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Politics / Re: Amaechi Built Five Flyovers, Rivers APC Replies Wike by mrbenjame: 2:56pm On Nov 27, 2022
Shampoo77:
Only five flyovers in 8 years compared to 12 in
8 years? APC members need mental and psychological check up.

And how about the 319 model primary and secondary schools with all facilities inclusive which even Abuja and Lagos can’t boast of. I’ve lived in both cities. Even the building of these community schools you can’t find it anywhere in Nigeria. Go and verify. The internet is your friend. health centres across all communities. All communities in rivers state. Which one has wike done? let me sound it well for you. Even pensioners at his time were never owed and 12,000+ people he employed plus the RSSDA which all 23 LGA poor children benefited and studied abroad for free which wike came into power and stopped in his first 1 month. Even the RTC ( rivers transport company) that was raking in huge revenues for the state, wike also abolished them. I don’t understand the daft called wike. I’m not an APC person but I will speak with he truth all the time. Unless you’re not living here in rivers state then I can understand you but otherwise you can never compare what Wike has done to Amaechi. Amaechi’s development spreaded across all 23 LGA. Wike concentrates on his area. Apart from the flyover and law school what has he done? All flyover is in Obio akpor and phalga. Besides it’s very appalling that wike is using flyovers as a yardstick to good governance. In all facets and sectors of the economy Amaechi beats wike hands down. Even the roads in portharcourt Amaechi dualists almost all of them. So what’s wike blabbing about? If wike has actually done well then why is he afraid of other political parties that are contesting? Dragging them to court and the court disqualifying the candidates? If he’s not afraid why is he employing 200k special advicers on electoral matters few months to election. And asking them to send their account details and voters card. Abeg forget wike abeg. Na portharcourt boy dey talk to you like this.

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Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by mrbenjame: 5:03am On Nov 25, 2022
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by mrbenjame: 5:02am On Nov 25, 2022
maziude:


I asked you these questions earlier..

Na wa.
Did you apply to the job yourself or it’s through the agency?

When you applied for the visa, did you receive an application number?

Sorry i did not apply for the job myself. All my details are with the agency. But I know I had a biometric appointment letter and instruction letter which I used to go to the embassy. My sister is the one doing it for me with her boss. She works with her bosses agency. Everything is controlled by her boss. I just don’t want to complain because I don’t want to believe I’ve been scammed.
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by mrbenjame: 9:41pm On Nov 24, 2022
ednut1:
scam is written all over this. Without a job offer with approved LMIA if applicable. You cant start a work permit application na. And why courier to sign the contract when there are digital signature options.

I think I’d investigate this. But by the way. After the biometrics what next? Because it’s one year already and nothing yet.
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by mrbenjame: 4:02am On Nov 24, 2022
[quote author=maziude post=118637596]

You want help but you are giving us incomplete information.

Agency no get name, employer no get name.
Hopefully the money you paid agent no plenty.[/quote

I paid them well o.
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by mrbenjame: 4:00am On Nov 24, 2022
ednut1:
what is the agency name You started the process before getting a job offer or you got a job offer with the agency Hmmm

I got a job offer after the medicals.
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by mrbenjame: 8:19pm On Nov 23, 2022
Please house help me. I need clarifications. I applied for a Temporary Foreign Work permit since January 2021. Though I used a trusted agency.

Around April I Flew from Portharcourt to Abuja for medicals because my name was in the appointment list when I got there. That’s IOM Abuja office.

I returned to portharcourt after the medicals and my medical result was sent to the Canadian immigration for documentation.

2 weeks later I got a job offer from Canada which I signed and sent through courier service to my employer.

October 28th same 2021 I returned to Abuja for my biometrics. At November 1 I submitted all my documents including my biometric letter of appointment and instruction letter. The biometrics was successful and I returned to portharcourt again. Although when I got back on the 14th of December I was congratulated by the VFS office where I did the biometrics that my biometrics was successful and has been submitted to the Canadian immigration that I should be very patient at this moment because they are not the ones to decide to give me the work permit or visa.

It’s a year now. I’ve not heard anything. Today is 23rd November 2022.

Please is there still possibility that it’s gonna work for me? I’ve waited too long. It is it how it works?

Please I need reply of who has succeeded to give me hope. Thanks.
Romance / Re: Relationships And Red Flag. Guys Open Your Eyes by mrbenjame: 1:52pm On Nov 21, 2022
Nicepoker:
Even if we advise you. I am sure you won't appreciate it. Pre wedding pics is occupying your mind already. grin
.

Not after heading all these. Before now I’ve retraced my steps. I can’t fall for that and regret later in mind. I’ve taken all these advices already. I don’t think I’d do contrary. Pre wedding pictures ke? You’re not serious. Lol.
Romance / Re: Relationships And Red Flag. Guys Open Your Eyes by mrbenjame: 6:21pm On Nov 20, 2022
wisdomkid:
FOR MONTHS?

BRO, is she the elder sister of Devil? Even me wey think say I dey vex no fit vex for 1 full day... I'll likely forget about it within hours


That’s you. I saw this particular attribute and decided to call it a shot. Because with these kind of person you go quarrel she go leave house no return again. Because of how hard hearted she is.
Romance / Re: Relationships And Red Flag. Guys Open Your Eyes by mrbenjame: 5:52pm On Nov 20, 2022
kepstone:
Omoh let her go... I had to let my ex go ooo... She has big yansh and big boobs but the red flags were just something I can't bare anymore
� She can't apologize when there is issue she can go mute for ages
� She can't forgive easily ooooo
� She said no girl should be found around me she go kill me
� Entitlement mentality feels the world revolves around her back side
� She will block you even when wrong
� She can't make sacrifice for the relationship but expects me to cross red sea

I had to share the grace in fellowship and bid her peace... She still dey find husband... She tried coming back but he'll No....
@OP run oooooooo...
U have not found wife

Thumbs up bro. Thanks for your encouragement. They’re really something else. This same girl I’m talking of is very attractive but atleast I can afford to turn back against her.
Romance / Re: Relationships And Red Flag. Guys Open Your Eyes by mrbenjame: 4:20pm On Nov 20, 2022
imadiyi:

Perhaps, she hasn't met the type that will deal with her squarely.

Well. You are right. I can’t kill myself because I’m trying to be a gentleman. I wish her well.
Romance / Re: Relationships And Red Flag. Guys Open Your Eyes by mrbenjame: 2:11pm On Nov 20, 2022
imadiyi:

My dear, they are not ruining any chance. That a lady you are dating is not submissive to you, does not necessarily mean that same lady won't be submissive to another man,,ok? It depends on how she sees and rates you.

Well said. Let her go to who she rates well than myself. I don’t want. Besides I knew her to be in an abusive relationship before I met her.
Romance / Re: Relationships And Red Flag. Guys Open Your Eyes by mrbenjame: 1:16pm On Nov 20, 2022
SPAMBOX7:
You are pained cos you don't have a back up (side chick). Woe to anyone in a relationship without a back up. You will always be whining online like your counterpart the op.

And if you are gonna tell me the usual "not all men are comfortable keeping side chicks" bullshit then keep your pain inside you don't come whining online. You will never see girls whining online about men like y'all do every day here cos those bitches have at least 5 niggas to use and forget you but you here doing I can't keep side chicks. Then try to keep your pains to yourself when you get burnt by a bitch as well. Bye


You’re wrong. I have other female friends. If I don’t have other options it won’t have been easy for me to back out. I’m not simp. A lot of fishes are in the river. In the last 5 years we’ve been breaking up and she returning stylishly but this tune it won’t work.
Romance / Re: Relationships And Red Flag. Guys Open Your Eyes by mrbenjame: 12:49pm On Nov 20, 2022
Don27tiky:
It is so hard living with ladies of this generation. They behave as if they deliberately don’t want men to have. Peace of mind. They don’t want to be submissive but rather want you to be submissive to them. Men find it hard to endure with them for long


That is one nonsense thing about them. I don’t know who’s telling them this things. They are really ruining their chances honestly

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Romance / Relationships And Red Flag. Guys Open Your Eyes by mrbenjame: 12:32pm On Nov 20, 2022
We all know that in this 21st century things have changed. Moral Values have deteriorated and a lot of damages have occurred all in the name of civilization. Especially now that we live in a socal media era.

I have a fiancée. She’s very caring, smart and very supportive. The only issue I have which I think I can’t condole for a lifetime is her always being right. I’m a banker and she’s a teacher. Whenever I try to open up to her of her cold attitude sometimes she’d get angry and refuse to talk to me for months. Sometimes I end up saying sorry for peace to reign. She keeps doing this things. The last thing my woman can tell you is “I’m sorry”. For the past 5 years. This kept me wondering if this won’t be a big issue if I decide to tie the Knut with her.

Recently another issue came up and same thing happened. Is this not a red flag?

Like I said She’s caring, smart and supportive. But this one I can’t do it. It’s so choking. So I decided to chicken out so I’d live in peace. She even thought I’d repeat what I do by apologizing but she got it all wrong. Because of ego she she decided to stay mute. My happiness is that I wasn’t blinded by love. SoPlease guys in the house don’t be blindfolded with love rather open your eyes wide to reality. I don’t want to divorce o.

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Politics / Re: President Buhari Attends Nigeria International Economic Forum In New York. Photo by mrbenjame: 7:54pm On Sep 24, 2022
Occasion Bobo.
Health / Re: I’m No Longer Comfortable With The Smell Of My House by mrbenjame: 6:03am On Sep 18, 2022
doggedfighter:
Buy quality air freshener with the fragrance you like.




With time it will overcome the smell in your room.


You sound like someone with a very strong sense of smell though grin

Lol. Yes I do.

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Health / Re: I’m No Longer Comfortable With The Smell Of My House by mrbenjame: 9:11pm On Sep 17, 2022
fman:
Disinfect the apartment.
Buy room fragrance.
Change your bedspread
And mattress


Thank you so much. But the last two you mentioned I bought them new for the house.
Health / I’m No Longer Comfortable With The Smell Of My House by mrbenjame: 9:05pm On Sep 17, 2022
I moved into my house barely 2 weeks ago. But I’ve come to observe that the house started smelling like a pharmacy or hospital or where drugs and injections are stored.

First of all I’m not a doctor or a medical practitioner but it’s so disturbing. I cleaned the house very well before moving in. The house is neat. I’m a very clean person and I stay alone to start with. So it’s not as if someone living with me is doing anything to make me think much. From my bedsheets to my clothes. Everything smells like drugs. I’m confused.

I’m a decent person who’s not into drugs too. So I don’t know where the problem is. What might be the cause?. I don’t know what to think? Please any advice?
Travel / Re: Lagos Traffic Laws And Penalties by mrbenjame: 8:36pm On Sep 17, 2022
So this is how the so called Lagos generate revenue for the jagaban. After taxing companies and other private organizations and market women, wharf, schools etc you still take from people in Lagos all in the name of traffic? Decongest Lagos and gave peace. That’s all.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Several People Arrested In The UK For Protesting Against The Monarchy by mrbenjame: 9:08am On Sep 14, 2022
kingamaa:


They supported and encouraged it.

You’re right

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Several People Arrested In The UK For Protesting Against The Monarchy by mrbenjame: 8:39pm On Sep 13, 2022
kingamaa:
A new head of state, a new prime Minister and a new government all in September and not a single vote was cast in UK.

And they will be shouting democracy up and down

And forcing it down the throats of Africans.

Africa should begin to think outside the box.

We should be independent indeed


But it’s not Uk that introduced democracy na.

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Politics / Re: Nigerian Lady Finally Offers Her Kidney To Ekweremadu's Daughter by mrbenjame: 6:15pm On Sep 13, 2022
Well for me I’d say if God wants her to live she will. But if He wants to use her life to punish the parents for keeping the poor masses impoverished then so be it! What goes around comes around.
Education / Re: MURIC Condemns Lagos For Including CRK Questions In Entrance Exam For Schools by mrbenjame: 11:08am On Aug 06, 2022
ATLIEN2027:


Dumb ass monkey, go and read it again. Only Christian questions were asked and the students don't have options of either they want o answer them or not. Get the fvck out of here you brainwashed religious fool.
If there are options to answer them or not, or if they also have muslim questions as options for those who prefer that as the case was back when I was in high school, then there would have been no complaint.

Done responding to your dumb ass retar@.

BYE

Well. You’re a fool though. I’m also done with you nitwit
Education / Re: MURIC Condemns Lagos For Including CRK Questions In Entrance Exam For Schools by mrbenjame: 11:42am On Aug 05, 2022
ATLIEN2027:

Omo ale ni Baba n la Baba e. Your father is a complete fool. I'm sure that your dumb reta@ded brainwashed dumb ass didn't even read the story or even understand what the story is all about.
Dumb religious fanatical idiotic fool.
Get lost and FVCK off.

It’s your grand parents and your entire lineage that is a fool. Who didn’t read the story. I read everything hook line and sinker.

Why didn’t the examiners factor in questions separately for Muslim and different for Christians If this would be a problem. Were there no Muslims to vet the questions before it was approved? Why shouting now? I for one blame the Lagos government on this and morealso the Muslim community would have raised this issue long before now which I understood. It’s christianized because Muslims couldn’t answer it that’s true. But where were the Muslims during the preparation and vetting of the questions? This I expect them to answer. So why the useless post? You’re really sick in the head. I think it was a big mistake on the Lagos government but I hate the way you started your post.


Back in my Secondary school days one sulieman and Ibrahim were my classmates. We did CRK together. They were taught from JSS1 to JSS3. He passed even better than some Christian students. Now what NECO would have done is to differentiate the questions between IRK and CRK. If you’re offering IRK You answer it and Vice versa. That’s all. Why the CAN thing and Obituary?
Education / Re: MURIC Condemns Lagos For Including CRK Questions In Entrance Exam For Schools by mrbenjame: 5:17am On Aug 05, 2022
ATLIEN2027:
The criminal Association of Nigeria CAN will be quiet on this one as usual. Bunch of religious fanatical idiots.
Just watch as the Obi tuary Obi diots will be making all sorts of excuses for this Christian agenda.
HYPOCRITES


You’re a fool. First of all CRK is a subject offered by both Christians and Muslim. It’s a matter of choice. If I’m in the north and I decide to offer IRk then it’s ok. If I choose not to offer it then it’s ok too. Did anybody force it on the students? I thought these things are optional. Hijab own Una no talk o. E reach CRK you’re raising alarm. Higher hypocrites.
Romance / Re: Should I Go AHEAD With Her? by mrbenjame: 7:37pm On Jun 04, 2022
Kollins11:
Bro don't get me wrong.

If you read my comment very well you would understand that I didn't tell the op to make money to impress women.

All I'm saying is that.. He should make money and take good care of himself and his family (mother, father and siblings) those are his priorities for now.


As time goes on, girls would start rushing him and he would pick the one that would give him the attention he's looking for.

And you think I’m not making enough money to take care of myself and family? And you also think I don’t have ladies flocking around me? I just told everybody that she’s reserved which attracted me to her in the first place. Did I do wrong with that? You people just comment with sole intention to make someone sad. It’s wrong. If you don’t know how to make your point please avoid commenting in the first place. You don’t know me I don’t know you. If you know me personally you won’t type what you just typed now.
Romance / Re: Should I Go AHEAD With Her? by mrbenjame: 10:19pm On Jun 03, 2022
DonroxyII:
No wahala:
But Next time Don't miss on Good girls because she is taciturn:
Most Nigerian Girls are Conservative due to Societal Prejudice but deep down all Nigerian Girls are rotten cheesy and I mean All including those in My Family they are only waiting for the guy that strikes their spot of Funs:

Unfortunately, Not many dudes have that patience to be Seeking for You Dos and Donts: If I like You, I do!

You’re right bro. Thanks a lot. I appreciate. We are friends still but as for that side I’m not thinking about it anymore. I think that’s the best way to go.
Romance / Re: Should I Go AHEAD With Her? by mrbenjame: 9:38pm On Jun 03, 2022
DonroxyII:
If you truly like Her, You have to stimulate Her:

What course did she studied ? Take it from there

Do you have any knowledge about Insurance and can you help getting clients in your construction companies for Good sake Only Take it from there

Also, What are Her Life Interests and fetishism and Future Outlook Address that:

She is Lonely but You ain't striking/lightning her dark spots that's why she recoils, If you do she will come all out to You then from friendship you go to any level of your choice:

There is no girl that's arrogant Once you speak and Dwell to Her Worlds then Let her handle the rest as she sink into your world and take landlord position self cheesy

I had to purse everything I wanted to do about her. But if I must tell you. Since I took a break o became lighter and less worried because I need to create chances god others in my life.
Romance / Re: Should I Go AHEAD With Her? by mrbenjame: 7:31am On Jun 03, 2022
[quote author=walkingshadow911 post=113416828]

lol! don't be mad at him, Nigerians are going through a lot already. just take his advice and discard the insults.

As for her, ghost her completely,if she asked why and u really like her, tell her what you want from her straight up.make sure she give u a yes or no answer.

if you go ahead simping to impress her, you have lost the game completely.
Remember, it's either you win or draw at least.

Peace!


Thanks man! That’s exactly the card I’m playing right now. As I speak she’s still doing what she’s known for. And I’m the one running away. Attention is really a bastard. She’s the one showing attention now. But honestly I’m really not into her. Looking elsewhere. Thanks once again.

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Romance / Re: Should I Go AHEAD With Her? by mrbenjame: 1:57pm On Jun 02, 2022
Jack005:
Are you sure she doesn't have someone she's giving maximum attention to? Have you made your findings?

I’m actually not chasing her. It’s just that she’s giving me that notion that she’s interested and the next thing she acts awkward. So I’m trying to avoid dealings with her.
Romance / Re: Should I Go AHEAD With Her? by mrbenjame: 1:54pm On Jun 02, 2022
[quote author=walkingshadow911 post=113396786]

Firstly, thank your God for making you bring this here.
Let me tell you the hard truth.
you are already in her friendzone and she is using you for ego boost, she will waste your years.speaking from experience.
Nobody wanna be alone, the lady you found yourself chasing is also chasing someone else

Run as fast as your leg can carry you now that you can

Discard this advice at your own detriment.... [/quote

Noted. I’d take this. Thanks man!

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