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lexdino:
QUICK POINTERS:

* This post was motivated after reading several of the miseducation threads created by the NLer with the Ubunja username. I observed the way some guys/men refuted the reality of that guy's teachings in his threads therefore, I decided to create this thread as a layman's explanation of what I have learnt from the girls I've dated so far.

* "Average girl" as used in the context of this thread means a girl who comes from a fairly stable home, has average or good looks, not older than 25, not a drug addict/alcoholic, has good relationship with her father, and probably makes her own money or supported financially by her family.
Since I started dating again recently, after having to quit an abusive relationship, I usually screen for only the average girls. If you are a guy who commits to financially broke girls, understand that no amount of game will save you from the emotional, psychological and physical stress that is bound to befall a man under such a one-sided relationship. You are on your own bro.

* Game is not the Be-It-All of being an Alpha. You also need to be financially buoyant or at least not the broke or lazy bro who is blaming govt and the world in general for his passiveness. Owning a good apartment, a personal car, a source of income and taking good care of your self, all factors in to your alphaness. So try to work on your shortcomings if any, before trying to game girls.


NOW TO THE TOPIC:

If there was a technology that could reset the mind of an average girl causing her to forget all her past suitors, here is what will happen in her dating life.

Her first instinct will be to search for "man" she will love and ride his D whenever she's Hot(Box A) . The second instinct will be to search for the "men" who will love and worship her in exchange for a false hope of getting sex someday(Box B).

This means she groups each suitor into either of those two boxes.

Be aware that Box A is open to only one occupant at a time. While Box B is open to as many men that are interested.

Good Game (and a bit of looks) are the primary determinants that qualifies a man into her Box A. While money and status are the primary determinants that qualifies the men into her Box B.

The world over, all average girls have these two categories in their dating lives. The only difference is that some few will consciously Bleep both occupants of Box A and Box B simultaneously but the majority of girls will only Bleep Box A while golddigging the occupants of Box B.

SOME NOTES:
* An average girl is loyal, submissive and caring to the Guy in Box A. But she will be hard-to-get, bitchy and disrespectful to the guys in Box B.
* Any girl that has you in her Box B will naturally be a gold digger in your eyes but the guy in Box A doesn't see her as one.
* If you're the guy in her Box A, be aware that any of the guys in Box B is capable of screwing your girl if she happens to be high and alone with him or if your Game starts slipping.
* When a woman is ready (or under pressure) to marry and the guy in her Box A doesn't seem to be ready, she will accept a marriage proposal from any of the guys in Box B who is rich and confirmed to be easily manipulate-able, and most likely continue her relationship with the guy in Box A as an extramarital affair. This is because a woman can only be truly happy when she can freely choose and replace the occupant of her Box A according to her emotional feelings. Marrying a guy in Box B only provides her a "man slave" to cater for her cubs and elevate her status in society while it restricts her from "playing with her Box A" therefore, some women will selfishly attempt to get the best of both worlds through extramarital affairs.
* Being her boyfriend or husband doesn't mean you're in Box A. An average girl that is unable to find a worthy alpha to occupy her Box A tends to have little to no sexual control. She will multi-date and have sex with a lot of the guys in her Box B(each one of these guys will believe that she's dating him exclusively). During ovulation, she is likely to go on solo trips in search of a one night stand.


CONCLUSION:
* If you're a red pill guy with game, realize that majority of the time, only those average girls with a vacant Box A are available for your gaming. Because once an average girl has an occupant in her Box A, it becomes extraordinarily difficult for your game to work on her unless the occupant in Box A slips in his game.

* Your precedent during the early phase of courtship determines which Box she deems best to place you.

If you are the guy that didn't spend a dime on her, didn't buy her any drink during your date, but meanwhile you gave her the best feelings of being with a strong man during the date, you made her open up on things she usually don't tell other guys, and you were confident and neither clingy nor needy in your actions towards her, you are most likely to get the ticket into Box A. But remember, she is also very likely to ghost you after this kind of date - sex or no sex involved - if she already has an occupant in her Box A that is doing fine in his Game.

But if you're the guy that spends money lavishly on her in your attempt to woo her, displays high status in her presence, drives a cool car and lives in a cool condo, be 98% sure that she will never ghost you regardless of whether she has 100 other chasers who are richer or better than you. Remember, the capacity of her Box B is infinite, there will always be a space for new comers. Just don't whine about how hard she is to get or how she occassionally snubs you for a long period of time before she decides to start picking your calls again.

FINAL NOTE:
I'm aware that when observed from a gender-based perspective, the Box A and Box B analogy used in this writeup is kind of female-centric in nature: given that it portrays the women as being the more powerful gender in the sense that they are the ones who get to choose and dispose off men according to their own timing.
This thread is not intended to affirm or dispute gender equality in any form.

lexdino:
QUICK POINTERS:

* This post was motivated after reading several of the miseducation threads created by the NLer with the Ubunja username. I observed the way some guys/men refuted the reality of that guy's teachings in his threads therefore, I decided to create this thread as a layman's explanation of what I have learnt from the girls I've dated so far.

* "Average girl" as used in the context of this thread means a girl who comes from a fairly stable home, has average or good looks, not older than 25, not a drug addict/alcoholic, has good relationship with her father, and probably makes her own money or supported financially by her family.
Since I started dating again recently, after having to quit an abusive relationship, I usually screen for only the average girls. If you are a guy who commits to financially broke girls, understand that no amount of game will save you from the emotional, psychological and physical stress that is bound to befall a man under such a one-sided relationship. You are on your own bro.

* Game is not the Be-It-All of being an Alpha. You also need to be financially buoyant or at least not the broke or lazy bro who is blaming govt and the world in general for his passiveness. Owning a good apartment, a personal car, a source of income and taking good care of your self, all factors in to your alphaness. So try to work on your shortcomings if any, before trying to game girls.


NOW TO THE TOPIC:

If there was a technology that could reset the mind of an average girl causing her to forget all her past suitors, here is what will happen in her dating life.

Her first instinct will be to search for "man" she will love and ride his D whenever she's Hot(Box A) . The second instinct will be to search for the "men" who will love and worship her in exchange for a false hope of getting sex someday(Box B).

This means she groups each suitor into either of those two boxes.

Be aware that Box A is open to only one occupant at a time. While Box B is open to as many men that are interested.

Good Game (and a bit of looks) are the primary determinants that qualifies a man into her Box A. While money and status are the primary determinants that qualifies the men into her Box B.

The world over, all average girls have these two categories in their dating lives. The only difference is that some few will consciously Bleep both occupants of Box A and Box B simultaneously but the majority of girls will only Bleep Box A while golddigging the occupants of Box B.

SOME NOTES:
* An average girl is loyal, submissive and caring to the Guy in Box A. But she will be hard-to-get, bitchy and disrespectful to the guys in Box B.
* Any girl that has you in her Box B will naturally be a gold digger in your eyes but the guy in Box A doesn't see her as one.
* If you're the guy in her Box A, be aware that any of the guys in Box B is capable of screwing your girl if she happens to be high and alone with him or if your Game starts slipping.
* When a woman is ready (or under pressure) to marry and the guy in her Box A doesn't seem to be ready, she will accept a marriage proposal from any of the guys in Box B who is rich and confirmed to be easily manipulate-able, and most likely continue her relationship with the guy in Box A as an extramarital affair. This is because a woman can only be truly happy when she can freely choose and replace the occupant of her Box A according to her emotional feelings. Marrying a guy in Box B only provides her a "man slave" to cater for her cubs and elevate her status in society while it restricts her from "playing with her Box A" therefore, some women will selfishly attempt to get the best of both worlds through extramarital affairs.
* Being her boyfriend or husband doesn't mean you're in Box A. An average girl that is unable to find a worthy alpha to occupy her Box A tends to have little to no sexual control. She will multi-date and have sex with a lot of the guys in her Box B(each one of these guys will believe that she's dating him exclusively). During ovulation, she is likely to go on solo trips in search of a one night stand.


CONCLUSION:
* If you're a red pill guy with game, realize that majority of the time, only those average girls with a vacant Box A are available for your gaming. Because once an average girl has an occupant in her Box A, it becomes extraordinarily difficult for your game to work on her unless the occupant in Box A slips in his game.

* Your precedent during the early phase of courtship determines which Box she deems best to place you.

If you are the guy that didn't spend a dime on her, didn't buy her any drink during your date, but meanwhile you gave her the best feelings of being with a strong man during the date, you made her open up on things she usually don't tell other guys, and you were confident and neither clingy nor needy in your actions towards her, you are most likely to get the ticket into Box A. But remember, she is also very likely to ghost you after this kind of date - sex or no sex involved - if she already has an occupant in her Box A that is doing fine in his Game.

But if you're the guy that spends money lavishly on her in your attempt to woo her, displays high status in her presence, drives a cool car and lives in a cool condo, be 98% sure that she will never ghost you regardless of whether she has 100 other chasers who are richer or better than you. Remember, the capacity of her Box B is infinite, there will always be a space for new comers. Just don't whine about how hard she is to get or how she occassionally snubs you for a long period of time before she decides to start picking your calls again.

FINAL NOTE:
I'm aware that when observed from a gender-based perspective, the Box A and Box B analogy used in this writeup is kind of female-centric in nature: given that it portrays the women as being the more powerful gender in the sense that they are the ones who get to choose and dispose off men according to their own timing.
This thread is not intended to affirm or dispute gender equality in any form.

Hisduchess:
No renegotiations.so nothing for you.what is nandos Mr dwarf

Katier00:
you are not funny, i really find you annoying

Hisduchess:
No renegotiations.so nothing for you.what is nandos Mr dwarf

joeferrari:
Dear nairalanders
This question is for everyone in the house, for the guys can get married to a lady who has a child/single parent
And for the ladies can you get married a single father.
Am just sampling opinions here, no derogatory words please.
If yes why? And
If No why?

GreenMist21:
You are both ugly though

lilwetdick:
Thanks to feminism and all other agendas, feminism is for women who do not know how to be a woman.

See, the power of a woman lies in her femininity, her submissiveness( there is power in being submissive), the way she dress, the way she pose and walk, the way she behaves, the way her hair and body smells, how nice her pussy smells( do not underestimate pussy smell) and the way she carries herself.

I have noticed that the most successful and happy women are feminine women, they act weak and submissive but get all they want, i am not talking about women that sleeps with men for promotion, job placement and money, these type of women are naturally born sluts and prostitutes, no matter where you take them to, they will always sleep with men for progress because of their laziness.

A woman that understand her femininity, knows that just a show of her weakness and vulnerability will make many men give her what she needs. Even at home, the married or feminine women in relationship know how to get what they want, they dress as seductive as possible, smell nice, catwalk, maintain their body, even the way their pussy smells can make their husband or boyfriend salivate anytime he see her, i think most women underestimate the power of smell of their pussy and its effect on men. (the smell of your pussy can either make a man want you more or dread having sex with you)

A woman who do not understand the power of her femininity act like a man, always on unsexy jeans trouser and low shoes, talk uncultured with thick voice, wants to compete with men always turn off a man in many ways instead of men trying to help you, they will make sure your life is difficult and hell, that is why feminine women is always loved by men in the work place,at home and the society at large, other women want to emulate her and learn her ways.

A feminine woman do not have to sleep with men to get what they want, she knows she can get what she wants just by making men salivate and fall on her kneels without giving sex. to be realistic, most feminine women are the one, men promise heaven and earth, go to war and kill each other, betray each other just to get them.

Hisduchess:
You've gone against the rules.so fvck off.no nyashing

lilwetdick:
are you trolling or what

show me where i wrote that

Brother. .. What u like is wot u like. U say u like strong women who look like men (read your last post).
..so outter all the beautiful woman on nairaland..your preference is manly woman. Bro U can deny all u want..now we no!! (No ofeense)

lilwetdick:
next time wear your binoculars when reading

..bro..U said u like women who look like men (read yor last post)...next thing now, U start liking men dressing like woman.
...be careful there in Nigeria ooooo... they will arrest u!!(No oofense)

LilMissFavvy:
I decided to drop my comments since no one has asked you two very important questions.
1. Did you tell your wife during courtship that you may join the ministry fully?
2. Have you asked your wife to say exactly what her fears are concerning the ministry?

Hope you are aware that gone are the days ladies
had deep respect/love for the ministry, and craved to marry pastors. This days women respect God personally, and are skeptical of their husbands joining the ministry. Don't be quick to suspect her of being an evil woman. Personally I believe in God Almighty, but I would be worried about having anything to do with a pastor because of how the ministries have turned out these days.

TRY AND FIND OUT HER FEARS, THEN MAKE PROMISES TO COUNTER HER FEARS. If you make promises with good points to counter her fears, I believe she will join you. Plead with her and be patient.

lilwetdick:
Thanks to feminism and all other agendas, feminism is for women who do not know how to be a woman.

See, the power of a woman lies in her femininity, her submissiveness( there is power in being submissive), the way she dress, the way she pose and walk, the way she behaves, the way her hair and body smells, how nice her pussy smells( do not underestimate pussy smell) and the way she carries herself.

I have noticed that the most successful and happy women are feminine women, they act weak and submissive but get all they want, i am not talking about women that sleeps with men for promotion, job placement and money, these type of women are naturally born sluts and prostitutes, no matter where you take them to, they will always sleep with men for progress because of their laziness.

A woman that understand her femininity, knows that just a show of her weakness and vulnerability will make many men give her what she needs. Even at home, the married or feminine women in relationship know how to get what they want, they dress as seductive as possible, smell nice, catwalk, maintain their body, even the way their pussy smells can make their husband or boyfriend salivate anytime he see her, i think most women underestimate the power of smell of their pussy and its effect on men. (the smell of your pussy can either make a man want you more or dread having sex with you)

A woman who do not understand the power of her femininity act like a man, always on unsexy jeans trouser and low shoes, talk uncultured with thick voice, wants to compete with men always turn off a man in many ways instead of men trying to help you, they will make sure your life is difficult and hell, that is why feminine women is always loved by men in the work place,at home and the society at large, other women want to emulate her and learn her ways.

A feminine woman do not have to sleep with men to get what they want, she knows she can get what she wants just by making men salivate and fall on her kneels without giving sex. to be realistic, most feminine women are the one, men promise heaven and earth, go to war and kill each other, betray each other just to get them.

Ok so u hate women but u like the ones that looooklike men...correct?
...bro r u ok? (No oofeense)

lilwetdick:
Thanks to feminism and all other agendas, feminism is for women who do not know how to be a woman.

See, the power of a woman lies in her femininity, her submissiveness( there is power in being submissive), the way she dress, the way she pose and walk, the way she behaves, the way her hair and body smells, how nice her pussy smells( do not underestimate pussy smell) and the way she carries herself.

I have noticed that the most successful and happy women are feminine women, they act weak and submissive but get all they want, i am not talking about women that sleeps with men for promotion, job placement and money, these type of women are naturally born sluts and prostitutes, no matter where you take them to, they will always sleep with men for progress because of their laziness.

A woman that understand her femininity, knows that just a show of her weakness and vulnerability will make many men give her what she needs. Even at home, the married or feminine women in relationship know how to get what they want, they dress as seductive as possible, smell nice, catwalk, maintain their body, even the way their pussy smells can make their husband or boyfriend salivate anytime he see her, i think most women underestimate the power of smell of their pussy and its effect on men. (the smell of your pussy can either make a man want you more or dread having sex with you)

A woman who do not understand the power of her femininity act like a man, always on unsexy jeans trouser and low shoes, talk uncultured with thick voice, wants to compete with men always turn off a man in many ways instead of men trying to help you, they will make sure your life is difficult and hell, that is why feminine women is always loved by men in the work place,at home and the society at large, other women want to emulate her and learn her ways.

A feminine woman do not have to sleep with men to get what they want, she knows she can get what she wants just by making men salivate and fall on her kneels without giving sex. to be realistic, most feminine women are the one, men promise heaven and earth, go to war and kill each other, betray each other just to get them.

Hisduchess:
If you quit trolling me for one year I'll nyash you since you can't afford 50m Kuwaiti dollar.

N:B if you ever mentions me again for the one year,there wouldn't be any nyashing for you again infact pant rope you no go see.be a good guy and u'll collect nyashing next year November.(true story)

Itsjare:
Don't knw if I shud stay mad at my bf or just take what he did as something any other person could do

Am suppose to be in nysc camp by now.. But due to some financial situation I couldn't... I told my bf everything... And he knew I was getting prepared but money ain't just flowing in like I expected... Nd my state of deployment isnt wia i can just hop up and leave at any time... To cut d story short... Last week Friday we both went to the market to get some little things I wil b needing in camp... And I stil brought up d issue of me missing camp wil b painful he never said anything he just said we shud get whatever we came to get and leave... We got home I still made mention of it and I was like since help ain't coming I wil differ my movement for stream 2... He still didn't say nothing... We made plans initially to go check different parks for prices of t-fare on saturday... So on Saturday morning he called and I told him we shudnt go since am not expecting money from anywhere to make d trip... He said it doesnt matter... Bit I told him I wil feel more sad if I just go to park and I knw I won't b going... He never even made mention of him having any plans of giving me d money... Saturday pass and Sunday... We were together on Sunday still didn't say noting... On monday too he didn't say a word... I was seeing my friends post and DAT got me sad nd so emotional... I cudnt control it any more and had to tell him how I felt... And I cudnt just believed what I heard

"He said he had d intention of giving me d money and since I refuse going to the park for enquiry he used the money for his friend wedding clothes"...

I felt like doing something stupid... Like I was thinking if he tot I read minds now... And he said I wud atleast go to d park first nd I was like I told u dis wil make me feel bad if I later didn't go and he said dats my own problem... I caused my not going myself

Ever since ystd I cudnt sleep... Jst thinking how on earth someone DAT claims he loves u cud choose clothes over u ...

Though I have been giving him attitide ever since ystd but I guess he hisnt seeing wjat he did wrong...

To make thing worse he his now asking me for sex... Even with d stupid thing he did... And I refused him and he his telling me he understood

Right now I feel like just quiting the relationship

Am confused

Am sorry for the long msg

Pls what to do cos am loosing my sanity

Katier00:
you are not funny, i really find you annoying

dre11:
https://dailypost.ng/2019/11/06/man-girlfriend-arrested-after-spending-night-in-sterling-banks-toilet/

geni340:
am d one uve been looking for,, I swear, i hv eVeryThiNg. should i send my number?? hehehhee