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Chuks7807:Wow |
So, will the phone doing the camera work be turned to camera for 24 hours? Or constantly? |
I was raped by 3 sisters from my church. I was 10 then. I visited them just to play as kids do. But things went the other way. They sucked the hell out of me. One by one. I was very fragile with a very soft bone. Even till now in my 30s I could spin my arms and legs backwards because of its flexibility. That alone was an advantage this girls had on me. As a kid I never knew what that was. The eldest kept thrusting her mouth on my penis until her teeth wounded me seriously. I broke down in tears. I couldn’t get up. At last I tried getting home. Hid my pants that was already in blood because of my injured penis. Just between the body and the cap. That was the night I decided our house help won’t bathe me again. Just to avoid her from seeing it. I was always alone because of the pains of the wound. What saddens me the most is that the marks are still there. In fact reddish. All the babes I’ve dated would always ask me what happened? I would just give flimsy excuses. I never told them I was raped. I was very shy to say it. I understand what ladies go through to hide a rape incident. Very embarrassing, discriminating and stigmatizing. Each time I remember those girls I weep because they’re from a very wealthy home. I didn’t want problem. I had to keep quiet. Probably they might be abroad now because their parents are super rich. Even at this time of rape cases, I still imagine what would be on their minds about this rape thing. Will they still type #saynotorape# whereas they raped a young lad so many years ago? I’m being emotional now. Let me stop here. Peace everyone. |
Slawormir:Oga let me tell you something. There’s no justification for rape. Whether she respects guys in her hood or not, no guy has the right to rape any lady. You people keep playing the blame games on the ladies and exonerate the offender. That’s wrong bro! I don’t know why people with insane ideology would be typing rubbish on social media. So now that you’ve advised the ladies then why didn’t you also advice the males. Why didn’t you tell males to stop or avoid molesting ladies? Guy you no try at all. Reason like someone who’s sister is a victim of this barbaric act. Is that what you’d say? Oh my God! I be guy o. But this one you talk just off me. You no try at all. |
rentAcock:Your write up drew my attention. To me I think the whites deceive us with all manners of conspiracy theories. 100,000 miles is just same thing as 160,000km. From Lagos to Australia is 13,000+ kilometers. So where is this conspiracy theory of yours coming from? Even if you got it from somewhere legit I think we Nigerian youth should also start questioning some researches. And you said per second. We’re learning though. Nice one |
sweetlo:Oh. Lols. Sorry I think I was misunderstood. That question was an open question. I’m not married yet. It was intended for just men ( singles and married) sorry for the misinformation |
sweetlo:All of the above |
This is a direct question. What will you do when your spouse starves you in all aspects for months for no tangible reason? Even when you try to think if you offended her in anyway to deserve such treatment. By starving emotionally I mean something of this nature: -Like she no longer gives you the attention you used to have -she doesn’t allow you touch her -She doesn’t like going out with you, she keeps her matters private -she spends more time with work or kids, only greets you in the morning and at night -She doesn’t ask you about your day at work -She doesn’t allow you touch her phone -She doesn’t like seeing you smile with another woman. I’m this type of marriage, if you’re in such shoe, what will you do as the man? Your sincere opinion. No matter your opinions No shades please. |
hardbody:So stick to the information and leave the messenger like you preached. Spotting out unnecessary talks isn’t frustration because that’s the only thing you can bash me with. I’m more than that. No one is frustrated here. Peace! |
hardbody:Now let me ask you? What do you make up in this notice me attitude? Nigerians eeeh? What has degree or what got to do with what he just said? When you people don’t respect yourself in public forum you expect people to regard you? Since you can’t comprehend just a little passage, I don’t think you graduated from a higher institution. Your intention was to downplay the Op. that’s nonsense. Don’t start feeling any better. if you’re to compare yourself with what he knows. He just made a point and you’re here talking trash. Where did you graduate from? We live in a world where no Nigerian university is even up to the top 5000 universities in the world. ( Only China has 3000 universities, both private and public). Forget about the lies they post online. Don’t come here to degrade anyone. What he said is an information. You either take it or leave it. That’s why we don’t grow. Castigating people. U don leave matter for ground begin cause concussion. Just park well. |
Finnese001:Lols. Oga please na. Why bring him into this discussion |
DCmonster:Yes you’re right. They claim quite alright. But they wish they had our accent. Deep inside them they love the way we speak. Nigerian accent is one of the most admired accent in the world. |
DCmonster:Brother. It is true we have so many people who can’t speak good English in Nigeria. But I tell you. Bring an average and well to do Nigerian and a well to do Ghanaian to speak as foreign students you’ll pull cap for the Nigerian. I’m not kidding. |
DCmonster:Is it the “My ankle broke his ankle” type of English your ex gf is talking about? Well. Thank God is your ex. Make she park well. She no know wetin she dey talk. |
Still on the topic. For me. My Girl friend back in school broke up with me on my birthday. She just took me into the kitchen during the party in my house and told me straight up. We never quarreled or whatsoever. As soon as I came out of the kitchen, I was as light as a feather. I just managed to patch myself till the event was over. Since that day I stopped loving. I only care to avoid stories that touch the kidney and it has worked for me. That day was my worst day. Please share yours. |
[quote author=Hum2020 post=89407337][/quote]Thanks for your advice. I appreciate |
Please expert in the house. Can 15m build a 4 bedroom duplex to finish if used judiciously? What’s your take? Features: -4 bedroom with all rooms en-suite ( including visitors room) -2 living rooms -Kitchen and store -2 dining -Laundry room -Gate house. If it can’t still let me know. |
Still available. Lucky buyer |
CastedAyo:It won’t stop him from going to jail. Animal. He made abians suffer. Now he has a case at hand he’s playing the good guy. God punish am. |
One thing I discovered about my Igbo brothers is that most times they don’t know that all these chest beating in every achievement is nothing more than a display of low self esteem. Too bad. Very local, unenlightened and uneducated people. |
[quote author=agadez007 post=88829885]hmmmmmmm I can see see a Eluyemi and Habeeb pls which ethnic group are they?[/quote. Nawa o. Una no Dey tire? Wetin? |
In my candid opinion I think we can’t carry all our friends along which is natural. This means that there are level of lives where those friends no longer count. This is not a way of trying to feel big but it’s inevitable. There are levels of life that are strongly influenced by the caliber of friends we keep. Life is a stage and it’s in phases. You might be in level 1 today and mingle with friends of level 1 all of a sudden, fate pushes you to level7. The people there are the ones you’d always see, talk with and mingle with in order to get into the next phase of life. Imagine you were once a truck pusher in a market having same people as friends and then one day you were just called upon and given a political appointment in your local government. You’ll find yourself mingling with politicians and no longer truck pushers. And at such you occupy your time and thoughts on your new level for your own growth and thus forgetting the level you were once in sometime ago. Sometimes you begin to wonder why you suddenly forgot your old friends. It’s not a deliberate attempt though but you just have to move on. If eventually you cross their path, try to help them at any opportunity you’ve got. So I don’t really agree with your SQ. It doesn’t work that way. |
skyhighweb:Forgive my ignorance. English no be our mother tongue |
skyhighweb:Our country is finished! Look at leaders of tomorrow. He/she can’t even put up a simple sentence. Which school did you pass out from? Truly our educational system is f*cked! |
josh123:Ask the Chinese! |
Inasmuch as we have a disorganized government that has made life more difficult for us, adding tribalism to it is just like adding salt to our wounds. Let’s love ourselves and help one another to achieve a common goal. I’ve visited to a lot of foreign forums online. You rarely find people making racing statements. That’s a sign of patriotism. Let’s not forget that the internet is everywhere. The world is watching Nigerians. I was shocked when my friends from other countries tell me how we bash ourselves online on every issue. One even said we lack manner of approach. I was terrified. But trust me. I defended Nigeria as a whole. Please Let’s learn to love ourselves. We are future leaders and not future haters. Thanks. |
efighter:Exactly my point. When I opened a thread on chest beating and bragging of of a particular tribe on any achievement, 99% of them slammed me. You can imagine a 3 page thread. Only 3 persons supported my motion. Tribalism is a big disease. And it’s only ignorant and inexposed people portray such attitudes. Thanks for your point. God bless you richly |
Fulcrum15:You talked maturely. This was exactly the way I expected people who defer from what I was painting should respond. Not to rain abuses. I couldn’t agree less. |
MelesZenawi:�♀️ SMH! |
MelesZenawi:This is simple! It is good to be proud about your accomplishments or achievements. But there’s a level you do it it becomes tribalistic. Don’t you understand? I can never be inferior. It’s you that feels inferior. You’re very funny o. |