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menix:
You just wrote like a cow..
Am very sure u did not read my Last paragraph nd u don't even know about village ransacked by Boko ysterday..

Talking about soldiers being killed, help me with a report by NA that soldiers have being killed for the past 6month..

U too get badmouth...ah ah!

tpiar:
you need something to keep you busy, chanting on threads will not do that.

And how's that your business?

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeh! Gobe nla!

bukatyne:
Okay, there we have it....

So Nigerian husbands, can you relate with them?

Source: http://www.thedatingdivas.com/marriage-101/10-things-husbands-wish-wives-knew/

Hmmmmmm. Naija men? Let them come and answer the kwension o

Fhemmmy:
Agreed and that was why i said earlier that, as the woman do your part so as for the man that would cheat not to see you as a reason why you did . . . . Same goes for the man not to allow the woman to point fingers at him as reason why she cheated. . . .

Hmmmm. Thanks!

winetapper:
OK nice to hear
Me iyam fine too.. Just my brain just reset oo To be a man no easy
But i have asked God to bless my Plans

Amen and Amen

Fhemmmy:
I totally agree with you BUT that was why i said many discussion ought to take place before wedding night . . . .Such as:
1. Would they have to hire assistance to help
2. What could be the man's duty from all the home chores
3. Date nights
And so one . . . .Once all that is agreed on and the man breaks them, it will be easier to talk to the man and let him retrace his steps but when a woman while dating the man washes his clothes, go to his house and cook for him and do all chores for him while the man and his friends just sit and watch soccer, then dont expect much after the "I DO"

You are absolutely right!
Some men are bound to cheat even when everything you listed above is in place. Marriage is just so complicated and it scares me to the bone.

tearoses:
that isnt a side chick o!
The man is long gone
only God can bring this one back home
Big joe has been very busy
The annoying thing is that when the man is old, sick, haggard & fagged out and the side chicks have all run away, its the wife who will be left to look after him
It is well.

Anyway let me rant about hair nets
I think they are the most unsexy thing invented
To what effect
Hubby sees you in hair net every night
yet oga in the office sees your nice hair everyday
let the hair be messed up jare

Hmmmmmm. Noted ma'am!

Fhemmmy:

Not all women are easy to talk to . . . . . So let the woman too do all those things she did that made the man to commit to her, you wanna tell me if you go on a date with the man before you marry and you know you smell of garlic and onion, you wont take care of it before he picks you up for the date?

In one word, what works during dating will always and forever work . . . . . if you use to turn his head with acrobatic hoochie coochie, why stop now all in the name of "We are already married" while in the marriage is even when you need to learn more and profitable moves that will make the man wanna run home after work.

The woman needs to make herself a later of discovery that the more the husband think he knows, the more he discovers.

I get the point you are coming from.....I hope you know dating and marriage(parenting) is totally different. She can be up and doing while dating him because the kids aint the picture. What the writer wrote in the article shows the woman is a very busy type(could be a full housewife/career type). Why can't the man help out with the kids? What happens to the lovey dovey they played in the bath tub while dating? Can't he playfully lead her to the bathroom and wash the'onion and garlic odor' off her body and give her the hot and crazy sex he gives the side chick. Marriage involves two people and both should strive to make things work..not some guy running outta his home,touring a 'sophisticated wanton' around the city. Some women are hard to talk to...I agree. But the man in the op's post never made a move to improve the relationship till he got caught.

Omotayor123:
Wow... I love this OP. Shout out to all the good parent out there.. God bless your Labour!

Montezz make I give you hug

Awwwwwwwwww! Kiss kiss

abbey621:
You are a f*cking novice! My friend John and my uncle Peter came back from Saudi Arabia two months ago, it was their third trip in 2 years, they are not diplomats or expatriates just regular humans like me and you. I don't know what you people gain in spreading hatred!

Take 5!

Chumani:
@montezz, may Almighty God continue to give you wisdom for giving insight to this topic

Amen. Thank you sir!

unono:
@op may GOD bless u for this write up.

Amen. Thanks

bigt2:
Who exercises with glasses on

Lie mohammed.

Agarawu23 why una dey do like this na? U sha wan pour sand for babes' garri dis xmas. Remember say after Xmas and New year gifts,Valentine is two months away o.....no spoil dat one oooooooo!

loomer:
Una go just dey carry people children dey write nonsense

U neva sleep?

Speechless

I want to send a big shout out to parents,
grandparents and other caregivers of kids with
special needs. If anyone ever needed a virtual hug,
it’s you! Muah! You are my hero! I don't know how you do it,but you are angels....special,strong and wingless angels. You rock!

Trust me,its not easy doing twice the job of a normal parent,that is the reason you need to;


1. Take one day at a time, and take that day
positively. You don't have control over the future,
but you do have control over today.

2. Never underestimate your child's potential.
Allow them, encourage them,expect them to
develop to the best of their abilities.

3. Find and allow positive mentors: parents and
professionals who can share with you their
experience, advice, and support.

4. Provide and be involved with the most
appropriate educational and learning
environments for your child from infancy on.

5. Keep in mind the feelings and needs of your
spouse and your other children. Remind them that
this child does not get more of your love just
because they get more of your time.

6. Answer only to your conscience: then you'll be
able to answer to your child. You need not justify
your actions to your friends, relations or the
public.

7. Be honest with your feelings. You can't be a
super-parent 24 hours a day. Allow yourself
jealousy, anger, pity, frustration, and depression
in small amounts whenever necessary.

8. Be kind to yourself. Don't focus continually on
what needs to be done. Remember to look at what
you have accomplished.

9. Stop and smell the roses. Take advantage of the
fact that you have gained a special appreciation for
the little miracles in life that others take for
granted.

10. Keep and use a sense of humor. Cracking up
with laughter can keep you from cracking up from
stress.
(You are free to add more).
If you are the caregiver of a special needs child, give yourself a hug, a pat on the back, and some very nice,positive self talk today. You are a great parent, doing a great job, taking care of a great kid. You are admired and cared about by many people. Be kind to yourself today!!

Montezz.

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Abomination! Lwkmd

This is the beginning of the end...cnt say its end time. SMH

Really...na to go do my own b dat o!

Hmmm

Raiders:
witches and mermaid doesn't exist.they are myths

I don see where witch confess before ooo...infact d woman was a friend's mum. She died shortly after d incident. There are people who claimed to v seen mammy water before.

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How many PMs do you get on average in a day.:lol....I'm I supposed to keep a roaster?
Romancelander(s) that u ignore or try hard to avoid
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Who do u often disagree with on Romance Section:profojah,tosyne2much
Romancelander that you secretly wish you can both
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ManTiger:
That's funny bro because I also reside in IB and most likely we're referring to the same billboard along Olodo close to a fence like that.

Ehn ehn....dats it. I be woman sir!

ManTiger:
I will look for a billboard along my place, it says unemployed graduate!

God bless you my brother! I saw a billboard in Ibadan where it was boldly written that 5k would be paid monthly to unemployed graduates. Those defending lie mohammed here are the reasons we are still like this o. Not that I need the 5k,but its time these liars are held responsible for their campaign promises. Iro yii ti poju now...e pain me say I no dey Ib at d moment.

Happy birthday Cathy!

Hmmmm.