₦airaland Forum

amarachi06:
I have been married for 6years without a child. it has been the worst time of My life to be married without a child.

Anytime we argue, he will shout at me with scorn and hateful words but he can never speak to his family members that way.

lf l try to talk with him over some issues or advice which will benefit us, he will shot me down, only for us to suffer later.

l have tried to Know my wrong to him but he doesn't wanna tell me. l am in deep pains cos he has told me "that anytime l want to leave, that am free to do so".

On Monday, he came back around 12am, and l was worried till that time. He came back without explaination and l asked him, whether l am that invisible to him, and his reply was "if l am tired, that l should leave". l now replied, "if l have a child, will you send us out?" he didn't say anything but l know that his attitude is cos of that.

The day l had my Last miscarriage was in 2016, and the tears l had in My eyes was not about my baby but knowing that l will Not be loved again by my husband.

l am tired! l almost went Into depression, and sucide, cos of his attitude to me. l don't Know how to handle him, cos my presence irritates him.

Please Sound advice.

TheEffective:


Hausa is not worth learning in the 21st century. It has no benefits abroadi.

KingAzubuike:
If dino wants to really prove he's a boss and badman, he'll f*** both mother and daughter after the party.

luiscarter:
Why omotola come fine pass her daughter

ManirBK:
Few weeks after the closure of the nation’s land borders, daily petroleum consumption had dropped from 60million litres per day to 52million litres per day, the Minister of State for Petroleum Resources, Timipre Sylva, said yesterday.
Sylva said this when he inaugurated a team of 89 persons drawn from five key agencies to ensure transparency and accountability in the distribution of petroleum products across the country.

He said the team would help to authenticate the actual volume of products imported and consumed in the country and ensure that the nation attains energy security.


Members of the team were drawn from the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation, Department of Petroleum Resources, Petroleum Products Pricing Regulatory Agency, Petroleum Equalization Fund and the Department of State Security.
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/border-closure-daily-pms-consumption-drops-from-60m-to-52m-litres-fg.html?

sammirano:
HOD no respect dean, thats new. Where i come from if dean is coming hod stands. Na wa for this people oo.

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, events like this makes me ashamed to be associated with Christianity and sometimes I'm tempted to join Islam. Majority of the bastards we call pastors are wolfs in sheep clothing. Christianity habours so many madness. No Islamic cleric has been caught in this sexual mess because they are guided accordingly by the tenets of Islam. Is it a coincidence that 3 pastors have been disgraced in few months and many more to come? Islam will soon take over Nigeria cos shameful incidents like this will make many Christians convert to Islam

titiloyeblog:
This lovely bride performed with her band the NYSC Abuja band at her wedding reception.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FncUhOPeas0

source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2019/10/bride-plays-brigade-drum-with-her-cds.html

abbaapple:



This morning with such news

MiztaYouneek:
What is your opinion about ladies breastfeeding their babies in public.

I do come across many ladies doing that and its looks a bit awkward to me but who am I to judge when their husbands are not complaining.

I don't think I would love to see my future wife breastfeeding our baby in public just like that. I believe there should be better ways to do that than just bring out their breast anyhow in public because the baby is crying and needs to feed.

I hope maybe some ladies here can actually say something about this.

Onyi22:
She must be joking oooo I must buy mine by all means

internetbusines:
Dakwambo

internetbusines:
Dakwambo

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I love president Buhari and the good works he's doing to make Nigeria one of the global super powers. Buhari remains one of the good ambassador of islam in Africa and his way of life sometimes tempts me to join Islam. On behalf of we Nigerian Christians, we say thank you for your hard work and anti corruption. Just like our Muslim brothers we Christians are willing to support president Buhari to any length.

FamousMonk:
As long as its themselves they kill in the North,no problem..

stephenduru:
Former Presidents of the Federal Republic of Nigeria Chief Olusegun Obasanjo,Dr Goodluck Ebele Jonathan;Alaafin of Oyo, Barrister Oweilaemi Pereotubo the President Ijaw Youth council and others were pictured at the Gabriel The Archangel Catholic Church to honour the 85th birthday of Sir Chief Dr G.O Igbenedion CON,CFR the Esama of Benin Kingdom.

See more photos below

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/09/obasanjogoodluck-jonathan-and-alaafin.html?m=1

Amuatulu:
Amuatulu
The thing be like clitoris*

ngeneukwuewuGOAT:
fake news. fake photos. fake report.

What is Lafia doing in Plateau state

Useless bloggers

zoba88:
A pretty lady married a blind man in Lafia. According to Nora who shared the story,the man is not rich.

The bride is from Plateau State.

Below is what she wrote.....

'WONDERFUL shall never end ooo, beautiful Plateau bride and her handsome blind groom. I witness d I DO I DO today, no be say na money d bride c ooo this is indeed true love. May God bless their union I pray'

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/09/pretty-nigerian-lady-marries-blind-man.html?m=1

daddymummy:
I have seen an instance where sb was praying for his problems to be solved.

Soon after the prayer, he became very weak.

One woman then revealed that while the man was praying,the man's spirit was somewhere fighting with some forces that were responsible for his problems.

That although the man was not aware of what was going on,he was actually engaged in a warfare.

The effect of the warfare was the weakness in his body.

The man was not aware that he was engaged in a warfare which he won.

And truely,the man's problems were solved.

That is why i asked whether there is another dimension of us that is unknown to us.

daddymummy:
I have seen instances when someone is being accused of being a witch, the person will sincerely deny being a witch.

But subsequent happenings will show he or she is the cause of some misfortunes although he or she may not seem to be aware.

Is it possible for somebody to spiritually ravage another person's life without being aware he is doing so.

Like say somebody in a family dies. In a church it is revealed that the man who causes the death is Mr A.

Mr A denies it and the denial is genuine denial.

A prayer is being said for the witch to die so that there will be no more death in the family.

Soon after the prayer, Mr A dies.

Is it possible that Mr A could have done wickedness against his family by using his spirit while his soul which has his mind is unawares.

As in, he is a witch without knowing.

This issue is more common nowadays.

Please if someone can explain this things to me, I will appreciate it.

Is there more to us than our conscious awareness?

Is there a dimension of us that is not known to us?

As is, can we be doing some things that are outside our conscious awareness.

Like i am here browsing discussing in nairaland with my conscious mind and awareness.
But in my other dimension,i am in USA helping someone to do something without being consciously aware.

In the case of a witch,he/she would be tormenting somebody in the other dimension without being consciously aware of what is going on.

Please and please, I will appreciate any genuine information on these things if you have one

Silentscreamer:
why would u allow her use u to do all that? don't u have sense?

Nairaobserver:
Nigerian lady recreate Nollywood star actress, Adesua outfit, what can you say about the outfit. Perfect recreation or wrong?

See more photos below
Source: https://www.nairafame.com/2019/08/nigerian-lady-recreate-adesua-outfit.html

Abdul9025:
kamar an asirce wanna mutum.. duk sai controlling nashi sukeyi wlh

jess2019:
My son will be 9 in October but his behaviour bothers me so much. He acts like a day dreamer. He has turned me into a shouting and miserable mum as I had to beat him after I've exhausted other punishment options. To make this short, I'm going to summarise his behaviour.

He still cannot get himself ready for school in the morning. Either he doesnt cream his body or forgets to comb his hair or doesnt brush his teeth. He forgets to brush his teeth almost everyday. This made me to make a list of step by step sticker. I sticked this on their bathroom mirror and on his bedroom wall. Yet I have to keep reminding him everyday. For example, last week on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday he forgot to brush his teeth and hair. I have to constantly be reminding him every morning. He is the only one that brushes teeth after getting ready. I trained them to brush teeth first before shower but he keeps forgetting.

I have to remind him to do his homework, and put it back in his school bag to return to school on Mondays. The book will still not make it to the school even after constant reminder. We've lost countless of lunch bags. One ended up on school roof. If you give him any form to submit back to his teacher. He will forget in his bag so I now give it to his sister to give to his teacher.

He removes his clothes, shoes, pants, belts etc and leave them on the floor, I bought two laundry baskets for him. One in his room, another in their bathroom, yet all his belongings end up on the floor that you can hardly find a space to put a foot. I dont expect him to be perfect but atleast to try so that his 70% clothes make it to the basket or shoes to their racks. He also has a book shelf and desk yet they also end up on the floor.

He plays so much that sometimes he leaves shops with items in his hands. So I have to always watch out for him. Living in a western country where black boys are stereotyped I fear for him. He can stare at the ceiling for hrs when getting ready for school or spend long time in the shower yet not using soap on his body. This usually makes us late unless I step in to help or keep shouting.

If you ask him to do any house chores, he will not do it instead waiting for us to forget so he can get away with it. When grounded not to watch TV, he will still do it once he knows am inside my room or busy with a baby.

Yesterday we revised all his lesson assignments (5 work books). I specifically asked him to put them in his lesson bag. I pointed at the bag. Now I drop him at the lesson only for him to say oh I think I came with old lesson books. I dont know how he ended up with old books in his bag. It could be he planned it as a way to avoid the lesson. If not I wonder how he will remember it himself as soon as I drop him and his sister as this is unlike him.

I've taken him to a doctor incase there is any diagnosis so I can give him all the help he needs but they said it's just his behaviour because according to the doctor he is smart academically. He is 18months ahead of his year level. So they ruled ADHD out.

Ma your son knows exactly what he's doing. He is super smart and is just trying to pass a message. My genius cousin during our primary school days was taken to a particular school he didn't want so he deliberately failed all the questions for the entrance test. But on closer observation, he failed intelligently. If the say 75 x 2, he'll answer 300 or 60 + 40 he'll say 200. He definitely doesn't want something and no one is being attentive so he pretends to be dumb. But that kid is the exact opposite of what he displays. Find the button and you will be amazed. I suggest you try asking what he feels about changing his current school or environment and see. Best of luck ma

indigenous234:
For me personally, I don't really have much problems with the IMN so long as their activities is restricted to the North. (mind you, Abuja is not part of the NORTH here)

KillaBeauty:
Men have nothing to Offer than their dicks
Oloshos