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a life for a life....

ABORT!!!! ABORT!!! ABORT!!!!!
...then educate your children properly so they dont go and do foolish act like the above.

Isabelle16:
This morning, my boyfriend, my first and only boyfriend texted me the message bellow:
"Anyday anytime, feel free to dump me without hesitation if you no longer love me.Don't forget to inform me quickly when you take such decision".

I'm still figuring out what that means.I begin to doubt his love for me.I'm restless.Did he actually love me?

its obvious he believes you dont love him...

i guess in Nigeria, you need to prove that you aint a criminal before being treated for gunshot wound....

if you work online then wherever you are in the world is irrelevant....but just so you know, living in the UK with $1K is not doable for a family of 4. you will need to make at least double as that for your family to remotely be able to survive in a city like London.
600K in Nigeria for a family of 4, you can consider yourself rich, in the UK, you can consider yourself poor!
pls let us know how you intend to study and work 35hs a week too?

by the way, are you Charles009 with the below thread (you story is exactly the same):
https://www.nairaland.com/7141606/should-leave-job-japa-uk

so if you give them 2m and promise them more money, you must win by fire or by force?! what about if the other applicant in the race gave much more than you?!?!?

a fool with his money got played today, lol!

dodged that bullet indeed...

let us see the jobless fool they are ready to kill themselves over...

some people say it does wonder for the skin etc

faceland:
His salary is $1k

which is a whole lot in Nigeria.... lets not pretend that 600K monthy in Nigeria is nothing.

sadly, many people woud look at the SALARY, not understanding that, earning Naira 3m monthly in the UK is much worse than earning 600k in Nigeria, simply because life in the UK is MUCH MORE expensive than life in Nigeria...

get rid of the SNAKE sharp sharp...and EQUALLY get rid of that supposed friend of yours in your house....let the both of them go to hel!

you dont need anything in your bank account to get married. so long as you can take care of your immediate needs (aka rent/food/clothing etc), you can get married and live from paycheck to paycheck.

now remember, just because you got married, doesnt mean you should AUTOMATICALLY have children. having children is the next upgrade to marriage, that should only be done if you are (emotionally/physically and financially) ready!

there must be something seriously wrong with your mindset when you are focussing on helping xtians, while you should be helping ANY FALLEN HUMAN, regardless of their religious status, gender, lifestyle etc

in this hard life...

keeps you fit... unless you are a 1 min man!

another H0RNY GOAT IN ROBE spotted.....wandaful!

donogaga:
600k Monthly Take home in naija is actually nothing. I have been there, done that. That's not much.
I relocated to the UK February this year, I make over 700k weekly here. In some cases, over 800k. I can send you my payslips if you doubt me

its unwise to try to compare what someone makes in Nigeria with what you make in the UK.... here is a simple clue: what you make in Nigeria with 600K, you will need to make no less than £5K weekly in the UK to have the same lifestyle. here is another clue of what i am saying: with the £1k weekly that you make in the UK, you cant remotely think of living comfortably in the best Neighborhood of London.

i am sorry to say that, in London, earning £1K weekly is considered middle class at best....in Nigeria where the minimum salary is 30K, earning 600k monthly (aka 20times the minimum salary), you are rich!

mrsample:
So, guys, I need your input on this.

I have saved up enough money to either move to a nice apartment plus furnishing or buy an average clean car. Buying a car is not really a priority for me at this point. However, my friend who I must confess has given me some investment advice that really worked out in the past thinks I should get a car first. Says in a year the rent money would be expired and gone but in a year's time, I would still have my car.

My current apartment is a nice little mini flat in an environment that I don't really like. It is surrounded by struggling peeps and you know how it is with such environments? dirty and mostly uninspiring. As a matter of fact, I feel ashamed to invite friends or colleagues home.

What is your take on this, should I go for an apartment or buy a car?

If possible, move to the front page, I need a wider opinion on this.

pls answer the following question:
- why do you NEED to buy a car?
- why do you need to move to a better apt?

just because someone gave you great advices in the past, desnt mean everything they say should be followed...

heart shape fufu, lol... love that!

holuwarlay08:
This is harsh mehn

being honest to your wife should NEVER be harsh.... whats harsh is actually to marry someone while she is completely clueless about it.

virginchaser:
And you think it is that easy to say with the level of liberated women we have this day.

Pickieox:
It's easier said than done...

what would you really be afraid of?!?!? that she leaves you and/or that she gets upset?!?! i dont understand what will be so difficult in letting your significant other know what time it is. i dont understand how a man can think of having a great r/ship with his wife, while lying to her day and night? this is who you are, why would you be afraid to let her discover who you truly are?

sign that it is time to upgrade to at least a PS4... or better yet a PS5.

thats a Jeep Wrangler bro, that car goes for $40K... and actually you can get the lease for only 500usd a month
$200k ko, $200million ni!

hhmm you should let her know WAY BEFORE you marry the other one, so that you let her get used to the idea.... regardless of whether she is childless or not, it says a lot about a man and the respect he has for his wife/marriage, if you dont even have the decency to tell your wife about it beforehand.

its not like it would be difficult anyway:"baby, you aint getting pregnant for so many years so, due to family/peer/religious pressure, i have to marry another wife"

$50K ko, 1 million dollar ni!

the internationa court of social media cant help you....take the matter to the proper authorities.

luminouz:

I love your pain on this post. I pinched you to trigger to see how matured you are. The energy is delicious. It will warm my fowl eggs for a week.

Bye nigga

mature?! abeg, go masturbate on someone else's post.

whatever you do, if you go, dont put your family through unnecessary stress... so make sure you have a valid plan in place. it would be unwise for most to leave a ₦600K paying job to go hustle abroad, but then again, we aint in your shoes.

as much as this tonto babe is toxic, she is 1000000000 times better than that confused brotha Idris dude, all day everyday!

ABORT ABORT ABORT!!!!
abortion is much better than to be a single mother in Nigeria... let the wise hear words! Nigerians hate single mothers like a passion, so i suggest you dont try to solve a mistake by doing another mistake!

BTW selling the baby off should never be an option.

as if it is so difficult for a gov official to change dollars to Naira.... and keep spending the same exact amount?!?!?!?!?