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If i were his wife i wud allow him to do whatever he wants.if he wants to divorce me because of looks, its fine. Let him divorce. Den i wud take de time and work on developing myself. Even if i was just a house wife wit no other skills. Nomatter how old i am, as long as i am not in the grave, i still have a chance at life. So i wud work on developing my looks, education, career and finance. And once he sees dat life is going well for me again, he better not think of coming to me again. He better admire from afar. I will get myself a widower or divorcee, or pray dat God send me a man of my own. I dnt like begging people to love or be gud to me. If someone treats me bad, i humble myself and ignore dem, and if dey wana walk away from me, let dem walk. My destiny is never tied to anyone that left. I can never force anyone to love

Those are not the police. That is not the police uniform. Those are traffic controlers

That still does not give anyone the right to take another human's life. Let their police arrest the foreign and local criminals, and let everyone else live in peace and harmony. What the south africans are doing, is ruining their own economy. Wat happened to all the other countries who once did wat dey did to others before? How is their economy today? Let dem continue doing this, and lets see if international investors will want to set foot in their land

uzokasi1964:
When i was a kid whenever we hear that someone lives in southafrica the first thing that comes to mind is drugs,this is because most nigerians there sells hard drugs but i keep wondering where they get the drugs because i know we don't produce it here in nigeria so it is safe to say that they got the drugs from south africans so it is southafricans that developed the crime that is destroying their country.

they get the drugs from brazil my love. Anyway not all nigerians who stay in south africa are drug dealers. Most have good businesses and are also academics. Just like any other countries, its not as if south africans are saints, bcoz dey too do have deir own criminals. I wud say the reason for xhenophobia is greed. The financially stable south africans dnt seem to care abt foreign nationals. Nigerians or other foreign nationals who stay in good areas can agree with dis, as there has not been any attacts on dem. De parts which are being attacked mostly are de parts which are filled with poverty. So these people are taking out their poverty on us. We r not the ones who said dey must not b bzns minded. Most foreigners in south africa own bzns, and south africans are scared of competition. They r lazy and always expect jobs and money to come from heaven

South Africans have really disappointed me. I used to like them, but now, I don't know anymore

Its funny how the girl's dad wants dis guy to tell his girlfriend, bt he is not want his own part to be disclosed, and surely it wil ruin his marriage if dis came out, bt bcoz he is already married, it might b easy for him to get his wife back, bt it might b hard for the guy to get his girl back coz dey r nt married. So i suggest he does nt tell his girl, bt bag de father to keep this a secrete forever. Some truths r just nt worth it

Muyogoa:
if u are lucky to get one, esp the one u are attracted to, u wld enjoy the rest of ur life. Without any hitch or whatsoever. He wld polish ur shoe for u, cook for you and he wld wash your cloths and lay your bed. U wld feel delicate and experience how it feels to have a crown (husband)

m sorry honey, bt i dnt want a man who will cook for me, do my laundry or lay my bed. Dats my job

Mrinquisitive:
No. I know u girls have different types, but i feel most of u pretend to be cool but in reality yall bitchess , but try so hard for guys to see u as cool

okay i do hear you. Bt wat is it dat makes u feel dat way in the first place honey?

0ldirtybastard:
Sharrap joor.

please kindly list 5 valuable reasons y i shud sut up dear

Lol just another immature thread bashing at ladies. Dear op generalising can be very dangerous u do know that right? What made you come to this conclusion? How many ladies have you ever associated with in your life? Where they all the same?

Y not? If m invited i will go

M sory but he is not behaving like a true leader if that is true

yes baby i did thank you. Please don't feel bad okay! I hope you and everyone on nairaland have a beautiful evening okay

PunkyOh:
LOL, now you're making me feel bad but no I didn't go to church, babe. I'm not very religious. Did you? Hope you had a good day if you did

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PunkyOh:
Awww. Ok now I'm really sorry for being rude to you. You're actually one of the nice people. I'm done, girl

thank you honey. Please did you go to church today?

honey please let it go my love. Guys please lets just let this thread die oo.plzzz

PunkyOh:
Don't care!

Where is Mr Cock by the way? I miss his comments. Kikiki Mr light skin lover

This thread should just be closed now. Punkyoh or whatever your name is, listen doll dis is a nigerian forum and there are very few south africans and the majority is nigerian, so you are never going to win any argument here. Everyone here should just understand that everyone loves their country and would never want to tolerate bad stuff being said about it. This thread should never have gotten so far. It should just be closed now. Fyi not all our men are corrupt or bad, in every nation there will always be a few rotten apples, but that does not mean that the rest of the nation is bad. My people can we please just put a stop to this thread because it might even ruin the good political relations both these countries have with each other. We are all africans and we should rather understand and help each other. Not bash each other like this. Please my fellow humans, today is easter for goodness sake, doesn't that mean anything to you? We are all sinners and we all have our goods and bads, but one body was brused on this day, so that all of us can be in another level altogether. Please mods, please close this thread abeg, it is scaring me. It has so much hate and negativity, and most of it its either lies or its about bashing things which we are not even 100 percent sure about. Guys south africa and nigeria should be helping each other up, instead of bashing like dis. Look there are cirminals everywhere lets just hope they stop their corruption and help all of us to build a good africa. Lol, i can't believe i earlier commented on this thread taking it as if it was a joke. My Africans, we are all Africans and most of us here are black, but look at how we are abusing each other.guys plz stop ooooooo

Ppearl:
Goodmorning people...ohk here's the ish...my bf few weeks back...asked for sex from a year three months old relationship and i turned him down..for some reasons....now he's been avoiding me for almost 2weeks ...friends pls whats ur advice on this#ps:i love him and not ready to lose him#...

Have you ever slept with him before?

SavageGarden:
This would be an excellent time for you to
become a missing person.
Why don't you slip into something more
comfortable? Like a coma.
Goodness me you're such an ignorant illiterate....contradicting yourself all the time. I've never gave a flying phurk about South Africans and I sure won't start with you.
You remind me of a penny, two faced and
f**king worthless!

"Dis is the truth, take it or leave it. Insult if u wana , bt u knw m telling the truth. Plz note dat dis is in noway intended to bash anybody, we r all africans at the end of the day, and we shud all be there for each other, and before u guys start crying abt xhenophobia, plz check the news and u wil see dat de government is having talks with communities all in the name of ending this eveil act" just listen to yourself ma'am Don't know what your problem is, but I bet it's hard to pronounce.

Lol so now no peace for Africans . This is getting interesting

Just watching from the side lines, lol wanting to see how it all ends

MrPSA:
I wish you can clean up your smelling a$$ hole everyday, You a$$ smells very bad. I hope your bananas and apples business is doing well in america, that is why you talk sh*t like this, You talk too much when you are happy.

I think he has tried to clean himself up but it very hard for him, because his hard is as filthy as his body

Mandu94:
This thread is ridiculous. You are perpetuating your inferiority complex.

especially because of all4naija

khiaa:
She is a biracial female, a product of a green card marriage and hates her Nigerian side because her Nigerian father dumped her and her big fat grossed out white mother after receiving his green card. I can say that I can't blame him considering this little monster he created. Nigerian men let this be a lesson to you to always be aware of what happens to the green card babies you leave behind.

word

all4naija:
I am too good for you because I am civilized and intelligent. I can not be one of you because you are all primitive human beings who can not get organized and develop the African society. There is nothing you have contributed to humanity than diseases and poverty. Jeez! Why should I want to associate myself with savages?!

lol so much anger and hatred from one person only. I now do believe that you have issues. It's okay that your dad did not take care of you, you will be fine, you do not need to hate yourself like this. just start loving yourself and you will see that everyone is so easy to love also. The you will stop having such a dark heart

khiaa:
I'm talking about some of the men also, they will front that Nigerian men don't have babies out of wedlock, if they get a girl pregnant they will marry her before the child is born, they also say that all Nigerian men provide for their children which is a lie, all4naija is a testimonial to that.
If I ask them are they a virgin the answer will always be yes, I'm talking about the women here.

heheheheh I can't stop laughing atthis. heheheh you are right, all4naija is a testimonial, that is why she is soooo bitter

iPopAlomo:
We've derailed the thread... lol... I got banned for asking a girl if she was drunk... on this same thread... lol...

derailing this thread the way both of you did is better than what that stupid all4naija does. does he not get tired? gosh some people

ezemoses:
Yeah all4naija does sound angry and xenophobic, and there is this negative energy about him, which is not manly. Please he must not quote me too, because I do not like arguing with people who do not make sense

lol I did not know that so many people had had it with this guy. Were you guys waiting for me to say it first?

all4naija:
You are repugnant, you i d i o t! Who dare date a South African Zulu or Xhosa girl in Township must be ready to be blackmailed. Jeez! Stop talking about love when all we hear about your people on television is r a p e, crimes, XENOPHOBIA, etc. Please, stop being silly here because I am not going to entertain that, peanuts-and-bosoms-exposing primitive human. Filthy Township dweller in your bucket poo system.

You need to pity your peasant soul in the squalor where you commit crimes routinely. That is a big shame on you and the country you represent. I am not going to see you as a civilized person here because you haven't been able to make a single sense in this heated argument. Only to your imbecilic nature you think you are reasonable. Buzz off!

u sound angry and xenophobic. Please don't quote me

This thread should just die. It's starting to get on my nerves now. all the comments, fights etc. they are just not necessary

ohh my gosh. she is just too much

its no biggy. I don't care about such small stuff

if he has a great body, which matches mine, and if he is one of those cute hunky brothers who never look younger than you, so I basically mean if physically he and I make a great couple, and he loves me, and he is ambitious, God fearing and respects me then why not. yes I would date him. But I refuse to date anyone who is more than 3 years younger than me. That is just an abomination according to me, but different strokes for different folks