire level. Oyo Empire was and still is an orally transmitting society. You cannot go to a library or internet and reproduce the drum message with which the Alaafin is greeted in the morning. The drum beat is part of the oral record, its message transcends centuries of service to the Alaafin lineage. There is onlyone way you can get it - from the authority; the drummer and his sons who must serve future Alaafins with this morning alarm beat, and the Aremo who one day must be awakened to its beat.

Likewise, you cannot get the oriki of Alaafin online. There is only one way to obtain it - the authority; the griot who sings the praises and recites the timeline and his sons who shall serve the recitations to future Alaafins, and as well the Alaafin and his princes and princesses who must be praised and taught the timelines of Yoruba history and its Imperial grace.

So it is for the various other rituals and archives stored in the Alaafins palace and kept in human vaults for posterity. These humans are not ordinary heads like us, they have reinforcement made from potions and herbals to aid retention and recall, in addition to genetic preconditioning.

So maybe Im missing something when you say Alaafin cannot be the only authority on the veracity of timelines in his own Empire. I would like to learn and close my knowledge gap if you have something to enlighten me in that regard.



2.

We should respect truth when we encounter it and embrace its value.

Alaafin Sango must have reigned in perharps 13th or 14th century, if not earlier.

You yourself have stated that the pre-existence of Islam in Kanem was a factor in cutting short Fodio's ambition in that frontier. Fodio was spreading Islam to lands that had no Islam. Which should explain his invasion of Nupe. Nupe was a land of idol worship and they were idol worshippers in earlier centuries when Sango was born of a Nupe princess. So his maternal root has no influence in him reading the Quran.

In its history, everywhere Islam has been introduced it was done with force and bloodshed. You said Malians were accomodated and built a mosqu in Yorubaland. This is significant! Did they fight to get access and right of way for this mosque? Im sure you are well read and familiar with Malian exploits in the West African belt and how their Sufis, backed with the Moors invaded Ghana, Songhai and sacked their Empires to plant Islam. Why did they not do this to Oyo? Why did Fodio not take Jihad into Oyo?

I have argued with people on the Ilorin saga, that if Fodio was alive..he would have stopped any acts of aggression on Oyo, no matter how provocative.

What was it in the Yoruba race, while Islamic jihadists were spilling blood across the belt, that stopped them from invading Yorubaland? Why did the Malian and the Fulani (Alimi in Ilorin) sought refuge in Oyo?

It is highly suspicious that Muslims will seek refuge and cohabitation with pagans without waging jihad to crush the paganism.

So its either Yoruba were not pagans or these Malian and Fulani settlers were fabrications and never happened and besides,..Fodio must have died right after planting Islam in Nupe and before he could go the extra 30miles into Yoruba country and wipe their paganism out.

These are thought provoking issues and instead of us trying to score intellectual points on who is more intelligent, Im begging the Yorubas here to please put your academic qualifications aside and accept the truth of what is obvious.

On Alaafin's religion, are you aware that he reads both the Bible and Quran? Are you aware that he has been on pilgrimage both to Israel and Mecca?

Obasanjo is Christian and he has written that Yorubas are from Mecca. The Awujale that was recorded to have said publicly that Ijebus are from Sudan was a Christian. Ooni of Ife, who has an order of the British Anglican Faith has never disputed the narrations contained in the myths of Ife and nor has he ever disputed with Alaafin on the question of origin, their feud is primarily on heirarchy and not on origin of the race.

Alaafin's religion has no significant bearing.



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Im not talking about cultural similarity between Yoruba and Islam..I said rituals! Ask initiates into Ifa what they do and ask Muslim pilgrims to describe the Hiram process and compare the two.

Where else in Africa do worshippers lay prostrate or kneel and touch forehead to the ground? Please bring these universality to the fore so we can explore their roots.

Customarily in ancient times Yorubas were spiritual Christians.. This is different from religious Christianity which is what is practiced today.
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