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Phone/Internet MarketRe: How To Turn Your Old Smartphone Into A CCTV Camera by mrbenjame: 1:10pm On Jun 09, 2020
Chuks7807:
It will work constantly
Wow
Phone/Internet MarketRe: How To Turn Your Old Smartphone Into A CCTV Camera by mrbenjame: 5:59pm On Jun 04, 2020
So, will the phone doing the camera work be turned to camera for 24 hours? Or constantly?
RomanceRe: Guys, Have You Ever Been Molested Or Raped By A Female? by mrbenjame: 5:37pm On Jun 02, 2020
I was raped by 3 sisters from my church. I was 10 then. I visited them just to play as kids do. But things went the other way. They sucked the hell out of me. One by one.

I was very fragile with a very soft bone. Even till now in my 30s I could spin my arms and legs backwards because of its flexibility. That alone was an advantage this girls had on me. As a kid I never knew what that was. The eldest kept thrusting her mouth on my penis until her teeth wounded me seriously.

I broke down in tears. I couldn’t get up. At last I tried getting home. Hid my pants that was already in blood because of my injured penis. Just between the body and the cap. That was the night I decided our house help won’t bathe me again. Just to avoid her from seeing it. I was always alone because of the pains of the wound.

What saddens me the most is that the marks are still there. In fact reddish. All the babes I’ve dated would always ask me what happened? I would just give flimsy excuses. I never told them I was raped. I was very shy to say it. I understand what ladies go through to hide a rape incident. Very embarrassing, discriminating and stigmatizing.

Each time I remember those girls I weep because they’re from a very wealthy home. I didn’t want problem. I had to keep quiet. Probably they might be abroad now because their parents are super rich.


Even at this time of rape cases, I still imagine what would be on their minds about this rape thing. Will they still type #saynotorape# whereas they raped a young lad so many years ago?

I’m being emotional now. Let me stop here. Peace everyone.
CelebritiesRe: Falz Reacts To Police Killing Teenager, Rape And Murder Of UNIBEN Student by mrbenjame: 5:27pm On Jun 01, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Justice for uwa

Too bad
I don't understand how humans enjoy sex without the consent of the person they are banging
Probably they hit the girl just to put her unconscious before raping her. Nor be say their intention na to Kill her after the rape. If killing her was their aim after the rape then them for make sure say she die before them run

And please to all my ladies
Always dey respect the niggarrrz in your hood
Because there are different type of niggarzz in our hood( the good, the bad and the ugly niggarrrs)
Show them respect. Greet them anytime anyday twice on Monday
Always halla them.
Most of those niggars won't think of doing such thing to you if they notice you are always greeting them and they can save you in a situation like this
Na this same thing i dey tell my sisters always. Always greet those area boys. I nor be super man!
Because am the only niggarrr among my siblings. We are six
Infact most times i dey Always take some of my sisters along to where we for dey play ball on Saturday for our area so they can get used to their faces
Oga let me tell you something. There’s no justification for rape. Whether she respects guys in her hood or not, no guy has the right to rape any lady. You people keep playing the blame games on the ladies and exonerate the offender. That’s wrong bro! I don’t know why people with insane ideology would be typing rubbish on social media. So now that you’ve advised the ladies then why didn’t you also advice the males. Why didn’t you tell males to stop or avoid molesting ladies? Guy you no try at all. Reason like someone who’s sister is a victim of this barbaric act. Is that what you’d say? Oh my God!

I be guy o. But this one you talk just off me. You no try at all.
Christianity EtcRe: Chris Okotie: Social Distancing In Church Is Like Blasphemous Infidelity by mrbenjame: 9:37am On Jun 01, 2020
rentAcock:
Pastors are worried that social distancing will reduce the capacity of the church and thereby decrease offerings. I'm not even sure if all these attempts at social distancing is effective considering that when you sneeze droplet aerosols can travel as fast as 100,000 miles per second. So how exactly does a 6ft distance prevent the spread? The one that makes me laugh the most is the proposition that airplanes should fly with the middle seat empty; how does it prevent the spread of aerosols in and closed compartment?
Your write up drew my attention. To me I think the whites deceive us with all manners of conspiracy theories. 100,000 miles is just same thing as 160,000km. From Lagos to Australia is 13,000+ kilometers. So where is this conspiracy theory of yours coming from? Even if you got it from somewhere legit I think we Nigerian youth should also start questioning some researches. And you said per second. We’re learning though. Nice one
RomanceRe: MEN ONLY: What Will You Do If Your Wife Starves You Emotionally ? by mrbenjame(op): 8:52pm On May 26, 2020
sweetlo:
It is likely your wife is seeing another Man.

I guess you ommited where it all started from.

what did you do wrong, how did it start?
Oh. Lols. Sorry I think I was misunderstood. That question was an open question. I’m not married yet. It was intended for just men ( singles and married) sorry for the misinformation
RomanceRe: MEN ONLY: What Will You Do If Your Wife Starves You Emotionally ? by mrbenjame(op): 4:24pm On May 26, 2020
sweetlo:
Are you a woman.

Why will you be stsrved emotionally.

Sex starved , is that what you mean
All of the above
RomanceMEN ONLY: What Will You Do If Your Wife Starves You Emotionally ? by mrbenjame(op): 4:18pm On May 26, 2020
This is a direct question. What will you do when your spouse starves you in all aspects for months for no tangible reason? Even when you try to think if you offended her in anyway to deserve such treatment.

By starving emotionally I mean something of this nature:

-Like she no longer gives you the attention you used to have
-she doesn’t allow you touch her
-She doesn’t like going out with you, she keeps her matters private
-she spends more time with work or kids, only greets you in the morning and at night
-She doesn’t ask you about your day at work
-She doesn’t allow you touch her phone
-She doesn’t like seeing you smile with another woman.

I’m this type of marriage, if you’re in such shoe, what will you do as the man?

Your sincere opinion. No matter your opinions No shades please.
RomanceRe: If Army Slaps You Do This Thing And He Will Beg PHOTOS by mrbenjame: 2:01pm On May 23, 2020
hardbody:
You made sense only to yourself by introducing issues unknown to this conversation from the very beginning. Where in my write up did I claim I graduated from any university at all. Are you this frustrated?

I stated my position based on my understanding of what the OP posted. How much will be credited to my bank account for degrading him?

I struggle to understand where you are coming from and the point you are trying to make.

Please attack the issues not the person. I have not asked you to regard me, even that doesn't add a dime to my account.
So stick to the information and leave the messenger like you preached. Spotting out unnecessary talks isn’t frustration because that’s the only thing you can bash me with. I’m more than that. No one is frustrated here. Peace!
RomanceRe: If Army Slaps You Do This Thing And He Will Beg PHOTOS by mrbenjame: 1:47pm On May 23, 2020
hardbody:
Fine. Thanks for this. I did not check the address of the school or the claimed Legal methods. Legal methods is not a Diploma in Law. I am aware it is only Diploma in Law that is acceptable as a Direct entry program into universities to study law. Legal Methods is one of Law 101 courses you take as a 3 credit hours course alongside other law courses in the first year of university program.

If you insist that you are right, so be it. Study your Legal Methods in peace please. Its no skin off my nose.
Now let me ask you? What do you make up in this notice me attitude?

Nigerians eeeh? What has degree or what got to do with what he just said?
When you people don’t respect yourself in public forum you expect people to regard you?

Since you can’t comprehend just a little passage, I don’t think you graduated from a higher institution.

Your intention was to downplay the Op. that’s nonsense. Don’t start feeling any better. if you’re to compare yourself with what he knows. He just made a point and you’re here talking trash. Where did you graduate from? We live in a world where no Nigerian university is even up to the top 5000 universities in the world. ( Only China has 3000 universities, both private and public). Forget about the lies they post online.



Don’t come here to degrade anyone. What he said is an information. You either take it or leave it. That’s why we don’t grow. Castigating people. U don leave matter for ground begin cause concussion. Just park well.
PoliticsRe: This Is The Type Of President We Want by mrbenjame: 1:59pm On May 16, 2020
Finnese001:
GMB THE STACK ILLITERATE WON'T BE SEEN IN THIS KIND OF GATHERING
Lols. Oga please na. Why bring him into this discussion
PoliticsRe: This Is The Type Of President We Want by mrbenjame: 1:40pm On May 16, 2020
DCmonster:
I agree with you! But I often wonder why couple of African-americans and whites claim they have a very good accent and speak better English than the rest of us.
Yes you’re right. They claim quite alright. But they wish they had our accent. Deep inside them they love the way we speak. Nigerian accent is one of the most admired accent in the world.
PoliticsRe: This Is The Type Of President We Want by mrbenjame: 1:09pm On May 16, 2020
DCmonster:
. LMAO! grin grin But seriously Ghanians speak better English, but they ain't smarter than us.
Brother. It is true we have so many people who can’t speak good English in Nigeria. But I tell you. Bring an average and well to do Nigerian and a well to do Ghanaian to speak as foreign students you’ll pull cap for the Nigerian. I’m not kidding.
PoliticsRe: This Is The Type Of President We Want by mrbenjame: 12:59pm On May 16, 2020
DCmonster:
My ex-gf told me back then she likes Ghanians because they are smart and speaks better English than the rest of Africa. grin
Is it the “My ankle broke his ankle” type of English your ex gf is talking about? Well. Thank God is your ex. Make she park well. She no know wetin she dey talk.
RomanceWhat “BAD” Thing Happened On Your BIRTHDAY? by mrbenjame(op): 12:07pm On May 11, 2020
Still on the topic. For me. My Girl friend back in school broke up with me on my birthday. She just took me into the kitchen during the party in my house and told me straight up. We never quarreled or whatsoever. As soon as I came out of the kitchen, I was as light as a feather. I just managed to patch myself till the event was over. Since that day I stopped loving. I only care to avoid stories that touch the kidney and it has worked for me. That day was my worst day.

Please share yours.
PropertiesRe: Can 15M Build A Decent 4 Bedroom Duplex? by mrbenjame(op): 9:16am On May 11, 2020
[quote author=Hum2020 post=89407337][/quote]Thanks for your advice. I appreciate
PropertiesCan 15M Build A Decent 4 Bedroom Duplex? by mrbenjame(op): 12:47pm On May 10, 2020
Please expert in the house. Can 15m build a 4 bedroom duplex to finish if used judiciously? What’s your take?

Features:

-4 bedroom with all rooms en-suite ( including visitors room)
-2 living rooms
-Kitchen and store
-2 dining
-Laundry room
-Gate house.

If it can’t still let me know.
AutosRe: 2013 Honda Accord. Hurry @2.5m. Very Neat. by mrbenjame(op): 3:24pm On May 07, 2020
Still available. Lucky buyer
PoliticsRe: Senator T.A Orji To Distribute 300 Bags Of Beans, 1240 Cartons Of Noddles (Photo by mrbenjame: 8:02am On Apr 28, 2020
CastedAyo:
In a bid to Complement the efforts of the Abia State Government, the Senator Representing Abia Central Senatorial District at the National Assembly Senator Theodore Orji is set to distribute 300 Bags of Beans and 1240 Cartons of Indomie, IGBERE TV has learned.

A Statement endorsed by the Chief Liaison Officer to the Senator representing Abia Central Senatorial Zone,Hon Ifeanyi Umere,the Bags of Beans, Cartons of Indomie and other palliative materials will be distributed through the six local government areas of Abia Central Senatorial Zone..

To this end, Ward and Community Leaders in the Zone, are requested to be at their council headquarters on Monday, 27th of April, to take delivery of their own palliatives meant for the vulnerables in their area.

The Local Government Chairmen are expected to give each Ward/Community Leaders, five bags of beans and twenty cartons of indomie for onward distribution to the less privileged in their area.

The Liason Officer stated that Senator T.A Orji, appeals to his constituents to continue to maintain high level of hygiene and other directives as stipulated by the Abia Government during this period as he believes that this situation calls for serious caution on the part of all.

http://igberetvnews.com/1349152/covid19-sen-t-orji-set-distribute-300-bags-beans-1240-cartons-noddles-constituents/
It won’t stop him from going to jail. Animal.

He made abians suffer. Now he has a case at hand he’s playing the good guy. God punish am.
SportsRe: Obiageli Solaja Wins African Women In Badminton Award by mrbenjame: 7:58am On Apr 28, 2020
One thing I discovered about my Igbo brothers is that most times they don’t know that all these chest beating in every achievement is nothing more than a display of low self esteem. Too bad. Very local, unenlightened and uneducated people.
CrimeRe: Lockdown: Man Kills Neighbour For Not Allowing Him Watch Movies In Lagos by mrbenjame: 10:55am On Apr 25, 2020
[quote author=agadez007 post=88829885]hmmmmmmm

I can see see a Eluyemi and Habeeb
pls which ethnic group are they?[/quote.

Nawa o. Una no Dey tire? Wetin?
EducationRe: According To Psychologist, There Are Three Types Of Intelligence. by mrbenjame: 12:23pm On Apr 22, 2020
In my candid opinion I think we can’t carry all our friends along which is natural.

This means that there are level of lives where those friends no longer count. This is not a way of trying to feel big but it’s inevitable.

There are levels of life that are strongly influenced by the caliber of friends we keep.

Life is a stage and it’s in phases.

You might be in level 1 today and mingle with friends of level 1 all of a sudden, fate pushes you to level7. The people there are the ones you’d always see, talk with and mingle with in order to get into the next phase of life. Imagine you were once a truck pusher in a market having same people as friends and then one day you were just called upon and given a political appointment in your local government. You’ll find yourself mingling with politicians and no longer truck pushers. And at such you occupy your time and thoughts on your new level for your own growth and thus forgetting the level you were once in sometime ago. Sometimes you begin to wonder why you suddenly forgot your old friends. It’s not a deliberate attempt though but you just have to move on. If eventually you cross their path, try to help them at any opportunity you’ve got. So I don’t really agree with your SQ. It doesn’t work that way.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Experience At A Job Interview by mrbenjame: 10:13am On Apr 19, 2020
skyhighweb:
bros i gree take d story and correct all my mistake abeg lecturer i wan learn
Forgive my ignorance. English no be our mother tongue
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Experience At A Job Interview by mrbenjame: 10:11pm On Apr 18, 2020
skyhighweb:
first of all stay safe n dont touch ur face, yh right like dats possible touch it well n wash it joo.

ok so my first job interview was @ a hotel was looking for a part Time job tech related or mass comm related, was directed to see the HR through a friend who told me everything as been explained.

well I got to the hotel(not gonna mention) waited for an hour b4 the interview started explain I was looking for a partime job as i already told the fellow that directed me there.

well the lady started giving me the i wan chop this guy look and started with the babe dear we dont have part time we can offer u fill time we are short of staff and was looking @ me like say we did something b4 i enter the office, i just weaved it off, a staff work in and went bizzard on him shouting mr man dont u see i have guest here omo she change am, its not like the dude didnt knock, proberly didnt hear him knock.

well he apologise and left then her friend walked in and it was another dear calling hi dear how are u dear.

omo married women are lonely and neglected expecially working class women they dont know how to hide their feelings well.

well I was looking for partime job not a sexual staved boss.



lets read about urs
Our country is finished!

Look at leaders of tomorrow. He/she can’t even put up a simple sentence. Which school did you pass out from?

Truly our educational system is f*cked!
EducationRe: Can You Solve This Math Question? by mrbenjame: 11:36pm On Apr 15, 2020
josh123:
Who mathematics help.
Ask the Chinese!
PoliticsNigerian Youths, Let’s End Tribalism by mrbenjame(op): 5:19pm On Apr 12, 2020
Inasmuch as we have a disorganized government that has made life more difficult for us, adding tribalism to it is just like adding salt to our wounds. Let’s love ourselves and help one another to achieve a common goal.

I’ve visited to a lot of foreign forums online. You rarely find people making racing statements. That’s a sign of patriotism.

Let’s not forget that the internet is everywhere. The world is watching Nigerians. I was shocked when my friends from other countries tell me how we bash ourselves online on every issue. One even said we lack manner of approach. I was terrified. But trust me. I defended Nigeria as a whole. Please Let’s learn to love ourselves. We are future leaders and not future haters. Thanks.
PoliticsRe: Dayo Razaq Lawal Was The Nigerian Who Retrieved Passports Of Nigerians In China by mrbenjame: 4:43pm On Apr 12, 2020
efighter:
Tribalism will kill us. Chinese see the guy as a Nigerian fighting for Nigerians, but here at home, we are fighting over his tribe. Definitely, we are all idiots and I'm one of you
Exactly my point. When I opened a thread on chest beating and bragging of of a particular tribe on any achievement, 99% of them slammed me. You can imagine a 3 page thread. Only 3 persons supported my motion.
Tribalism is a big disease. And it’s only ignorant and inexposed people portray such attitudes.

Thanks for your point. God bless you richly
CultureRe: I Feel So IRRITATED When We So Called Igbos Beat Our Chest Over Everything! by mrbenjame(op): 12:21am On Apr 12, 2020
Fulcrum15:
True you ve made some salient point, but haven't you noticed that Igbo's are being profiled in this country. Called names when the news about them is related to crime or other vices? What have you to say about the marginalization of Igbo's in this country cheered by other ethnic groups? See Igbo's have given more than they are getting in Nigeria. Where were you when buhari called us 5% Percenter's and completely marginalised us while others looked on? Igbo's can only celebrate itself nobody would. As long as the profiling of Igbo's continue, we will continue to rub our accomplishments on there faces. If you fear hate, you are wasting your time because they ve hated us since the founding of Nigeria and its not about to change. So I say bleep you mofos who wants us to feel inferior. Its never going to hapoen, cause we are achievement driven nothing can change that.
You talked maturely. This was exactly the way I expected people who defer from what I was painting should respond. Not to rain abuses. I couldn’t agree less.
CultureRe: I Feel So IRRITATED When We So Called Igbos Beat Our Chest Over Everything! by mrbenjame(op): 10:47am On Apr 11, 2020
MelesZenawi:
Abeg shift...
�‍♀️ SMH!
CultureRe: I Feel So IRRITATED When We So Called Igbos Beat Our Chest Over Everything! by mrbenjame(op): 10:31am On Apr 11, 2020
MelesZenawi:
For fear of others you want to Insult and drag Igbo..

It shall never be well with you for this singular reason....Just Imagine.

These are people who find faults with everything igbo but applauds others.......Unless you are created inferior....others are not.
This is simple!

It is good to be proud about your accomplishments or achievements. But there’s a level you do it it becomes tribalistic. Don’t you understand?

I can never be inferior. It’s you that feels inferior. You’re very funny o.

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