₦airaland Forum

ipobcannibals:
Canada is highly overrated, the place only meant for those who can’t get to America. She should have tried the US of A and thank me later.

I know say the japa crew go come for my head, but I don cover myself with Ogun/Amadioha

Mariangeles:
When you marry a wife, do you feel you own her more than she owns you?

You have no right to keep a woman where you want her to stay, while you stay faraway for long.
It is unfair and ungodly.

Evercurious:
Oga inasmuch as you re accommodating and caring ,pls learn and remember to be tough on some of your stands when dealing with women. The truth is that most women are naturally manipulative and you need to be tough to sail through... All this your attitude of ' I dont like trouble or wahala' wont help ooh. In fact i ve discovered that most people that act and speak the way you do end up receiving all the wahala from others. No one says you shld be a troublemaker but also learn not to take or accommodate trash too as you remain caring

eduj:
meet a lawyer in both countries, sign a pre nuptial agreement with her (make sure she understands what she is signing) . Then marry and take her outside.

yes many women betray there men once the move outside -especially to Europe and America. I have seen a man denied access to his kids and forced back home to begin afresh.

I have also seen a man go strong with the wife once they moved to the USA (even though she earns more than him).

But a pre nuptial will save you from loosing your investments if not your heart

nanceeleecious:
All this questions tho,smh,
If you love ur spouse as yourself and vice versa,
I see no need for these questions,
Except you plan on becoming an oppressor instead of a companion,
This talk no suppose hard bikonu,

Kobojunkie:
Sure, but if a "Nigerian" marriage is what you want, you are best staying in Nigeria to get that.

Kobojunkie:
Then stay right there in Nigeria to have that.

adeakin:
in Canada where i am currently, sierra leone babes are the best, then ghanians, uganda and other South Africans countries like zim. They no dey too demand from men.

adeakin:
you cant have the Nigerian type of marriage abroad. The law favours women. There is incentive for her to dump you as government will give her free money and she also gets to tak your house lol. My advice to you only marry a lady you know before not a stranger, or you go cry. You can also try other Africans they are homely and gentle. They are not materialistic like our babes

MufasaLion:
They tend to adopt their culture there which is normal but most of them take advantage of the freedom and power to "punish" the husband. It's better to just marry a western woman that's used to her culture and see it as normal, than marry a Nigerian lady that's gonna see it as luxury and avenue to do all sorts of damage.

MufasaLion:
Well, I can't decide for nobody. I can't take no woman abroad!

JovialJune:
If you want the Nigerian kind of marriage, don't travel abroad when married, stay here with your wife

If you strong headedly decide to marry then travel abroad leaving her here, accept the fact that as you're cheating on her, she's also cheating on you

You can't have a Nigerian kind of marriage abroad where the system and laws is fair to all and sundry, a system that does not recognise the machoistic, ego driven, head of the family, respect-submissive type of mentality you are used to here, equality is their watchword over there, no gender is above the other.

Legendrysailor:
Hell no !!!

Don't try dat shit with a Nigerian lady, u will live to regret it.

I repeat u will live to regret it

This is why I’m afraid. Honestly.




Do not quote me if ur IQ is below 10

Legendrysailor:
Hell no !!!

Don't try dat shit with a Nigerian lady, u will live to regret it.

I repeat u will live to regret it
This is why I’m afraid. Honestly.




Do not quote me if ur IQ is below 10

Mariangeles:
The question you really want to ask is Can I live abroad and have the Nigerian type of marriage?

Dude! You can't have your cake and eat it!

timesup234:
Na where them nor dey get sense be this. This one thief Delta State money carry all he children go abroad calling it better life. All these slave people come too many thinking they are moving forward. You are just another black monkey to them snapping picture oversea like say u don make am. Shey white man dey come snap picture for Nigeria open teeth like mumu? They fvcking come here and steal more of your resources to enslave the next generation to be like RMD

WibusJaga:


Irony of it all is that you may lie on it & be having sleepless night while someone else lying on a concrete floor will be dozing & snoring off his head.

sgtponzihater1:
Your post proofs why Nigerians are some of the most violent people on earth, insulting those who have done them nowring. Using God and curses on the same page shows who's child you really are, and how desperately you need redemption.

May God heal you, and teach you how to address people.

Over and out.

averageguy:
Neither one is inherently better or worse.

It's the person you choose, not the nationality, that determines how good your marriage gets.

Cousin9999:
Asians are ugly and racist. And your child could be really short.

Naijanascam:
Then follow your heart...... and which part of Asia are you?

vanbonattel:
Some regions can do this with success but some will use it to cause problems for their people.

Nigeria is too big to be one country.

Naijanascam:
Stop beating about the bush.... are you together?both pocket and residency?

Mariangeles:
I have an Asian friend (China) married to a Nigerian (they have a daughter).
She’s the nicest, most honest person.
I have never had issues doing business with her.
If you find love with an Asian, you can give it a try.