₦airaland Forum

ExpiredNigeria:
Now you speak like someone who reason a little not like goat, so before saying your constitution doesn't provide for separation it escaped your mind that it could be amended any day to provide for anything possible.

Allow you emotions to leave your sense. Talk like a literate, such argument you are putting up holds no water. Thanks and have a nice night rest

Maintain85:
That's awesome to hear, dou kano has been one of my choice from the unset, even before getting all the above info. Have always willing to be there.

Here is my e-mail. Osilajaola@gmail.com (kano here i come)

Welcome to the beautiful city of Kano State

When I told people that Kano has started paying 5k, they refused. You can confirm from this batch A that passed out, they were paid N5k if you are posted to government schools

Abiestomi:
Pls how were u able to cope wit d sharia law as stated by destiny? Cos its makin me scared

Don't mind him, there is nothing called Sharia law for you. It's rare for the indigene let alone you.

There are millions of happy people in Kano, those that wish to stay forever, though I have finished, I am still in Kano for a short time to enjoy the beauty of it before I leave for good.

The only thing is that you must dress decently

pocohantas:
Most importantly, you have to realise there are still wonderful people out there. Not everyone is out to keep breaking your heart, don't stereotype the opposite sex because of one person's mistake.

Anyway, I don't have emotions.

Like seriously?

MissLadyJay:
this is the problem I have with northern states, snakes! Can't stand em!

You didn't get the point of that post did you? Lalasticlala likes pushing any post with snake to front page, so to get his attention you must call snake.

To be honest, I haven't seen a snake in Kano, all the snakes I have seen some far is on Nairaland

AgentGoat:
You are happy now.



Free pussy everywhere for you.

I thank thunder on your behalf.

Bros easy nah

Congratulations and try to keep the two jobs if you can. I trust you can.

KevinDein:
If my daughter ends up reasoning like the op I would consider myself a huge failure. A monumental failure.

Easy ooo Bros, she is still young.

Safiaa:
Yawns. I didnt ask for your autobiography. You're trying too hard to prove something to yourself. I honestly don't care sir.

You're right, I'm not the first do it. But I will not have individuals like you lecturing me about laziness. Is that understood? It's very irritating.

Build myself on what? Build myself on nairaland? You're joking right? I really couldn't care less. I know who i am when i log off and that keeps me secure.

Each time you want to end your post you will mention I know who I am when I log off, this is ridiculous and amusing at same time. Sorry to ask, who are you?

If you know that I have lectured people more than you then you wouldn't have said such. It shows how childish you reason. Autobiography? You didn't know nothing yet. When I read your post, there is this kind of childish spirit that envelopes everything you write. Nothing keeps you secure, you are just like every other average Nigerian.

Nairaland has provided you with a faceless forum to interact with adults and make your opinion count, please use it wisely.

Safiaa:
LOOOOOL

I'M DEAD BRUHH

Im not surpirsed that your empty brain insinuated that im in second/first year of uni. You can assume what you like lol. Im currently working and im studying. Is that something you've done? I highly doubt, and I'm quite proud of myself. My mates are on the education section but where are you?

Are you not here with me? Your mates are on the business/investment section. You could learn a thing or two about investing. Maybe investing your time in more productive things, rather than spewing nonsense in my mentions. How about that?

God bless you and chop that food well well. I hope it doesnt make you sick, like 'talking to a student' does At least this student knows how to construct her paragraphs and sentences properly. I'm happy about that

Bye honey x

Others have given up on you and I have to do same at this juncture.
You are working and studying? Maybe you have written your name in the Guinness book of record and became the first Nigerian to do that.

BTW, while I was a student, I was comfortable and there was no need to work and study so I gave my book all the attention it needs. Same time about four years ago I came to Nairaland and established myself on the science section with two of my science inclined post hitting front page. I went on to NYSC section, helped people there during service and left about four topics there which made front page. Before relaxing on the business section. While I was at your age, about two of your age mates called me their mentor. I was not lazy as you are, I had purpose, I wasn't living in delusion like you are. When I come to Nairaland, I new they are elders here and I don't go on insulting them like you are. You are just fool of yourself. You insulted tosyne2much with many followers on Nairaland. You have got nothing. A little background check on you revealed you got registered here last month, so how come you are quick to land yourself in the romance section. I don't comment on Nairaland but your comment was forced me when you assumed you are the only intelligent person on Nairaland.

Finally, I urge you, to spend time building up yourself, people already know your moniker and there will always make reference to it.

Safiaa:
Lool. Are you feeling intimidated?

I'm not moved, not even the slightest by your words. Im secure in myself and i know who i am offline. I just find it entertaining to respond to your type. So please keep on entertaining me,
Im bored at the moment

I was about telling God to bless this food (you) which am about to eat out of the abundance of my heart. But I realized its a waste of time and energy. If you have advanced far in life and human endeavour, I would have responded to you well this great Easter. But talking to a second year or first year empty headed student makes me sick. Responding to someone who lacks wisdom and understanding of what the woman role is in the society makes me feel weak. And to think I am talking to someone who should be reading her books in other to graduate with perhaps a better grade rather than come to Nairaland and be talking about relationship makes me think twice. You know what? You don't know what relationship is all about and you might have been into at most two and which all of them failed. You lack the personality to talk to some persons who you have spoken to because of this your topic.
Your mates are in Education and Career section of Nairaland helping themselves and improving their lives while you are here telling people how irresponsible and illogical you are. I doubt if you attended a quantitative and verbal reasoning class.

Safiaa:
Sorry, where did i imply that you're broke? Is that your guilty conscience running through your head? I have nothing agaisnt people countering my thread, just make sure you read thoroughly and digest what i'm trying to say.

You don't know me either, so who are you to tell me that im a kid? Im currently working, earning a salary. I'm also pursuing my dreams to become a marketing executive for a company. What is now your point? Im far from lazy and unfortunately if you read my first paragraph in my first post, you would understand that im not promoting laziness in women.

Instead of worrying about what man i attract, worry about yourself and maybe you wont feel the need to be so unnecessarily defensive.

Why are you tagging naijaboiy, is he your bodyguard or teacher? I just dont understand.

Bye bye now.

Tosyn2much, come and see this kid that just registered on Nairaland this year talking trash. OMG, what did I just read you say. I feel pained, imagine this kid, a student talking trash.

Illiteracy at the highest peak. This is a shame to womanhood

Luckki1001:
Choi

So all this ranting came from a child wey life never happen to yet.

Everybody, it appyas we have been wasting our time responding to a nonsensical post from someone who obviously has had her head up in all those feminist-inclined romantic stories that has no bearing in real life.

Thread closed.

Gaskiya. Thread closed.

Safiaa:
Im currently working and I'm a student. Im in my early 20s, is there a problem?

Yes, there is. How you come here thinking everyone is an illiterate who reads and don't understand. You are Chinua Achebe and Wole Soyinka who can hid some facts in a nice literary format that only those is their category can understand. That is the problem, and you also painted yourself to be so rich.

uchennaq:
. Stop decieving yourself. For the fact that guys are trying to write the wrong doesn't mean that we are broke. That is what we keep saying. God gave us brain to reason properly. What will a flea be thinking now?

Bros save us this stress. Post your bank details as a rich dude

Safiaa:
1. Im in my early 20s
2.Im currently a student, working a year in an industry.
3.My goal is to work in the marketing industry, which im currently doing. To be a marketing executive for a huge co-operation. I dont need to go into detail.
4.Like i said being successful doesnt necessarily mean you're ranking in millions. Being able to fulfil your goals and being comfortable is enough.
6 and 5 are irrelevant to me
7. I have enough to take care of myself, and not be financially dependent on my parents. Thats all you need to know.

Have i satisfied your curiosity. Bye bye now

Chai. So I just wasted my energy, I thought you are even working. Early 20 and you are on Nairaland making this kind of post?

Maxcollins042:
It would do more good than harm if you teach your sis how to fish rather than giving her the fish. What you are doing is right and at the same time wrong. It is right in the sense that it's preventing her from going after guys in a bid to enrich herself and it is wrong that you might not be able to sustain this measure on the long run. Do the needful and remain blessed.

Of course I got your point. She just finished school heading for service this year. I will surely teach her to be independent

zanga420:
we prefer the rich marry the rich. The poor and middle class marry themselves. Don't come and be confusing us. Let me be going

Lol

zolapeperenpe:
Your funeral dude!

Well you are on Nairaland just last year. I don't argue with you. Sorry for even replying you in the first place, I thought you have a brain. it's filled with poverty.

rman:
I know her type.They think they got it all figured out until life throws them a curved ball they cannot deal with.

Her type will definately end up unhappy. Her view is so shallow she did not even accomodate ladies that are poor.

She thinks everyone can be rich and all dreams or plans end up with positive results. Best of luck to her as life happens.

Don't mind them. And to even think that some guys think that anyone against the op's opinion is poor. Most of them come from a poor homes and that is why.

zolapeperenpe:
I was about replying you like you an adult until one spirit told Me to check you out by reading ur posts on NL. Alas,you are still a fetus who still depend on 19k NYSC allowance,who cook with 100naira pepper without fish/meat.
So,you are forgiven(from the bottom of my heart)

But I would like to advice you: DO NOT have the mentality of a wretched soul, just as winning Is an attitude,making money is also an attitude. I made my first one million at 23! By selling my handmade stuffs,so you see why I cannot understand some lazy ediot here on NL attacking OP as if they are comfortable with their wretched-lazy lives.

Take my advice or attack me further, I care less, whatever mindset you have towards this topic,na ur funeral

And you claimed you are reasonable. When they say that age is just a number, you are just a complete manifestation of it. You did well to check my profile and if you have gone deeper, you would have realize it was beyond what you saw. You are not in anyway better than anyone here and you shouldn't assume so. Get a life and think objectively. You saw such thinking in me and you made your research and still came out to type trash.

A clear analogy is when a living Faith Church member sees a deeper life church member as poor because they preach about money more in their church. Fallacy

chi4ik:
well said dear, I'm Corper now but I can't meet up with my babes financial needs. I have ask her if she can wait for me because I can't tie her down since I'm financial handicapped. she said she can but I'm not happy seeing her with just little financial issues which I can't meet up with. if she decide to go now, I can't be mad at her because I understand that love is money & money is love & I'm not ready to enter another relationship if she decide to go now. my decision is to make money first. I can't object ur ideology, it's just d fact......shalom

And you are bold to type this? I just passed out last week Friday. I had a girl like that, when I noticed she was a gold digger who wanted a made guy without thinking of how she can contribute to my success, I sent her off. Now I left service with 300k saved, and living comfortable, I don't care about ladies, because I have many of them calling and seeking for the opportunity. I decided to send her a message on whatsapp to know how far she have gone with her rich guy and she started telling me how the guy beat her and chased her out of his house. That she need 10k from me and also to help her out that she is really in a mess. God knows, I did my ear as is I am training pig. Nothing for her and I will frustrate her also. This was the lady that I so much loved. Guy, Use your service to make money

biz2get:
Even the said lady that was meant to be My PA..

Laziness Was Written All over Her.... She left because I Tasked her to Work The Work.

Good Riddance, Thinking Her Beauty or whater will keep her On Slow Profile.

Only 0.1% Value A Struggling Guy.

And 0.1% of Ladies Can Work The Work

You really need this four bottles.

bemyguest:
Wow! @ poster u on point. Ladies be wise and open your eyes.

Keep deceiving yourself

WriteBoy:
Lol bro -- I hands-offed women's matter a long time ago. Something triggered it. Perhaps you can take a minute to think about it too:

"In ten thousand years of recorded civilization and history, women have never in any instance been the leaders of any culture or civilization. Could this be attributed to a fatal flaw in their makeup that seeks to pull down instead of build?"

When you realize that the success and future of the world indeed rests upon us as men putting women in their place lest all the work men have done to make earth the thing it is today be lost, you will not take prisoners.

It's indeed taking prisoners. I gave up on them when I realized that they can slow you down yet quit anytime they get a better option in terms of money.

Maxcollins042:
OP I must commend you on this one. This question goes to those bashing OP: would you let your sister marry a broke guy with a fantasy?

Why this question. Why will my sister be broke. What am I doing. I pay my sister on regular basis so she won't have to depend on guys. Do the same and no broke guy will come close to her. But when you want her to bring a rich guy who will solve your family problems, then you are of all me most stupid

biz2get:
Well Said brother..

The ideology of Nigerian Girls towards Dating/Relationships is Ridiculous.

Everyday a Child is born.

Very ridiculous. Don't mind them. I have had the opportunity to work with most of them in terms of hustling, they always quit because they can't make it. Yet, when they see a struggling guy, they won't value the fact he is trying

WriteBoy:
What is an unrealistic dream? What is a realistic one?

Evidently, you do have immense comprehension issues and I would encourage you to go back to that post and read up. When you have done that please come back and ponder on the following:

1. Is a girl who coops up with a guy because of his dreams and vision not one gullible gold-digging fellow?
2. What measures and factors would you use to determine a man who is destined to be broke? If you know of any one, please do tell.
3. What is wrong with a woman planning her life without factoring a man into the equation. If they do it, would they fall and die?

I know what your problem is: You think you are smart. I also think a rock is smart.

If you were close, I would have given you four bottles of whatever you take. You are damn right.

Don't. mind those shallow thinkers

alexialin:
Good! Then don't whine neither should broke guys complain when girls are not dating them.

There are 3 surprise packages I have for my fiance on our wedding day and after wedding day. Which he's is not aware of. And trust me. He will be blown away when that time comes . He will be thanking God everyday for been helpful,extremly loving and standing by me. I told one of my male friend about the surprise, he was like wow! Your fiance is a lucky guy! Jeez! If I had known! Alexia Mehn! I just look am with one bad eye. but these are much o! And seriously don't tell him yet.. I said nope am not telling him.. It's a surprise from me to him. So in his next life, he will keep being a nice guy.
I like loyal friends and bf. They bring out the best in me. Am not tightfisted.

So it's good u don't date Broke Girls.

Why is your last statement always summarizing and contradicting everything. You loved your soon to be husband because he was there when things were tight for you and now you are telling me not to be good to those that things are hard for? You can't use your situation to make a summary of all other relationships out there. I have seen broke ladies who doesn't demand anything, they know it will be well. A lady once visited me, and during her stay, one of her friend was calling her that she is in dire need of 2k. She was telling me to pay it up, not that I don't have it but I declined. The reason is that I can't solve her problem and that of her friend. If Nigeria is good, this question won't even arise in the first place. Have you thought of how relationships goes in US? They are far ahead of this issue.

cooldood:
Oga face your work and stop chasing after girls. If I catch a poor man near my daughter, I could shoot him.Haven't you seen that funny picture, where a guy is chasing after a girl yet the girl keeps running away and a guy chasing after his hustle and girls running after him. See, what most of you call love is nothing but fantasy and infatuation.If you cant take care of yourself, how do you intend to take care of 2 when a babe joins your train.In the first place, any guy with no vision shouldn't have erection.And if fate is still not smiling at your vision, you too smile back at fate na, it will come through gradually and manifest. if not, keep hustling and smiling at fate.

Another shameful post from same person.