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EmpressT:
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Dear Sweetie,
I cannot promise you that the journey you’re about to embark on is going to be easy, but I can promise it’ll be worth it. I don’t know when I’ll meet you, thought I can tell you I’m looking forward to it. Don’t be alarmed if I seem guarded and uninterested, I’m just tired of dealing with guys who can’t handle the love that I have to offer.

I’ve been introduced to all the wrong guys, the ones who let you fall with no intention of catching you, or worse the ones who prove that it’s hard to find someone that’s willing to be loyal to just you. From a young age I’ve known guys that have abused, used and played with my emotions.

I need to tell you a few things before you jump in head on. If you invest your time in me, I’m going to invest mine in you. I’m going to love you with everything I know, and I’m not going to fake it either. My walls are built high, with a moat around it. It’s unfair to you that I automatically judge you to be just like the people of my past, but it’s to protect my heart that so easily clutches onto the idea of love. I'm a kind of woman who loves with every fiber in me and I do it the right way. A lot of guys don’t know how to handle or accept the kind of love I have to offer.

My heart has been broken in the past but it doesn’t mean the right person can’t help mend it. I’m braver because of the heartache, because not only am I willing to take chances on people, I’m willing to give someone else the chance to get the love I think they deserve.

Finding someone who can love me the way I can love them is something I’m looking for and I’m willing to work for the relationship that not only I deserve but that you deserve as well. It’s a partnership, I’m looking to grow and enjoy life’s adventures with. It’s a chance that is terrifying, because I could end up heartbroken again but I’m willing to try and fight for love.

I’ll let you in on my past, because for us to have a future we’ll need to start at the beginning. I’ll reopen the wounds and the pain because I trust you. I'll take you on the good days and the bad. When you’re ready to tell me about your demons, I’ll face them head on with you. I’ll never be quick to judge because I know how it feels and if your past troubles you, I’ll work to help make it a little less troubling.

Our generation has lost sight on love and romance, but I can tell you I’m not that girl. I’m a hopeless romantic that’ll remind you daily that you’re important to me, even in the smallest gestures. As I’m asking you to not take my heart for granted, I promise to never do the same to yours. This isn’t a game of who can break whose heart first and if you open yourself up to me I promise to cherish everything you share, and the memories that we make.

I’m asking you to be patient with me. It’s not going to be an easy task for me opening up to you right away. If you put in the work and the effort, I promise my heart will show you the loyalty you deserve. Once I love you, I’ll love you in ways you never thought imaginable.
All the reasons your past relationships didn’t work out won’t matter to you anymore; I’ll show you what was wrong with those girls and raise your standards to what a real relationship should be like.

I’ll love you with my whole heart, because that’s all I know how to do. I will love you my darling with everything a real woman can do to treat her man right with tenderness. With the help of God, I will treat you sweetly and passionately.

EmpressT:
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Dear Sweetie,
I cannot promise you that the journey you’re about to embark on is going to be easy, but I can promise it’ll be worth it. I don’t know when I’ll meet you, thought I can tell you I’m looking forward to it. Don’t be alarmed if I seem guarded and uninterested, I’m just tired of dealing with guys who can’t handle the love that I have to offer.

I’ve been introduced to all the wrong guys, the ones who let you fall with no intention of catching you, or worse the ones who prove that it’s hard to find someone that’s willing to be loyal to just you. From a young age I’ve known guys that have abused, used and played with my emotions.

I need to tell you a few things before you jump in head on. If you invest your time in me, I’m going to invest mine in you. I’m going to love you with everything I know, and I’m not going to fake it either. My walls are built high, with a moat around it. It’s unfair to you that I automatically judge you to be just like the people of my past, but it’s to protect my heart that so easily clutches onto the idea of love. I'm a kind of woman who loves with every fiber in me and I do it the right way. A lot of guys don’t know how to handle or accept the kind of love I have to offer.

My heart has been broken in the past but it doesn’t mean the right person can’t help mend it. I’m braver because of the heartache, because not only am I willing to take chances on people, I’m willing to give someone else the chance to get the love I think they deserve.

Finding someone who can love me the way I can love them is something I’m looking for and I’m willing to work for the relationship that not only I deserve but that you deserve as well. It’s a partnership, I’m looking to grow and enjoy life’s adventures with. It’s a chance that is terrifying, because I could end up heartbroken again but I’m willing to try and fight for love.

I’ll let you in on my past, because for us to have a future we’ll need to start at the beginning. I’ll reopen the wounds and the pain because I trust you. I'll take you on the good days and the bad. When you’re ready to tell me about your demons, I’ll face them head on with you. I’ll never be quick to judge because I know how it feels and if your past troubles you, I’ll work to help make it a little less troubling.

Our generation has lost sight on love and romance, but I can tell you I’m not that girl. I’m a hopeless romantic that’ll remind you daily that you’re important to me, even in the smallest gestures. As I’m asking you to not take my heart for granted, I promise to never do the same to yours. This isn’t a game of who can break whose heart first and if you open yourself up to me I promise to cherish everything you share, and the memories that we make.

I’m asking you to be patient with me. It’s not going to be an easy task for me opening up to you right away. If you put in the work and the effort, I promise my heart will show you the loyalty you deserve. Once I love you, I’ll love you in ways you never thought imaginable.
All the reasons your past relationships didn’t work out won’t matter to you anymore; I’ll show you what was wrong with those girls and raise your standards to what a real relationship should be like.

I’ll love you with my whole heart, because that’s all I know how to do. I will love you my darling with everything a real woman can do to treat her man right with tenderness. With the help of God, I will treat you sweetly and passionately.

Hisduchess:
Am "beyansi". You no go see pant rope mrcork

kecee99:
She knows you aren't man enough

kecee99:
What's up with you and sex sef, na food

..been tryin to chop that Hisduchess babe for almost a year but she keep play in had to get like she all that....she actually from the village..but for some reason.. she think she is beyansi

iammee:
Cindy no dey dull hrslf @all, saturdays party always lite wit her

kecee99:
What's up with you and sex sef, na food

kecee99:
If you truly claim to like women, You should not see them as sex objects whom you can easily maneuver for your own satisfaction and pleasure. That aren't like but an avid lust.

Gina2019:
I don't ask for money in a relationship. Am not leeches. I work. So your reverse question doesn't make sense.

Gina2019:
I don't ask for money in a relationship. Am not leeches. I work. So your reverse question doesn't make sense.

primeache:
Similar things what happened in one.of my past relationships.
The lady in question asked me a stunning question. Like do you visit brothels?

kecee99:
Women are human beings like you not an object

vivaciousvivi:
Fantastic question.
He is such a pretentious, fake person.
I can't stand him!

Hisduchess:
If I start my own trolling now you go start to dey bark. Goat

how?.. u dont like 3some?..but y u always acting like village girl? Dont u understand that 3some means u r current & trendy in 2020?
..ain't u suppose to be grateful am inviting u?(( Seriously, I givvvvvup!!))

kollinzgee:
Am not here to bash women as it is always done here but I want to address an issue which is becoming a problem amongst our women.
In the past I used to believe when you are chatting with a girl and she replies you with monosyllables like k,lol,hmm, and the rest it means she isn't into you just let her be but now i am even more confused than ever because even all my girlfriends who i am sure loves me even do the same and the I was forced to ask them why but I never got a straight logical answer..i keep hearing things like I am the boring one I adhered to this advice I improved my chatting skills yet I still got the same result I laughed..when a girl replies with the k or lol I just burst into laughter.

If you are a Nigerian lady reading this writeup and your communicating this way then you are literally shooting yourself in the leg..if you are in a relationship and you do this your are sitting on a time bomb even if your boyfriend is not complaining just wait and see.if you think it's a mind Game you are playing it will not benefit you because there are many women available this days .
I have broken up with many girls in the past I never told them it was because of this because to me when the communication is poor I loose interest gradually.
A man is first attracted to a woman's looks but this attraction will fade away with time.It is now her personality traits that will keep the relationship going.if good communication skills are not including in those traits the men will subconsciously assume you have nothing to offer and move on.
change or prepare for the worst.

kollinzgee:
Am not here to bash women as it is always done here but I want to address an issue which is becoming a problem amongst our women.
In the past I used to believe when you are chatting with a girl and she replies you with monosyllables like k,lol,hmm, and the rest it means she isn't into you just let her be but now i am even more confused than ever because even all my girlfriends who i am sure loves me even do the same and the I was forced to ask them why but I never got a straight logical answer..i keep hearing things like I am the boring one I adhered to this advice I improved my chatting skills yet I still got the same result I laughed..when a girl replies with the k or lol I just burst into laughter.

If you are a Nigerian lady reading this writeup and your communicating this way then you are literally shooting yourself in the leg..if you are in a relationship and you do this your are sitting on a time bomb even if your boyfriend is not complaining just wait and see.if you think it's a mind Game you are playing it will not benefit you because there are many women available this days .
I have broken up with many girls in the past I never told them it was because of this because to me when the communication is poor I loose interest gradually.
A man is first attracted to a woman's looks but this attraction will fade away with time.It is now her personality traits that will keep the relationship going.if good communication skills are not including in those traits the men will subconsciously assume you have nothing to offer and move on.
change or prepare for the worst.

gbami:
For a very long time...I having been wishing to watch two lesbians have Sex... Sometimes I wish I could date a lesbian for just 6months... without sex...but just to watch her have sex with another female...Shiiiit...That will be wonderful...
I hope am not the only one such a wish!

Bintexidris:
still unable to apply. no button to proceed after creating ur account

Gina2019:
Are you normal at all? Is something wrong with your brain?? Go for medical check up.

Gina2019:
Are you normal at all? Is something wrong with your brain?? Go for medical check up.

Timijo:
Hello guys, I want to share my experience with you about a girl who was desperate to scam me. She claimed to reside in California, USA.

I met this lady online about two weeks ago and we had a lengthy discussion on the first day. She claimed that her ex-boyfriend broke her heart when he cheated on her and she needs someone to love her again. I logically sympathised with her because I knew she lied. The chat progressed and we talked about so many things like our families, hobbies, jobs, what you want in a relationship/marriage, future plans and many more. After this, she asked me to promise that I will not break her heart. So I played along and she promised to love me forever but I refused to be carried away.
When she thought that she had won my love and trust, she hit the target. This is what she said, "Baby, new phone on my mind." She asked me to buy her a new phone with the claim that her present phone is faulty. I told her that I don't have money for that now but she kept asking me when I am going to buy it. This girl is so smart. In fact, I called her a professional scammer. I ended the chat with her on the same day and deleted her.

But today she sent messages to me and as usual, I played along.
See the screenshots of our chats below.

anuma1:
thanks bro

...juss remember, only 2% of women based in Nigeria are loyal..worse of all nigerian women like nairaland,s own Gina2019 (weirdest thing ever - u muss avoid her type)

Bro..you must never let a female no u like her too much or else she will treat u like $hit. Why do u think women r more attracted to baf boys?.. got a few from nairaland like Gina2019 after my moiney
..remember..go hard.The right one will come.. majority of them are bull $hit(GOOD luck)

anuma1:
Please I need your Candid Advice my fellow Nairalander's. I joined Nairaland on July 03 2014. So nairaland is like my second home. mean while ignore my typo. Error.
I met this girl three years ago, she is not that pretty but because of her so called caring and calls I was in love with her, since then any time she comes around ( I stay in awka she stay in owerri). she will be going through my phone as if she is a saint. she don't want see me interact with my female friends even the ones I knew before her. she goes through my whatsapp my Sms etc. The day I tried going through her phone we dragged the phone for about 20 minutes and she started explaining. To cut the story short. Her phone was faulty Eailier this year so she's has been using her mothers phone to make calls. So she told me the she will be travelling to Abuja today (Jan 22 2020) that She will come to my on Monday to take a phone because I deal on phones and Accessories here in Awka, so finally she came on Tuesday that was (21 January 2020) So she came to my shop and I gave her a phone. My annoyance was That Immediately I gave her a phone calls started coming in form different persons. I told her "I know that is because of this phone you came to see me " she smile and I asked her " So you did not tell these people calling to buy phone for you abi" she replied why are mine insulting her and I was like I am insulting you now abi. But the one wey vex me pass was when a line called her "kene was the name" so music was playing in my shop so the person ask her " That place is very noisy where are you and she replied " I went to some where to charge my phone " and I was dumb--- I was like -- Eh my shop, is where you are charging your phone pulse the phone I gave you. I was so heart broken my heart was bleeding I felt like a fool. after the call she started telling me that it was her cousin bla bla bla bla bla. when we got home I treated her to swear with a Bible she started telling me a different story that kene is who she dated before that the guy likes calling her. and she said " You know that she's a girl and she's not married yet so guys admire her. And I replied "So guys admire you and you don't want me to admire others girls. and she knelt down begging and shadding fake tears. and I also threatened her to swaer for me with the bible that since she left my house on December 7 that she has not had sex and she was like I should forget all these and was forming fake tears. so when she bathing I came to the bathroom telling her to tell me the truth and I forcefully turned her face only to find out that she was busy laughing. So morning I took her to the GUO park in Awka here. My face was not smilling and and she asked said this one my face is like this are my missing her and I replied " I don't miss you even a bit " and she said swear and I was like If I miss you make I die. Immediately fake tears started dropping from her eyes. I left her and fine my way home. I don't want again. How do I discharge her. please this is my main account. My brother , my dad and my In-laws are in this forum too but there is no need to create a new account because na my matter. Your Advice please

My niggggga..wots good. Now listen goooooood.

The biggest mistake u make:
NEVER EVER LET A FEMALE NO U LIKE HER A LOT...or else she will take advantage. Thats y Hisduchess all over me..chasin me.

2.U must always keeepit gangster...but don't hit them. U have already made her think she is the world.. this means she will take advantage.

3. I hate to tell u this but she don't respect u.. this clearly mean she will cheat on u(so be prepared to cry)

4. All women love bad boys.. they will respect u more Becoz the think they can change u.Jewessgratitude been tryna change me coz she likes me alot

CONCLUSION;
My niggggga..best advise. dump her.. let her go. She clearly believe she gots your number & can do u any how. There are better women out there..avoid the Gina2019 type.

And for future...always go after character...not beauty!!( real talk)
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ePoster:
The immaturity and lack of wisdom that 99.9% of the males on this section exibit is enought to make any sane human being sh!t their pants.
I have created threads addressing their hypocrisy, immaturity and so on. This topic however would be centered on the paedophilic spirit they all possess. And the cravings they have to get down dirty with a 16year old.
A well know moniker here is a sixteen year old 'riele'. She has created a decent number of topics questioning the atrocities of the opposite sex. No matter how extreme her topics may seem one cannot deny, except a hypocrite, that they all have hints of truth written in them.
Of course, with any thread criticizing their gender we can all expect a swarm of angry males ready bring down the op and his/her supporters with the might of their fury...

masterflowx:
One of the attributes of a nuisance.
Continue... Yen yen yen yen yen