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The best you can do. Try and mend the relationship with your extended family. Both on the mother's and father's side.

Churches (especially Deeper life) has this doctrine and it affected many of its adherents. I am glad they are changing with the times in this regard. My uncle abandoned his family and married one church woman, shunned every family member, never visited his mum for many years, lived with the woman in her village, had no issue and lived in poverty. The worst of it was that he shunned everybody and any advise to get help. Rejected every business proposal made for him, saying it is sinful business. After almost 20 years in that state, he became tired and separated with the woman. Came home and apologized to everyone.

Today, he is living well into his old age, after he remarried with a son to show for it. His healing started when he accepted that other human beings (sinful or righteous) are created by God and worthy of association. The worst i see in your picture is the enemity between your family and members of your extended family. That is where the healing should start.

You can take your dad to live with you or your sisters. From there try and connect him with his brothers and sisters in the village or where he is from. He has lost community sense and feelings. Believe me, thats what makes him seem delusional.

Your cousin has a bad woman as a wife. 40th birthday celebration indeed.

You have a good wife but you didnt listen to her. Bank loan is the last resort for business ventures.

You have an interest, so visit the bank and ask to see the books for yourself. I reason you may have to join in the repayment very soon, else you are going to fight for the roof over your head

WiLdFLame:
This same Old selfish Adebanjo and his bunch of selfish thieves Afenifere sold out Our then political light MKO Abiola and took money from Abacha...No true Cerebral Omoluabis supports them.

Only Mischief Makers like the IPOBs/Online IGBOs would always see any opportunity as a means to attack Our Political Leader bunch of hypocrites!!

Tinubu is very smart and very Right on this
He has raised the point most intellectual Omoluabis fear. We don’t want our Amotekun hijacked and be a shadow of itself like the NPF. So let’s do proper structuring.

How you drag igbos into this issue is the strangest thing I have witnessed today

All these able bodied men on the street protesting because a man slapped another man?
Is this even news worthy?

The salvation is not gonna come from the government. They source funds from the PFA. So they wont curtail their debt resource

Surprisingly the OP described me.
He is not angry at you during those periods. He just want you to get on with your life and stop dotting over him. Do you have a job?

"Chukwu Okike" (God the creator) cannot be equated to Arochukwu god(s).

"Abiama" loosely translates to "come and give evidence".

Please dont distort facts to drive your hate.

The player on the left back of any opponent we met henceforth will be dragged endlessly. Imagine Chukwueze and Kalu dragging you around for 90+mins

It's wrong to assume she will seek sex outside the relationship just because you buckled up. Not a general statement. Some girls actually open their desire to a particular guy and when the guy refuses to give in to it, they just bottled their feelings.

Go to that police station with a lawyer. Rape is a serious allegation

Interested

We can help you insist on your employment rights to proper termination. However, it is important your letter of employment gives you such right. We can't act on what you deem fair, if your offer letter says otherwise. You can send me a private message

At this rate, Buhari will set the standard of nepotism that future presidents will follow.

For sale. Very cheap price

Is it still available?

azraeljaheel:
12k negotiable

Is it still available Bro?

Hello, is it still available

Presidency is always giving excuses why it did not do what it is suppossed to do. What concerns what happened in 2001 with the 19 soldiers recently killed? Is that what they want to tell the bereaved for not participating in the funeral?
Na wao

I am interested but you wil have to reduce the price. Can it go for 25k? and which area are you

This is good. You cant be sleeping on the bed when the floor is flooded.

If you tell the date of the marriage or when it was entered into the Registry, which local government and the names of the parties to the marriage, I can help you get the Certified True Copy of the certificate.

if you break your home over this sexual need in you, you will one day realize that you need your family over everything. Please don't disorganize your family.

seunmsg:
Dele Momodu should shut up and stop doing laundry business for Saraki at his age. Nigeria is a country of law and order. If Saraki or any of the defectors run foul of the law, they will be dealt with in accordance with the law. If Orji Uzo Kalu, Buhari's number one supporter in the south east can still be facing corruption charges in court without presidential interference, Momodu should not come here and tell us nonsense.

Bros, what is the law on this situation that you so much believe in? Take this from me, the defectors (and in this case, the Senators and HOR members) have not run foul of any law. There was a division in APC as we all know. So they have the window to defect without losing their seats. The executives among them can defect as it pleases them.

How much please

APC cannot survive after Buhari, 2019 or 2023. Better the implosion happens now cos its inevitable

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oluwaahmed:
Calamity uzoho that cannot hold ball?

you mean Kari'us

Who moved this to FP?
Sycophancy at its peak.

I know that the family of your inlaw has a lot to do about how much you spend. Some family are just out to eat whatever they can get from suitors.
But bride price is your commitment to marry the girl, not the money. My people collect less than 15k as bride price, cheap gin and palm wine, tobacco and tubers of yam. With 150k, you are good to go.
I am from idembia, Ebonyi State

I noticed that what made your wife submissive to conflict resolution during your dating period was the fact that she wants to get married. That was her only fear, of not getting married.

Well now that she is married, you are yet to know what she will fight to protect. She is unconcerned and you don't know what to do to get her concerned, even in your marriage. That's my fear too, how she can call your bluff for 2 months without end.

I love your move for reconciliation. I would be doing same. But you need to be careful of pulling an unwilling horse to the stream. You will tire yourself out in time. The greatest quality is a spouse is her/he being concerned about the union, and making it the centre of their life.

No insurance I guess.

desreek9:
The hypocrisy here stinks to high heavens cos it's the womans fault, nobody bother to say the famous "LETS HEAR THE OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY, DONT JUDGE",

why would a mother not live with her husband for 2 years? why would she claim domestic violence and her mother supports her if it isnt true (from his write up he didnt deny that fact)?

this man is fvcking rich, he can bribe policemen, lawyers to vouch for him and paint him WHITE AS SNOW,

agreed she commited adultery, what happen to "forgive and forget, try to bring your family together, pray to God to change her" that all of you use to preach cos obviously she doesnt want divorce?

Someone was even betting the marriage was inter-tribal when it all boils down to personality, smh!!

People here are hypocrites cos i know if it was reversed, every idiot will tell the wife to forgive the husband bla bla bla.

Nonsense

If all you said made sense, I would still go with his detail on how the wife's accusation played out at the public defender's office. He showed them his receipts and they verified it from the hospital. So why would your wife attribute your role to a good samaritan unknown to you?

ofegge73:
these days her father is the one who calls me on behalf of the children, she doesn't call or answer, even when the children need medical attention. I have never seen a thing like this. But I always remind her, not to drag the kids into the fray.,as they are innocent of everything.

Immediately you mentioned her hometown, I knew what was coming. She is true to type - high-handed. You need more than what you have to tame her