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Bradford111:
They don’t have anything together they just hugs

Ayodele951:
She is saying she's smart enough to start.

Blueelf:
You're talking about communication and then you go ahead to say silent treatment is okay for a few days. You're obviously contradicting yourself.

Please don't let me insult you this morning. The OP annoying behavior has gotten me angry already. Don't let me go at you!!!

You're a glorified simp and if you don't man up, them go use you do butter

chigoizie7:
As usual. Always blame the victim. In all these, a man that has been mentally and emotionally abused is automatically the victim. Why ? Because he is a man without emotion.

BRATISLAVA:
Exactly that.

MrBrownJay1:
to each their own misery... funny how you are quick to dismiss the OP who bore a grudge and was indeed pigheaded/uninvested, but yet would be quick to blame the husband for what is happening. if this aint the definition of double standard, i dont know what is.

2elliot:
Don't be slow, please. Unless this story is fake, this writer didn't write anything that warrant anybody blaming the man. The only thing to add is that he should have gone down to her place to see the children. That's all.

pointblank247:
you are applying emotions.

2elliot:
You are not bright at all. Even when she boldly wrote that she called to talk about an unrelated issue and about her sisters admission and marriage, you still want the man to communicate and diffuse the matter. All these femininised men sef.

pointblank247:
you have not really realized that women repeat every wrong behaviour that they were compensated on. I refuse to reinforce any nagetive behaviour born out of ego.
Most women are like kids, allow them get away with THIS today and they repeat it tomorrow.
I don't mean that you should try to get it your way always but when she does that which you di not want to be repeated, DON'T TOLERATE IT AT ALL.

Bobbynobobby:
He still tried to reach out to her for days after she hung up on him, she ignored him. Is that your definition of tit for tat?

pointblank247:
hmmm i still think you are wrong . There are are things that are completely unacceptable to a real man . If a man should accept every rubbish that a woman throws at him , then, HE is less than a woman.
There are boundaries that you don't cross when dealing with a man.
The woman went too far

BRATISLAVA:
How is it misery? I'm living the way 98% of people commenting overwhelmingly against the OP do.

Where was the husband said to be pigheaded and uninvested? Hope you're not mixing my tale with theirs.

so pigheaded and uninvested in a relationship to bear a grudge forever?

Jazzman01:
You are a bloody simp. i wonder how you managed to gather 398 960 likes. There's nothing childish about what the man did. That woman is very very stupid. He should cut her off for life.

pointblank247:
nice but your advice number C is very very wrong. The husband does not deserve to be so described by you.

BRATISLAVA:
I've been starting quarrels with girlfriends, boyfriends and husbands for close to 20 years in my world, and they always forgive me. I still don't understand why.
Could it be ugly privilege? Do they not want to hurt me because they feel I'll turn around and say they're doing it because I'm ugly?
Or maybe I've not been with anyone so pigheaded and uninvested in a relationship to bear a grudge forever? Or have there only been simps in my life?

I don't know.

You could give your insight.

NNTR:
_{Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories.}

BRATISLAVA:
Perhaps the person sustaining their madness—her innocent husband with supernatural powers he tied to her knees and pleas—should be the one to end it.

As I said, if fantasy, the tale is justified. If reality, the advice will be dooming them.

BRATISLAVA:
Okay.

She will kneel and beg this god she married and everything will be okay. The more she grovels, the more she will have the power to change his mind? Maybe it will make the man want to do what exactly?
Orr maybe she will just develop calluses?

I don't know why your response remains as funny as the first one I quoted.

Sweetplum:
I don't hate men. I hate the inconsiderate actions of some men.

Was it not you I met in one thread that one idiot boy said he ll v sex with two sisters cos he has chance of being in relationship with both. When a man is not a he-goat. Who does that?
And majority of male handles on this site were hailing the boy. Aiding crime.

drfasam:
I really appreciate you �