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mirexxx:
Danny, i love u so much. you're my rock!

mirexxx:
Danny, i love u so much. you're my rock!

ggrin:
ode
Go siddon

Doublyu:
This might sound untrue or Fictional but it is so True. My name is Kelvin. I stay in Port Harcourt. On a faithful thursday evenin, I went to SPAR (the new PH Mall) to buy somethings. I was in d the company of my then secondary school classmate who is now a doctor. After we did our shopping and we went to pay, I saw dis pwetty lady. She was d cashier. After I paid I gve ha compliments and she blushed soo hard I could evn see ha make ups falling off her face. So I gve ha my card and She promised to call. Later dat evenin she did call.. I askd ha to cme and visit me. And She did. Looking @ dis lady in my room I felt I shld start Ravaging her! After a while, we strted kissing and in a less dan a minute she was unclad. Then I noticed a ring on her hand. I tot it was all dese fancy ladies ring. So I asked, and she was so plain to say she was married. I tot she ws kidn until she brought out her daughters pix from ha bag and showed me to proove it. I lost the urge immediately. I wondered why a married woman would want to cheat on her husband. I asked ha to leave and ofcourse she did.
Note: I would stil have done wateva but I don't sleep with married women! Hell NO!!!
Please guys, I hope I did the right thing..*winks*...

Young03:
I and my girlfriend had a little misunderstandin' bt week's later we resolved the issue but our love was not as of before.
I then decided to travel out of the state for months bt one week b4 my journey,i told her dt i will be travellin and all she could say is bye bye..she neva even care to ask me were i was going to. So a day to my journey,i met her and told her dat i shall be travellin' tomorrow and all she did was to laugh @ me and went away...b4 she came back i have left her office,she den called me and ask me wer was i travelling to. I told her and my journey will last for seven months, she shouted and told me dat b4 i comes back ,she will av another guy and surely she will be pregnant for who ever it may be.
When i reached there,i will call her twice or trice per day.bt atyms she might not even pick my calls, from there i decided not to call her again, until one faithful day i called her and she told me,she av gone to stay in porthacourt.
I was asked to come back home for some crucial meeting. When i got to my place. I then decided to go and see my good friend, on siting me..he welcomed me and his first question was . How about ur girl, i told him she is fine, the day passed.
Two days after, he( my friend) called me to his house and these ar our conversations.
MY FRIEND: guy how dat ur gal nah?
ME: she dey o
MY FRIEND: wer she dey now?
ME:she said she dey ph oo
MY FRIEND:hmm na wah oo
ME: any pro?
MY FRIEND: No oo
ME: ah ,guy na wah frm uoo,reason me nah
MY FRIEND: anyway mak i ask u,did u ever friend d gal?
ME: ah u dey tok like say u no no,wetin be dat?
MY FRIEND: d gal said u neva friend am say una juxt be normal friends, beside dis tin i won tell u nw be say, e no gud as i c am, and i advice ur guy bt e no listen
ME: wats dat?
MY FRIEND:imagine say u travel, ur rumate wey be our guy cum go dey tidy ur chick oo...he dey nack d gal everyday..evidenc to prov to u say na trut i de yarn u be mak u call d guy and d gal ask dem weda na tru or na lie
ME: (my eye red) well snx u don tell me ds,i wil be goin bak nxt tomorow bt i go try no wetin i go do d two..with anger and acrimony,i left der.
Very early in tha morning,i called the girl first,wanted to ask her bt immediately she heard me mention d guy name(my rumate) she end d call. I then called my rumate tell am everytin wey i hear .and i swear i must revenge him and he was shocked to hear such angry voice from me. I called the gal back and all she could say is dat am stupid to call her and ask such a silly question and end the call..
With anger i deleted her numba and left my rumate own because i mad a promise to revenge him..most of my friends adviced me to kill d guy bt i stoped them from such words. Over 5months neither me, d boy nor the gal av ever set eyez on each other nor speak on phone till yesterday.
I saw a missed call from my phone, then i decided to use my friend phone to call back...unfortunately it was the girl dat betrayed me, seeking a serious help from me, i was suprised to hear from her and even hear her ask help from me. I told her dat the help u need from me is a thing of LIFE and DEATH,also to cover shame and disguise bt i will neva help u.throught the day she av been busy calling my line and each time i pick her calls, i will only hear her cry dat i shud please help her dt she is dieing.
NOTE: the help she need is not a financial help bt invloves risk of life and death,if i help it might safe life or cause death...SO MY FELLOW NAIRALANDERS, DATS MY STORY AND MY QUESTION IS...
SHOULD I HELP HER OR NOT?..pls advice wisely, thanks.

CuteEmma:
First, in colour interpretation; white is purity, innocence, wholeness and completion.

On the other hand, black is believed to be magic, fear, mystery, formality, death, evil, aggression, rebellion (almost everything negative).

You know what, I think our society ever from the onset, have demanded too much than they can get from the female folks. And these expectations would never be realised until we start stiking the balance.

The bride is expected to approach the wedding bed an innocent, with little or no sexual experience. So, ladies who are not virgins (probably raped, or lost during sport activities or maybe in the days of ignorance) may be made to feel less than standard.

While the groom is supposed to be a Clark Kent on bed so that he can be perfect in the act before the D-day.

Question: 1) Who is this guy supposed to have gotten all the experiences with since the lady is expected to be a virgin?
and
2) Why does the lady wear a gown soo...white and the guy wears a suit soo...black on the wedding day?

CuteEmma:
First, in colour interpretation; white is purity, innocence, wholeness and completion.

On the other hand, black is believed to be magic, fear, mystery, formality, death, evil, aggression, rebellion (almost everything negative).

You know what, I think our society ever from the onset, have demanded too much than they can get from the female folks. And these expectations would never be realised until we start stiking the balance.

The bride is expected to approach the wedding bed an innocent, with little or no sexual experience. So, ladies who are not virgins (probably raped, or lost during sport activities or maybe in the days of ignorance) may be made to feel less than standard.

While the groom is supposed to be a Clark Kent on bed so that he can be perfect in the act before the D-day.

Question: 1) Who is this guy supposed to have gotten all the experiences with since the lady is expected to be a virgin?
and
2) Why does the lady wear a gown soo...white and the guy wears a suit soo...black on the wedding day?

donshaddow:
I stayed in old kent road, London before you ever dreamt of traveling abroad.

Just go to SA and upgrade your knowledge.

Eminiballer:
LOL!!
Nollywood actress, Daniella Okeke is always on point!
This one is called "Onu Gbajie Boys " in igbo.
See photo below...
https://i2.wp.com/3.bp..com/-uZtStFs4DOQ/VLZkCWvRhkI/AAAAAAABibw/G4u_WeSd8pQ/s1600/897664341199793680_267474074.jpg
source

iamrealdeji:
You're the reason why Nigerian ladies are bleaching,some Brazilian girls are not light skinned,they're dark brown skinned but really beautiful,go and watch Pitbull's Lenga afuera video

kendrick9:
guys dey flex london steady,u dey here dey make noise for a peckham,which is a suburb

Brandnew2:
Only desperate dumb wits dream about dating a Londoner or Amerikana who spebt half of his time washing plates and doing Freshen up jobs in toilets.


Dude, times are changing fast and most Nigerians now make more money than you can imagine.

Talk about Jobs, some of us don't need jobs cuz the last time i counted, we're paying up to 60 people's salary each month.

Let me know when you get back from exile, I will also do you a favor and hook you up with that all important job. Just don't fake a damn Queens English.

Eminiballer:
LOL!!
Nollywood actress, Daniella Okeke is always on point!
This one is called "Onu Gbajie Boys " in igbo.
See photo below...
https://i2.wp.com/3.bp..com/-uZtStFs4DOQ/VLZkCWvRhkI/AAAAAAABibw/G4u_WeSd8pQ/s1600/897664341199793680_267474074.jpg
SEE MORE HERE

Eminiballer:
LOL!!
Nollywood actress, Daniella Okeke is always on point!
This one is called "Onu Gbajie Boys " in igbo.
See photo below...
https://i2.wp.com/3.bp..com/-uZtStFs4DOQ/VLZkCWvRhkI/AAAAAAABibw/G4u_WeSd8pQ/s1600/897664341199793680_267474074.jpg
SEE MORE HERE

Brandnew2:
Hey MrCork,, Naija boys roll in Bentleys and Bullion vans the last time I checked. A range sports is now pure water.
Plus we don't spend our money, just ask Seun.
Lastly, we don't travel to London and stay there cuz were too busy counting Oyel money.
Take this to Barcleys bank.

Rizaria:
Your post makes no sense.
Do research Peckham is not a prestige area of London it is run down and ghetto. No one in their right mind especially a black man would own a range rover there because a) police would stop you to prove its yours
b) it would likely be stolen/ damaged and broken into
c) ppl are not that stupid.
So next time you want to start forming at least choose a posh or decent area that can testify to the lies.
Fyi I live in London. I know what i'm talking about

Brandnew2:
Hey MrCork,, Naija boys roll in Bentleys and Bullion vans the last time I checked. A range sports is now pure water.
Plus we don't spend our money, just ask Seun.
Lastly, we don't travel to London and stay there cuz were too busy counting Oyel money.
Take this to Barcleys bank.

unibenstudent1:
London guys are nothing compared to Nigerian yahoo boys..

zyzxx:
France guys can do more dis

Here in france

GoodFaith:
Dude your lie is that you will not F a dark skin girl
On the DL you are F all dark meat

sweettease:
*rolls eyes* oga what is your point?

panthera4:
you ain't making sence at all

Eljay24:
You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's Heartless for dumping him."

If you have one bad relationship after another, the only common denominator is YOU. Think about it.

SO WHY DON'T LADIES LIKE NICE GUYS

PART 1

Hideous Insecurity
What's wrong with Nice Guys? The biggest problem is that most Nice Guys are hideously insecure. They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention, rather than for the simply pleasure of giving. You never know if a Nice Guy really likes you for who you are, or if he has glimmered onto you out of desperation because you actually paid some kind of attention to him.

Nice guys are a big red target for the predators of the world. There are women out there who are "users" -- just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on "Nice Guys", stroke their egos, take them for a ride, add a notch to their belts, and move on. It's no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible. ..


Nice Guys go overboard.
They bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date (Oyibo setting that is to say).
They try to buy her affections with presents and fancy things. They think they know about romance, but their timing is all wrong, and they either COME-on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, they are so shy and unassertive, that they hang around pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, they will get the courage up to ask her out for a "date".

They are so desperate to please that they put aside their own needs, and place the object of their desire on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating her, they worship her.


Clingy
They cling to her, and want to be "one" with her for fear that if she is out of sight, she may disappear or become attracted to someone else. A Nice Guy often has trouble with emotional intimacy, because he believes that if she learns about the REAL person inside, she will no longer love him.

Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions. They think it's being equitable, but it puts an unfair burden of responsibility on her, and gives him the opportunity to blame her if the decision was an unwise one.


Fear of Conflict
Nice Guys rarely speak up when something bothers them, and rarely state clearly what it is they want, need and expect. They fear that any kind of conflict might spell the end of the relationship. Instead of compromising and negotiating, they repeatedly "give in". When she doesn't appreciate their sacrifice, they will complain that, "Everything I did, I did for her.", as if this somehow elevates them to the status of martyrs.

A woman doesn't want a martyr. She wants an equal, caring, adult partner.


Self Esteem
Nice Guys think that they will never meet anyone as special as she is. They use their adoration as a foundation for claiming that "no one will ever love her as much as I do."
Instead of being a profound statement of their devotion, this is a subtle, but nasty insult. It is akin to saying to her: "You are a difficult person, and only *I* can ever truly love you, so be thankful I'm here."



Too Clingy
More than loving the woman in his life, a Nice Guy believes he NEEDS her. "She is my Life, my only source of happiness..." YECH! What kind of a burden is that to place on her? That SHE has to be responsible for YOUR happiness? Get a grip!


Long Story Short
The nice guy -needs- to believe that he is the best person for the object of his desires, because otherwise his insecurities will overrun him with jealousies and fear. The truth of the matter is that there are many people out there who can be a good match for her. We rarely stop loving people we truly care about. Even if we no longer continue the relationship, the feelings will continue... But love isn't mutually exclusive. We can (and do) love many people in our lives, and romantic love is really no different. Though he may love her immensely, there will likely be other people who have loved her just as much in her past, and will love her just as much in the future. The irony of it all is: "Who would want to go out with someone who was inherently unlovable anyways?"



This ultimately boils down to the fact that Nice Guys don't like themselves. Is it any wonder women don't like them? In order to truly love someone else, you must first love yourself Too often Nice Guys mistake obsession for "love".

In a nutshell: Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.

Get this: INSECURITY ISN'T SEXY. IT'S A TURNOFF.

You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to LIKE yourself. You have to know what you want out of life, and go after it. Only then will you be attractive to the kind of woman with whom a long-term relationship is possible.

You might say there are numerous disadvantages to been nice to ladies, well nobody is saying you should stop been nice, but if you are going to be nice do it because you really want to, not because you are expecting something in return"

. ... Part2 Loading

#Updated . .. so due to lack of Funds we cancelled the sequel

Eljay24:
You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's Heartless for dumping him."

If you have one bad relationship after another, the only common denominator is YOU. Think about it.

SO WHY DON'T LADIES LIKE NICE GUYS

PART 1

Hideous Insecurity
What's wrong with Nice Guys? The biggest problem is that most Nice Guys are hideously insecure. They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for other people to gain acceptance and attention, rather than for the simply pleasure of giving. You never know if a Nice Guy really likes you for who you are, or if he has glimmered onto you out of desperation because you actually paid some kind of attention to him.

Nice guys are a big red target for the predators of the world. There are women out there who are "users" -- just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on "Nice Guys", stroke their egos, take them for a ride, add a notch to their belts, and move on. It's no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible. ..


Nice Guys go overboard.
They bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date (Oyibo setting that is to say).
They try to buy her affections with presents and fancy things. They think they know about romance, but their timing is all wrong, and they either COME-on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, they are so shy and unassertive, that they hang around pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, they will get the courage up to ask her out for a "date".

They are so desperate to please that they put aside their own needs, and place the object of their desire on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating her, they worship her.


Clingy
They cling to her, and want to be "one" with her for fear that if she is out of sight, she may disappear or become attracted to someone else. A Nice Guy often has trouble with emotional intimacy, because he believes that if she learns about the REAL person inside, she will no longer love him.

Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions. They think it's being equitable, but it puts an unfair burden of responsibility on her, and gives him the opportunity to blame her if the decision was an unwise one.


Fear of Conflict
Nice Guys rarely speak up when something bothers them, and rarely state clearly what it is they want, need and expect. They fear that any kind of conflict might spell the end of the relationship. Instead of compromising and negotiating, they repeatedly "give in". When she doesn't appreciate their sacrifice, they will complain that, "Everything I did, I did for her.", as if this somehow elevates them to the status of martyrs.

A woman doesn't want a martyr. She wants an equal, caring, adult partner.


Self Esteem
Nice Guys think that they will never meet anyone as special as she is. They use their adoration as a foundation for claiming that "no one will ever love her as much as I do."
Instead of being a profound statement of their devotion, this is a subtle, but nasty insult. It is akin to saying to her: "You are a difficult person, and only *I* can ever truly love you, so be thankful I'm here."



Too Clingy
More than loving the woman in his life, a Nice Guy believes he NEEDS her. "She is my Life, my only source of happiness..." YECH! What kind of a burden is that to place on her? That SHE has to be responsible for YOUR happiness? Get a grip!


Long Story Short
The nice guy -needs- to believe that he is the best person for the object of his desires, because otherwise his insecurities will overrun him with jealousies and fear. The truth of the matter is that there are many people out there who can be a good match for her. We rarely stop loving people we truly care about. Even if we no longer continue the relationship, the feelings will continue... But love isn't mutually exclusive. We can (and do) love many people in our lives, and romantic love is really no different. Though he may love her immensely, there will likely be other people who have loved her just as much in her past, and will love her just as much in the future. The irony of it all is: "Who would want to go out with someone who was inherently unlovable anyways?"



This ultimately boils down to the fact that Nice Guys don't like themselves. Is it any wonder women don't like them? In order to truly love someone else, you must first love yourself Too often Nice Guys mistake obsession for "love".

In a nutshell: Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.

Get this: INSECURITY ISN'T SEXY. IT'S A TURNOFF.

You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to LIKE yourself. You have to know what you want out of life, and go after it. Only then will you be attractive to the kind of woman with whom a long-term relationship is possible.

You might say there are numerous disadvantages to been nice to ladies, well nobody is saying you should stop been nice, but if you are going to be nice do it because you really want to, not because you are expecting something in return"

. ... Part2 Loading

#Updated . .. so due to lack of Funds we cancelled the sequel

sweettease:
The thing nor tire you?




Your anger nor fit cause earthquake

MORNDEW:
Life sometimes look like what we hoped for will not come to pass. When we run out of patience, when the itch to drop a particular way of life, ways of doing things, things you believe in and mostly a humble relationship and go for big one that might be disastrous. You just have to remain steadfast its never easy i know but please try.

This story is about a sweet relationship between Frank and Angela, they ve both dated for three years now. Frank was a student and Angela was a receptionist at cyber cafe. They both shared many things in common and loved themselves. Angela has been offering help to Frank for his Education and so many other things.

Then came a time when Angela started acting funny, many of her friends usually tell her of how they travel to diferent parts of the country and to have fun and meet diferent people. Angela loved travelling and would constantly remind her guy that she wants to visit places. He will as usual advise her to just leave the matter for now since he can’t afford that and even if she can, she should save the money as it will help her in future. He promised her that they will go wherever she wants as he is already through with school and looking for job that once he start earning salary, he will make her fantasy come through.

Angela did not listen. One xmas period, a guy who she usually gist with in her office promised to take her to a particular State and she accepted. She travelled without informing Frank and when Frank called she hadly pick when she picks she does not sound good nor respond very well to him. He enquired from her friends and they told him she had travelled. But don’t know where, with whom or why.

When she came back, she visited frank and he demanded why she travelled without his consent, she lied that she went with a friend for a burial. After much arguments, frank forgave her.
But as they were sleeping together that night, a text came into her phone and when he opened it,(anyone can read each other’s text as stipulated in the relationship) the text read ” baby i enjoyed our trip, the sex, food, museum and beach am ready for such again trip whenever you wish. He was filled with cold and anger. He drove her out of the house, she never cared cos the man had asked her to date him so he went to the man.

Months later, Frank secured a Job. By this time the dude has dumped her and she has ran back to plead with Frank but he refused. When he got his first salary, on his way home he was thinking and tears filled his eyes. He was crying because the lady was there for him. Is this not noney now i would have taken her to anywhere. He thought to himself. Why don’t you just forgive her and take her back his mind told him? No he said. I can’t forgive a cheat. I hate cheating.

What situation have you found yourself, just hold on a little while your time is coming, no matter the temptation think of the everlasting consequence. That guy today will soon arrive.

https://enlightennigeriablog./2015/01/14/please-be-patient/

sweettease:
2015 and you still never change... Smh