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MhizVee:
Come in and share yours

topeorekoy:
All Progressives Congress(APC) held its Mega Rally today 14th January 2015 at the AVMCC field (Old Airways ground) in Ikeja. The Mega Rally started 9am and it attracted big wigs from the party. Asiwaju, Bola Ahmed Tinubu; Gov Fashola and his deputy, Akinwunmi Ambode, his wife and deputy, Lagos APC chairman; Mr Ajomale and many others.




http://topeorekoya..com/2015/01/pictures-from-apc-mega-rally-in-lagos.html

panthera4:
are u going to say smthng straight forward or not!

...ok. What u need to do:

1. Drink raw egg plus honey & water to make yor voice deep.....this way, she don't think yor g@y coz of yo feminism voice. .

2. Tell her yo comin to London next week....this way, u will loook like a Londoner to impress her coz she ain't feelin u kinda

3. Quit approaching females wit pigeon English....it makes u people backward (no oofense)

4. Invite her for candle lite dinner....candle lite dinner is not fire wood (pls don't get confuse)

5. Once the babe tries to go come,stand up sitting down by opening the door like gentleman to make u look cool like British guy....gerrrit?

....hope this make sense!

raj2014:
Look, it is our fault that our ladies turn out the way they do these days. So enuf of this trash against them.

It is with slight anger that I am keying this topic rite now. And I will tell u why.

Over the past couple months, there’s been a lot of malicious, sadistic, chauvinistic and downright embarrassing talks about our girls, 9ja girls. It is especially so common here on NL.

Guys, these insults against the ladies should stop! Coz it hardly seems fair. And it is largely BECAUSE WE GUYS ARE TO BE BLAMED. We are the real bad, spoilt fellas. We need to have a long pause and have a rethink, some soul-searching.

We have overwhelming cynicism towards these girls. A thinking and mentality which I think is weak and unmanly. The worst part of this girls-bashing is guys making generalizations. Don’t u not have a family with ladies?

Frankly, I do not hang out on the board of the Romance Section, but it seems that a bunch of eye-candy stories on the front page usually emerge from the romance section. Wonderful! That’s the reason I am posting this on here directly, so the girl-haters and the gentlemen cud see it.
You see ridiculous stuff like:

GUYS, SHARE UR MAGARIZM EXPERIENCE HERE.

WHY GUYS SHUD NOT BE NICE TO LADIES

NIGER GIRLS AND THEIR NEWER RUNS PATTERN.

NAIJA GIRLS ARE RUNS GEHS.

9JA GIRLS ARE BITCHES. THEY ARE PROS AT FRIENDZONING and whatnot. Wat the heck is friendzoning? lol. i love dz guys.

All of those stereotypes above are a bunch of malarkey! Walahi! In my own opinion, it is only weak-minded, insecure and dull fellas think that way.

Look, fellas, there’s no doubt that this is the trend out there and that u guys obviously go thru these nauseating ‘attitudes’ from these girls, but I firmly

believe that U ATTRACT WHO U ARE. That is a famous known law of human nature.

Well, the fact of the matter is that 9JA GUYS ARE THE REASON FOR THE ‘CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH’ ATTITUDE OF 9JA GIRLS. How wud they even take us seriously, when we hardly take ourselves seriously.

Consider these typical 9ja guys’ uncivilized habits:

1. Nigerian men, from time immemorial, have been overly and disorderly materialistic.

We wud kill (figuratively) to get whatever we want, whatever it takes. Very uncivilized.
Every sleek shiny object and stuff is a total ‘big deal’ to us. As a consequence, this must-have mentality has been rubbing off on our girls. U no, habits cud be contagious. Our women spend time with us, in times of hustle and in times of relaxation and so they get a good chance to have a sense and a ‘feel’ of what we are up to.

Our indulgences, greed and anti-social mannerisms apparently rub off on these girls we think we are ‘rugged’ but they only prove ruggedier.

2. We are not romantic and charming.

Many 9ja guys are very insecure and lack personality which readily melts girls’ hearts. When you approach a lady, how do u come across? As flamboyant, trendy, insecure, insincere and especially desperate? Our insecurity is oftentimes a result of our insincerity. With of those uninspiring qualities, wud u expect a typical naija lady to show originality and sincerity to u? no, she won’t. she is so happy to see some things to gain for herself and, with ease, let go of your sorry ass.

3. We prefer showing off to actually doing the 'work' of winning over that girl.

Stop showing off Mr. Man, if u wanna be taken so damn seriously like a real man. A lot of us approach our girls with this innate attitude which goes ‘well, I have a lot of stuff. I have money. I have a car. I have an elite family that is festooned all around me, so no problem. Come to me’

Wud u call that romantic and charismatic? So what we do is flaunting all we have in possession and dangling em in front of the girls coz u are so desperate for girls who r so easily ‘modified’ to man’s tune. Is it not women? Y buy them? Guys, they won’t take u seriously. They won’t open up their hearts to u. Don’t u know that’s where u need to be?!

We are just spoiling them, guys.

Where is our self-confidence, aura, brilliance, intensity, charisma, calm and some measure of modesty with ur wealth or warever.
Pls, tell me where all of those and other fine qualities of a real man go.

Of course, having stuff and money is admirable. in fact, money and stuff talk. however, they dont buy true love. u only end up with a heartbreak and then come over Nairaland wen u are belle-full and rave. well, m sure u get fine advice sha.

So if we can start fine-tuning our own attitudinal pattern toward these girls, I am very sure that this girls- bashing and unfair generalizations wud come to an abrupt stop.
I promise!

raj2014:
Look, it is our fault that our ladies turn out the way they do these days. So enuf of this trash against them.

It is with slight anger that I am keying this topic rite now. And I will tell u why.

Over the past couple months, there’s been a lot of malicious, sadistic, chauvinistic and downright embarrassing talks about our girls, 9ja girls. It is especially so common here on NL.

Guys, these insults against the ladies should stop! Coz it hardly seems fair. And it is largely BECAUSE WE GUYS ARE TO BE BLAMED. We are the real bad, spoilt fellas. We need to have a long pause and have a rethink, some soul-searching.

We have overwhelming cynicism towards these girls. A thinking and mentality which I think is weak and unmanly. The worst part of this girls-bashing is guys making generalizations. Don’t u not have a family with ladies?

Frankly, I do not hang out on the board of the Romance Section, but it seems that a bunch of eye-candy stories on the front page usually emerge from the romance section. Wonderful! That’s the reason I am posting this on here directly, so the girl-haters and the gentlemen cud see it.
You see ridiculous stuff like:

GUYS, SHARE UR MAGARIZM EXPERIENCE HERE.

WHY GUYS SHUD NOT BE NICE TO LADIES

NIGER GIRLS AND THEIR NEWER RUNS PATTERN.

NAIJA GIRLS ARE RUNS GEHS.

9JA GIRLS ARE BITCHES. THEY ARE PROS AT FRIENDZONING and whatnot. Wat the heck is friendzoning? lol. i love dz guys.

All of those stereotypes above are a bunch of malarkey! Walahi! In my own opinion, it is only weak-minded, insecure and dull fellas think that way.

Look, fellas, there’s no doubt that this is the trend out there and that u guys obviously go thru these nauseating ‘attitudes’ from these girls, but I firmly

believe that U ATTRACT WHO U ARE. That is a famous known law of human nature.

Well, the fact of the matter is that 9JA GUYS ARE THE REASON FOR THE ‘CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH’ ATTITUDE OF 9JA GIRLS. How wud they even take us seriously, when we hardly take ourselves seriously.

Consider these typical 9ja guys’ uncivilized habits:

1. Nigerian men, from time immemorial, have been overly and disorderly materialistic.

We wud kill (figuratively) to get whatever we want, whatever it takes. Very uncivilized.
Every sleek shiny object and stuff is a total ‘big deal’ to us. As a consequence, this must-have mentality has been rubbing off on our girls. U no, habits cud be contagious. Our women spend time with us, in times of hustle and in times of relaxation and so they get a good chance to have a sense and a ‘feel’ of what we are up to.

Our indulgences, greed and anti-social mannerisms apparently rub off on these girls we think we are ‘rugged’ but they only prove ruggedier.

2. We are not romantic and charming.

Many 9ja guys are very insecure and lack personality which readily melts girls’ hearts. When you approach a lady, how do u come across? As flamboyant, trendy, insecure, insincere and especially desperate? Our insecurity is oftentimes a result of our insincerity. With of those uninspiring qualities, wud u expect a typical naija lady to show originality and sincerity to u? no, she won’t. she is so happy to see some things to gain for herself and, with ease, let go of your sorry ass.

3. We prefer showing off to actually doing the 'work' of winning over that girl.

Stop showing off Mr. Man, if u wanna be taken so damn seriously like a real man. A lot of us approach our girls with this innate attitude which goes ‘well, I have a lot of stuff. I have money. I have a car. I have an elite family that is festooned all around me, so no problem. Come to me’

Wud u call that romantic and charismatic? So what we do is flaunting all we have in possession and dangling em in front of the girls coz u are so desperate for girls who r so easily ‘modified’ to man’s tune. Is it not women? Y buy them? Guys, they won’t take u seriously. They won’t open up their hearts to u. Don’t u know that’s where u need to be?!

We are just spoiling them, guys.

Where is our self-confidence, aura, brilliance, intensity, charisma, calm and some measure of modesty with ur wealth or warever.
Pls, tell me where all of those and other fine qualities of a real man go.

Of course, having stuff and money is admirable. in fact, money and stuff talk. however, they dont buy true love. u only end up with a heartbreak and then come over Nairaland wen u are belle-full and rave. well, m sure u get fine advice sha.

So if we can start fine-tuning our own attitudinal pattern toward these girls, I am very sure that this girls- bashing and unfair generalizations wud come to an abrupt stop.
I promise!

MhizVee:
mr cork,u don come here agaîn wt ur wahala

panthera4:
she is purple if that's whAt u want to hear!

MhizVee:
Come in and share yours

panthera4:
I meet this girl few months ago, we hv been talking and chatting online! I started developing feelings for her! After sometym I felt I should let her know! When I told her am in luv with her and wish her to be my girlfriend! She said she is already in a serious relationship! Am lost what do I tell her guys! Sure luv this girl!

kekakuz:
NOW YOU GOT ME CONFUSED
WHAT ARE YOU SAYING

klassic:
I moved into Lagos November ending 2014, and needed to get me a job since by December i had fully settled. I learnt from nairaland that submitting C.Vs online does not really pay off as submitting C.Vs directly to offices. December 18th, I had a burning desire to walk round Toyin/Allen axis of Ikeja and submit application which i did. On Friday 9th January, i wrote my first aptitude test, i was called on Monday , 12th January, for a job i latter turned down, and on Tuesday 13th , i got a better job offer which i took and i am resuming soonest with a big office . Please join me express my unreserved gratitude and appreciation to the GOD OF SHILOH ( COS MY HEAVEN ON EARTH DON START ALREADY), BISHOP DAVID.O.OYEDEPO ( for the speedy fulfillment of his prophetic declaration upon my life) , to Pst. Isreal Akinsanya, Mr. Seun , my fellow nairalanders and all job applicants out there. More jobs and employment to all IJN, Amen

CrazyScientist:
She's the best right

ammyb4u:
I met him in august 2013. I am very much in love with him so showed him greenlight but he didnt recipocate. I wooed him last year but he turned me down. The worst part of it is that i can't get him off my mind. Pls how can i forget about him

CrazyScientist:
She's the best right

Romzyj:
Some men are in the habit of forcing themselves
on their wives, believing that they have a right
to sex at anytime, whether the wives like it or
not. Is this right or wrong?
Rape » is the act of having unlawful carnal
knowledge of a woman or girl without her
consent or with her consent but obtained by
using force, threat or intimidation.
This kind of rape also happens among married
people. Victims of such acts have been reported
to live with stress, fear, anxiety, and guilt for
‘provoking’ the abuse and are frequently
subjected to intense criticism.
For most Nigerian men, sex with their wives is
their rights and the woman should not give any
excuse whenever her husband is in the mood,
no mater how tired or weak she is.
Some of these men feel that since they are the
ones who married the women, then sex is one
of the main reasons they got married in the
first place.
Sadly, some cultures give credence to the fact
that a woman has no right over her body and
should never say 'no' to her husband. This has
led to many men sexually abusing their wives
and they do not see this as an offence because
they are lords of the homes.
The society we live in also does not seem to
believe that a man can actually rape his wife
nor see anything bad in marital rape.
Some women too cannot even complain that
they were raped by their husbands as no one
would take them serious.
http://zroclans..in/2015/01/is-marital-rape-abuse-or-right.html?m=0

Romzyj:
Some men are in the habit of forcing themselves
on their wives, believing that they have a right
to sex at anytime, whether the wives like it or
not. Is this right or wrong?
Rape » is the act of having unlawful carnal
knowledge of a woman or girl without her
consent or with her consent but obtained by
using force, threat or intimidation.
This kind of rape also happens among married
people. Victims of such acts have been reported
to live with stress, fear, anxiety, and guilt for
‘provoking’ the abuse and are frequently
subjected to intense criticism.
For most Nigerian men, sex with their wives is
their rights and the woman should not give any
excuse whenever her husband is in the mood,
no mater how tired or weak she is.
Some of these men feel that since they are the
ones who married the women, then sex is one
of the main reasons they got married in the
first place.
Sadly, some cultures give credence to the fact
that a woman has no right over her body and
should never say 'no' to her husband. This has
led to many men sexually abusing their wives
and they do not see this as an offence because
they are lords of the homes.
The society we live in also does not seem to
believe that a man can actually rape his wife
nor see anything bad in marital rape.
Some women too cannot even complain that
they were raped by their husbands as no one
would take them serious.
http://zroclans..in/2015/01/is-marital-rape-abuse-or-right.html?m=0

mumumugu:
Top 10 Nigerian cities with beautiful gals!
10) Asaba
Coming in at number 10 is Asaba, the current capital city of Delta State. It’s a city of about 150,000 people. Personally, I think this city should come in like the 6th or 7th position. Asaba has produced many pretty women. Well, the people have spoken

9) Kano
Surprisingly, Kano is making the list at number 9. I’m sure some of you will question this. If you have visited Kano, you will agree with this choice.

Jos
Jos in Plateau state of Nigeria is known for its near Europe like weather. Little did some of you that Jos is home to some of the most beautiful women in Nigeria. Pretty ladies abound in this lovely city.

7) Calabar
Calabar in Cross Rivers is another beautiful city with some of Nigeria’s finest. Calabar has contributed many beautiful ladies to the nation.

6) Owerri
The capital city if Imo state, south east of Nigeria is blessed many things, including beautiful ladies. Owerri is coming in at #6 ahead of cities like Asaba and Calabar could be a surprise to many but, have you have ever been to this great city?

5) Lokoja
Nobody can fault this choice. A friend once told me the tribe with the most beautiful ladies in Nigeria is the Ebira tribe. Of course I argued, until I visited. The stories I heard growing up just don’t add up anymore

4) Benin
Anyone who visited this city will understand why it’s making the list. Not only are the ladies pretty, they have class too. Trust me when I say this. You will never believe, until you visit

3) Abuja
Nigeria’s capital city is home to a fraction of all the tribes in Nigeria. Each tribe is represented in Abuja. I guess that contributed to how this great city made #3 on the list.

2) Lagos
Yea. Now the big league. Lagos held the top spot for a while and could have easily passed for number one again, but for the influx of ladies from two particular cities. I won’t mention names just yet. I don’t want their people to come after me…lol. Watch out for my next post, where I shall reveal the cities with the ugliest ladies. You find out then.

1) Port Harcourt
Port Harcourt comfortably sits at the number one spot. You all will agree with me that Port Harcourt is a city where the most beautiful ladies reside. Port Harcour

t is overtaking Lagos because of a reason I gave earlier. It’s simple, if it’s a must you marry a beautiful lady, go to Port Harcourt.

enifex:
[img]http://1.bp..com/-NpWaNMdEG6A/VLUVUhw_yiI/AAAAAAAESek/ObmPcfGqCtw/s1600/3.png[/img]

Micah is an up-coming R&B singer, he’s 20 and has a great voice if you watch some of his videos. Only thing is, he has more hips and ass than Kim K, K.Michelle, Nicki Minaj and every other big booty female you READ MORE http://nairaland.com/pics-new-rb-singer-has-more-hips-than-kim-k-and-erm-hes-man/

[img]http://2.bp..com/-6oofuWPNiDw/VLUUGc6VF1I/AAAAAAAESdY/IXvQZs2AVCA/s1600/4.png[/img]

See More of his photos after the CUT http://nairaland.com/pics-new-rb-singer-has-more-hips-than-kim-k-and-erm-hes-man/

abeautifulchick:
Hmmmmm.

chingydaboss:
Came across this picture and could not stop laughing..


Funny enough, seems to be the truth

unibenstudent1:
1)are they attention seekers
2)are they frustrated internally
Feminists..