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pedrilo:
You're trying to justify your stupidity young man.
Where is the criminal act in this matter?
Dont draw inferences without clear cut correlations.
You're not intelligent

again... you said that there was no excuse for taking the law into your own hand, and i just showed you that it happens everyday AND is pretty much a way of life in Nigeria. everyday countless are dying of jungle justice thus you cant suddenly believe that religious fanatics should act any differently! these people are ready to explode themselves for their beliefs and you now think that they will allow you to insult their god?

it happens all over the world...European newspaper published an insulting caricature of their prophet and religious fanatics went to kill countless employees in that newspaper office....same with the European teacher who showed some degrading pics of their prophet and got killed.

AGAIN, you cant stop an ideology....there is absolutely NOTHING you can tell these people that would make them see reason.

what does the person in Indonesia need exactly...?! post the issue on NL.

pedrilo:
You are a fool!
There is no excuse for anyone to take the law into their own hands

again, you can be a hypocrite all you want, but i aint one....

A) jungle justice is very much alive and well in Nigeria, and as much as you may be against it, many will continue dying at the hand of the public, after being caught doing criminal acts etc. THIS IS NIGERIA!!!

B) if you have a deadly snake as a pet, you should know that you could get bitten thus you should be careful how to handle it....thats exactly the same thing with RELIGIOUS FANATICS/EXTREMISTS. their god is everything to them, and if you insult their god, you probably will get in trouble for it.

BTW i dont excuse what they did, i simply understand the kind of "deadly snake" that is religious fanaticism/extremists!

Prettylitlady:
Thank you. I appreciate your contributions. So how do I know the "right" one

it will come naturally... his actions, your feelings towards him, the bond you have, the life you share and experience you guys have together etc....you cant order these things, and some people out there can be perfect and still not be the right one (for you).

the best thing to do is to live your life fully and enjoy whatever blessings you got....and dont focus on finding that person. if they come, great and if they dont GREAT AGAIN. its when you least expect it that it happens. most people who are desperately searching for "the one" ...eventually settle for the "other" because they are tired of waiting.

zexy2030:
Did I ask of her age? As matured as you are, u r still dumb. I pity ur kids..they've got nothing to learn from you. Foolishness has been your template.

you ask for the date of her birth, so YES you are asking for personal information that is irrelevant to you (or this thread)... we can only assume that you want to confirm that she is/aint who "you" think she is... to the point where you got butthurt when she refused to give you her birthdate, lol!

Prettylitlady:
I swear.. He is asking as if he knows me personally

he thinks he knows you (or he believes that you are someone he knows) thats why he asked for your personal informations...in order to confirm whether you are "that person" or not. see now how he is throwing insults left right center, like a childish teenager who got grounded!

NO MATTER HOW MANY LAWS YOU BRING, YOU CANNOT FIGHT AN IDEOLOGY....these people are serious about their gods, they are willing to kill/die for their ideology/beliefs. i suggest nobody tries to go against anyone's god and instead, respect each and everyone belief.

as much as she shouldnt have died for what she did, you have to understand the mindset of the people in front of her....

zexy2030:
See how insecure you sound. How does that relate.

you are the one who is asking the OP irrelevant questions...as if her birthdate is of any relevance to this issue. she already said she was in her mid 20s, that should be more than enough info for you.

dont be scared, she aint your gf....or is she?!?!

Prettylitlady:
Why?

he probably thought you were HIS gf (undercover) and he just want to make sure that you aint, lol!

your current bf aint the "right" one, he is just the current toto warmer....but then again, what you have for the ex is genuine love/care, and as much as he is no good, you gave a few years of your life to him, thus it will take a while to get him off your skin.

TIME is all you need to forget your ex. so take your time and eventually you will find someone right for you.... but whatever you do, NEVER EVER go back to your ex.

how many sibling you got? if you are an only child, build your mom's house 1st (it will be yours anyway at the end)....if not, build your 1st and let your mom stay with you in the mean time....OR start building on both equally (longer process)

i guess, sense quickly entered her brain... you are playing with a venomous snake, watch out!

ask the reason why (for future references) and jejely walk away...

she broke your spirit and made you to become who she wants you to be....to the point that you even believe you wouldnt be good enough to anyone but her. as much as you hate the thought, you have to get away from this negative woman as you will never ever be valued by her again...so why stay?! you guys are roommates at best.

the future you dont know, is way better than what you are experiencing now...which is basically "nothing"!

na SHAKARA now.... just tell the yeye woman:" i wanted you, you said NO, i still chop the honeypot, you continued saying NO....now i jejely comot fromyour wahala and lived my life, you are trying to give me some BS....are you ok sista?!"

some sad person would believe this nonsense.... lol! just like that BS mermaid video a few weeks ago.

BTW for all you gullible people who dont understand how PHOTOSHOP work, here is his face:

some of the yeye people on that other thread about single mothers wouldnt like to hear this news....so this man is fighting over this single mother?!?!?!

1) make sure she isnt the lover/mistress of some h0rny goat in robe...

lust is the physical desire for someone while love is the emotional/physical desire for someone thats grown after spending X amount of time with someone....

here is a clue: you can lust for a stranger but you cant love a stranger (which shouldnt be mistaken for INFATUATION).

her reply was uncalled for but the fact that she was laughing....is a bit strange. you sould have put her in her place right there and then.

the US is a huge country....some cities are great to invest, others arent....also neighborhoods are important.

selfish narrow minded parents, only thinking of themselves!!!

not enough.... she should get life, just as she took the life of these "innocent" women.

a stripper hoe will remain a hoe, til death and beyond! now money don finish and she failed trying to sue the Kardashians, so she is looking for sympathy with bible pushers?!

no wonder all these oloshoes are winning, when Nigeria is filled with low life men sissies scared shitless of women....common women!!!
see all you wannabe alpha males who cant even control women.... i am ashamed to share the same gender with y'all mumus!
i have never been afraid of women AND WILL NEVER BE, whether she is a single mother or the neighborhood slut, i will handle her accordingly to what she portrays herself to be.
i will never discriminate on women like you monkeys because i can HANDLE all women so therefore i dont have to be afraid of them (and run to the hills like you sissies when i see them). all you men scared shitless of women, and thereafter wanna call yourself alpha males and/or redpillers, are a DISGRACE TO THE REDPILL MOVEMENT and a bunch of hypocrite!!! so all you mumus are strong alpha males but then again cant control a single mother? cant use a single mother for what you desire?! cant put your "alpha male" foot down and tell that woman what time it is?!?!?!?

alpha male/redpill is NOT about hating/ignoring or being scared of women, its about being strong enough as a man to be able to handle ALL WOMEN (emotionally/physically/sexually). you guys must be the yeye chinko/9ja version of Alpha male/redpill!
***SPIT ON FLOOR***

Basiljoe:
Lmao. You're a High self esteemed beta male.

Alpha, beta or even omega male if you wish, wont change my opinion on single mothers... the fact that MY opinion on the subject has so many of you upset, makes me FURTHER BELIEVE that you are all a bunch of sissy who need every men to be on your side to feel some type of way. is it illegal today to see nothing wrong with single mothers?!?!? is that such a crime?!?!? so a man cant have an opinion thats different than yours, because your ego is in the way of your common sense?!?!?

i have spent too much time debatting with immature low self esteem insecure children here... let me take a bow. you guys have a great night.

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Fearlez:
let me slay the dragon of stupidity in your tiny brain; there's no discussion here! we're not having a debate here. This isn't banter.
You're manifesting your mental frailty and psychological porosity and you're people l-pleasing life that has no form of standards or rules.
The worst thing about it all is that you actually believe you're making sense.
There's a reason fathers and mothers hold their daughters firmly to not get pregnant outside wedlock.
But a brain damaged, loafer like you thlnks he has something to say. Confused, godless oaf!
Even most girls here recognise you for who you are; a baseless, standard-less, inferior male completely lacking in self-esteem and self-value.
Human vulture!

as i have said countless of times, when people have nothing intelligent to say, they start the petty irrelevant useless insults... as if anyone on NL gives a fukc what other NLers think of them as a person. i guess you must be here for popularity contest, i aint!

Basiljoe:
You are a Blue-pilled beta male who doesn't know jackshit or understands a woman’s dualistic mating strategy (if you did you wouldn't be saying this crap).

A potential father needs to understand the circumstance in which women’s never ending quest to satisfy their Hypergamous doubt places them in at various phases of their maturity. For Red Pill men, a lot gets made of ‘vetting’ women for personal attributes and character to make them contenders for being the mother of their children. While this is important, I can’t stress enough how important it is to account for the Hypergamous choices women make prior to his consideration – as well as the consequences she should be held accountable for, yet attempts to avoid by his obligated graces.
If knowing is half the battle, taking action is the other half. — Rational Male.

Vetting a woman’s sexual past is not just your prerogative, but an absolute imperative to the health of any future relationship you hope to have with her. When you consider the significant risks you are essentially setting yourself up for, risks no woman can ever acknowledge, empathize with or appreciate, the single most important thing you can do is vet her according to that woman’s sexual past. – Rational Male.

Sex is the glue that holds relationships together. It’s the height of irony that a woman would place so high a priority on her own sexual experiences while in her sexual market value’s peak yet completely disqualify that importance when she gets to the phase where it becomes a liability to her. As a man it is vitally important for you to know whether you’ll be her apex Alpha lover, somone in between, or if your burden of performance will be measured against the ghosts of Alpha men from her sexual past – and all while you endure the stresses and joys of raising children with her.

Alpha Widows

As an aside here, I should add that I’m completely aware of the studies indicating a woman’s capacity to bond monogamously is inversely proportionate to the number of sexual partners she’s experienced prior to monogamy. I wont argue the merit of that concept, but I also don’t think this fully encompasses the dynamic. I say this because even one prior lover (or even unrequited obsession of hers) can be Alpha enough to upset that bonded monogamous balance.
These then are the Alpha Widows – women so significantly impacted by a former Alpha (or perceptually so) lover that she’s left with an emotional imprint that even the most dutiful, loving Beta-provider can never compete with. A woman doesn’t have to have been an archetypal ‘slut’ in order to have difficulty in pair bonded monogamy. — Rational Male.

with all due respect, the above is not only a pile of arrant gibberish nonsense....but it further makes me believe that you are all a bunch of low self esteem insecure men who jump on the IFs and MAYBEs that could happen with a single mother (which also could happen with other women) but will use her sexual past as a guilty stamp, as if single women have automatically a better sexual past (when we know that abortion is rampant in 9ja as well as dog fukcing and shiiit eating)

Fearlez:
what a waste of vagina fluid.
You're organically, irrevocably damaged.
Saddest part is that women will eventually spit on you.
What a dullard.
Your mother raised you so singularly and so well

i really do feel sorry for some NLers and/or Nigeria when a man has an opinion, and the above is the 1st thing that someone think of posting. so in a way, you expect me to be like you, you expect me to think like you, and if you are miserable in your life, then i should be too, abi?!

we are having a discussion here, we are maturely debatting about a subject....and if the above is the best you can bring to that mature discussion , then no wonder Nigeria as a country is doomed!

UncleKoboko:
You're either a bitter single mother hiding under a male moniker or you currently have sister(s) that are bitter single mother (s)

you see....NONE of you are bringing anything valid to this discussion, and instead are just focussing on rubbish about me because a man (with no sistas) brought a valid point to this discussion...now put your misplaced ego aside and answer the damn question:
APART FROM THE YEYE INSECURE BS THAT MOST OF YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT, WHAT IS SO WRONG ABOUT A SINGLE MOTHER?!

now focus on that instead of quoting me about nonsense!

Basiljoe:
You're full of crap.
No single decision will impact your life more than the one you choose to be the mother of your children.
Nothing like ego being bruised or crap. It's vitally important to vet who becomes the mother of your children.

are you saying that a woman who has a child will automatically get a red card while one that hasnt (but could be fukcing dogs and eating shiiit will get a green card)?! what criteria would you use to automatically void a single mother?! is it because she had a life before she met you?!?!?
none of you are bringing anything VALID to this discussion as why a single mother is a bad person...

denobaba:
Thanks for the exposition, I almost thought you had a leg to stand on. You seem like the product of failed parenting. Better for you to stay out of marriage as it seems you have no set of values by which you live by.

It's not a surprise that your solace is with women less sought after and possibly with diminished sexual market value. Your role is akin to that of a vulture in the human ecosystem, recycling and eating dead matters. Enjoy it!

again, the above you wrote is EXACTLY what people write when they have nothing intelligent to bring to a discussion...unfortunately this is NL, none of you are bring ing a valid point to this discussion but BS misplaced ego and arrant nonsense about baby daddy this and your women possibly cheating on you in the future with him bla bla bla,,,you are all a bunch of crybabies with misplaced egos!

Fearlez:
shut up!
1 all the single mothers I know have serious personal issues... great for you, and every single mother i know dont
2. A single mother is an overused, broken, damaged commodity. you are entitled to your own opinion on single mothers...but its obvious you cant have unbiased opinion on this issue when believing the above
3. She made a bad decision and is incapable of sound judgement everybody has made a bad decision in their lives, stop pretending to play holier thn thou
4. Why the heck did a man abandon her and the baby? have you ever thought that maybe SHE abandoned the man for abusing her and/or their kid etc?!
5. Yes she won't stop fucckking the baby daddy what else do you see in your crystal ball??!?
6. The baby daddy will always have unfettered access to her. and how is that so bad again....?
7 her innocence and illusions that make life sweet is lost to another man. bwaaaaaah you are a comedian....she may not be a virgin but that doesnt mean that she is automatically spoiled goods!
8 She will prioritize that child over any other she will have with you. arrant insecure nonsense you must have seen again in your crystal ball
9. Her first priority is of the bastard child says who?! her priority is towards her family which YOU and that child would be part of.....stop showing your low self esteem insecurities
10 her marrying you is primarily looking for a daddy figure and security for that child.but the child ALREADY has a daddy and doesnt need you... but then again, its nice to have someone to share life with...everybody needs love
I don't know how old you are but you're easily one of the must stupid persons I have met off and on line dont insult me, you will NEVER meet me offline, we come from two different worlds