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i fully understand them.... they wanna cash out on Mbappe rather than lose him for free at the end of his contract. smart move.

just because you cant find it, doesnt mean she hasnt got one.... BUT the more important question IS: so what if she doesnt have social media profiles? is that a crime?

sadly the issue is bigger than just housewives.... i blame AFRICAN SOCIETY/CULTURE for that.
too many women out there are getting married out of pressure to be called Mrs at any cost, thus they accept any kind of nonsense under the moon (before marriage). thus after a while they get tired&bored of such houswewife lifestyle but its too late.

i cant blame these low self esteem insecure men who want to lock up their wife at any cost after marriage, and have to lay the sole blame on African SOCIETY/CULTURE for that (coupled with religious/peer pressure)

some yeye people out there are desperate to get married at any cost, and they dont even know why and/or how to have a successful marriage.

a demon is a demon, whether in Asia or Africa....

a foolish man who doesnt learn from his mistakes, will always be a FOOLISH MAN. no need for advice here.

foolish woman... the FIRST THING she should have done is to report the blackmailing criminal to the police so that this criminal can be arrested and your photos confiscated. the minute you give in to blackmail, they will NEVER STOP!

i dont understand why it is so difficult to charge him for indulging in honosexuality... ,and give him the proper jail sentence he deserves. thats a homo criminal, and he should receive double the sentence, one for being a homo and the other for being a rapist!

it all depends on A) the type of man you are and B) what that said r/ship is based upon...

there is nothing wrong with giving someone a gift IF THATS WHAT YOU BELIEVE SHE DESERVES, but sadly many men are "forced" upon giving gifts as an emotional blackmail to be in a r/ship with someone.

so if you wake up one morning and say that you want to offer a babe a gift (out of your good heart), then that gift shouldnt be taken back.... BUT if you were forced (under false pretense) that you need to give that woman a specific gift in order for her to be in a r/ship with you, then that gift should be returned when the "contract r/ship" is over.

sisisioge:
Sounds good....but you cant reason with everybody nau. Person wey know and see situation of things but still peddling 4th pregnancy get special faculty up there.

OP, biko table the matter in another direction. Let her know that you guys will have to start sharing responsibilities in the house. From kids school fees to rent to food....etc. Tell her she would be responsible for the incoming baby and the second child while you would take the first child and the third. Please, stick with your decision and watch family pruning happen. After all, both of you no get job at the moment. Orisirisi!

the problem here is that its very difficult to reason with an already pregnant woman... and if she is dead set on having that child "by any means", then there is very little this man can do but accept it and cry himself to sleep. she already knows they are broke, jobless and still want to add a burden on top their already miserable state, KAI!

Newupdatee:
The issue is we find it difficult to feed, so I don't see the reason she will want to keep the baby in our present condition.

can i ask respectfully:" what were you thinking about when having sex unprotected while you cant even feed the kids you already have?? i understand that konji is a bastard, but didnt you think that a pregnancy at this failed time was a possibility AND equally a nightmare?"

tell her the following:" babe, you know i love you and i love our family.... so i wont say the following lightly. this is the wrong time to have a child and as much as we can always have children in the future, right now with no income and the desperate situation we are in, it would be selfish to have another child when we cant even take care of the ones we already have right now. having another child will destroy our family. lets use our heads and do what is right FOR OUR FAMILY; FOR OUR CHILDREN first. when we get back on our feet and have a better financial situation, we can have 2/3 more kids if you want, but right now we need to focus on getting better before doing things that could break our family. WE CANNOT HAVE ANOTHER CHILD RIGHT NOW, I DONT WANT TO HAVE ANOTHER CHILD RIGHT NOW."

if she still wants to go ahead and have that child, then there is very little you can do (but cry yourself to sleep every night)

stomach ulcer, food poisoning, pregnancy, bug, cancer etc could be anything...bring her to the hospital for tests (instead of wasting time on NL)

STOP POSTING RUBBISH ONLINE...she is only 55yrs old (born in 1967).

co-parenting is your only salvation.

believe the above yeye nonsense at your own FOOLISHNESS...

here is the same girl waiting for someone to pay her bride price and marry her.

Zigzagman:
then she shouldn't have been having unprotected sex

you are saying exactly what i have been saying since the beginning:

MrBrownJay1:
both of you are deluded IGNORAMUS!
as much as this woman was foolish enough to have had unprotected sex with you (if she wasnt prepared to get pregnant)... just because YOU wanted a baby, doesnt mean that she must have one against her will, regardless of how she feels about it. is it? its obvious her uni admission is more important TO HER than starting a family with you.

as for you saying that she will never find anyone better than you, its the DUMBEST thing you can possibly say. she doesnt care about you and/or what you desire, accept it and protect yourself in the future! she can easily find someone 1000 times better than you. claiming that you are the best man a woman can ever have is not only deluded, its the JOKE OF THE DAY!

all these yeye people who think it was gonna be easy to break a record, failing to understand that many breaking these records are wella high on some potent shiiit...

Gerrard59:
Honestly, this is correct. I have analysed buying a holiday home and read comments from various people who toyed with the idea. The summary is that it does not make financial sense. It only makes financial sense if the house is in a hub (tourist or business) and gets leased out. Another issue with a holiday home is it ties one to a particular location whereas tourism has to do with exploration of places.

exactly, and the headache that comes with such extra home, is not for everybody. i mean, i understand if someone lives in another city 15 days of every month, to buy a house there, but i dont really see the need to buy a house somehwhere you only go 2/3 times a yr for short vacation. the pitfalls of short term renting your holiday home are numerous.

as someone pointed out, different people have different aims in life, some would rather buy a jet and travel everywhere, others would buy homes around the world, while some would buy fleet of expensive cars etc

nah, not one bit

BTW la click la bend like crayfish.

Freshtruth:
this ship was building for 9years 4years from the 9years is safety majors how this ship will never sink the mental use in building this ship is thicker than u can ever imagine trust me u can enter. That ship without fear

bro, no matter the safety measure taken to ensure a ship will be safe on water, there is NO SUCH THING as an unsinkable ship. human error, banditry, war etc can easily sink ANY SHIP CREATED ON EARTH. just because they spent extensive amount to make sure it is safe on water, doesnt mean it cannot go down.

no responsible ship builder would make that claim, especially when we know that most of ship sinking around the world is down to human error!

CuriousStudent:
Anyone who listens to this advice is own his or her own. Penny pinching will keep you single for years. How can you express your feelings onfirst date?

Date and courtship is to know each other,it should last for weeks and then both party decide if they want to take it to the next level. Penny wise pound foolish

as much as you are entitled to your opinion, everywhere in the world you have to adapt to the women in that particular location. in a poor country (where most females and men are broke and hungry), you have to understand that many will go on dates, NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE INTERESTED IN YOU but because you are offering a free meal. so you cant be wasting time going on numerous dates to show your intentions to these timewasters aiming for fa free meal. be direct and expect the same from your date....you guys have already spoken extensively on phone, no need to beat around the bush (as you guys know exactly why you are there).

and as much as you dont need to be going "defcon 4" dating on the first date, but let it be the beginning of something rather than being FRIENDZONED like a mumu (spending 30k every time you meet potential babe, KAI!).

there are insane people all over the world... insanity has no race, no gender.

Freshtruth:
is bigger than titanic bro biggest in history nothing can sink it trust me

the above is a lie from the pit of hell, there are NO SHIP IN THIS WORLD that are unsinkable...
- a cargo bay door malfunction can sink this ship
- a failed manoeuvre from the captain can sink this ship
- an underwater mine (or torpedo from a submarine) can sink that ship
- a tsunami can sink that ship
- a mad person onboard (ready/willing to die) can sink that ship

BTW if this ship was really "unsinkable" then they wouldnt waste money on the VARIOUS LIFEBOATS AND INFLATABLE LIFE RAFTS onboards, would they?!

Makenz25:
In this case where she is no where to be found even the family are not disclosing her location

then go to court to dissolve the marriage (to this ghost)...

as a very smart man once said:" its cheaper to own ONE home, and rent home for holidays, than buy a holiday home that you only use a few times a yr!"

Lurdd:
Bro this was supposed to be date..
While at the eatery I told her my intentions which she said she will think about.

the above is exactly your problem...
A) a date is nothing but a way to get to know one another, not a confirmation that you guys are now BF/GF
B) you made a mistake by making your intentions known WHILE eating, instead of BEFORE taking her out. do you really expect a babe eating your food to tell you that she is not interested in dating you (if she wasnt)?
C) many are hungry and will say/do anything for that FREE meal, FREE fare, FREE swimming pool etc that you are offering. so even though some are not interested in you, they will tell you that they will "think about it" in order to keep you in limbo and you keep spending money on her (while she meets other men that she is interested in). the minute a woman tells you that she will think about it, then retreat and move on with your life as she is not serious.
D) next time that you have spent plenty of time with a babe and when asking her, she tells you that she will "think about it", simply reply:"what is there to think about? i like you and want to be with you. you either like me and we can take it from there OR you dont and i wont waste your time any longer (while you dont waste mine). i aint got time to be running after someone who doesnt show interest in me. so just be honest and let me know if we can be together or not, and basta. dont worry, i put on my "big boy panties" today so i can handle the rejection"

AGAIN: what did you want her to reply to the question:" who is that guy with you?"

as much as anyone can dream all they want, this baby hippo doesnt even have the looks to be the gf of a Toyota driving dude... with that face, she should be happy if a dude riding the bus ask her on a date.

what are you upset about?! aint you her "friend"?! do you believe that this yeye woman owes to be loyal to you (because you spent chicken change on her)? until she becomes your gf, she is single and allowed to mingle. dont be upset that this woman showed you EXACTLY the type of yeye woman she is, instead rejoice at finding out early who she truly is. a woman who values/respects you would not try to play game with you, right in your face. its obvious the minute she met the other dude, she saw no more interest in you, and was solely eyeing that other dude (at least he was man enough to come tell you)

your problem is that you thought that your money was gonna do your bidding, while you should have told her exactly what you wanted FROM THE GET GO.

BTW what did you want her to reply to the question:"who is that guy with you?"

it all depeds WHO you are talking to...
- an honest person would retrun the money
- a broke/hungry/lazy/desperate person would try to keep as much as possible, by simply transfering the money to many different source, have them take out the money in cash and then disappear in nature while living a lavish life.

let them HUNT HIM DOWN and deal with him accordingly...

BTW la click la Bendel state.

MUMU!!!!! how else do you want her to save you in her phone, since you are the MUGU #1?!