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addictiv: mehn you guys are scaring me with all these revelations............and family is like "you must marry an igbo woman who knows our traditions and way of life. "..but what use is that if she becomes a thorn in the flesh...

Ugosample: Women are almost the same, i know. But is it compulsory that your wife must be from your homeland. My dad is on my neck, telling ne and my cousins that we MUST bring home an Igbo girl for marriage. That's causing problem for us. And i think some people on this forum are hypocrites; it is okay to generalise foreign women as demons but it is not okay to generalise Nigerian women as same. You people haven't seen the monsters many of them become when they cross over.

Ugosample: Says who? I visited my uncle in L.A. just before his marriage broke up. This woman was a pest, coming home very late, being snobbish, e.t.c. This is a woman who he picked from the village (my uncle(s) and my dad inclusive are strong advocates of marrying from your hometown) and trained in America. At least 80% Igbo residents in Carson did the same and most of them regret it. One even divorced him, took 50& of his assets including the family house and was spending the money on Toy boys. Now she's a wretched b**ch. Maybe i shouldn't have generalised(my bad) but i spoke of what i saw while with him. When i'm ready to marry, i'm gonna be open minded as my wife must not be Igbo or Nigeria. That's my advice, based on my experience.

Afrobeau: You sound like a typical Id*ot, black and white women in America are the fine ones, but then our women are the Village Mgbekes? I guess you've never lived abroad because I know a lot of fellow men who married those white chicks and akatas and are regretting their actions. One even told me he made a huge mistake which he won't like me to make.

Afrobeau: I wonder, all these people who claim to marry Non Nigerians that can do what Nigerian women do. why then don't they go ahead with the Nigerian ladies? I think most of the men commenting here are the brainwashed ones acting like some Black American men who always bash their women

mariannlove: yes i am

justplainpaul: Talk about a dumb biitch! no post is dead on here, you ignoramus. the thread was not closed for it to be resürrected, dumb a$$. your mumu no get mate.

proevan: Madame, we are waiting for your comment....

justplainpaul: you got it twisted. you were like a lioness being attacked by five lions from all angles. each of them taking bites at u. you can`t just win. Now mrs chima use your brain and think, if five Naija guys attacks u for having a white male friend, what will mr chima do. He might not deal with u now because he is a smart ibo man, but he will surely do in the nearest future. mark my words, unless you stop your excesses and start being a good wife. An igbo man adores a good wife.

justplainpaul: you got it twisted. you were like a lioness being attacked by five lions from all angles. each of them taking bites at u. you can`t just win. Now mrs chima use your brain and think, if five Naija guys attacks u for having a white male friend, what will mr chima do. He might not deal with u now because he is a smart ibo man, but he will surely do in the nearest future. mark my words, unless you stop your excesses and start being a good wife. An igbo man adores a good wife.

justplainpaul: Rofemiguwa saved your a$$ mrs chima. these guys were riding rough shod over you. don`t mess with naija guys.

Ajuran: you are the bannana to my rice.

silverdam: This is a true life story and its from a reader/
friend, things are happening in this world… Read
below:


Hello, my name is anonymous, I’m a polytechnic
student and I am pregnant for my cousin for the
third time. Me and my cousin are age mates in
our early twenties, we’ve been secretly dating for
2 years now.

I don’t have a boyfriend neither does he have a
girlfriend, we started having sex 2 years ago and
this is my third pregnancy for him, we’ve
previously aborted 2 pregnancy that almost took
my life. Its all started when I gained admission in
his school, I was told to live with him for some
period before I would get my own accomodation
cos he was a year senior to me and he was living
alone in one room on campus.

I accepted to live with him cos we are cousins
and I see nothing bad in it, to cut the story short
we started having sex due to the fact that I’m
always careless with my body. I broke up with my
boyfriend and he also did the same thing to his
girlfriend, we fell in love with each other, we were
behaving like couples to the extent that
neighbours were suspecting, we had sex almost
everytime cos I decided to live with him as
couples on campus before my mother separated
us because she wasn’t comfortable with the way
we were living together.

Now, I am pregnant again and I am really scared
of abortion because the last one I did almost took
my life, its not like we don’t use condoms but we
can be careless sometimes. Our parents must not
hear about it, I’m 6 weeks gone now, my cousin is
begging to go for an abortion but I am so scared
and out of my mind cos I don’t want to die.

I don’t know what to do, I’m even considering
informing our parents cos I don’t want to die,
what can I do apart from abortion?




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MillionDollars: Hope i'm in the right section? I've heard many guys addressed as impotent, but can a female be impotent?

Princessmel: I don't know what it is but I'm sooo scared of getting serious with a Nigerian man to the extent I try and act uninterested even when I clearly am and send the opposite signals to what I'm feeling to push them away Is this a common problem All comments welcome, thanks

Chimezie198: Do you spread it in ur compound for public view?
In ur sittingroom?
In ur bathroom?
In ur toilet?

Anyway I spread my iron pant in d sittingroom make AC dey blow am so dat when I wear am my John Thomas temperature go dey cool.

Feel free to share urs... Do not derail !! Thanks

mayten30: I don't do mummies too,lol

mayten30: excuse me ma!!I will not mind if you assist me in taking the shower,pls come oooo.lol

Jayvarley: Ok, I see.

But can your husband tell the difference between an Igbo and a Yoruba person, without hearing them speak?
Are there really distinguishable features between the two groups?

mayten30: nadia!!!!I don't know ooooo,don't spoil me am a virgin ooooo
Lol

Jayvarley: ^^None of these Igbos seem to look like each other. I am trying to learn the differences in features between them and the Yoruba. At the moment I'm pushed!