₦airaland Forum

pansophist:
Lazy youth.

For all the problems wey full this life, yours is about a girl not initiating conversations. You can tell what kind of person one is by the problem that bothers them. By their fruit, ye shall know them. Just by this question alone, I can tell the kind of person you are. My guy, leave her. She is not interested. You can never be good enough for a woman that doesn't see you through a romantic lens. So if you like, carry her problem like an Atlas (the greek titan god), and nothing will change.

Respect yourself and leave her or else if you continue this your iberibeism, you will find out later like many of us wey don swallow, that what pains the most is not because she doesn't love you, but because you mumu yourself for years, break your rules that you won't even break for your father, probably forego your self-development for a woman that is not there. Such pain never dies, it just lives with you permanently and you get used to accomodating it. And anytime you remember about your mumuism, it feels like an acid burning sharply through the wall of your soul. You don't have to experience it to avoid it, so terminate now and wait for a girl that will reciprocate the energy you are giving.

Jack005:
Then stop giving her the needed attention, if she complains tell her that it is solely as a result of her attitude towards you.. She doesn't do enough and it's discouraging you.

Jack005:
She has become a course in the university for him to study. The day men begin to know their worth, that is the day women will stop feeling so special and entitled.

Quality20:
did you sleep with her?

mrbenjame:
I’m not simping. I have other options bro. She also complained in withdrawing from her and I don’t see her as anything which made me confused. She has friends who love to hang out with be as well. And besides I earn well so I don’t know the hassle you’re talking about. I’m a very reserved guy just for you yto know ok?

Kollins11:
You said she's presentable but are you presentable?

You better focus on your hustle, make more money and look presentable.. Infact na the girls go dey rush you.

Nigeria idols winner blocked all these daughters of jezebel because he wanted to stay focus and I'm sure that babe was among the girls he blocked.

You better focus on your hustle, make money and look presentable.

Stop Simping.

God1000:
Take your time and study her extensively, don't rush

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Na this kind people de make me BLAST PESIN left leg wit my old KALA 4 FREE!


the Water wey u take WASH ur TOTTO, E de WORK well well!


If u check am WELL, the useless man MAMA no get BIKE not to talk of CAR!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Mooh247:




If Tinubu and Osinbajo weren't competing I don't mind voting for Ameachi and Wike

Ameachi and Wike can handle a complex country like Nigeria successfully, and as loudmouthed and drunk as they may seem, they are Patriotic, honest and loyal






.

FlappaNozzle:
Algeria is a NO NO!
North Africa is a No No....dont even go close. they are not doing well economically. pre or post covid, and they HATE your black ass. They are more racisst than europeans. So take your 500k and sit your ass in Nigeria.

Candid advice, go to your village, secure land, invest half of that money in farming....begin to grow, seek for agricultural loan and build your capacity.


in 10years you will be better than anybody who travels to algeria now.

Tiamiy10000:
That will be good! To travel around the world is even fun!

juman:
If you have a family member that is a pilot, you would always be in fear, knowing that the plane can drop anytime.

Cutehector:
only if the agreement entails she doesn't get to own any of my properties.

Cutehector:
Currently, I don't think i Can even sign a prenup with a woman who doesn't own anything.

omoharry:
If the intention of the party is toward 2023 election, then it will be useless..You don't form a party with complex people like Nigerians in only less than a year to the general election.

Vaughanlanrewaj:
It takes time, money and committed people to build the kind of structure that wins election.
I still remember seeing the poster of young Bola Tinubu, Dr. Awolowo-Dosunmu, etc in 1992 contesting for the Senate. That was 30 years ago yet he has been imprisoned, arrested, charged for treason, insulted, his properties burnt, his wife assaulted, betrayed yet he continued and remained focused.
That is character and character is not built in a day.
The best advice is for the youths to join politics early, be honest , patriotic, hardworking and give credible alternatives. Salisu was 29 when he was elected speaker, Dimeji Bankole was in his 30s yet both were lacklustre

Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

mrbenjame:
Chai! This is serious! Do what do we do? Or is it that Nigeria’s problem is still us? What’s the way forward?

Young progressive party is different from youth Democratic Party. Because the party will only have maximum of 50 years old in the party. Strictly fresh blood and not that animal you posted there.

Vaughanlanrewaj:
Hahaha....you come out every 4 years to make this request.

OP, there is already a party for the youths called YPP and their only elected official in the senate is the worst serial debtor to banks in Nigeria.

donbachi:
"YOUTHSFORYOUTHS CAMPAIGN" nationwide and forget the rest.

SHINJA:
If Igbo youths will be among this movement,count me out

OBoy50:

Useless post!
At the end,you all will mobilize to go campaign for Ancestors. #Endsarz movie revealed it all.

Mstravelindiva:
Food tour

Exceed15:
I beg you in the name of God don't try it
U will live to regret it.