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Divoc19:
Of course she will. By herself.
Remember he said she can cook.

The cooking routine gets harder after marriage. If it's a problem now, the problem will double after. So understand where I am going.

Divoc19:
Not a red flag.
Look for other homely things she likes to do.
If she loves you she will learn with time.

I am not the cooking type too
So you are welcome

It's not a red flag? So who will be cooking for her husband and kids when they marry?

I want to take this time to appreciate acunon for his his great offer and wonderful customer service. I bought the Samsung UE43RU7100 and it was delivered to my Lagos residence as promised.

The tv is nice and clean. Relatively cheap for a 2019 model. Everything works well as detailed on his Nairaland page. It has free Netflix and other movie channels and I enjoyed it real good during the xmas holiday. This is the 2nd time I am buying an electronic product on Nairaland and the experience has been good.

Overall, it was a good buy. Thank you acunon.

On top another person moni?

Nff only eats when the food is ready. We had Afcon postponed for a year, so while the last minute rush. Just because Ademola is doing well now in Leicester

Even the Covid 19 result is suspect at this stage. His club is doing everything to keep him off Afcon. Many African players have this issue of club rejection of their to play in Afcon

Gazub:
What are you giving us for boxing any promo offers 50% discounted items ,end of the year pro for sale

Acunon please do give away �

The song is worth the hype. Great song

None since morning. @Ebute Metta Lagos

SirbobbyDgreat:
No accessories and it has no fault

Ouch. I want to give a gift of it. It would have made sense with a pack

I need to buy a phone for one of my aunties this xmas.

I need a neatly used techno spark 5 or 6, with it's pack and accessories. One that can pass for a new one. Budget is 35 -40k. I am in Lagos.

WhatsApp me on 08035590702

Do you still have the pack and accessories? Any fault?

Michaelval5656:
let's swap with my TECNO spark 5 pro.you tell me.how much I will add

I want to buy your spark 5 if it's still in good condition with it's pack/accessories. I want to gift my uncle with a phone this xmas

drunkpunk:
Something like this?

Are you selling this? How much

BRATISLAVA:
What back up plan? Isn't the husband there? Isn't he a parent too? All these negligent men looking for sympathy when they refuse to be a part of their family aside bringing in money. Now you can see how money does nothing. Absolutely nothing. She doesn't need a back up plan if he's really the father of those children.

Given the hypothetical situation, this is a thread created by a slow lying man.

Hahaha. Wives who store cooked food in the fridge are stupid, ba? Or those who ask their friends and sisters to look after their kids while away are unwise? Please free me, the hungry kids in this case are not my children. I have mine to feed and take care of and I got no time to argue about how a mother should fend for her kids. Something that should come normally

BabaIbo:
You don't have a reasonable point abeg.

The guy you quoted made more sense than you 1000 times.

Is that how she used to travel often?
Same people like you will wyne if you travel and the woman is still calling you for upkeep money which you expect her to be able to offset till you're back, but you can't even play a small fraction of her role at home.

She should make alternative arrangement for her kids sustainance while she is away. It's no brainer. She should not use the welfare of her kids to prove a point to her husband.

KiNg0G:
bros, na life matter we dey talk about.
stop been self centered

what's the need for plan b? when she has a husband back at home?

When you were young, I know you didn't stay/put up with only your father all the time your mum was not present at home. It's only natural to know what you can do so your absence can't be felt like it is happening now. The man's issue is another thing and people here has addressed it. I won't use my kids to square up with my husband.

KiNg0G:
I don't need to get married to apply common sense to issue like this.


some of you men are weaklings ....I know what am saying.

I was once raised in a home, where if my mom is sick...or she's not around...house go just dey one kind. . throughout that period.

because everything was on her...apart from the money coming from dad.

it nor supposed to be so.
think like a man

That is one of the problem in the present matter, even the least problem. The problem here is that the woman places priority on seeing her mum (or whatever it is she went for) than taking care of her kids. Who would leave her kids suddenly without a back up plan? That's the problem.

It must have been his habit to sleep with any girl that smiles for him. There may be more

flotwz:
A beautiful morning famz, so sorry if I'm posting under wrong section.
Please, I've been on my Company name registration now for like a month (after my company name was successful reserved).
The problem is,I CANNOT GET PAST DOCUMENTS UPLOAD PAGE, THERE IS THIS CIRCLE THAT KEEPS ON ROLLLING DOWN THE PAGE.
The NEXT PAGE refuse to load.
Please help

I can help you. Chat me up on WhatsApp. Drop you WhatsApp number and I will contact you

HenryDion:
Your uncle is suffering unnecessarily... He should take her to a mental institute and leave her there...

Best advice. Life must go on for others

jaxxy:
Yes bt One means u both agree not dictating. Is it every husband that has best intentions??

A husband is the protector of his home. He should lead the house against all enemies of a peaceful home. In most cases, the husband should see trouble afar and steer the family away from danger. It doesn't have to feel right at that moment, but he knows what he is avoiding. This situation has gone so bad that a drastic measure has to be taken for the new home to survive. The measures to be taken doesn't have to make sense to anybody, as long as it delivers the new home from destruction. Even after that, the couple needs to do conscious work (therapy kind of) to remove every trace of anger and bitterness between them. Bro, to save a family from destruction is not always reasonable to onlookers. And it is every mans responsibility to save his home. If you think your husband doesn't have the best of intention, I don't know why you got into marriage which is built on trust. You trust what you haven't seen the end. It is an obligation in marriage to trust your partner. I think I have said enough.

Koljos:
Benfica vs Real Madrid

Salzburg vs liverpool

Atletico Madrid vs Bayarn

Villarreal vs Man City

Inter vs Ajax

Sporting vs Juventus

Lille vs Chelsea

PSG vs Man United

English team's will play the final again. Easy win for Mancity, Chelsea and liverpool

jaxxy:
And if ur wife doesn’t agree with ur opinion? Or u think it’s all about u? The new family belongs to u and ur wife not only u so both of u must agree. U cannot dictate to her to cut off her family and vice versa.

You and your wife are one. Anybody else is a third party. Anybody who's interest it is to scatter my home is an enemy.

jaxxy:
The Bible said leave not isolate or exile.

Every family has quarrels and misunderstandings it doesn’t make them enemies. U address it and set boundaries were necessary bt u can’t isolate urselves.

You isolate or exile or cut off when that is what will guarantee the survival of your new family. That's what you do with people whose destiny cannot go along with you.

jaxxy:
How would u like if ur wife quarreled with ur mom or a motherly figure in ur life? Let’s be considerate in how we handle situations.

Ur wife cannot quarrel or breake up with her mother/motherly figure because of u.

Learn to know how and when to adjust.

Compromises should be made by both of u not just one person.

Then her new family is not important/priority to her. That's a new form of cheating bro. It's not a joke when the Bible said couple should "leave" their mother and father and "cleave" to themselves.

akinade28:
I'm not disputing the fact that a man marries a woman. I'm just saying let's learn to put ourselves in each other's shoes. The husband should try to understand the reason behind his wives actions and vice versa. Understanding is key in any relationship

There is no understanding here. It is the "understanding" that brought the situation to this point. If you know a thing about marriage, the first should be that newly married couple are to focus only on themselves the first five years of marriage - no in law or extended family. It is too early to be having problems like this, and there should not be any understanding of outside influence more than the new home you want to build. I hope you will ask the wife to understand the man when he goes after another woman?