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Over wrong dey disturb the thing sef!!
Two girls kissing public??
It's as wrong as the word wrong can sound in all languages!!

@ funlad
how much is the price?
What is the take?
Make me a goddamn offer for christsakes!!

@ iice
behind you all the way or is it above you??
@ zaragoza
diplomacy doesn't have to be "i don't know" or "i'm not sure" it could be
woman: is my husband cheating?
Answer: i'll check,i can't really say or do you think he is?,maybe.
Infact,you can even say yes and make the person think you mean no.Diplomacy is just not spoon-feeding the person but making the person think it could be yes but it could also be no!

I believe that in some situations in all areas of life(life policy or relationship wise),diplomacy(neither yes nor no) is the best policy! in that way,you are neither honest nor dishonest.

@ Missy B
Educate you?
You are a lady,you complain.
What part of the above do you need education on? That you are a lady?

@ poster
what part of this your story makes it unclear to you that you should bounce this girl?
Guy imagine the amount of money you spend on your sorrow-seeking journeys! Dump the girl and use the money to seek joy for christsakes!!

You mean a full-time liability?
No!
Oh no!!
Oh hell no!!!

@ Sista-Jay
No!!
In this case,it's better she thinks d guy is broke,it increases the guyz chance of regaining all he lost before the so called seasons esp val!

@Sista-Jay
Damn! Who dey let una know these things for christsake!

@poster
you can continue getting yes and no from here and if after the yes & no's you decide to increase d call rate and she's not comfortable,there'll be a problem and if you decide you guys are ok d way you are and she really wants more,there's still going to be problem in the long run so why not talk to her abt it?
@ Missy B
Even if you hear from him 24 times a day,you will still complain because ladies are biologically programmed to complain!

Is that it?
I was expecting the question to be "who else do i blame?" because by now i expected that he has already given his cousin a serious querry,i mean;what kind of stunt was that? and then blame his girlfriend for being so immature about the whole thing!

She apparently loves the soulja boy so much too!
Don't dump her yet,wait for the soulja boy to dump you first!

I think the right question should be "am i normal?"

So you are afraid of death? And instead of repenting so atleast when you die you will go to heaven,you come to nairaland.Now you not only have two girls as potential killers,you are now on arramyjay's hit list.Guy i pity you because arramyjay will kill you even before the other girls know you were cheating!

Tell them!
For christsake,even the world would one day come to an end!!

@turvy
i'm happy for you,many have tried to fall in love but didn't succeed but you have so you deserve commendations!
And goodluck on your new voyage!

She quit the relationship because u didn't give her a spare key?!
Guy hold your key!
Ever wondered why she needs a key so desperately?
Don't give yourself the"she is over posessive" or "she dosn't trust me" crap! Think further.

Guy na thick situation u dey o!
When d man is doing d chasing,it's normal but when d woman is doing it,it's an entirely diff thing!
But come to think about it,this chic fit be jackpot o!
Guy re-re-rethink am well well make you no miss jackpot o! Make i no see regret post.

Guy na thick situation u dey o!
When d man is doing d chasing,it's normal but when d woman is doing it,it's an entirely diff thing!
But come to think about it,this chic fit be jackpot o!
Guy re-re-rethink am well well make you no miss jackpot o! Make i no see regret post.

Guy na thick situation u dey o!
When d man is doing d chasing,it's normal but when d woman is doing it,it's an entirely diff thing!
But come to think about it,this chic fit be jackpot o!
Guy re-re-rethink am well well make you no miss jackpot o! Make i no see regret post.

Damn!
This's a hard place to be in. I no envy d guy at all!
My girl should and will know not to do that in d first place.But then whether i keep her or not will depend on her track record with me.

@ sylvao2000
One of the greatest gift of nairaland is anonymousity so explore your gift and post the 9th point,afterall,dem de see who dem de yab?
Don't worry,if dem yab u,we go defend you(if and only if the 9th point is worth it).

Disengage them and engage her!
Simple maths or is it common sense??

First of all,i'm happy you finally reached the promised land! For a while back there,i wondered what you were still doing in egypt!
1. You were too busy, you weren't satisfying her monetary needs,sexual needs e.t.c
2. You are still not satisfying a need.
3. There's definitely something that the other guy isn't offering that you are.
4. Hell yeah! Continue to teabag her until you find a better girl then drop her like a bad habit!

No way on earth!
Maybe somewhere on mercury!
A'int stooping that low!
@sista jay
e sweet reach bitter leaf?

Yeah!!
No over-exagerration involved,he is going to need lots of time and yes as iice stated,total calculation b4 actions on your part not 2 give him any reason to doubt you!
Personally, i think it's a very very long shot! It's possible but baby girl,the trust shouldn't have been let down in the first place!

Pray to God.
Do dry fasting.
For the grace to stand him because for love,he can forgive but forget?
Build a ladder to heaven!
Cos he will need the time if it will ever return to normal!

NO!!
Why give up?
You should have continued! The source that told him that 1 and 2 were the ones will eventually narrow down the options but with you out of the game,the source has limited options! Go back,maybe the source will choose you!
You never thought it this way? Don't worry,thank me later!

I personally don't think leadership was designed for women and i think God agrees with me cos many times in the bible,he made it clear;the mans job is to lead and the woman's to SUBMIT.And whatever God designed is perfect! Forget what civilization's tryin' to design!

My advice to you: forget her,she a'int worth the second thought,move on! You are finding it difficult to love sum1 else because you have refused to accept the consequences of a very responsible decision.As for me,even if this happens on the eve b4 my wedding,forget the wedding! But that's just me.