₦airaland Forum

How is it reducing? Can't you see they played with the figures from 2023 to 2024.

OluwatobiJoshua:
Well. We get the message, its now reducing since PBAT came to office.

Does her name start with a V and end with A. Apart from the dirt part, every other description looks like someone I know

brain54:
I dated this beautiful yellow sisi nurse girl one time...

The day I visited her I was shocked. Never imagined anyone so dirty.

Cooking pots were literally on her bed. Her room was so dirty with everything out of place and order.

Scattered items everywhere I am sure she hadn't cleaned her room for like a year.

She was just shoving dirty laundry away from everywhere so I could find somewhere comfortable to sit.

Her room was a huge contrast to her looks.

In her defense though I never asked her...she was working two shifts at two different hospitals and still schooling (one of those medical course upgrade they do) at a private university in ogun state at the same time.

I don't know how she was able to combine all of that. But girl was always so tired she was always yawning and falling asleep during conversations.

That alone made me overlook her dirty habits.

But the straw that broke the camels back was falling asleep while kissing with her. As in falling into a trance(that's not sleep abeg) and even letting out loud groaning sounds that could pass as snoring.

At that point....!

You expect them to register and then you send the to the North East to combat BK and possibly d*e.

All the prices I am seeing are good oh. Here it is 35/40k

I actually did. As a kid I always had the weird desire to try things out myself so I secretly did. Even the one of throwing your upper tooth on the roof and burying your lower tooth in the ground, I hide mine and refused to bury it to see what would happen. 😂😂😂

Mariangeles:
As kids, we heard that whoever eat mangoes and drink garri on the same day will die.
Then they added soft drinks to the list.
It was so scary, nobody dared to try it.

This is very foolish coming from glo. As bad as what hit other networks, they are still better than glo. I went to their office on Monday and no network from morning till close to business, their staffs were all using mtn. Blocked my sim and said it cannot be registered, made me lose business worth millions and they have mouth to say this rubbish. They should have taken advantage of the opportunity to become the best but yet they are still so bad

Please does mtn double 1tb data on new sim or an unused sim of 4months

Wow... How easy or difficult was it

Gagare1:
I went for both and got both. I didn't have to trade one for the other.

What did you finally decide on... My spec is similar even not so much of physical shapes and all but quite similar but it seems like many ladies of beauty have too much bad past experience, messed up psychologically, proud and unwilling to change.

Moniya4Real:
But why is it almost practically impossible to find a woman with these qualities: Facial beauty, Normal height, beautiful skin, big, pointed boobs, big as…, nice steppings, loyal, Brilliant, intelligent, unselfish, loving and God-fearing and a VIRGIN? All these qualities I want in a woman, if POSSIBLE though.

Thanks for your wonderful input.

Tradepunter2:
Leave that one with his nonsense assertion.... Character any time any day.... A beautiful lady with bad character will kill you on time.... My wife wasn't my ideal but ooo boy, I have grown than I could ever imagine.... She's like a last born in my family.... So also am I like a senior brother in her family..... But prior to marrying her I was engaged to a beautiful lady.... She was evil personified.... Every man wanted to fk her.... And she used those to her advantage to manipulate in order to get her way.... Years down the line she's still confused and single and am married with 2 beautiful girls.....

CHARACTER DWARF BEAUTY.... CUZ THE BEAUTY CAN become UGLY WHEN THE CHARACTER IS USELESS

First person sharing real experience. I appreciate

opalu:
When the first courtship showed me where, I didn't need anyone to tell me to leave beauty to chase character. After 16 years, I have seen that, that lady is not even beautiful as I thought. She exploded in size ehnn. Kudos to her husband lolz

.... Money cannot repair some face oh

MrHighSea:
So there're people contemplating Beauty over character?

You can cleanup ugliness out, prolly 50k monthly,

Try that with character, you'll lose weight, later your mind and finally your life.

Very true but again do you realise that some people's perception of beauty changes over time. Like a not so beautiful lady can become beautiful in a person's eyes after some years of acceptance and also some ladies can become ugly to some people because of consistent awful character

MrBrownJay1:
it should never be character over beauty.... but instead beauty WITH the right character. choosing an ugly wife that has the right charcater is as useless as having a beautiful dumb wife

I will also value your opinion or experience.

IconicR:
Waiting to read their hypocrital comments .

I have very high specifications I want from my to be woman and I know its difficult to find. What point did you decide to settle for Character over beauty or did you get the high requirements you wanted.

No insults please

Dear, I would be honest with you. You messed up big time. Over the years I realise that how people react to issues ends up messing the original problem itself.

Think about this

Weigh actions and consequences.

Action- 200k was collected indirectly from you.
But the current consequences
Consequences-
lost peace and harmony
Have a broken home
Children will grow up with a disfunctional family.

I fear what the effect of separation will have on the life of these children. I've spoken to lots of people battling with the effects of childhood broken marriages.

Marriage is on the basis of love and commitment. You can read 1cor 13 about what love truely is. Love forgives easily.

My dear is 200k worth your marriage, your children's healthy well bringing.

All I see is 2 people with strong pride and one very unforgiving person.

I can type more but I think its the solution you want.
Go back, ask for forgiveness and receive his forgiveness, get a marriage counselor to help the marriage get better because I know there is more to the issue than 200k.

Yes, they were all very foolish. Anger can ruin people. Discretion and control is key.

Snapchat:
Exactly. I think all parties in this situation were foolish. I just hope everyone is given the punishment they deserve. Mostly, the lecturer.

I am not saying she is right oh but there is a way to address trival issues. Call the girl and warn her sternly, if they want revenge arrest or get girls in the family sef to beat her back which is the height for me but not as a man getting involved.

Snapchat:
But the lecturers daughter didn’t first the girl in the first video, it was this ‘victim’ that was slapping the lecturers girl repeatedly. I wonder why someone should be beating because they have a phone number of your boyfriend.

I swear...
I honestly wonder how people think. If my younger sister gets slapped or beaten by her mate and it didn't even involve bodily harm, the first issue is why would she even get involved in fighting or what is the cause. How can I as a man go and beat another girl not to talk of such extent of beating with weapons and to the extent of getting her naked.

GreyLaw:
Dear Lord. Some of you Nigerians are horrible to say the least. You just watched a girl being stripped naked by a foolish man and his foolish children and you are here talking nonsense.

The girl simply had a fight with her mate. She wasn't beaten up by friends. It was a one on one altercation which the other roommate came to settle. Moreover the fight wasn't even serious. And you are here equating sexual harassment to some fight between two girls.

Who do una this thing for Nigeria really strong. I tell you.

This is the best and easiest way to do it. April Fool is around the corner. On that Day tell her everything like your whole mind through any means maybe A Vn or physical. Watch her reaction, if she replies or she said lemme think about it but her facial expression shows acceptance then you win but if she gets irritated and says a resounding No then tell her it's April Fool. That way no harm for the friendship at all.

Pasima:
Good morning everyone, please I need your suggestion on this situation.

I have a female friend who always shares things with me. She tells me everything about her and I also told her mine. She is in a relationship about to enter marriage but she is not certain she will marry the guy because he is in the force.

But I am falling in love with her, she comes to my house we watch film together and eat together. We snap pics together, she even sat on my laps to snap pics. I felt like telling her that I love her and I want her as my girlfriend but I am scared she might get angry with me then on second thought I was thinking maybe she was waiting for me to say the word.

What do you guys think?

Sir, you are going out of context. She never mentioned anything about submitting to someone you don't love.

Kobojunkie:
You do not submit to those you hate.

What she meant is in response to feminist equality in marriage. She simply said a woman should know the man is the head,
she said shouldn't question his position not shouldn't question him.
Can you say you have never questioned your father or mother's decision at one time.
The fact someone is a leader doesn't mean you can't question them. That's the unique quality of a leader not a dictator. Even Jesus can be questioned and as an excellent leader he would always respond in love, even bride following Jesus can have their opinion and follow through with it but it doesn't change the fact that Jesus is still their head, you can ask Apostle Paul

Kobojunkie:
Are you certain you read what the woman said at all?

If a woman is in subjection to her husband in everything how does she question him when he is the author of everything for her?

Oga with long write up, she didn't say a woman can't question a man. Read to understand

jesusjnr2020:
Some women who God has used to greater effect as Smith Wigglesworth's wife actually questioned their husband when he had strayed from the faith and began to demand things of her that were not of God.

She told him that he was her husband but that Jesus was her Lord!

That was the saving grace of the husband as he was hence restored back to the faith, and would never play with his wife afterwards. That's probably why we hardly have women of such such spiritual calibre these days, because they have made their husbands to take the place of God as the Lord and Master of their lives, hence God cannot use them for much because He cannot share His position with any man.

Moreover, the wife of Abraham questioned her husband concerning Hagar and her son Ishmael, that it was said to have grieved Abraham much, but God told him to hearken to his wife's voice.

Genesis 21:12 (KJV)

And God said unto Abraham, Let it not be grievous in thy sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman; in all that Sarah hath said unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in Isaac shall thy seed be called.

So you can actually see that even though it's what men love to hear, this saying of a woman not questioning her husband and being demonic is not of God but of men.

God bless

Infinix S4 6gbram 64gb rom
45k

Actually know this mad man when I was a student in uniben.

arthurwillia:
Una Dey whine my nipples
Before and after pics

Just what I was thinking. I do 1500 twice weekly, it runs normal then boom data notification that it's almost exhausted. I will definitely switch to mtn because I think it's even cheaper by my calculations.

Did she tell you or you found out please.
I'm asking for a reason

sunsewa16:
Hi guy do that girl no harm,u never appreciate what u have until you lose it,am talking from experience,I courted my wife five years right from University before formalizing to marriage,we are 16yrs now in marriage, making it 21yrs together with 5 children, while this information is to let u know,I experience it as a student with her, where those business and working class/Yahoo dude pester her for marriage with different gifts, which she decline some and accept some depending the time or situation, but letting them know she is hooked, but u know we men don't relent on such issues since she is not yet married, believing she will succumbed one day, but she told me every thing, assuring me she will never let me down, but knowing the type person she is,I believe her, up till today no cos for alarm,so my advice to u, don't use this issue to cancel the intended marriage,it do happen, except there is another issue u did not mention, and please stop going to female phone, even if na ur sister,is not adviceable.bye

... As in I weak for them

Hahjascho:
Was actually expecting something bigger....see those guys' look as if they killed a lion .

Lol.... You think so na you know.

michlins:
you can't afford it sir. Kindly move forward

Drop full spec

WoundedLamb:
Seriously, China? Dude, we are not in China. You cannot treat China's social media ban in isolation. If you're advocating the Chinese style of government, they you'd be prepared to embrace the totality of what comes with the absence of democracy. ​The Chinese government can ban any website without issues cause they never claimed to be democratic. As of 2019, the governments of China, Iran, North Korea, and Turkmenistan have blocked access to Twitter in those countries and nobody is saying anything cause they are not democratic nations. The deletion of Buhari's tweets is simply no justification for doing that in Nigeria except the government is telling us the style of government has changed.

In fact, I'm surprised you even mentioned democracy in your post cause nothing you said is remotely democratic, no disrespect intended. The president's tweets were deleted and the next line of action is to stop all his citizens from freely accessing the app even without their consent? And you still said "that is democracy"? Even in countries where social media is regulated, it's mostly to avoid crimes and hate speeches. How do you explain that your president banned the app in Nigeria simply cause his personal tweets were deleted?

What exactly is the oyibo way here? And what would then be the African way? Moderating other individuals while allowing certain class of people to post just anything? You guys complain about Nigeria, yet you're not willing to let go those things that make Nigeria a terrible place. Yes, you mustn't do everything like oyibo but sadly, it's thier platform and they have rules you must follow. And as far as that app is concerned, the creators are the gods and thier rules stand. You can leave thier platform if you feel unfairly treated or create yours if thier concepts don't appeal to you. Just don't expect special treatments. And whatever you do, you don't drag the entire nation into it.

This is the wisest answer I have read.

Did you do something wrong?

Yes. I believe the way you asked though it might not be your fault due to pressure, but the truth is Men like responsibility. Every man likes to be charge and responsible for the family especially in areas of finances. So they feel down or disappointed when they can't which is the case here. So issues that reminds him of his limitations stir up anger not really because of what you said, I can bet that if the man was still very rich he wouldn't see it as an insult but now it is. So such issues are sensitive and should be handled with care.

Again it's clear this is not the first time, anger usually build up and that's what happen, see what he said "when I get a job", meaning either consciously or unconsciously you rubbed it in.

The Man on the other hand has anger issues because some men would walk away rather than hit her.


This is my opinion