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lilmax:
how about females beating males?

come on guy, we both knw dat men have got more physical strength dan ladies, so in most cases its brothers who do the bashing. Anyway either way, whether its the guy or the ladies who abuses the other one, it shud stop. Its nt nice. Even emotional, verbal or any other form of abuse. Its bad, it shud stop. There are better ways to deal with problems, dan hurting each other

It's high time we ladies became independent, and understand that we are not for sale. We behave strange, next thing we have bad things to say abt prostitutes, yet we dnt see our own cheap behaviour. Parents, families and friends are also to blame sometimes, for dis kind of behaviour. Train up a child in the way he should go, so dat wen he is older he does nt depart frm it. Its such a pitty dat frm a young age, girls are always being taught dat their worth is beauty, getting married to a man who can take care of dem and make babies. Dats y a baby girl is bought a doll for a toy all the time. We r more dan dat nonsense. Sisters lets stop selling ourselves short and b independent. We r no prostitutes and defenetly no whores

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Sorry guy. Do u remember the song '' i aint saying she's a golddigger''

It wud b nice and ideal for couples to have unlimited excess to each other's phones, but in today's world, fones r one of the reasons couples fight. So my answe wud b a big no. Lets nt even pretend abt it. There r somethings which u wudn't want yo spouse to knw or see. M nt talking abt u flirting wit ada ppl, bt m talking abt things like e.g: yo family problems etc, which are the things u might b keeping on your fone. I knw ppl shud b transparent in relationships, bt i always say, there r other things which are better left unknown. Never let your partner know everything, coz one day, dat little bit of knowledge cud b used against u

I wish nigeria cud wake up, like other countries out there. We have to say no to domestic violence. Watever the reason may b. Beating woman is not good @ all

Hehhehe the last part of your thread is funny guy. Kikiki

Imagine kissing a man old enough to b yo grandaddy. Yaksss.

Abusers always say it will never happen again, and they always buy u very nice gifts to apologise. They are very romantic. Either u get a pyschologist dat wil help him or marry him and end up dead.he will buy u and expensive coffin too. If the pychologist doesn't help. Get out of dis relationship before it's too late. Obviously it wil be hard @ first since yols r so public, bt honey, i know i wud rather be alone, dan b unhappy. M nt a fool for love

Why toture yourself babes? U deserve to be with someone who u love, and who loves u back. There is someone for everyone out there. Free this poor guy so dat he can meet the right one, and dnt worry and dnt b desparate for marriage. U wil meet a man who u wil truely love. Dis guy also deserves better my baby. Free him, before both yols end up have a hellish marriage

I wudn't have a problem, bt i wud get proper clothing for her. She wud need to dress like a maid, and make sure dat de husband understands his marriage vows, bcoz even if it's nt someone in the house, there is temptation everywhere on the streets. Must i cover his eyes every where he goes? Coz there r beautiful woman every where u go. A man just needs to understand that his eyes and other parts of his body should be limited to his wife only.

Sounds like midlife crisis and lust to me. U just need a reminder of how important your current family is to u, since u r willing to throw it all away for some high school sweetheart who u had one louzy dinner with. U need to watch the movie '' i think i love my wife'' and sort your self mind out, coz it seems to be leaving u

Chai! Nigerian woman don suffer finish. Must u guys always look down on us like dat?

Atleast she was honest dat she no longer wants u, instead just stringing u along. Give yourself time, u will find the right one, bt before u completely write her off, give her 3 months, maybe she is going thru some sort of difficulties, and she needs space. If she does not come back after those months, move on and live your life

Me ignoring the guy does nt mean i still want him, it just means i have chosen to forget him, bt it wud be much better to just greet the person when u see him and just say bye, no time for us to be good frnds.a simple hello is fine, i have moved on for pit's sake, so y must i b good frnds with him? Besides, u might end up finding yoself in bed with him, or ruin yo current or future relationship, bcoz of someone who does nt matter anymore

Wealth or looks dnt realy matter. There is more to a union dat those 2. I prefer the one who my heart connects with

ireneony:
sometimes it can make a relationship stronger depending on the situation at hand. When someone separate temporarily from their spouse, it gives room for them to miss each other.
It also helps to resurrect the crumbling relationship. Sometimes it's good to give your spouse some space in order for them to know your importance in their life......it also helps to rekindle the passion you have for each other.
In this part of the world, most of us don't practice temporary separation from relationship but we rather break up and make up, to me I don't call that temporary separation.
When you talk about temporary separation, it has to do with the agreement of both parties/partner making a decision to create space for each other or parting ways in order for them to rekindle their love life, and also it gives both parties to work on themselves and also find time to grow in whatever area they are lacking in their relationship.
Op, I have said mine, as a learned person you have to make a decision for yourself when your relationship is not working or take a break from your spouse.
My advice is, when your relationship is very toxic, the right decision is for you to break up with whoever....
For those that know their relationship can still work out, I will advice you to take a temporary separation, it can be for one month or which ever one you like.

Ciao..

u've said it all. Great job

Y not? People must stop having evil thoughts, especially abt family, unless yo brother is a known rapist ofcourse

Dont generalise. Its not all ladies, besides, there r guys who r like dat also. Dnt hate the player, hate the game my dear

Dont generalise. Its not all ladies, besides, there r guys who r like dat also. Dnt hate the player, hate the game

Okay... So do u feel better now after writting it?

Nice one op. Most ladies do love a humble somebody who does nt show off, and dnt even need the person to take care of dem financialy actualy, coz dey r nt peralised. Got 2 feet and 2 hands, dnt need no nigga to take care of me, bt if he insists, den y nt ;

Its very rare to find a girl who will be a good friend. Most gossip, fight, etc.

U simply dnt panic. Babies r nothing to be scared of. U help her thru her pregnancy (make sure she is comfortable and happy), then once the baby is here, u help her take care of the baby. U dont need to marry her, just be there for her and the baby, especialy financialy and emotionally. NB: once the baby is here, do a pertanity test, just to make sure dats u r da dad

Lol, okay...

I think i would help him to learn the language. Maybe find classes for him or something, and explain to him gently why m doing dat, without embarassing him or hurting his feelings, den watch how he deals with other aspects of his life.if he shows dat he is interested in learning, i will keep him around, bt if he doesn't see, interested i wud let him go, bt we also need to remember dat its nt as if he wud just agree to attend class frm the first day i raise dis problem, his pride wud need my patience, to deal wit dis matter

No need for divorce or cheating. I am not saying that ppl shud have sex before marriage, if their prinscipals do not allow.all i am saying is, before u walk down the aisle, take time to know him or her, and both shud be open so dat problems are solved or known before the big day

Deal with the spiritual side of things thru prayer, then deal with the medical side of things by going to the men's clinic. If nothing helps, get a vibrator, which he wil use for her satisfaction, den adopt kids for them to raise a family, coz there r plenty of parentless kids out there

Lol...some girls r lucky hey

Thank u honey. Bless u sugar

Wudnt get to a point of selling my body just to feed a man. Anyway i wud jst b glad dat da poverty is over