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Damian911:
I just withdrew all of my life savings into my Fair Money account's Fair lock simply because it had a better interest rate than Opay and Palm Pay.

I hope I don't regret it

sparko1:
In 2013 I made a post and cited some research materials for the above given topic. When this topic was discussed most people saw it as a debate that has no bases in Nigeria because according to most, it's something of no consequences, but over the years things have changed.

About a week ago I saw a video of guy almost linched by a group of young men in the NORTH for LOOKING/WALKING/SPEAKING IN A GIRLISH WAY LOL.

This topic is now more important than ever because though we consider this abnormal or against our religious orientation, we must agree there is something more and it deserves a thorough understanding.

Find below link to previous post: https://www.nairaland.com/1471542/being-gay-it-genetic-choice

Most people will ask why bring this back up, from experience, we have always been reactive, always trying to retrace our steps, everything from yahoo boys, to scamming, jungle justice, even kidnapping, it's until we begin to see real numbers of dead bodies or decay that we start reorientation, at which time lots of young minds are already too far gone.
I made a promise to re-evaluate the topic after 10 years.

The core of the research:
Homosexuality, “GAY” Is it Genetic or a Choice? Can the 'Choice' Be Changed?

Some research materials:
Research shows that the basic template for the body and brain of a human fetus is female in its structure. As a result men have some redundant female features such as nipples. Men also have mammary glands which do not function but retain the potential to produce milk. There are thousands of recorded cases of lactation in male prisoners of war where starvation led to a diseased liver failing to break down the hormones essential for breast-feeding.
As we now know, six to eight weeks after conception, a male fetus (XY) receives a massive dose of male hormones called androgens which first forms the testes, and then a second dose to alter the brain from a female format to a male configuration. If the male foetus does not receive enough male hormones at the appropriate time, one of two things may happen. Firstly, a baby boy may be born with a brain structure that is more feminine than masculine, in other words, a boy who will most likely be gay by puberty. Secondly, a genetic boy may be born with a fully functioning female brain and a set of male genitals. This person will be transgender.
This is a person who is biologically male but feeling as if he is a female. Sometimes a genetic male is born with a set of both male and female genitals.
Geneticist Anne Moir in her ground-breaking book Brainsex documents the many cases of genetic boys being born looking like girls and being raised as girls, only suddenly to find that they have penis and testicles that 'appear' at puberty.

Homosexuality is Part of History
Among the ancient Greeks, homosexuality was not only permitted, it was highly respected. The slim, boyish, youthful figure was their ideal of beauty, and paintings and statues were erected in its honour. Poems were written about the love that prominent older men had for young men. The Greeks believed that male homosexuality served a noble, higher purpose and it inspired youths to become worthy members of the community. They also found that young gay men proved to be some of their most courageous, successful warriors as they would fight 'side-by-side in love with each other'.
In Roman times, Julius Caesar was described as 'every woman's man and every man's woman.'
When Christianity frowned on same-sex relationships and God reportedly brought his vengeance down on the City of Sodom, homosexuality was banned, disappeared into the closet and wasn't seen in public again until recently. The Victorian era refused to acknowledge that homosexuality existed and, even if it did, it must be the Devil's work and would be severely punished. As we enter the 21st Century, older generations still believe that homosexuality is a recent phenomenon and an 'unnatural' act. The reality is that it has been around for as long as male foetuses missed out on their sufficient share of male hormones.

Is it Genetic or a Choice?
When Body Language author Allan Pease and geneticist Anne Moir appeared together on British television in 1991 for the launch of their books Brainsex (Mandarin Books) and Talk Language (HarperCollins), Moir revealed the results of her research which highlighted what scientists have known for years – homosexuality is inborn, not a choice.
Not only is homosexuality mostly inborn, but the environment in which we are raised plays a lesser role in our behaviour than was previously thought. Scientists have found that as an adolescent or adult, parents' efforts to suppress homosexual tendencies in their off-spring has practically no effect. And because the impact of male hormone (or lack of it) on the brain is the main culprit, most homosexuals are males.
There is no solid evidence that upbringing affects the likelihood of a child becoming homosexual.
For every lesbian (female body with a masculinised brain) there are about eight to ten gay men. If the gay and lesbian movement was to embrace this research and, if the education system taught these findings, homosexual and transsexual people would not encounter as much prejudice. Most people are more tolerant and accepting of a person who has inborn differences than they are of a person who, in their opinion, makes an unacceptable choice. Take, for example, Thalidomide babies, Parkinson's sufferers, autism or people who have cerebral palsy. The public is more accepting of these people because they are usually born with these conditions, as opposed to homosexuals who supposedly choose their lifestyle. Can we be critical of a person who is born left handed or dyslexic? Or with blue eyes and red hair? Or with a female brain in a male body? Most homosexual people believe that their homosexuality is a choice and, like many minority groups, often use public forums to display their 'choice', which generates negative attitudes from many members of the public.

Can the 'Choice' Be Changed?
Gays and lesbians do not choose their sexual orientation any more than heterosexuals do. Scientists and most human sexuality experts agree that homosexuality is an orientation that is unchangeable. Researchers believe that most homosexual orientation develops in the womb, that homosexual patterns are firmly fixed by around age five and that it is outside the control of the person. For centuries, techniques have been used to suppress homosexual feelings in 'sufferers' which have included breast amputation, castration, drug therapy, uterus removal, frontal lobotomy, psychotherapy, electric shock therapy, prayer meetings, spiritual counseling and exorcism. No therapies have ever succeeded.
The best they have been able to achieve is to make some bisexuals confine their sexual activities to members of the opposite sex or force some homosexuals to become celibate through guilt or fear, and to push many others to suicide.
Scientists have shown that homosexuality is an orientation that is unalterable. It's not a choice.
There is a greater than 90% chance that you, the reader, are heterosexual. Think about how difficult it would be to feel sexually attracted to someone of your own sex and you will begin to understand how it is virtually impossible to create feelings that do not already exist. If it was a choice, as many proclaim, why would any intelligent person choose a way of life that exposes them to so much hostility, prejudice and discrimination? Hormones are responsible, not human choices.
Are we Slaves to our Biology?
Scientists know how to change the sexuality of rats and monkeys in the womb. Some groups claim that we can control our likes and dislikes by will or choice and they insist that we can all reverse park or read street directories with the same ease. But scientists know this is unrealistic. You don't need to be a scientist to see that rabbits can't fly, ducks are lousy runners, most women have difficulty reading maps and men reading newspapers are temporarily deaf. Understanding brain structure differences makes us more tolerant of each other and allows us to have greater control over our destiny and to feel positive about our inclinations and choices.
Human intelligence has evolved to a point where we are more in control of our emotions than other animals and can think through our choices. Other animals don't think: they react to circumstances and this makes them slaves to their biology. Our biology is the motivations behind many of the choices we make that sometimes don't seem to make sense to us. So while we are more in control of ourselves than most other animals, we still can't completely buck the system. The biggest obstacle facing most people is their rejection of the idea that we are just another animal with a smart brain. This refusal makes these people victims of their biology.

source.
Barbara & Allan Pease
Abstract from “why men don't listen & women can't read maps

Well long story short, there are two important question here;
1. Is it Genetic or a Choice?
If it is genetic, why do we have to criticize, force other on their sexual orientation? Isn’t that why we as humans have the right to make choice for ourselves

2. Can the 'Choice' Be Changed?
If it can’t be changed why pretend it can be changed by placing a ban on it, when in reality it can’t, instead of allowing these people live happily like every other person.

house10studios:
me lie, do me a favour plz.

Visit the link, read d instructions how to watch it n come back here n tell me i lie. N if u can't I will make a video showing u how its done, which will indicate u can't follow simple instructions

house10studios:
U n the ones who can't follow simple instructions

JessicaRabbit:
In the absence of a philosophy section, I decided this topic wouldn't be entirely out of place in the romance section. But at any rate, please bear with me.

The first time I came across this concept was about 3 years ago on another forum. Apparently, it's a well known philosophical thought experiment, aimed at demonstrating that hedonism is false. For those who don't know, hedonism is basically the idea that pleasure is the only good thing.

This experiment was thought-up by the philosopher Robert Nozick as a criticism of hedonism. The experiment goes like this:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Experience_machine

So what are your thoughts on the experience machine? And the argument for it? Would you plug in? Would you want your friends and family members to plug in?

JessicaRabbit:
In the absence of a philosophy section, I decided this topic wouldn't be entirely out of place in the romance section. But at any rate, please bear with me.

The first time I came across this concept was about 3 years ago on another forum. Apparently, it's a well known philosophical thought experiment, aimed at demonstrating that hedonism is false. For those who don't know, hedonism is basically the idea that pleasure is the only good thing.

This experiment was thought-up by the philosopher Robert Nozick as a criticism of hedonism. The experiment goes like this:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Experience_machine

So what are your thoughts on the experience machine? And the argument for it? Would you plug in? Would you want your friends and family members to plug in?

house10studios:
u want me to post naked pictures sir watch d video u will see her bush too

house10studios:
From what been gather the guy met the lady in a club brought her home n she started staying with
him,, cooking washing n having sex, when the guy saw she wasn't leaving he decided it was enough that she gat to go.


But why that late and why push her out naked??

The neighbors didn't interfere they were just busy recording

VIDEO
https://www.madfind.com.ng/2024/06/kenyan-guy-chases-lady-out-of-his-house.html

Testiebobo:
What is your bitter experience about sex as an adult?
It could be traumatic or a lesson. Anyone!

TESTICLE...YOU AGAIN..WTF!!!!!!
Dont u have sckooool homework?...u need a job?((((no oofencsece))))

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Do you like my profile photo?

“Like” my profile photo if you like my profile photo [/color]

TheGidRedpiller:
YOU DESERVE BETTER, ACT LIKE IT!!

ARE YOU MAD?? DON'T YOU HAVE SENSE

People like me come out here from time to time to talk about taking the redpill and you'll think we are senseless and bitter but "sensible people" in your league still go out and pick a single mother of all the women in the world!

I've said it times without number, every woman is a potential H0£, especially to those alphamales that gave them the redpill treatment!

Every single mother was either the personal H0£ of a redpiller or is just a loose divorcee, how can you be so stupid enough to entrust yourself and resources to people like them??

Lets Look At Her Being The First Kind Of Single Mother: So after having a child for another man, your stup!d self come along and acted all nice, of course she would show passion for you, why wouldn't she, she just came across a simp to cover for her shameful mistakes, she as usual plays the victim card and maybe even say she was r@p£d, you kept being stup!d even to the point of proposing marriage?? Chai simps are madd!

You stup!dly took responsibilty of a child thats not yours, let me tell you something, you are even worse than those men who go for DNA tests and painfully find out that the children they invested in over the years weren't theirs!

Why? because in your case you even know this child is not yours but you still brought him/her into your home because of a biittch that was someone else's d!!ck servicer!!

Should you also understand that even after marriage, if that redpiller who is the real father of that bastardd calls your so called wife tomorrow for a fvvck....SHE WOULD BE AVAILABLE!!

Because thats another thing the redpill does: KEEPS HER AVAILABLE TO YOU ALWAYS!! Especially if good sex is attached!
You are and will always be the PLAN B, the father of your "Wife's" children is the man she really wants to be with!!

This is JUST SO YOU KNOW..

Still Typing...

TheGidRedpiller:
YOU DESERVE BETTER, ACT LIKE IT!!

ARE YOU MAD?? DON'T YOU HAVE SENSE

People like me come out here from time to time to talk about taking the redpill and you'll think we are senseless and bitter but "sensible people" in your league still go out and pick a single mother of all the women in the world!

I've said it times without number, every woman is a potential H0£, especially to those alphamales that gave them the redpill treatment!

Every single mother was either the personal H0£ of a redpiller or is just a loose divorcee, how can you be so stupid enough to entrust yourself and resources to people like them??

Lets Look At Her Being The First Kind Of Single Mother: So after having a child for another man, your stup!d self come along and acted all nice, of course she would show passion for you, why wouldn't she, she just came across a simp to cover for her shameful mistakes, she as usual plays the victim card and maybe even say she was r@p£d, you kept being stup!d even to the point of proposing marriage?? Chai simps are madd!

You stup!dly took responsibilty of a child thats not yours, let me tell you something, you are even worse than those men who go for DNA tests and painfully find out that the children they invested in over the years weren't theirs!

Why? because in your case you even know this child is not yours but you still brought him/her into your home because of a biittch that was someone else's d!!ck servicer!!

Should you also understand that even after marriage, if that redpiller who is the real father of that bastardd calls your so called wife tomorrow for a fvvck....SHE WOULD BE AVAILABLE!!

Because thats another thing the redpill does: KEEPS HER AVAILABLE TO YOU ALWAYS!! Especially if good sex is attached!
You are and will always be the PLAN B, the father of your "Wife's" children is the man she really wants to be with!!

This is JUST SO YOU KNOW..

Still Typing...

iLegendd:
By the way, suggest what I should do for the first commenter?

iLegendd:
By the way, suggest what I should do for the first commenter?

woojin:
i told u im so coward to commit suicide.

woojin:
i dont care if i die

Wealthyonos:
Call me, I can help you with a security job here in Lagos. 0.80813.....06534
Pls only call if you're not a thief. You'll be arrested if caught stealing. Thanks

woojin:
i dont care if i die

woojin:
guys pray for me to die peacefully, i am tired but i am so coward to commit suicide. i cant be going like this watching my mates my friends getting married and buying properties while to just eat na wahala for me. i am down with a fever since 2days ago and i have not take any drug to cure it due to poverty. i am unfortunate in this life i gave up, even children younger than me are doing better than me, who ever casted the poverty spell on me is very wicked. pray for me to die i give up about life but i cant commit suicide i am coward. i dont have time to explain my predicament i am just unlucky in life the friends i grew up my close friends when we were child those that went to school and those who didnt all of them are doing better than me they are all heading to success path while its obvious my life is south no sign of improvement i am tired

woojin:
guys pray for me to die peacefully, i am tired but i am so coward to commit suicide. i cant be going like this watching my mates my friends getting married and buying properties while to just eat na wahala for me. i am down with a fever since 2days ago and i have not take any drug to cure it due to poverty. i am unfortunate in this life i gave up, even children younger than me are doing better than me, who ever casted the poverty spell on me is very wicked. pray for me to die i give up about life but i cant commit suicide i am coward. i dont have time to explain my predicament i am just unlucky in life the friends i grew up my close friends when we were child those that went to school and those who didnt all of them are doing better than me they are all heading to success path while its obvious my life is south no sign of improvement i am tired

PJtech:
I no go feed you the attention you want

PJtech:
Make i collect 10k nah

PJtech:
Don't ever troll anyone on nairaland again.. Don't act like a kitten.. Get a life

PJtech:
Trolling is a criminal offense... death by hanging is the penalty for trolling

PJtech:
Make i collect 10k nah

akeeng:
He didn’t owe you money; he could have decided not to give you nothing. Did you work for him or what? Iranu

Guess wot??
I like your energy and big respet for this commmment. It clearly shows me the kinda individual you are & i respet guys like u. You sound like the grateful type.
This is a good image for Nigeria, well done.
Good news for you thou: between now & Monday, N10k on standby will be paid to you...if you want it. Congrats!!!!

vybzkartel:
Why would a lady be deliberately be provoking her male boss

As in only do things that will anger her male boss??

What can such a male boss do in such situations??

Testiebobo:
I had a brief arguement with a lady. Although, i had my fault and accepted it. Then she began to insult me and said abusive and offensive words to me. I got angry and began to give her same replies. She said "am i mad?, am i crazy? I dont like corrections? In yoruba.
Then i angrily said i'hv heard! That is enough. Before i knew it she got close to me and gave me a irritating slap PHAW!!
I was like what! I wanted to do something crazy, but my mind told me those things;
Her boyfriend was there
She is a woman, and i could injure her
I would have faults in two ways
I wasnt trained to beat a woman
She is a bit older than me
I just gave her warnings that in her entire life, she should never try that rubbish with me again. And i departed angrily.
In your mind what am i suppose to do to the lady?

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Mr TESTICLE.. WOMAN BEATER...YOU AGAIN!!!!
son u go around lookin at womens pant ....of cose she will slap yor face..SHAME ON U FOR EVEN DEARING TO FIGHT A FEMALE..U WOMAN BEATER. anyways go n learn how to toast womens!!!(((((no oofencsece)))))

Testiebobo:
The next time you name me "testicle" again in your entire life. What i will do to you eh! You will never comment on my thread again in ur life. I'hv warned you.

Zairee:
He never said the child was gay
He talked about a personality that was deemed weak because the boy didn't have a hard exterior

DarkLover:
I've been feeling odd lately, trying to understand why I feel the way I do. It's a sense of foreboding. I don't want to die, not yet. The world hasn't experienced the best of me.

I know the world will go on like nothing happened but many people will be lost without me. Save my soul and keep me alive Lord of the host, sheath your scythe Grim Reaper.