₦airaland Forum

SuperStriker:
Good day everyone.
I don't want to cheat on my wife but she cannot cope with my demands for sex. She even told me to control myself and be more spiritual and I am wondering. If I am not controlling myself, I would have cheated on her long ago. I am a fine looking man with many opportunities to cheat. We only have sex when she's ready and wants it, anything outside that is excuse upon excuse. How can a woman I married be telling me to control myself?

and spiritual too Lol �

Davash222:
Na people wey get brain dey think.

LOL... I had to laugh out loud. LOL

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

admire what is yours or your own, Not others possession. Na from there covetousness de start. beware o

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

this attitude can kill you easily.

tutudesz:
Though they were second, was not following the table before

all right

tutudesz:
CAR winning would knock us out, so Liberia winning is very important

The out come of CAR AND Liberia doesn't concern this match. you get?

Coldsperm:
Hope you didn't insult me indirectly cos I will beat you up oo.

na funny people full here I swear Lol Lol

misterme:
And I am very very angry. Gas I used to buy 2800, then 3k, 4k, and 5k. Suddenly it jumped to 7500 and now (today) 9250 in Port Harcourt. I am very very angry. Let no one here disturb me with nonsense news about Buhari and his nonsense South Africa Trade fair and nonsense. No cross me today o. I fit beat person

The gas finished yesterday. I told my wife that yesterday that I will buy the gas today because I needed to get to work and somehow raise money to augment what I have to be able to buy the gas. I told her to use the kerosene stove that yesterday and this morning. Guess her reply? She said she can't use kerosene even for a day. That even her Mum in the village does not use kerosene stove. She said a few other unprintable things.
For the sake of my 3 children I still had to buy the gas today.

I had not eaten in my house for a month now. The reason is that she said that they money I gave her for upkeep in October was not enough (I give her 62.5% of my monthly salary every month for our home upkeep). As a result she refused to give me food from around the middle of the month when she said the money had finished. She cooked for herself and the children (possibly from her own salary). When I gave her upkeep money for this month I told her not bother keeping food for me so that the money will go far enough. That's where we are till now. I have no intention of ever eating her food until she acknowledges that she was wrong and apologizes.

Now I know this WON'T happen. She will rather die than admit she's wrong or apologize. This is why I know that the mistake of a marriage is heading for the rocks and I am ready for it. Nonsense and ingredients. I have endured this nonsense for 15 years. I am done. Anything whe won happen tomorrow, make e happen today.

Lol Lol Lol Bros calm down o. hbp is real o. Protect your sanity and health o ;na the only thing wey youiu get be that o

Optimistguy1969:
She died in a night club. What will she tell God?


"Obi Cubana, you be big name" will certainly not save her if she is unholy.

Abeg try make peace with your maker today o.
Nobody knows when death will come knocking.



And Floyd Mayweather?

what do you think happens in a night club ? everything is unholy ABI

Exkandayee:
No no na typo error,I swear to almighty God,I can't do that

Lol Lol D Lol D D . it's well o

EBMedia:
Tonto Dikeh's ex-husband, Okakunle Churchill shared new photos of his son, King Churchill via his Instagram handle, IgbereTV reports.

The photos were captioned;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CWRFqNSruDB/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Okakunle Churchill and his wife, Rosy Meurer welcomed their baby, King Churchill in March 2021.

omo, na vomit Churchill vomit this baby. no need for DNA of any sort

abduleez1:
So you sef noticed how netnaija servers went down 2 days ago till Saturday after that guy made that comment?
I begin dey wonder whether the site was under attack.

the comments were after, not before.

WickedPisa:
your fiancee wants you to break your back to do what he wants. that's a trash attitude. leave now

Keep quiet.

okeykingsley:
Have seen my alert for October, but my dashboard still showing processing, does that mean they will still pay me double for October
Please I need double payment for October, God of Nasim error come to my aid.

September ABI October?

Exkandayee:
What's the symptoms of gonorrhea brother, please tell me,I wan know,cos I don't know what's wrong with me, there's this guy I bang raw, after one week ,I com dey see whitish discharge coming out from my big gbola

u banged a guy ?

Flamees:
WHY AM I STILL A VIRGIN AT THE AGE OF 20

you're doing well

VerifiedStalin:
Are you taking the piss?

Netnaija is a warezing website. Basically, the administrator of Netnaija is profiting off of pirated movies, music and TV series. Download from there if you must, but it's important to understand you're partaking in an illegal activity, therefore, ought to be wise enough to keep your mouth shut. Shooting your mouth off will not only put you at risk but could also torpedo Netnaija. Let's just die this unnecessary noise, please. Niggas need an avenue to download standard quality movies at low data size, don't jeopardize a good thing by calling unwarranted attention to it.

at least it serves a purpose. now, your are correct about some pirate activities of the site (it's not hidden), most movie site engages in same act and I bet you patronize those sites too; so what are you taking about? Everybody is at risk.

Activities of netnaija is not hidden, most Nigerian know about it. me keeping shut about doesn't keep it up or down, if the authorities had wanted to do something about it they would have done it a long time ago. Till then, netnaija services are well and those complaining about it should deal with it.
Everybody is at risk .

shalomm:
You uploaded today and was paid today?

Nop. I meant that I uploaded on this date (15th) last month. u get?

seankafor:
Why is it that in most American movies when fight erupts in the prison , everyone joins the fight irrespective of who or what started the fight .

na so e de be

Chibudollar:
I Know most people always downplay netnaija but that site is really trying for the common man out there, they don't have the best quality but they try in their own ways, they really are the poor man's Netflix.

you're correct.
anybody that criticize netnaija is an ingrate . They can as well make or build their own Movie site. To me, netnaija is doing well and should be appreciated.

alphaNomega:
which Kain talk be dis?

experience. he's referring to experience in dating games. A 15 years old girl is more exposed than a 20 year old boy in that regard.

TheOnlyUyai:
Better go and read your books.

You want to date your Auntie? What rubbish. God knows I don't give audience to little minions in your age group. There's one 23 year old that's been currently on my neck until I gave him the red card. I have told him countless times that we can't date. Friendship sef na even manage. Wetin we wan dey discuss? Joeboy's dreads or the new girl he just smashed? All these mummy's bossom boys sef.

I billed him 500K. He japa.

I like my men in their 30s-50s with good credit balance, and not all these children still wearing diapers and don't even know what their future holds yet.

500k they will always provide nah. Lol

youngcizza:
some people way no upload ppa letter see money o

that not withstanding.

just in around 2:16pm Anambra State,
And today's date is the date I uploaded my PPA letter. Maybe that's a factor. will be expecting mine on this date anytime stipend is sent.

lereinter:
Are you married?

I haven't. however, I have a close contact with the cases I was referring to. if that answers your questions.

Onyiiobi7735:
Omega Power Ministries. It is headquartered in PH

sounds familiar

BarrElChapo:
DON'T TRY IT

This coming from someone who left the Catholic church sometime in 2016..

Attended one not too Pentecostal church
In my law school days attended dunamis all through.

Lived in the Redeemed corpers house and worshipped there all through my service year.

And immediately after in joined Living faith but I thank God I'm back to the catholic church in April this year pls don't leave the catholic church for anybody.

Bros, what was chasing you from these Churches? hmm.

Davidegede:
Stick to your love, don't mind people, wife material is not common. nothing is absolutely bad or good until the circumstances surrounding it is factored in. If the church she is pulling to is better...why not leave catholic and follow her. If she was pulling you to America now won't you follow sharp sharp.... besides catholic is not a good church, you should know by now, except you're just a church goer though

Prejudiced mind shouldn't be seen giving advice.

chatinent:
I never rejected any scripture above.
Don't be scared, engage me in a productive discussion.

Scared? wonderment. You will be lying to yourself if you said you have not rejected any quote. If not,we won't be here.

I would rather be scared of mysterious things than be scared of who's trying to convince himself about something he doesn't conform with .

chatinent:
Quote the scripture perfectly where it is written.

Which you will reject just like you have rejected the ones given to you by those that have engaged you before now.
LOL.
It's not productive.

Rick9:
I was born into Catholic but after I encountered the Holy Spirit of the Living God. He brought me out.
Catholic is the most dangerous denomination anyone can belong to.
They are perpetually in error but they claim they are in the light.
So glad I am out and I have been Baptized again properly by Immersion not sprinkling.

if you won't mind, do tell about the encounter with the Holy spirit of the living God?

PeaceJoyLove:
Hahaha. Thanks for the correction. Then, the girl is the manipulator. In this case, she is to follow the man to catholic. Simple as ABC. If she doesnt want to attend catholic, why date one? I am sure catholic church will treat the boy like "anyhow" if he leaves. His whole family too will label him a rebel. The boy should stay in catholic. The girl is a manipulator, and with such character, she isnt even a good Christian. They will have trouble in the marriage.

My post is not one sided. It is very clear. The Nigerian culture says the lady should follow the man to his church. Simple. This is the standard based on the culture.


But if you ask me my stand: no one should change anyone. Even, I dont like that the woman is asked to change, but I think it will cause conflict for baby christians, so our forefathers made it a standard for the woman to leave her church. The right way for me is that the two people should pray together. That is what they should do when dating. But the ones of these days will rather start sampling themselves and are weak spiritually. So, they religiously choose where they were born, or where they received salvation.

No matter the church you attend, even you like it, and it may even be where God is using you.....as long as you know you want to live together with someone else to be one body, you must leave your thought that the person must join you. The two of you must sit down and discuss. Yeah, both of you are born again. And one person or both must leave his or her church. So, who will leave? You will be selfish to ask the other to leave. So, what do you do? Start praying together. Do not even pray for direction to which church you should go. Just start praying together to develop yourselves. Start reading the Bible together. Share your thoughts. Then, go out to churches together and just observe around. This is my method. One way or the other, you both will get direction, and there wont be conflict. And each of you must bear it in mind that there are 3 possibilities with 33.3333% chance each:

1. Attend the man's church
2. Attend the lady's church
3. Attend a different church

When both are opened to equal chance of any of the 3 above, then, that is one happy family. But when one of the spouse is stubborn to say his/her church is where he or she is growing or developing, then, there is going to be a big trouble. It is a sign that they will keep manipulating themselves in the marriage. Anyone who is like this should check him/herself well. It is not only a denomination members who will inherit heaven. Jesus did not institute denomination. He instituted His body - the body of Christ. So, I feel so bad for denominational people. They appear to be dutiful and faithful to God, but they are the ones Jesus will tell He doesnt know. Why? They are so partial in their ways. When they see another person in another denomination suffering, they willl rather hold their goodness and give it to their members. These set of people are chained. It is a serious bondage. But the irony thing is that the church they attend might really be excellent. But what if God needs the person to step out? What if the church is just a training ground for the person? This is how the person will chain himself or herself to that ground and will never fulfill his/her destiny. Yet they will be doing serious religious work in the church. You can imagine if Paul did not step out to the Gentile, we wont know him today.

Salvation is a personal confession and not collective. You can develop in another place, and not only in tje place you think you can. I pity people who are chained to a particular denomination. Watch closely, they are empty barrels.

Your points are workable. However in most cases, some individual don't seem to agree. I enjoyed your write up once again.