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Hello Bro, Thanks for my LG tv i got from you last year. One of the best appliances in my house.

Hello, I have s7 edge, the glass of the screen is cracked, but still work perfectly. The glass back too is cracked. How much and how many hours/days will the repairs be? Bc this is my only phone

Hassanmaye:
Another lucky man from another planet, for you to get a woman that buys you clothes in Nigeria bro you should fast for one month and thank almighty God

Bro. Gender roles are becoming blurred by the day. Most of the things you said men and women are "wired" to do doesn't apply to my home. My wife and I just understand what needs to be done and get it done, whether cooking, washing, buying stuffs in the house. Couple need to understand themselves and work in agreement.

For the OP, he sought for that agreement but the fiance is not in sync with his expectation. They still need to come to an agreement before proceeding to other matters. This is important, so that they don't get disappointed when married. They must to have these kind of discussion to create a peculiar path for their family. Your experience and mine may not be their template, just what they have agreed that will work for them

Alwaysachick:
She has a family oga.

Lazy men. Leeches looking for girls to feed them. Isn't it the order of the day now.

I will tell the OP not to give her the 1.2m promised. Let her go to her family.

oyinella:
Yes! It's the duty of the man to provide for his family, and the duty of the wife to help.. She said she was going to help didnt she? Then again, that's my opinion

Okay o

oyinella:
In my opinion, I feel like she answered that question correctly. It's your duty to provide for your family, but then again it's totally okay for your wife to help. What if for some reasons there are months you cant meet up to your shared financial responsibility and she has more money then, dont you think she will want to stand by this so called responsibility sharing? Let everything come from a place of understanding and mutual respect, I don't need any sharing formula to pick up bills around my house without being told, because I'm not pressured to

With what you wrote in the later part, do you still think she answered the question correctly?

Alwaysachick:
This mindset of yours is what is making women breadwinners today.

Back in the day when men took sole responsibility , God gave them the capacity. Say no to bondage or


I pray you lose your job or means of livelihood so you can totally depend on her. Shame

O boy. They don dey cause person wey wan help. You pray he should lose his job?? How will the girl get 1.5m now?

Angry and bitter girls. Parasites looking for who to leech on.

I now see the root of her mentality. Her dad contributed little finance to the family, her mum struggled all through to keep things running. Your fiance saw all that and resented her dad. Same with her sibling and mum. They relegated him to the background and vowed to go into a family with different/opposite setting where the man will provide everything. The mum would have said, I have suffered all that my daughter will suffer in marriage.
For your fiance, I suspect marriage is a vengeful mission; to recompense for her mum's struggles in marriage. During the marriage, any day you suffer financial difficulty, she sees herself becoming like her mum. She will always look for a better life (her mum cant suffer and she will come and suffer too).

Any family where the husband is dreaded by the children is a red flag, because most times, they will carry their mother's hurt/reasoning/mentality into their own marriages. Can you keep up with the above for a lifetime? Only you can answer that

Anoymus:
1. I just support her the little way I can. I never paid her school fees while she was in school I just gave her pocket money not more than 10k and it happens only once every 1-2 months

2. They dread their dad so much cos he is a retired soldier, the fear also rubbed on me on the long run. he just knows me as his daughter's friend. We haven't got that opportunity to discuss intimately yet. Her mum na my padi, I speak to her freely. Unlike her dad

3. I'm not sure. I think they should be responsible for all their own finances. More reason why I'm asking questions, make I no go marry person wey go dey carry money dash their people while I expenses go dey choke me.

4. No sir, she isn't. I am also a graduate, and was fortunate to venture into a booming business after graduation in 2014. I'm also not ugly or
handicapped in anyway (I'm sorry if you are a handicap reading this, this is not to spite you in anyway) she's certainly not doing me a favour being in the relationship.

All other members of his family wants him to marry. Ok?

Babinski:
He is thinking in the wrong direction and it is commendable that all others in his family have told him the right thing even without seeing each other.

If you help you wife's business you help yourself. A wife is meant to help and support her husband and that is different from being a "co-husband" that the OP is asking for.

Does she have young, upcoming, financially struggling support or family members?

The above may be her first line plan, to support them till they are stable.

What i will advise, if you plan on giving her 1m, give her 300k and let her grow/nurture the investment. Don't give her all the money at once.

As for marriage, please marry her. She can fend for herself. Believe me, lots of girls will prefer staying at home once their husband is financially okay.

Buhari failed like GEJ, even more

Uchek:
How market now?

That spot in Upper Iweka took my neighbours life that year.

There must be something that made him come back. Find this and you will have your answer. Is there a father figure in your life? This matter is not to be your sole decision, since you have feelings for him. Your judgment is already impaired

Why do you have to end your postulations with "mad people"?

I am from Ebonyi and the project is in my LGA. Before now, I do not fancy the project because i believe other things count for development more than this. But i have been made aware of the viability of the project by people in the know and it looks good. Many people are just waiting for this project to kick off

georgeiyke009:
The airport will never be viable economically. Airports are built with the level of traffic that will pass through it in mind. Because that level of traffic is what will generate the necessary funds that will be used for its maintenance and staff salaries.

How many people will fly to Ebonyi state? For what purpose?

Enugu airport is fairly busy because it serves Enugu, Ebonyi, and Anambra. Owerri serves Imo, Umuahia. Portharcourt is thriving because of the oil companies there.

So pray tell me where is the funds going to come from? Airports are better handled by private people. Reason being that they would only build airports in places where it is viable. The guy is an slowpoke and will use this project to loot billions. Ebonyi people has not industries generating nada. Instead of to concentrate on these and also increase the standard of education and also improve healthcare, he is playing to gallery, building shopping malls in a state that does not produce jack and whose average income is a pittance. Building an airport that should have been handled privately? Ebonyi people will suffer for these crap in years to come cuz these projects will go to waste and be abandoned finally.

Let them show me the financial projections on which these projects where based on. Ndi ara.

I guess you are still in your papa house eating free food. That why you can describe someones hard work like this. Leave your comfort zone and hustle like a man.

OVB123:
Who will use the airport at the end, the people that are selling gala on the major street in many cities in Nigeria.

MajohBankz:
No it's not, but pretending to exchange money is a scam

Nothing intrinsically fraudulent with bitcoin. Depends on the way one uses it, just as you have agreed its same with money

MajohBankz:
Bro, you can scam someone into buying fake Bitcoin. I nearly joined this particular clique if my suspicions are accurate that they're the ones. They'd trade a ghost Bitcoin to you after you pay the money for it. Once you go back to your main balance you wouldn't find it and by then you would have been blocked. I nearly scammed someone into paying hundreds of dollars for fake Bitcoin (unknown to him) but my conscience couldn't allow me so I deleted everything about it and that was how I never joined nor visited them again. I would have confirmed their identity if they were facing the camera

The same way you can scam someone with fake alert. Is exchange of money a scam?

Trading in bitcoin is not internet fraud. What is wrong with Nigerian security agencies?

You are obviously not learned so I will pardon you. So in your mind you believe Sharia Law is 'written law'?

I dont support beating a lady. But I support anything done to make ladies (and indeed everyone) understand that actions have consequences. Next time, she will reason her emotions before initiating physical abuse.

Always know the family you are marrying into. It will save you years of turmoil.

If you must marry her and knowing about her mother, you would have strove to limit communications between them. Like your marriage should have separated them. If not, it will always be a stream of bad influence after another. Thats why some men dont allow MIL to visit their home.

If this situation is resolved, make it your life purpose to cut their relationship. It will keep your family safe and intact. Wifey may be angry, but its for her own good. She is up against generational curse and she doesnt know yet.

That spot - Nitel junction has claimed many lives. Even my neighbour lost her life from an accident on that spot. RIP to the dead

Still Available?

Thanks.

GRACEGLORY:
I beg your pardon, your post must have been missed, apologies. The spec in question not available, Cept in Hisense 49”.

On your main tv thread, I asked about whether you have a curved 42/43 inches in Sony (smart fhd/uhd) and how much. Do you mind responding please

Hi Graceglory, what brands do you have in a 43inches curved tv (smart/android/FHD). At what rate can one get them. Thanks

Still Available?

I will like to visit your shop at Alaba. I like that you display samsumg and LG, my preferred brand of tvs. I will chat you up on whatsapp. Cheers

Who is Osita Chidoka's father in law? The man is not married to Ojo Maduekwe's daughter as you were told.

LexngtonSteele:
He's an opportunist and an asslicker who rode off his father in law. It was a bit sickening to see how he was trying to ride off Nnamdi Kanu's popularity instead of trying to achieve something on his own.

I don't know why his people don't quickly see this.

I prefer people like Orji Kalu who are friends of all and a bit consistent. I even like Nnamdi Kanu who is his own man and doesn't go about licking other's butts, as directionless as he might be...

All politicians are thieves, so Orji Kalu is no different for those who would rush to abuse..

Dear, Your dad may be the patient and calculative type, and any pushing will be seen for an advise. With an impulsive and impatient person, your push will be a nag. Be careful how you apply your mum's principle on your man.

Acmepreneur:
Lol, funny guy. Yes, my ambition is on him because I love him. In my family, wives are very important in making husband's grow, my dad won't be where he is today if not my mum, some people need the push.
I as well do not appreciate wives with husband that is not progressing, we tell our women to be a pusher

You have a good opportunity now to push her into a job, trade or business. Most women dont want to work, just sit at home and enjoy hubby's money. Times like this bring out the desire to make money. Encourage, suggest and advise her on what to put her hands on. She must have told you of a passion - encourage her into it. Support if you have money. Don't misuse this opportunity, allow it go to waste or directed towards bad behaviour (infidelity). Peace

ademidedavid:
Well understood but how do you get a federal job when there is no opening yet and she doesnt even like my kind of job .. Also on level 8 step 2

This is what self righteousness can cause. You feel you cannot associate with family, friends and neighbours because they are sinners. I hope you can relate that with your experience

awoo47:
i doubt it's
deeper life...
dey don't even quarrel or argue, hw come dey will nw fight..
although i only knew deeper in university times.. don't knw hw outside one seems like
but the university we're pretty perfect nd never get into any trouble... U can beat dem up nd dey will offer to wash ur cloth d nxt day