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there were people here before the Binis came. God did not create Binis in Lagos. They may have opened up the place due to imperialism, but they met people on ground. Binis also can claim Dahomey and Badagry, if we are sticking to your argument. There are indigenous Lagosians, whose family has always lived on the land. Not those that their fathers house is in Ondo and Ogun State

Egoat:
Sponsored post indeed.

I'm one of those who regretted voting for Obi.
I regret it every single day that passes by.

Statements like, 1) Igbos were the ones that voted him in Lagos.
2) we've proved that Lagos is a no man's land.
3) Yorubas are tribalists for voting Tinubu over Obi while Igbos are sensible for giving their own bloc votes.

I've read and heard enough of these stupid talks.
There is no room for Shukudis in Lagos State.
Whatever point they want to make should be made with Biafra.

GRV is a dead ambition, you can't insult my tribe, insult my pastor, turn your back at your own people because you were trying to impress the Okoros and now all of a sudden you've found your voice.
Go to Anambla and contest, Lagos isn't for salesale, it's for yoruba propers.

Lagos is for Lagosians, not for Yorubas. Its like saying Enugu State is for the Igbos, or Sokoto is for Fulanis, whereas there are indigenes of Enugu and Sokoto States. Enough of this gaslight. Lets vote for Lagosians, its their State, its their election.

You got A1, yet want to recall the script for scrutiny. Its like you are not sure wat you wrote in the exam

anyilalaz:
Does it matter? Let their jobs and responsibilities affect the citizens positively.

It does not matter who they voted for. If BAT construct any road, will that stop the dot people from using it?

If the price of regular family bread is #1500, will you telling the seller you voted for BAT make him sell for #500?

Nna, help me ask him o. People that are in the same quagmire with other Nigerians, boasting like they are in a working system like in Sweden.

PlayerMeji:
In fact, what the ObidienDs are bringing into Nigerian politics is very dangerous and must be rejected by all.

Now the only thing needed to win any election in Nigeria is to claim that you are fighting for the Youth and the masses. No ideology!

If ObidienDs get into power, another group will come up with the same plan, telling the electorate that they are fighting for the masses...

Now there would be no clear cut ideologies that would form the base of any party... Unlike in saner climes, where they have two or max three political parties with very clear and known ideals. Democrats and Republicans come to mind in the US...

Ideology. What is the Ideology of APC when they came into the scene in 2014? Lets compare it with now and see results

sexy74:
My advice is call your mum and have a gear to heart talk with her, what led to the sudden quarrels.
In as much based on what you said I don't like what your mother did, you cannot trust all of them they are women.
I believe there must be something your mother has seen that is heavy for her to talk with her mouth.
I support that idea which your mother said that your mother inlwas should have gone nad come back, it's for your own good you would not understand, but you will as time passes.
Another advice don't let your inlwas stayore than one month I. Your house, e get reason.
May wisdom never depart from you

Are you speaking from experience or you are just talking what comes to your mind?

1. Whatever her mum has against his wife should be dead by now. Is the mother expecting his son to divorce his wife?

2. Have you stayed with a pregnant woman in her last months? She needs care more than the previous months. And she is delicate at that point. Her mother who is there is right to continue until she gives birth. My own MIL was with us a month before delivery. And you need to see her input in making sure everything goes well.

3. Allowing your inlaw stay with you is dependent on how they are relatable. Some people have no issue and can stay with you. Some people needs a long spoon to deal with. There is no general rule here. it depends on the in-law

Zonefree:
" can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong."



This is where I confirmed you're not yet a Man. I'm very sure you didn't tell us the full story. You withheld some information just to glorify your wife and mother in-law. Your post is just to paint your mom as the bad person here.


Ask yourself, if you drop dead now(God forbid), what do you think will happen in the next 6 months?

I'll tell you.

Your mum will be shattered. She'll mourn you till the rest of her life. She may not recover from the shock as you're her only son.

But, your beloved wife and her mother in-law will move on. Within six months of your death, another man will be shinning your beloved wife's congo and there's nothing you can do from the grave. Your beloved wife will remarry after your memorial service, if you're a Christian.

Out of all your family members, it's only your wife that is not your relative. Be wise.

Shalom.

You are a trouble maker. From the story, what wrong did the wife do? She lost a baby for christsake and nobody, even the MIL and her Mother has a right to add to her anguish. She lost a child and you want her to call her MIL to ask for peace? Are you serious? Have you lost a child before? Why should the MIL generate issues on a family grieving their lost child? Her MIL should allow the family breath peace abeg.

I will advise OP to live further apart from his mother if he wants to have a peaceful home. You know your mother and what she portends. Your wife is calm from your story and respects you. Some women will blame the loss on the lack of peace which your mum engineered. Give your mum all her dues but minimise communications until necessary. You need peace so your wife can move on by having a child (which is possible in a peaceful environment). People that have lived their own matrimonial life now wants to impede into another home. Be selfish about your future, else, everyone will run through you till you are dry.

Use of language is important. When one is said to be "docked", it portends that he is a defendant/accused person in a criminal matter, This case reported in this news is not a criminal matter, but a civil one. What is the hidden intention of the news report?

This is good work. I like the thread and how the work went. I will do this this year IJN.

Wash the car weekly especially the interior.
Slow down on rough terrain
When you park, walk round the car to inspect if anything is not as it should be
Remember to release the handbrake when you want to move out from the parking lot

Ebubu:
omo PDP must be unsettled
what will happen? the deputy will pick another deputy?

what says the constitution?

inside life! person wey don say 2023 na em year to become governor as PDP strong for Abia governorship,, don die for dat same year, before the date! dis life!

PDP to conduct another primaries within 14 days

sapele914:
Sorry if you checked properly Victoria Island is my borough, I did not migrate from the yeast to do business in Lagos State.

Was created on the island of Lagos State, alumni of Corona School V/Island, Lagos is Home, Center of Excellence. “Eko Oni Baje”.

Ungrateful Apga Judas Peter Obi, he wants to drag position with his landlord?

Hahaha. Whose ancestral home is Victoria Island? Tell us where your father came from

dazzlingd:
Okay, after election, you can mention me again.

But I wonder if u passed comprehension in school

We will all be alive after the elections, to reap the fruit of our collective choice. That's all there is to say to you.

dazzlingd:
I keep saying this, Tinubu won the election the day Peter obi and Atiku parted ways.
Just imagine if Atiku and obi were together, it would have been game over for Tinubu.
So sorry, election is about numbers and has no emotion to separate the good from the bad.
Tinubu is not a president that Nigeria needs but he will win as long as he is alive

Intellectual discuss can sometimes be ones albatross. When you reason in a way that is solely based on paper devoid of emotion, and you feel you have a lofty mindset. Has your situation changed after positing the above? Did you buy fuel cheaper this morning? 24 hours electricity? No. You may even be un or underemployed. But you have the intellectual acumen to predict election outcomes based on numbers. You are the one that needs our pity.

diadem10:
His secondary school equivalent is Daley college. That's enough for me.

If you're obsessed with his primary 6 certificate and go and dig for it and use it to sleep since it's primary 6 certificate you want to rule you.

No answer there. We been know.

diadem10:
Tinubu antecedent speaks for him and his certificate is original too which have been confirmed severally by Chicago, that's for brainless losers out there. Tinubu is a first class graduate. His original is known too. He's Omo iyaloja of Lagos. Any losers that keep crying and making false claim should provide the origin to back it up na. Yeye dey smell

So which primary and secondary school did he go to?

That girl is not pregnant. If she is, she won't have told you in the first place. She would have sorted out herself without involving you. Do you know she feels ashamed being tied to you because of a baby, especially in front of your mother. Women beef is deep. She won't admit to pregnancy so that your mum won't say you married her out of obligation. So i think she wants to fleece you of money.

Also, test results can be faked. Did you conduct the test in a government hospital yourself? Some girls even get urine of their girlfriends and submit to the doctor. So don't be too sure.

Now to the big picture, if she is truly pregnant, how sure are you that you are responsible for it. A girl that showed you so much disrespect and to your family has a 2nd option by the side. She never wanted to to marry you in the first place, just using you to cash out. So, I would have said you wait till birth to do DNA, but being tied to a woman that bad because of a baby will ruin your future family. Its a tie you will live to regret, and it gets worse (surprisingly) if the child is good natured. You are hooked for life unto saving the child from her wicked mother.

Allow the werey in her head to work in your favour. For once in your life, allow her to do what she wants. You can't save her.

spice123:
My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

I am just waiting for when he will get what he is looking for in there. Men these days be fishing for trouble in the high sea

As your first car, what you need is reliability and a car that will bear the stress of your ignorance. You also need to get a tokunbo. Don't settle for less
so, Your budget can get you a Corolla 2005. - 2007. Not fanciful but you will not regret it. Talking from experience

The directive on the effective date is not clear. Is it that every vehicle must comply by 1st January 2023 or that Insurance Policies obtained from 1st January 2023 must have the stipulated cover amount? Because I just renewed my cover (under the old regime) this December. I don't need any Police to disturb me in January 2023

lamboloosta:
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boldtruthalways:
Absolutely correct. Government provides the good policies that drives rhe businesses but when you have a senseless Government, you suffer it. Why should a farmer bother himself on selling and export. His business is productivity and support with good policies from government makes him enjoy his labour. Vote Peter Obi of Labour Party in 2023 to enjoy life in Nigeria.

Government has little role to play here. The farmers in SK needs to form a union and price control committee. What do you expect Government to do in open market negotiation? You accept what you negotiate, thats economics for you

obedience4:
Nairaland has been kind of dull this week

Because they didn't post Tonto Dike's yansh? Nigerian youths who don't know what really matters in their country. This is the most vital update on the front page this morning, as it deals on production which we lack in every sector.

mainaugustine:
I can but I no Sabi road...is that a problem?

I know the roads. Not a problem. Are you free for it?

Try Yozidura Autos at Ebute Metta. I did mine there

mainaugustine:
I can but I no Sabi road...is that a problem?

send a whatsapp message on 08035590702. Lets chat

carternkem:
I'm still here SunnyMighty and I am in need of a car for uber and bolt hire purchase.

Thanks

Hello bro. Do you or can you get a driver with license that can drive a car from Lagos to the east next week?

For 2006/2007 Corolla, How much is the

Front arm rest cover with lock
Wiper Water Can
Wiper Water Sprinkler LHS
Steering wheel with air-bag intact


Can this be fixed/installed on the spot at your shop in Ladipo?

Wow I am seeing this late. I was in the market for this yesterday and I bought one I don't like. Let's know your price and delivery process.

NORSYK:
Calvary worship by Sis. Vision Ezenwankwo

thank you sir

NORSYK:
You absolutely tried, but you missed lots of heavy weight in the Igbo gospel music industry.

Bro. Japhet Igwe is one of the pioneers.
Bro. Uzochi Njoku
Bro. Obi Obidigbo {obi n' asom rigboo & Nnam ka gbuo ya with sister Chidimma Okafor on the vocals)
Sister patient Ogbonna { onye n' ejighi ego amaghi right)
Sister Ekwy ikedigwe of the famous nkwa group
Bro. Chidindu James.
Princess kindness Onuoha (Chim Lee idi mma)
Prince Camillus Elias (orimiri atata vocals by gozie Okeke)
Bro. Geoffrey Chijindu (discharged and acquitted)
Clement Kalu uko (eme nkwa ekwere)
Sis Chinyere Udoma & ndidi amaka (odighi ajo njo)
The Devine hope singers sisters olamma & Ochamma (dependable father)

I appreciate you bro. Please help me recall this old worship song. It's in my head but I can't remember the artist. I remember the song as titled "total worship" but what I am seeing online is not it. This album has songs like
- Chineke mo, idi mma e, idi ukwu e, ebube gi juru, eligwe n'uwa, Le ka isi dinma, dikwa ebube
- Eli labasabatani, akwa Jesus Kwara n'calvary
- Onye oru ebube 3x, ndewo

Kindly help me recall the album name or the artist so I can look for it. Music stores in Lagos don't go that deep on Igbo songs.