Culture › Re: Nigerian (igbo) & African American by MrsChima(f): 1:03pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
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Culture › Re: The Black Mind by MrsChima(f): 12:58pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Oh my gawd...get a room you two!  I am always cringing when I hear black mind or black unity because what is that really about? I have met black folks who abhorly dislike the term first black president because Obama isn't 100% black. I do not expect black folks to think or agree alike but I do expect black folks to get tired of being on the bottom of the totem pole. Let me fix my hubby his breakfast so he can quit looking at me cockeyed. Be back to finish. |
Culture › Re: The Black Mind by MrsChima(f): 6:29pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
I detest the term Black Mind. |
Culture › Re: Nigerian (igbo) & African American by MrsChima(f): 6:20pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Tyson Beckford looks like Tiger Woods but darker. |
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Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 11:08pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Buktanye's post: Some women aren't wives material and some men aren't husband material. May I kiss you no homo style?  |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 11:06pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
[quote author=For wetin nah?]On point Sis..some men don't just have respect for women, they expect women to do all the work (emotional and physical) while they sit back as Demi gods and Nag. Most men end up marrying informal housegirls (Not for love), while they flex outside with sophisticated ones..rubbish[/quote]I dey like.  |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 11:03pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
ogbronx: happy is the woman that knows her place and blessed is the man that finds such for a wife. Ladies,make una de fool una sef de go with such ideas as the op. 1 dislike. |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 8:13pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
crackhaus: I see you're just spoiling for a fight today, are you sure you don't have undiagnosed bi-polar disorder?
I can't even recall whining about any chicks here, I said what I said and went to the back seat to observe...na you call me come front.
Oya come, since you wanna know worram gonna do to you for quoting me, I will send you a PM so we hook up, make I hard-spank some sense into you from behind. I'm sure you don bully this your 'chima' into submission.
Quote me again, make we run this tin till dai kingdom come. Nansense! Mrs with no class. And yet you are rambling on and on about what? Take a nap. |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 8:08pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
DailyNews: Lolz.
Internet, blogs, media will ruin many lives!!
Don't follow another single lady's counsel cos it may work for her and fail u...be careful and wise! Over education, exposure, westernization and open eye has ruined the lives of many single ladies today.
Meanwhile, any man that abuses women or kids physically is better dead than living, and I encourage ladies to avoid any man who hits them cos its an act of inhumane!!! But they are supposed to follow your advice  |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 8:02pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
ogugua88: Some men sef. If you had that much to offer, then you wouldn't resort to mocking women for getting older or reminding them that their biological clocks are "reaching expiration". I wonder why some get so defensive when such matters arise. Exactly Oguga! Why are they angry and foaming at the mouth when this thread is clearly about dumb and senseless chicks? Are we "cockblocking" their game?  |
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Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 4:23pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
crackhaus: Bishes! Exactly and you know all about them. |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 4:22pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
crackhaus: I only said my own....you quoted me and I responded, now you have nothing to say again?
Bishes! What else do you want me to say? You bitched and whined about the chicks on this thread. Yes I quoted your post and now what bish? |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 4:19pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
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Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 4:18pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
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Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 3:50pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Lol at the male chatters getting mad.  |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 3:46pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
crackhaus: I can't say anything about the men on this site except myself.
I take it only fake and phony women would disagree with the OP abi, and what is this truth you speak of? Oh well, what you should know is that there are only a few men, and when I say few, I mean really few men who display such behaviour. I mean, when I should be busy with my job and my hustle, na to dey stalk my girl with incessant IMs and asking for nude pictures or monitoring her every move, or whatever else the OP tried to convince you people of that will be my problem?
The whole thing does not even make sense because I am yet to have a friend, relative or acquaintance who does any of that. But I wonder why you sef like the post when it's obvious you are already taken as with all the other ladies here who claim to have the best bf in the world.
I'm going back to my back seat now to observe, thank you for calling me out. I didn't create this thread....I gave the OP a bravo and now you want me to speak for the OP? Niggas! |
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Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 3:39pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
[quote author=Red_Card]I have come to realize one thing. You are sooo fake. Which man even ready to drop you for him house? Mrs my hairy yansh[/quote]Lol.  A stale bish is mad at my signature.  |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 1:52pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
[quote author=Catch_fire]Ngwanu, bia yia ogu AkaOkpo  [/quote]Your fada.  |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 1:50pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
crackhaus: What am I even doing here really... Am I supposed to see a woman that will disagree with what the OP wrote... Should I make a more sensible contribution that won't be misinterpreted... Will it even be worth it...
Abeg make I go siddon for back dey watch wetin dey appen here. It bashes dumb women and those with no commom sense...at least the women that agreed with OP isn't fake and phony when it comes to the trurh. Can you say that about the men on this site?  |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 1:47pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
ogugua88: Lovely post! Unfortunately, common sense is not common.
It's easy to say these things and hope that unmarried women heed, but the truth is that societal/cultural and family pressures are partly to blame, if not entirely. Also, a lot of women lack the mental and emotional strength required to stand for themselves, or have become complacent with mediocrity and sacrificed self-respect for a husband. It's from a Nigerian woman's mouth that you will hear things like "cheating is the norm; there's nothing you can do about it". Some unluckily marry the wrong man and will still quote the Bible and tell you that under no circumstances, adultery and domestic violence inclusive, can a woman file for divorce. That's disheartening and is setting a very wrong trend for our daughters to follow. I don't know from where the "a woman's pride is her husband/marriage" came, and I don't know how or why it's unofficially compulsory for a woman to marry before a certain age, hence making some women rush and settle for sub-par males, but it's part of the reason why some men see themselves as gods and do as they wish to them.
Nothing could be truer than the last part of your post. Society, culture, tradition, and even family won't change, not fast enough anyway. The change that's so greatly needed as per this topic can only come from women changing their mindsets and loving themselves to the point that they will not settle for less, even if it means waiting a little longer.
A woman should gain more than a man and ring in marriage. She should gain a partner, a teammate, a companion... someone who appreciates her in totality. And guess what? Such men don't come easily, so be patient. Tell us how you really feel girl.  |
Romance › Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 12:56am On Oct 07, 2013 |
Damn I was in a mood to fight!  Bravo!  |
Romance › Re: I Want A Nigerian Woman by MrsChima(f): 12:48am On Oct 07, 2013 |
Fulaman198: What are we known for  Which version you prefer? |
Culture › Re: Nigerian (igbo) & African American by MrsChima(f): 12:43am On Oct 07, 2013 |
Jayvarley: I can see what you mean. Well the Arabs have been scientifically classified as Caucasian. So maybe that explains his resemblance with them, having paternal white ancestry. Hmmm. Yes...I have heard of that. |
Nairaland General › Re: Happy Birthday Idowuogbo by MrsChima(f): 12:07am On Oct 07, 2013 |
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Romance › Re: I Want A Nigerian Woman by MrsChima(f): 10:30pm On Oct 06, 2013 |
Lol@Nigerian men are known for big condo.  That's NOT what they are known for.  |
Nairaland General › Re: Happy Birthday Idowuogbo by MrsChima(f): 10:23pm On Oct 06, 2013 |
Birthday girl....did you get that good condo as a gift?  Nothing is better than a hard one in that hole first thing in AM.  |
Culture › Re: If Black Caribbeans And African Americans Wish To Return To Africa? by MrsChima(f): 8:21pm On Oct 06, 2013 |
birdman: word. dont let the nigerian dude with 8 degrees hear you tho  I got into a debate with a Nigerian dude who got three degrees and thought he was the shit. He has a degree in Human Service, Social Service, and Photography. When people brag about what group has the most degrees...I always ask what type of degree cos if you got a degree in wiping azz then I wouldn't even brag about that shit. |
Culture › Re: Nigerian (igbo) & African American by MrsChima(f): 4:56pm On Oct 06, 2013 |
Jayvarley: @ Bold Yes, race is actually more than skin deep. There are skeletal differences too. Going by Tupac's features I can see that there had been some recent admixture in his family even though he was not very light skinned. 2pac clearly has Arabic features if you were to compare him to a standard Arab...meaning predominantly Arab with less admixture. |
Culture › Re: Nigerian (igbo) & African American by MrsChima(f): 4:24pm On Oct 06, 2013 |
[quote author=*Kails*]Racism!  but that's kinda true  i wont lie.  so you finally admitting you got that caribbean blood in yew.  lol my bad bro. didn't mean to leave you hanging. i thought you were leaving at first and then i forgot all about that thread lol.[/quote]I ain't admit shit.  but I love breadfruit.  |