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Wizzy13:
Yesternite i caught my girlfriend talking to a guy when i was returning from somewhere, after the guy left i asked her what was going on she started acting rude, i angrily left her.
This morning she wanted us to see at her place i went there only for her to tell me to apologize for getting angry, i told her for what reason after u offended me? She started saying all she could outta out. And told me neva to call her or come to her huz.
I left and i have droped a withdrawal letter for her. I can't continue in such sh*t.

Wizzy13:
Yesternite i caught my girlfriend talking to a guy when i was returning from somewhere, after the guy left i asked her what was going on she started acting rude, i angrily left her.
This morning she wanted us to see at her place i went there only for her to tell me to apologize for getting angry, i told her for what reason after u offended me? She started saying all she could outta out. And told me neva to call her or come to her huz.
I left and i have droped a withdrawal letter for her. I can't continue in such sh*t.

Wizzy13:
Yesternite i caught my girlfriend talking to a guy when i was returning from somewhere, after the guy left i asked her what was going on she started acting rude, i angrily left her.
This morning she wanted us to see at her place i went there only for her to tell me to apologize for getting angry, i told her for what reason after u offended me? She started saying all she could outta out. And told me neva to call her or come to her huz.
I left and i have droped a withdrawal letter for her. I can't continue in such sh*t.

Testiebobo:
#tipstostayhealthyeveryday#
Every morning when you wake up. After drinking your water to flush potential diseases in your body system. Always remember to hold your breathe for 15seconds for a health stabled person. But for a health complicated person like an asmatic patient, try holding your breathe for like 8seconds daily.
Benefits;
* It increases the flow of blood from the heart to the whole body. Which makes such body to stay very active and strong.
* It reduces the risk of cardiac arrest and heart attack even stroke plus blood pressure
* It also cools the body system. Whereby it manages mental complications like depression, stigma and trauma. It helps to think for solutions rather getting down and terrified.
Thanks for your time!

Testiebobo:
#tipstostayhealthyeveryday#
Every morning when you wake up. After drinking your water to flush potential diseases in your body system. Always remember to hold your breathe for 15seconds for a health stabled person. But for a health complicated person like an asmatic patient, try holding your breathe for like 8seconds daily.
Benefits;
* It increases the flow of blood from the heart to the whole body. Which makes such body to stay very active and strong.
* It reduces the risk of cardiac arrest and heart attack even stroke plus blood pressure
* It also cools the body system. Whereby it manages mental complications like depression, stigma and trauma. It helps to think for solutions rather getting down and terrified.
Thanks for your time!

Zairee:
You should have saved that kid
He will remember you as a young adult and it will give him hope

So u encoraggggin people to save gay men ....are u ok in the head sir. WTF WIT U LGTGB FAGGGOT PEOPLE PLS?...cant u find olosho.
WHY ARE U GAY SIR??(((no oofencsece)))

Zairee:
You should have saved that kid
He will remember you as a young adult and it will give him hope

Cassandraloius:
Greetings y'all.
My fellow Nlander's do you still eat egg?
Egg is now N200?
How come?🥲
Who did we offend?

NSK4U:
Stop asking this type of question. It stops knowledge and promotes ignorance. Logically provide reasons you think gays are not natural to man or otherwise

HellVictorinho6:
Did i beg ur fada or mother?


U asked me 2 drop aza 4 nothing

Does it mean i begged u?


Rubbish

HellVictorinho6:
U have no right 2 attack me 4 not begging ur fada

SultanOfPuna:
I have tried everything possible but my sex drive is crazy.
Right now I'm in a brothel on a mattress laid on the floor. I just spent my last card on olosho and I'm feeling sweetest joy.

My problem is that I find Nigerian girls too hot and sexy.
Nigerian girls are soooo hot and sexy
So everytime I'm on the street, my prick go just dey rise anyhow because once I see a good looking babe my Johnson salute immediately.

Tho I'm not a fan of porn
And I select my babes/ olosho based on their prettiest. I don't do ugly babes

I will recieve my salary tomorrow and I've already planned how to spend it bleeping different beautiful girls.

God have Mercy on me..

Cesarr1:
bros u was beginning to make sense sha , u just ruined the moment

guobe:
With the stress people are currently passing in Naija ,do people still have time to love.
Alot of bills to be payed and people hardly have time to date.
So how is your love life?
Is it going smoothly, complicated,love lost or no direction?
Talk to me.

Cesarr1:
Guy which work Dey for me o

Bellotelli:
Mr cockroach abi wetin be that ur name. I can see that from the right side of ur head there is nothing left, and from the left side of ur head there is nothing right,.. just empty skull, but no offenccccee

Cutehector:
na cork wey get pig brain u wan advise ni? No waste your time abeg

sparko1:
In 2013 I made a post and cited some research materials for the above given topic. When this topic was discussed most people saw it as a debate that has no bases in Nigeria because according to most, it's something of no consequences, but over the years things have changed.

About a week ago I saw a video of guy almost linched by a group of young men in the NORTH for LOOKING/WALKING/SPEAKING IN A GIRLISH WAY LOL.

This topic is now more important than ever because though we consider this abnormal or against our religious orientation, we must agree there is something more and it deserves a thorough understanding.

Find below link to previous post: https://www.nairaland.com/1471542/being-gay-it-genetic-choice

Most people will ask why bring this back up, from experience, we have always been reactive, always trying to retrace our steps, everything from yahoo boys, to scamming, jungle justice, even kidnapping, it's until we begin to see real numbers of dead bodies or decay that we start reorientation, at which time lots of young minds are already too far gone.
I made a promise to re-evaluate the topic after 10 years.

The core of the research:
Homosexuality, “GAY” Is it Genetic or a Choice? Can the 'Choice' Be Changed?

Some research materials:
Research shows that the basic template for the body and brain of a human fetus is female in its structure. As a result men have some redundant female features such as nipples. Men also have mammary glands which do not function but retain the potential to produce milk. There are thousands of recorded cases of lactation in male prisoners of war where starvation led to a diseased liver failing to break down the hormones essential for breast-feeding.
As we now know, six to eight weeks after conception, a male fetus (XY) receives a massive dose of male hormones called androgens which first forms the testes, and then a second dose to alter the brain from a female format to a male configuration. If the male foetus does not receive enough male hormones at the appropriate time, one of two things may happen. Firstly, a baby boy may be born with a brain structure that is more feminine than masculine, in other words, a boy who will most likely be gay by puberty. Secondly, a genetic boy may be born with a fully functioning female brain and a set of male genitals. This person will be transgender.
This is a person who is biologically male but feeling as if he is a female. Sometimes a genetic male is born with a set of both male and female genitals.
Geneticist Anne Moir in her ground-breaking book Brainsex documents the many cases of genetic boys being born looking like girls and being raised as girls, only suddenly to find that they have penis and testicles that 'appear' at puberty.

Homosexuality is Part of History
Among the ancient Greeks, homosexuality was not only permitted, it was highly respected. The slim, boyish, youthful figure was their ideal of beauty, and paintings and statues were erected in its honour. Poems were written about the love that prominent older men had for young men. The Greeks believed that male homosexuality served a noble, higher purpose and it inspired youths to become worthy members of the community. They also found that young gay men proved to be some of their most courageous, successful warriors as they would fight 'side-by-side in love with each other'.
In Roman times, Julius Caesar was described as 'every woman's man and every man's woman.'
When Christianity frowned on same-sex relationships and God reportedly brought his vengeance down on the City of Sodom, homosexuality was banned, disappeared into the closet and wasn't seen in public again until recently. The Victorian era refused to acknowledge that homosexuality existed and, even if it did, it must be the Devil's work and would be severely punished. As we enter the 21st Century, older generations still believe that homosexuality is a recent phenomenon and an 'unnatural' act. The reality is that it has been around for as long as male foetuses missed out on their sufficient share of male hormones.

Is it Genetic or a Choice?
When Body Language author Allan Pease and geneticist Anne Moir appeared together on British television in 1991 for the launch of their books Brainsex (Mandarin Books) and Talk Language (HarperCollins), Moir revealed the results of her research which highlighted what scientists have known for years – homosexuality is inborn, not a choice.
Not only is homosexuality mostly inborn, but the environment in which we are raised plays a lesser role in our behaviour than was previously thought. Scientists have found that as an adolescent or adult, parents' efforts to suppress homosexual tendencies in their off-spring has practically no effect. And because the impact of male hormone (or lack of it) on the brain is the main culprit, most homosexuals are males.
There is no solid evidence that upbringing affects the likelihood of a child becoming homosexual.
For every lesbian (female body with a masculinised brain) there are about eight to ten gay men. If the gay and lesbian movement was to embrace this research and, if the education system taught these findings, homosexual and transsexual people would not encounter as much prejudice. Most people are more tolerant and accepting of a person who has inborn differences than they are of a person who, in their opinion, makes an unacceptable choice. Take, for example, Thalidomide babies, Parkinson's sufferers, autism or people who have cerebral palsy. The public is more accepting of these people because they are usually born with these conditions, as opposed to homosexuals who supposedly choose their lifestyle. Can we be critical of a person who is born left handed or dyslexic? Or with blue eyes and red hair? Or with a female brain in a male body? Most homosexual people believe that their homosexuality is a choice and, like many minority groups, often use public forums to display their 'choice', which generates negative attitudes from many members of the public.

Can the 'Choice' Be Changed?
Gays and lesbians do not choose their sexual orientation any more than heterosexuals do. Scientists and most human sexuality experts agree that homosexuality is an orientation that is unchangeable. Researchers believe that most homosexual orientation develops in the womb, that homosexual patterns are firmly fixed by around age five and that it is outside the control of the person. For centuries, techniques have been used to suppress homosexual feelings in 'sufferers' which have included breast amputation, castration, drug therapy, uterus removal, frontal lobotomy, psychotherapy, electric shock therapy, prayer meetings, spiritual counseling and exorcism. No therapies have ever succeeded.
The best they have been able to achieve is to make some bisexuals confine their sexual activities to members of the opposite sex or force some homosexuals to become celibate through guilt or fear, and to push many others to suicide.
Scientists have shown that homosexuality is an orientation that is unalterable. It's not a choice.
There is a greater than 90% chance that you, the reader, are heterosexual. Think about how difficult it would be to feel sexually attracted to someone of your own sex and you will begin to understand how it is virtually impossible to create feelings that do not already exist. If it was a choice, as many proclaim, why would any intelligent person choose a way of life that exposes them to so much hostility, prejudice and discrimination? Hormones are responsible, not human choices.
Are we Slaves to our Biology?
Scientists know how to change the sexuality of rats and monkeys in the womb. Some groups claim that we can control our likes and dislikes by will or choice and they insist that we can all reverse park or read street directories with the same ease. But scientists know this is unrealistic. You don't need to be a scientist to see that rabbits can't fly, ducks are lousy runners, most women have difficulty reading maps and men reading newspapers are temporarily deaf. Understanding brain structure differences makes us more tolerant of each other and allows us to have greater control over our destiny and to feel positive about our inclinations and choices.
Human intelligence has evolved to a point where we are more in control of our emotions than other animals and can think through our choices. Other animals don't think: they react to circumstances and this makes them slaves to their biology. Our biology is the motivations behind many of the choices we make that sometimes don't seem to make sense to us. So while we are more in control of ourselves than most other animals, we still can't completely buck the system. The biggest obstacle facing most people is their rejection of the idea that we are just another animal with a smart brain. This refusal makes these people victims of their biology.

source.
Barbara & Allan Pease
Abstract from “why men don't listen & women can't read maps

Well long story short, there are two important question here;
1. Is it Genetic or a Choice?
If it is genetic, why do we have to criticize, force other on their sexual orientation? Isn’t that why we as humans have the right to make choice for ourselves

2. Can the 'Choice' Be Changed?
If it can’t be changed why pretend it can be changed by placing a ban on it, when in reality it can’t, instead of allowing these people live happily like every other person.

sparko1:
In 2013 I made a post and cited some research materials for the above given topic. When this topic was discussed most people saw it as a debate that has no bases in Nigeria because according to most, it's something of no consequences, but over the years things have changed.

About a week ago I saw a video of guy almost linched by a group of young men in the NORTH for LOOKING/WALKING/SPEAKING IN A GIRLISH WAY LOL.

This topic is now more important than ever because though we consider this abnormal or against our religious orientation, we must agree there is something more and it deserves a thorough understanding.

Find below link to previous post: https://www.nairaland.com/1471542/being-gay-it-genetic-choice

Most people will ask why bring this back up, from experience, we have always been reactive, always trying to retrace our steps, everything from yahoo boys, to scamming, jungle justice, even kidnapping, it's until we begin to see real numbers of dead bodies or decay that we start reorientation, at which time lots of young minds are already too far gone.
I made a promise to re-evaluate the topic after 10 years.

The core of the research:
Homosexuality, “GAY” Is it Genetic or a Choice? Can the 'Choice' Be Changed?

Some research materials:
Research shows that the basic template for the body and brain of a human fetus is female in its structure. As a result men have some redundant female features such as nipples. Men also have mammary glands which do not function but retain the potential to produce milk. There are thousands of recorded cases of lactation in male prisoners of war where starvation led to a diseased liver failing to break down the hormones essential for breast-feeding.
As we now know, six to eight weeks after conception, a male fetus (XY) receives a massive dose of male hormones called androgens which first forms the testes, and then a second dose to alter the brain from a female format to a male configuration. If the male foetus does not receive enough male hormones at the appropriate time, one of two things may happen. Firstly, a baby boy may be born with a brain structure that is more feminine than masculine, in other words, a boy who will most likely be gay by puberty. Secondly, a genetic boy may be born with a fully functioning female brain and a set of male genitals. This person will be transgender.
This is a person who is biologically male but feeling as if he is a female. Sometimes a genetic male is born with a set of both male and female genitals.
Geneticist Anne Moir in her ground-breaking book Brainsex documents the many cases of genetic boys being born looking like girls and being raised as girls, only suddenly to find that they have penis and testicles that 'appear' at puberty.

Homosexuality is Part of History
Among the ancient Greeks, homosexuality was not only permitted, it was highly respected. The slim, boyish, youthful figure was their ideal of beauty, and paintings and statues were erected in its honour. Poems were written about the love that prominent older men had for young men. The Greeks believed that male homosexuality served a noble, higher purpose and it inspired youths to become worthy members of the community. They also found that young gay men proved to be some of their most courageous, successful warriors as they would fight 'side-by-side in love with each other'.
In Roman times, Julius Caesar was described as 'every woman's man and every man's woman.'
When Christianity frowned on same-sex relationships and God reportedly brought his vengeance down on the City of Sodom, homosexuality was banned, disappeared into the closet and wasn't seen in public again until recently. The Victorian era refused to acknowledge that homosexuality existed and, even if it did, it must be the Devil's work and would be severely punished. As we enter the 21st Century, older generations still believe that homosexuality is a recent phenomenon and an 'unnatural' act. The reality is that it has been around for as long as male foetuses missed out on their sufficient share of male hormones.

Is it Genetic or a Choice?
When Body Language author Allan Pease and geneticist Anne Moir appeared together on British television in 1991 for the launch of their books Brainsex (Mandarin Books) and Talk Language (HarperCollins), Moir revealed the results of her research which highlighted what scientists have known for years – homosexuality is inborn, not a choice.
Not only is homosexuality mostly inborn, but the environment in which we are raised plays a lesser role in our behaviour than was previously thought. Scientists have found that as an adolescent or adult, parents' efforts to suppress homosexual tendencies in their off-spring has practically no effect. And because the impact of male hormone (or lack of it) on the brain is the main culprit, most homosexuals are males.
There is no solid evidence that upbringing affects the likelihood of a child becoming homosexual.
For every lesbian (female body with a masculinised brain) there are about eight to ten gay men. If the gay and lesbian movement was to embrace this research and, if the education system taught these findings, homosexual and transsexual people would not encounter as much prejudice. Most people are more tolerant and accepting of a person who has inborn differences than they are of a person who, in their opinion, makes an unacceptable choice. Take, for example, Thalidomide babies, Parkinson's sufferers, autism or people who have cerebral palsy. The public is more accepting of these people because they are usually born with these conditions, as opposed to homosexuals who supposedly choose their lifestyle. Can we be critical of a person who is born left handed or dyslexic? Or with blue eyes and red hair? Or with a female brain in a male body? Most homosexual people believe that their homosexuality is a choice and, like many minority groups, often use public forums to display their 'choice', which generates negative attitudes from many members of the public.

Can the 'Choice' Be Changed?
Gays and lesbians do not choose their sexual orientation any more than heterosexuals do. Scientists and most human sexuality experts agree that homosexuality is an orientation that is unchangeable. Researchers believe that most homosexual orientation develops in the womb, that homosexual patterns are firmly fixed by around age five and that it is outside the control of the person. For centuries, techniques have been used to suppress homosexual feelings in 'sufferers' which have included breast amputation, castration, drug therapy, uterus removal, frontal lobotomy, psychotherapy, electric shock therapy, prayer meetings, spiritual counseling and exorcism. No therapies have ever succeeded.
The best they have been able to achieve is to make some bisexuals confine their sexual activities to members of the opposite sex or force some homosexuals to become celibate through guilt or fear, and to push many others to suicide.
Scientists have shown that homosexuality is an orientation that is unalterable. It's not a choice.
There is a greater than 90% chance that you, the reader, are heterosexual. Think about how difficult it would be to feel sexually attracted to someone of your own sex and you will begin to understand how it is virtually impossible to create feelings that do not already exist. If it was a choice, as many proclaim, why would any intelligent person choose a way of life that exposes them to so much hostility, prejudice and discrimination? Hormones are responsible, not human choices.
Are we Slaves to our Biology?
Scientists know how to change the sexuality of rats and monkeys in the womb. Some groups claim that we can control our likes and dislikes by will or choice and they insist that we can all reverse park or read street directories with the same ease. But scientists know this is unrealistic. You don't need to be a scientist to see that rabbits can't fly, ducks are lousy runners, most women have difficulty reading maps and men reading newspapers are temporarily deaf. Understanding brain structure differences makes us more tolerant of each other and allows us to have greater control over our destiny and to feel positive about our inclinations and choices.
Human intelligence has evolved to a point where we are more in control of our emotions than other animals and can think through our choices. Other animals don't think: they react to circumstances and this makes them slaves to their biology. Our biology is the motivations behind many of the choices we make that sometimes don't seem to make sense to us. So while we are more in control of ourselves than most other animals, we still can't completely buck the system. The biggest obstacle facing most people is their rejection of the idea that we are just another animal with a smart brain. This refusal makes these people victims of their biology.

source.
Barbara & Allan Pease
Abstract from “why men don't listen & women can't read maps

Well long story short, there are two important question here;
1. Is it Genetic or a Choice?
If it is genetic, why do we have to criticize, force other on their sexual orientation? Isn’t that why we as humans have the right to make choice for ourselves

2. Can the 'Choice' Be Changed?
If it can’t be changed why pretend it can be changed by placing a ban on it, when in reality it can’t, instead of allowing these people live happily like every other person.

MidasTouch15:
90% of the time, you brain works in reverse. MrCork. Grow up(no offenseeeeee)

Mercisharelove:
Whosoever believes in CHRIST should not perish, but have eternal life. Why? Judgement is coming, I don't know what you actually want to hear right now. I got eternal life. What about you?

Mercisharelove:
Whosoever believes in CHRIST should not perish, but have eternal life. Why? Judgement is coming, I don't know what you actually want to hear right now. I got eternal life. What about you?

Ilamina:
Preparing .


When we change our official language to french

1 = un
2 = Deuces
3 = trios
4 = quarte
5 = cinq

FRANCISTOWN:
Several years ago, my dad got me to buy an acre of land, but as at the time, I was not even interested in getting another piece.

I already had too much dealings with some owners' families and I didn't want to go thru that stress.
However, I bought the land after much earful from my dad.

I had 4plots on one side and 2 plots on the other. The land was giving a L map.

There was another man who owned the two plots at the back of my other two plots. The man was a farmer or so, he just planted corn and cassava on his 2 plots.

I think it was 3 months after I did the agreement. I got a call requesting if I would be interested in the other 2plots at the end of the perimeter.

After much pestering from my dad. I went to the place, saw the cassava and maize. I later heard the man who owned and cultivated the land died and his son wanted to travel out of the country, thus, the family had to sell the land.
A plot as at that year was 300 Grand. So I paid 650 Grand for the land and for the plantation on it.

Now here is my point. The man who sowed the cassava and the maize didn't reap from the land. The family reaped from it.
I didn't know what to do with the cassava and the maize so I just handed the land over to someone until when I started developing it.
That person has reaped from where he hasn't sown.

I didn't vote Tinubu but I buy petrol at the same price. Thereby reaping from somebody else's cultivation.

This life. We don't always reap what we sow. Sometimes, we reap what we haven't sown and what we even sowed, we may not reap.

What are your politicians sowing, what are they reaping?

The world is so intertwined that you can die from doing nothing wrong.
You'd just be at your shop doing your own thing and one crazy driver would just run you over. You'd reap from somebody else's mistakes.

You don't always reap what you sow and you can always reap from where and what you haven't sown.

PinkNature:
Mrcork it's 12 am, come bless trenches boss 🙏

Real men do not beg another man for moiney. It is a disgrace & a embarrassment. I do not respet beggers & i do not respet u for beggggin. Men dont help men. Men help only wom. DONT BEG ME AGAIN SIR!!!!(((no oofencsece))

FatherCHRISTMAS:
Oga Cork, any girl that is not light skinned is a non living thing

Me I never see anything o. Show me love

Real men do not beg another man for moiney. It is a disgrace & a embarrassment. I do not respet beggers & i do not respet u for beggggin. Men dont help men. Men help only wom. DONT BEG ME AGAIN SIR!!!!(((no oofencsece))

FatherCHRISTMAS:
Oga Cork, any girl that is not light skinned is a non living thing

Me I never see anything o. Show me love

Real men do not beg another man for moiney. It is a disgrace & a embarrassment. I do not respet beggers & i do not respet u for beggggin. Men dont help men. Men help only wom. DONT BEG ME AGAIN SIR!!!!(((no oofencsece))

superintendents:
surprise me.. Make i drop aza