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bejick:
Beg your spiritual wife to let you date some physical girl.lol .let me analyze you challenge cos I have been in such situation b4. Your maybe be fine , cute and ladies guy but not yet matured for then to call,present or be proud to show you as their Bf. They want to keep you around which is call friendzoning. Try to upgrade you self and i see you flying high.

Puresolutions:
@Dojo if u'v bin nice before start actin different

if you've bin bad before start acting nice simple reverse the trend.and also u may have been dating diff girls but if u meet them in the same territory like a church it means uv been re-dating the same girl over and over change your place of picking them also girls from different areas act differently study the environment u pick them from,their character and then flow with the trend...if na club girl act the way they like,if na forum girl just buy her 1gb every month and ur good to go..Lol..damn i'm hot..

hope this helps

amuokuko:


i don run leave you..
do my own nd ur own, she is all urs...

macof:
too much "Mr nice guy" dey worry you. you friendzone yourself already

Mindfulness:
Ok, if the girls are the problem than you suck at choosing.
Now you know where the problem is, make better choices in future. good luck.

vanhayor:
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Bro ur english sef is enough to make dem giv u a big "NO"

bobo65:
Are u sure u don't lack the looks charm and style!?

Mine is, we will immediately start dating, like one months time, I go just tire dey find new catch, in fact, we dey tire for ourselves

goonsmi:
@ Mrdojo. you are simply too nice and not been decisive enough .


No two ways around it bro.

amuokuko:
Nwanne leave long story...
u ve strong spiritual wife warding them off..

Karashika bu aha ya..

Puresolutions:
@MrDojo as a Sage i have the perfect answer to this mystery that has so entangled your free-flow-thought-process let me share my conclusion after going thru similar experiences... Ladies are indecisive and constantly seeking after even they've reached what they want they dont recognise it and remain in a perpetual state of confusion,it takes old age or wrinkles to pull them out of it.I'm not broke.I don't ress my worth but like you i just dey waka them pass thesedays,thank goodness i'm a virgo i stay for long stretch without strong desires over taking me and even when they try to without minutes i've re-calibrated don't feel bad

My final word of advice dress good,look confident,dress more than ur worth and u would be chased the game would reverse in your favor where u wont need to pursue,but rather be pursued and then u can begin to do the cherry picking.


All the best Amigo

Good luck in your quest

Sage !

DeeTus:
The best way to get a woman is to think like a woman. Be playful, cocky and unpredictable.

Women appreciate guys who are hard to get.
Above all, think about money more because women are distractors.

Blessograo:
The thing is we feel jealous when we see a guy we have even a tiny feelings for in love with another girl even if the guy has asked us out and we refuse cos we feel the new lady is going to be a threat thereby making u to ignore us not to even mention forgetting we exist and what happens is when you and the new girl breaks up you end up coming back to us as a shoulder to cry on. I think most ladies you fall in love with have been hurt and scared to love again cos they don't want history repeating itself and one funny thing is we only know how good you are when you untangle our problems for us before we agree to date but one thing that mostly works is if you ask the lady if frankly and sincerely that you asked her out and she refuse ask her and if she wants you to move on with someone else and tell her to be sincere with her answer and also if she didn't give you a yes or no reply she probably wants you to ask her out again to confirm how much you love her. THAN ME LATER

Mindfulness:
The problem is that you are not selective enough and they feel it. You leave the decision to them and it's boring. In a nutshell, you sell yourself cheap.

collitexnaira:
That shit is in their trait,

Mprex:
mrdojo, its either you're actually too good for the ladies and you are always meeting them at the wrong time. Or maybe you make the wrong moves, or probably......

There are a thousand and one reasons for that specific behaviour so if you can be more precise in your story, we might be able to decipher where the problem lies

schumastic:
is that what you think, ok just one ?. have you had sex with any of the said ladies honestly? if yes you have not been friend zoned and if you my bro you have been friend zoned

schumastic:
I don't understand all the things you wrote up there but from what I can see, is obvious you have been friendzoned..funny part is once a girl friendzone a guy she still wants him around..more or less like eating your cake n having it back

Topestbilly:
Na 64 me get oo

falconey:
yeah you can and should .....thou I wouldn't advice you to see the grand price as the ultimate goal because it will make you over do things and become desperate which will make you loose votes . if I were to contest it will be for fun, the price won't matter until I win.

isn't the 50k the same as the ongoing miss Nairaland? still few withdrew. why didn't the 50 motivate them? it is a huge amount for an online event.

falconey:
hmmmmm it happens a lot ......you have two options when it happens 1. take advantage of her or friend zone her if you are in a serious relationship as at that time.

Topestbilly:

falconey:
yes at start but as time goes on few will withdraw.

Seun:
One if the issues with religion is that it promotes the idea of believing something not because you have been convinced by rational arguments and objective evidence that it is true, but because you want to believe it and choose to believe it.

When beliefs are based on reason and evidence, they are very likely to be true or at least close to the truth. When they are not, they are very likely to be false and far from the truth. False beliefs cause people to make bad decisions which lead to worse outcomes for them and for society.

When most people in society base their beliefs on objective evidence and reason, their beliefs tend to converge towards a single consistent view of reality. This enables them to cooperate massively and achieve great things for all to enjoy e.g. in science. In faith based societies and institutions, differences of opinion are hard to resolve, because people dogmatically hold on to their beliefs, leading to chronic conflicts that often erupt into violence.

Owobobrown:
Deadpool the man curse with life(immortality) I wonder why no one is talking about Deadpool breaking the 4th wall

Owobobrown:
"My boyfriend said this was a superhero
movie," he says as he uses both samurai
blades to hoist a goon, "but that guy just
turned the other guy into a f*cking
kebob. ... I may be super, but I'm no
hero."