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sadly you are talking to very primitive people.... primitive people who dont see Nigeria as ONE, but instead as one tribe vs the other. these primitive people really do believe that a president of a certain tribe will first and foremost support his tribesman or states vs the other. these primitive people dont understand that a president is working for ALL NIGERIA/NIGERIANS.

but then again, when you have primitive people voting, no wonder they elected YEYE GOOD FOR NOTHING PRESDIENTS ATTACHED TO MAFIA LIKE POLITICAL PARTIES. since its independence, Nigeria had nothing but yeye good for nothing presidents, driven by yeye useless good for nothing political parties out to enrich themselves.

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Ilamina:
what of hijab

hijab is allowed in France, just like xtian nuns garment or their cross (like the below), it is only niqab/burqa or any full face covering garment that is banned...

ARRANT YEYE NONSENSE!!!!
jews have all the rights to wear their kippas in France so as xtians wearing crosses.... stop writing rubbish online!

Chinny024:
Abeg leave meoooo...Which one is abi...Abi wetin
ni..
Are we not entitled to our opinions?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..

yet YOU are the one who quoted ME when i gave my opinion. aint i entitled to my opinion?!?!?!?!? you should have used the above quote for your own self before quoting me.

Bencolins:
Please I have known this girl since last year, and this year we started getting very closed at first I didn't want to have anything to do with her more than just being her friend. But recently I started falling for her and I trivially told her about it but she laughed and told me she wasn't ready for any relationship at the moment she said i should give her time which i have done ohh but till now no reply. Note that both of us are past our mid 20s a bit.
How do I win her heart
Secondly does cooking for a girl sometimes when she is coming to visit, does it make a man look weak?
In otherwords is it right for a guy to cook for a lady is it a good way of showing how much the guy love her ?? Just kindly advise me on what to do.
Thank you

you should have asked this woman the following:"give you time for what exactly? you either like me or you dont, and if you dont then lets not waste each others time (and remain friends)."

btw you dont "love" this woman, you are just infatuated with her.....there are many women out there, dont get stuck after one.

Chinny024:
There's nothing honest there biko...
Raising kids from broken home have negative impact on their psychological well-being.

better a kid from a broken home with 2 happy seaparated parents, than kids who live with yeye parents who hate one another.
the fact that you believe that divorce means these children dont have happy parents, shows your narrow minded state of mind on this subject. i guess you would rather that people stay together forever, even if the r/ship is dead and over and both are miserable together, abi?!

PROPEACE:
You are even saying he is very young. If you who is ancient of days think this way the it shows your many years have not earned you wisdom.

AGAIN: i am not out for wisdom, i am simply out to make sure my kids (aka my life investment) are safe, and so far my technique never failed me.

Chinny024:
Which type of advise is this...Is divorce that easy.

its called an HONEST answer.

RepoMan007:
N10k today is like N1500 in 2015. She talk true na.

a beggar is a beggar, whether they are asking for 5k or 1m... sadly, some yeye women believe that because they are asking for their rent to be paid or for a car, they are no longer beggars lol!

the above yeye woman believes she is special, while in fact she is just a BEGGAR!

Ronaldo723:
My girlfriend of 8 months has broken up with me because she says I have no plans for her
I was surprised by the outburst cus she is still very young just 19 I don't know what she means by this statement because non of us are ready to marry now
I love this girl so much... I suspect that because her birthday is coming up next month and I haven't said anything about it so she feels I don't take her seriously
I have pleaded and talked to her but she is adamant about her decision that she is tired as I'm wasting her time
I haven't talked about her birthday yet cuz I'm having a hard time, things are pretty tight with me but she just can't understand
Please guys what should I do I'm truly in love with this girl that I'm having a hard time moving on

what about BEING HONEST with that babe and tell her exactly how you feel? if she needs the type of man TODAY that you aint, then forget love and let that babe go.

isnt it whats she is (a beggar)? i guess in her yeye confused olodo mind, she believes there are level of BEGGARS, lol!

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British docs didnt give him better meds to quench the pain?!

as i always say: to each their own misery in life....
IMHO, for the 1st few years that she is raising children, i can fully understand why a man would want his woman to stay home and raise their kids, BUT, by the time these same kids are going to kindergarden all day long, then school/university, that woman would be useless being home all day doing absolutely NOTHING. it is counterproductive to the family's wellbeing to have such woman becoming an expert in telemundo, rather that going out to bring well needed money to the family (unless your name is Elon Musk).

sadly, many insecure low self esteem men out there (who dont trust their wife) would rather their wife has NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER with other men, than having her contributing to the wellbeing of the family. thus why they want her to stay home all day regardless of what she does there (gateman would be a best friend). imagine the type of family you are creating; imagine the type of negative mindset you are creating....and be sure that the day you lose your ability to care for the family, that woman will be GOOOOONE (to seek the type of man that you once were)!

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
what about the torrential rain in Italy right now or the one in the US? you people should stop making anything religious, in order to fit your yeye agenda!

the Carnaval in Brazil have portrayed many time jesus vs the devil and nothing has ever happened...here is the same carnaval 4 yrs ago making the exact same scene and nothing ever happened, or same in 2021:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_-gyVKV62WU

yeye tale by moonlight to try to entice people to indulge in betting... any man would have more luck going to Vegas and becoming a BILLIONAIRE than the above nonsense!

Runnerzz:
This is some high level dope shid... Top shelf but most of these kids can't digest it tho 👍

sadly, many people on NL will be quick to call themselves redpillers (or call people "SIMPS" ) while they have absolutely no clues about the redpill movement and/or what a simp is.

imagine someone saying that if you dont cheat on your woman, you are a simp?! the level of ignorance on NL is second to none.

cocolacec:
Dozens of people were arrested as part of a major crackdown on sex buyers in Stockholm.
Police hit three different addresses in Stockholm a few weeks ago, including the Götgatan street on hipster island Södermalm, Swedish public radio news broadcaster Ekot reported on Tuesday morning.

A total of 41 men were held in the operation, according to Ekot.

The raids targeted temporary apartment brothels, which police say are becoming more common.

"What was previously associated with prostitution, such as street prostitution, has been sharply reduced. The prostitution scene has moved indoors, to AirBnB apartments, hotels and the like," Johan Christiansson, prostitution and human trafficking investigator at Sweden’s Gender Equality Agency, told Ekot.

Almost all the men were brought to court via a new fast-track system which means that a court hearing can be scheduled at the point of arrest, and a few are still being investigated by a prosecutor.
Last year around 50 men in Stockholm county were convicted of buying or attempting to buy sexual services.

Sweden became the first country in the world to criminalize buying sex, rather than selling sex, in 1999. Anyone found guilty of buying sex can be fined or sent to jail for up to a year.

https://www.thelocal.se/20200212/41-sex-buyers-arrested-in-stockholm-prostitution-sting

Nigeria needs to adopt this law to reduce hookup in the country.

you will be surprised to know that such incentive DID NOT curb prostitution in Sweden... because that law is foolish and one sided. making buying sex a crime BUT selling sex is not a crime, therefore what will happen is that buyers will go underground to buy sex and these women will follow suit. you have to criminalize both buyer AND seller for this to remotely have an impact!

the definition of a GOLD DIGGER..... their r/ship was over, and she had refused to leave his home, so he found ways to have her leave his home , and now she want to sue him for that?! lol!

saasala:
That's one of the things that makes 2face a legend, not just the music.
A man who doesn't cheat is either broke, has a low self esteem or doesnt have the opportunity to.
A man who doesn't cheat is a SIMP and a weakling.

ARRANT YEYE NONSENSE!!!!
sadly, a man that cheats on his woman is THE DEFINITION OF A SIMP!!!! a real ALPHA MALE would face his woman, look her dead in the eyes and tell her that he is a polygamous man and that he will go out to meet other women to bring as concubines and if that woman does not like it, she can get lost and go meet a man who aint polygamous in nature. THATS WHAT REAL ALPHA MALE DO, and certainly not hide like a scared goat to cheat on his woman while PRETENDING TO BE A FAITHFUL ONE WOMAN MAN!

any man that is afraid to tell a woman what time it is, is THE DEFINITION OF A SIMP

PROPEACE:
Well, OP shares the same school of thought with me and my mother and sister. When you get married, you can ask your mother and father in-law to pack into your house and start living there so as to ensure you don't give your wife black eye.

well me and the 58 people who understood my point (and liked my initial post) think otherwise. i guess TO EACH THEIR OWN OPINION!

Ingocof:
Like I said, pls stop this joke, and if you think it is proper to be going there daily to ascertain the man's capacity to keep her daughter safe I think the best thing for her is to pack her own load and be staying with them for proper monitoring instead of daily traveling.
We joke too much in this part if the world.

i know you are very young and immature believing that because you marry a woman, thats it, game over and now she is yours to do what you pls....but to me as a parent, i will have to make sure that you QUALIFY for my "responsible man" good book before i can allow you to just disappear scott-free with my daughter. if you (as a parent) believe that you will just disappear from your daughter's life the minute she says "i do" then so be it. i certainly wouldnt.
just look around you and see all the battered women, the abused women, the dead women at the hands of their partner, and realize that IF THEIR PARENTS HAD PUT MORE EFFORT ON MAKING SURE THEIR DAUGHTER WAS OK, IT WOULDNT HAVE HAPPENED!

as a parent, i am just making sure my life investment is safe, thats all! and if you (as her husband) cant UNDERSTAND that, then thats all on you to deal with it. i am not there to question your authority, i am not there to change your marriage, i am just there to check up on MY LIFE INVESTMENT!!!

the dude was cheating when she was born, was cheating when she discovers about who he was, was cheating to be with her (and she knew it), was cheating when during their time together and will be cheating when he is done with her.

CHEATING IS PART OF THIS MAN'S DNA...forget the above excuses he will give you, and dont confuse that with other men.

a man that has respect for his woman, respect for his r/ship, respect for himself, would CONTROL HIS IMPULSES TO GO FUKC SOMEONE ELSE!

Ingocof:
She wants to check if the guy is a good husband?
Assuming they are thousand of miles apart immediately after the wedding she will be going there daily too?
Pls stop the joke, and like I said earlier, you don't give out your daughter to a man you are not sire if your daughter's safety.

NB. I said it to the OP himself, even though he was understandably upset yet his words were too harsh, should the words were said to him or his momma will he find it amusing?

lets not assume anything and instead stick to FACTS....
A) mama lives very close by.... expecting her NOT to come over (especially if daughter is home alone all day) is ABSURD!!!!

B) just because you allow a man to marry your daughter DOES NOT automatically make him a good man/husband/father. is it?!? his actions in that marriage will do his bidding. you dont need to tell me anything, because if you are a good man i will see it. i dont need to hear yeye fairytales while my daughter comes back home with a black eye. AGAIN: it certainly aint written on men's forehead that they are wife abuser/killers or what not

PROPEACE:
My mother lives close to my sister's matrimonial home, she seldom ever goes there! And they are quite close. They chat on phone and my sister visits them, most times with her husband! It is a sign of shamelessness for a parent to be frequently found in their daughter's matrimonial home, only irresponsible mother's do that and if they are lucky enough to have bold men like OP as sons-in-law, they will certainly hear the truth! And in answer to your last question about my age, I am old enough to knock common sense into your impervious brain!

so because thats what your mother/sister does, this should be the universal norm, abi?! so you now want to bring shamelessness to this issuees, BWAAAAAAAAHH!HH! NEWSFLASH: there is no such thing as shame between parents and their children (that they may visit)

PROPEACE:
Both such a wife and her mother are crazy, they should fuçking make friends! It is only children that don't understand that sometimes you need to move on. When you daughters get married, bloody leave them alone and stop being a nuisance. I literally beg my mother and mother inlaw to come visit us. They seldom come though we keep in touch. When people are married, let them stay by themselves.

Skyview01:
Did she raise, clothe and shelter the man too.
That house belongs to both the husband and the wife.
I will never live in close proximity with mu in-laws to encourage regular visit.
Na tojubole most of em be.
The dude did nothing wrong by setting boundaries in his home.
The man must have been showing signs of discomfort about the mil's vists which the wife overlooked.
If the wife had observed the mood around the home and cautioned the MIL in the first place, situations wouldn't have escalated.
Imagine my mil wants to sit and talk with my wife for more than 6 hours non stop after the talk, we would go to bed and she would still come knock bedroom door around 11pm.
She will never have access to my home again.

so let me understand what you are saying:" a mother who lives next door to her daughter AND who visits her daughter who is alone during the day (or go to market with her) IS A NUISANCE TO YOU and/or is a nuisance to your marriage?!?!?!? how exactly? you are not even there? so mother being in contact with her daughter everyday, since they live close by, is wrong in your world i guess?!?!

are you claiming that you would rather your wife be home by herself than spending the day going to the market etc with her mother?!!?!? may i ask: how old are you again?

PROPEACE:
You don't visit your married daughter everyday, it is crazy. If you are that paranoid then don't ever marry her out to anyone. Keep her in the safety of you house where no husband will ever kill her!

vikstandon:
Is your mother a Nanny, unless I employed your mother as a Nanny... That's when I expect her to come everyday.
If that's not the case, she has no business frequenting my house.
The only reason why I would understand and even try as much as possible to bear with her, is if my wife is her only child and the husband is late.
I could understand her loneliness... But we must get her a helper or companion.

again, i dont see why you would have a problem if your wife spent all her daytime with her mother rather than being alone by herself at home or at the market (while you are not around anyway)?! where is the issue?!?! explain the above to me as if i was a 5yr old...
WHY DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM IF/WHEN YOUR WIFE SPENDS TIME WITH HER MOTHER (WHEN YOU ARE AT WORK)?!?!?!?!?! WHAT ARE YOU PEOPLE AFRAID OF?!?!?!?!?!

Workch:
there's nothing wrong if she doesn't do it everyday or every other day.
Like I said, for me, it may not be an issue as long as the mother inlaw is not trying to dominate me in my house by changing some of my policies. That's the boundary for me.
If it's about just coming everyday and gisting with your daughter and helping her do chores, I don't mind. But some people need more space, it's why mother inlaws also need to give their married children space.

FAILED ISSUE #1 you think this has anything to do with control, while it aint

you don't seem to be matured enough yourself to be in a marriage.
In a marriage, you got to discuss everything and reach understanding. The wisest People in marriage know how to deliver discussions, they rethink it carefully before saying it.
You seem to be so fixated in your own ideology and it will affect you if you take it to your marriage. Marriage is about live and let's live, even if sometimes it doesn't Favour you.
Your husband has a right to contain the way your mother visits if she visits too frequently. It all depends on the way the husbands delivers it.
Marriage is not for kids and overly reactive babies.

FAILED ISSUE #2...why dont you answer the question... instead of bringing childish issues to this discussion. the kid is the person who want to dictate what their spouse should do all day while you are at work.... the kid is the insecure person who is so scared that MIL comes and goes to market with his wife everyday. i guess he'd rather she watches telemundo all day long by herself abi?!

PROPEACE:
Well, she should wait til her daughter gives birth before she can come to spend months. Many shameless mothers-in-law around. Men like OP are there to speak truth to her.

many parents who also "waited" are now mourning their dead children, thanks to abusive husband etc.... you dont need no invitation to come check up on your married child, and if you aint secure that she is ok in her new marriage, go there as often as you need.

YEMOYEMI:
I am married with kids and doing very well. I don't get the desired attention from my wife despite taking care of all the responsibilities and not complaining. I've told her many times how she's not being romantic but she's not bothered. She doesn't make move for sxx and she may not be bothered even in two months while I as a man always have the urge. She will close her legs and deny me many times. I'm looking for a girl to fill in the gap while I take care of such a girl but she must be reasonable.

I prefer a working class girl who is earning decently and will appreciate an addition from me.

you can A) divorce the 1st wife who doesnt want to fulfill her marital duties (aka take care of her man) or B) get a 2nd wife

SeriouslySense:
At least there should be some kind of balance to everything, husband may want to spend some time with wife and she should let her mother know.
This should not even be an issue if everyone is matured.
And it nice to see family bond together, the last thing i would want to do, is diminish good family bonds. Even if it makes me feel a bit jealous.

sadly this dscussion is showing the nature of some people, that want to control everything, even what their wife should (or not) do when she is home alone during the day.... shiiit, in this day and age, i would rather my wife goes to the market in Nigeria with her mother than by her self.