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bustyhelen:
Written By Nina Borum
Since the beginning of time, woman has been a gift to man. Eve didn’t have to do much to win Adam over in the perfect garden. She probably hadn’t shaved or spent tons of money at the salon and definitely hadn’t learned 50 ways to cook chicken to win Adam over. He knew that she was a gift and he was thankful.

Unfortunately today women are doing all they can to convince a guy that they are worth having. Magazine articles, books and well meaning friends and family constantly remind us that we are not doing enough. We are told that if we are still single, it’s our fault (either directly or indirectly) and we should be doing A, B & C to win the affection of a man.

I’ve been there. I’ve read through all the articles only to find myself a little more discouraged. These articles usually tend to reinforce that I’m not good enough and that I need to act a certain way for the right man to fall for me. Talk less, talk more, play hard to get, don’t play games, tell him how you feel, don’t tell him how you feel, wear more heels, sneakers are hot, and the list goes on. All the advice is ever changing and it’s hard to keep up with the best way to attract a man.

This quote stood out to me the other day “ Act Like a Prize and You will Turn him into a Believer”.

This quote got me to thinking that if women were truly the prize, why do we stress out so much over relationships. Do guys run to the mall to buy a new shirt to impress a girl on a date? Do they fall asleep reading articles entitled “How to get a girl to notice me”? Do they take a cooking class just so they can make their girlfriend the best dinner ever? Maybe some do but I think we can all agree that sometimes women worry too much about getting a man and keeping him.

Sometimes we just need to be reminded that we are the prize!

We want to feel like a prize but often times we don’t. We put in a lot of energy to get little attention from a guy that we may be interested in. If we want to be treated like a prize, we need to learn how to act like a prize. Here are three things to remember when acting like a prize.

Prizes are earned. In a race, all the runners have the same chance of winning, but only one gets 1st prize. This means that we don’t have to make ourselves available to every man that presents himself to us. We are available to the ones who value the prize so much that they are willing to put in the extra work it takes to win us. This doesn’t mean that we have men jumping through hoops, but it does mean taking notice of the guy who picks up the phone to call and makes his intentions clear versus the one who sends many mixed signals and leaves you confused.

Prizes have worth. Keeping with our race analogy, we can’t expect the runners to give their all for a prize that they don’t value. As women, instead of trying to accomplish and do things to prove our value we need to start believing the value that we already have as God’s beloved daughters! I have accomplished quite a few things in my life that add to my “worldly” value but none of those things has gotten me a husband. Believe that you truly are God’s prized possession and you will begin to shine and everyone will notice.

Prizes don’t compete. The only people who should be competing in a race are the runners, not the prizes! Each level or variety of prize is unique and valuable in it’s own way. As women, we sometimes forget that we should not be in competition with one another. We are all valuable prizes and we should be celebrating each other and not competing. A woman who is constantly in competition with other women is communicating that she doesn’t see her own value.

In all these things, remember that instead of being frustrated that men don’t see you as a prize you should challenge yourself to start acting like the prize that you believe you truly are.

http://www.kemifilani.com/2015/01/ladies-3-things-to-remember-while.html?m=1

MAYOWAAK:
Its the season of free t-shirts and free wrappers. Comes round every 4 years. Go stock up ya own.

elantraceey:
When did you start becoming reasonable?


no offeince.

AfricanApple:

Blackeard:
u have a serious problem.

9cent:
For me it use to be andyblaze but right now I think airforce one is the most annoying nairalander for 2014.

He's so annoying that sometimes I wish he was close to me so I could strangle him

He's tribalistic and got a big ego

I hate him

chenor:
Okay, to be frank, I love watching football. I am a gunner for life. Anytime a female friend says "hey, let us go and have fun and there is a match coming up and I tell her no. I want to watch the match. She then thinks I am insane. She says football is a thing for the guys and not for us. I really love the game especially when watching it with a friend in support of the rivals and you guys get to mock each other team. So fellow n'landers. is there anything wrong with a female watching football?. help out cuz some of my friends think I am not okay

EmmyMaestro:
Can You Marry a Man/Lady that Bleaches

EmmyMaestro:
Can You Marry a Man/Lady that Bleaches

MrDojo:
Bro chill out I said I respect ya if those numbers r true....

A true boss u r..

eesy:
I have a sister that I am a bit older than. She is just 15 years old, though she looks like a 19 year old. The problem I'm having is that I'm always uncomfortable with her talking with guys or even letting them touch her, I cant even imagine her staying alone at any university. Because of this reason I accepted going to the same higher institution with her. Is it normal or am I over protective of her?

kikelomojessy:
U add him on Facebook
•He checks ur pictures.
•He Drives A Golf 6/7 GTI
•He confirms
•He inbox u
•U reply, all excited, U'll want to hook up
•U set a date
•U dress up dat Legging Wit NO UNDERWEAR
•U smell good
•U put on a makeup - fresh breath & new
weave
•He takes u for lunch
•He Takes u For Drinks
•U two have a good time
•He rubs ur hand
•Makes u laugh(all women luv dat)
•Gives u looks nd smiles
•U fall in-love
•It's like u've known him forever
•He takes u to his apartment
•He makes u feel comfortable
•He lays u on his bed
•He rubs it gently
•Kiss u passionately
•Pulls ur Leggings
•They're too tight but he manages to take
them off
•U love his aggression, strength, power & u
give in
•It feels good
•U know it's wrong, but it feels so good
•U ask for protection, he says it's too late
•U obey & don't disturb
•He says he loves u nd u don't
hesitate to say u love him too
•U had sex with him
•He pulls out, goes to the kitchen to get a
glass of water
•He helps u drink it ...Ohh man u feel
special
•"He must be the one! " U think to urself
•You'll get dressed
•He takes u to the taxi rank
•He kisses u on the cheek & say "I had a
great time!"
•Gives U (#15000)
•U smile & say "See u tomorrow babe."
•He stays silent
•Your taxi drives away
•In the taxi you can't stop smiling
U get home & inbox him that u got home
safe
•He's online, but doesn't reply
•It's unlike him, so u inbox him again
•He doesn't respond
•Minutes later u can't find him on ur friend
list
•HE BLOCKED U!!!
•Days, weeks, months passes by
•U start feeling sick, weak, loose
weight, act strange wit sores in your mouth
•U go to the clinic
•Get tested
•Minutes later...
•Nurse walks in..."I'm sorry.
You're HIV Postive & Pregnant!"
•"HOW?" U don't understand
•Reality hits u
•U walk home, Scared, Confused
•U go to the train railway, u lay hopeless
nd
emotionless
•U see the train coming nearer, u look into
the sky & mumble a
prayer
•That's the end of u
•Don't be that girl! Live well. and lets
Stop chasing material things. Always use your head, that's where your brain lies.

kikelomojessy:
U add him on Facebook
•He checks ur pictures.
•He Drives A Golf 6/7 GTI
•He confirms
•He inbox u
•U reply, all excited, U'll want to hook up
•U set a date
•U dress up dat Legging Wit NO UNDERWEAR
•U smell good
•U put on a makeup - fresh breath & new
weave
•He takes u for lunch
•He Takes u For Drinks
•U two have a good time
•He rubs ur hand
•Makes u laugh(all women luv dat)
•Gives u looks nd smiles
•U fall in-love
•It's like u've known him forever
•He takes u to his apartment
•He makes u feel comfortable
•He lays u on his bed
•He rubs it gently
•Kiss u passionately
•Pulls ur Leggings
•They're too tight but he manages to take
them off
•U love his aggression, strength, power & u
give in
•It feels good
•U know it's wrong, but it feels so good
•U ask for protection, he says it's too late
•U obey & don't disturb
•He says he loves u nd u don't
hesitate to say u love him too
•U had sex with him
•He pulls out, goes to the kitchen to get a
glass of water
•He helps u drink it ...Ohh man u feel
special
•"He must be the one! " U think to urself
•You'll get dressed
•He takes u to the taxi rank
•He kisses u on the cheek & say "I had a
great time!"
•Gives U (#15000)
•U smile & say "See u tomorrow babe."
•He stays silent
•Your taxi drives away
•In the taxi you can't stop smiling
U get home & inbox him that u got home
safe
•He's online, but doesn't reply
•It's unlike him, so u inbox him again
•He doesn't respond
•Minutes later u can't find him on ur friend
list
•HE BLOCKED U!!!
•Days, weeks, months passes by
•U start feeling sick, weak, loose
weight, act strange wit sores in your mouth
•U go to the clinic
•Get tested
•Minutes later...
•Nurse walks in..."I'm sorry.
You're HIV Postive & Pregnant!"
•"HOW?" U don't understand
•Reality hits u
•U walk home, Scared, Confused
•U go to the train railway, u lay hopeless
nd
emotionless
•U see the train coming nearer, u look into
the sky & mumble a
prayer
•That's the end of u
•Don't be that girl! Live well. and lets
Stop chasing material things. Always use your head, that's where your brain lies.

MrDojo:
Like a boss...
#RESPECT if d@ no is true tho...

Tashaamania:
Duuhhh im soo hot that every man who sets his eyes on me will want me

5years ago? Loool. How old are you now?

MrDojo:
Der is a special feeling as a guy weneva u
Break a girl's heart or a lot of hearts ...a fair % of guyz would ave exp dis feeling N I knw it feels great (tho bad sometimes) I don't knw if its only me Oo ...bt d@ feeling is jst too awesome d@ I actually enjoy it.... .....our female counter parts enjoy dis feelin all too well so I dnt tink its a crime if we der beta halves enjoy it tooo...

Tashaamania:
..and then it gets worse
you need help

ireneony:
It was just yesterday I decovered that some romance section peeps, actually have each other phone numbers and they also do whatsapp group chat.
Who knows how many people they have gossip about and backbite about..
Am really disappointed with the way some peeps are turning romance section into something else ..................


I can only mention the monikers of those dating if the mods permit me.
Let me drop a hit.
1. His name start with N dating female J
2. O dating female B
3. K dating female G
4. T dating female C

ireneony:
It was just yesterday I decovered that some romance section peeps, actually have each other phone numbers and they also do whatsapp group chat.
Who knows how many people they have gossip about and backbite about..
Am really disappointed with the way some peeps are turning romance section into something else ..................


I can only mention the monikers of those dating if the mods permit me.
Let me drop a hit.
1. His name start with N dating female J
2. O dEating female B
3. K dating female G
4. T dating female C

firstEVA:
I am dark skinned and I may be tempted to strangle you in the process.

I like Onila for you or liability.

Tashaamania:
what is "swaaaar"?

twerkjack:
U ARE SOOOO FULL OF URSELF, BUH ITS CALLED CONFIDENCE ND I ADMIRE DAT SOMETIMES.... BTW UR POINTS ARE REASONABLE AND TRUE..... #LADIESSAYNOTOAFRICANMENEVENTHE ONESINLONDON

Mojanity:
wow what's up bro? i grew up in Camberwell and I'd go for a 9ja London guy anytime anyday. their class is unbeatable

firstEVA:
I am dark skinned and I may be tempted to strangle you in the process.

I like Onila for you or liability.

firstEVA:
does she look masculine? It would be nice if you two date, get married and have a son, then you call him Troll.

firstEVA:
MrCork I hear Onila is your girlfriend, is that true?

lalasticlala:
Bcs she's light skinned I guess

firstEVA:
Nope

kika23:
OK!! I gerrit now.... Thank you mrcork....

Are you light skin?

lalasticlala:
Maheeda may be controversial but she's definitely a very beautiful woman. Maheeda is well known in Nigeria especially online. She is an ex prostitute turned gospel singer. She is married to a white man. She had a baby out of wedlock years back. The child is now a teenager. Maheeda once called for the legalization of prostitution in Nigeria.



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chigo93:
heheheheh,i don laugh oo!u wish I wz ugly!sowie