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From ur list of felonies,i don't see anything as bad as sleeping with your ex-boyfriend and yet you forgave her even though that was foolish of you but if she wants to leave because of her stupid reasons LET HER GO!

Girls want everything!

Wish them the best!
One's foolishness is another persons gain! It will only piss me off when a girl doesn't handle her mugu well and then come to nairaland to bore us with their mistakes!

No, it doesn't sound a bit crazy,it's pathetic!

Well,maybe she wants you for everything!

Trust is definately the most important thing in a relationship.

***yawns and leaves post***

"Ashamed of myself" is not enough, disgusted at myself is more like it! What were u thinking sleeping with ur half brother? There is no other healthy advice for you other than u telling ur dad and giving birth to d baby, i won't be responsible 4 an unhealthy advice.Pls stay in touch! And i truly wish u luck cuz u will need alot of it!

If love is blind,let lovers not know whom they love!

Advice on what?
This is d 21st century there are a million and one ways to make money not to mention parents and so on!

Now you got our attention!
Why not tell us?

@sistawoman,thoniaslim & others
let's cut this guy some slack please,i don't expect any lady to understand this;
it's very hard 4 a man to turn down sex,he can stop chasing it but if it's chasing him he can hardly run that fast,it's easy 4 ladies because since 9years almost every guy u've met has being tryin' to mess you!

She used you to fill in d blank space and thats bad but if she wants to call it quits then let it be,she a'int worth any other solution.Live your life!

just be yourself,dont try to displease and dont try to please,you dumped him before so if he loses value for you,you can do it again.

well, u messed up, like debosky said,what right thinking woman wont want everything for herself?
find out if the issue is really yours, if it is,try to persuade her to abort it,if she refuses,be the first to tell your fiancee,whatever decision your fiance makes accept because quite alright it was a mistake but mistakes have consequences.wish you the best.

In theory,yes but practically,the positivity should outweigh the negativity.

You should be able to make that choice atleast you know their qualities or don't you know what you want in a lady?
I for one will pick the latter and with time implant the qualities of the first one that i like in her.

You should be able to make that choice atleast you know their qualities or don't you know what you want in a lady?
I for one will pick the latter and with time implant the qualities of the first one that i like in her.

Different men prefer different things,i for one prefer a moderate addition of both.

You already have enough to dump her,why do u want to make it easy for sum1 who has hurt ur feelings?

Alwayz a pleasure!

Apologise for disturbing,ditch the boyfriend and continue life as usual with your mom(the normal routine except the "playing" part) but don't give her d opportunity to apologise,shey she be your mumsi?She no go fit escape guilty concience!

Only on christmas day!

Go back to the guy who wants u to marry when you are 32 atleast he is not "commitment phobic"

Go back to the guy who wants u to marry when you are 32 atleast he is not "commitment phobic"