₦airaland Forum

So you will marry GRANDPA?

I will not leave Nairaland.

Now what are you going to do about it?  Not a damn thang.  Now go find someone else that is interested AFTER you get over being hurt. 

I am talking about chicks and you talking about Visa. They denied your visa huh?

I did not have anything to do with Home Office denying your visa.      Wrong chick. 

Male PMS is a mofo!

Long One:
Why would you say it’s a fallacy, and what do you mean by ‘move on’? Hope it’s not divorce.

Biblically, (I think) the only reason to divorce is infidelity. And if you divorce, you aren’t supposed to remarry again…now where’s the fun in that?

I don’t believe in divorce, I mean there are always casualties (the kids).

I think she is a strong woman for staying with him, and I got’s to get me one of those.

Biblically speaking, the bible did states the only reason one should divorce if sexual immortatality occurs. However in much more serious situation such as domestic abuse, threaten of death on spouse and/or children, and abandonment the spouse STILL supposed to stay in the marriage?

Marriage is serious and divorce is serious. Not everyone divorce because their spouse gained weight or lost an eye ball but if someone's life is in danger or their spouse left them ARE THEY REALLY supposed to stay married to someone that is threatening their lives or abandoned them?

MBJ!!!!

Damn everybody hoes huh?

Five years.

What about you, Wifey?

Now getting back to what I was saying OP. 

Remember what I said.  Keep personal life personal and OFF Nairaland.   

creamofluv:
@mrs chima,  Can I afford the ticket to the USA? are you dumb or what? ya think am some guy from nigeria you can tell that too? What so special in me travelling to america

I live very close to manchester airport, am one way ticket to you fool, beside the americans has got no sense of humour so what the point.

Who said anything about traveling to America?  Are you sure YOU ARE NOT DUMB?     It not my fault those chicks kept telling YOU ARE NOT WORTH THEIR TIME.  Taking it out on me WON'T NUMB THAT PAIN boo boo. 

I guess that pain still tingling huh. 

By the way, Nigerians aren't known for being BARREL OF LAUGHTERS either.

I see the stone hit you in the neck huh?

Cold ice pack will heal the pain. 

Would you like to meet so I can tell you THE EXACT same thing I typed on this thread? Can you afford the ticket should be the FIRST question I asked.

I heard Arab men have big balls.

For those who said that SHE mentioned ALL NIGERIANS are bad. Not one time I seen that unless yall got her post mixed up with another chatter's post.

Just because someone has DOUBT or concern about A PERSON THAT IS NIGERIAN OR AMERICAN doesn't mean that they ASSUMED ALL are the same. Stop being defensive and ACTUALLY read the poster's comments.

Gotdamn. For the record, she is SPEAKING OF ONE NIGERIAN MAN as in SINGULAR.

Lisa

One thing you will learn about NL, KEEP YOUR PRIVATE LIFE PERSONAL. just giving you heads up.

You pretty MUCH gotten all the answers you needed and wish you and your friend HEALING LUCK.

People are being redundant and repetitive.

That's all right! Mr. Chima ain't complaining!

Bite my ENTIRE ARSE.

;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d

Hey sis!

koastar:
What does that mean?

Women with EXCESSIVE HO TENDENCIES.

Each COUPLE are different. Some do and some don't.

Don't buy a ring if you are not planning on wearing it. That's like me buying panties that I am not planning on wearing it.

No.

Why do men like hoish women?

Not naming any names but I see this thread became CONFESSION OF THE HOES.

lisasmiles:
@blank - I see why you have "blank" for your user name. Go back and read my earlier post. I have not told my friend anything, she told me about the pics. She revealed the website to me. I have not mention to her nothing that I am doing. I am checking things out for her. She just believes what he tells her. I have not advised her on anything. get your facts straight, before you go bashing someone. I said that I spoke to my frien that is an attorney to see if she did marry him and found out if he was married previously what would that do to his status. That is when my attorney said that their marriage would be null and void. I have not told her none of this. Period!!

There is nothing wrong with checking things out and if you didn't tell your friend anything about what you are doing which even better.

You are looking out for friend as real friends does however let her live through it for life is the best tutor. She will know what type of man she shacked up with soon or later.

Just be there for her when she needs a shoulder to lean on rather to cry or laugh.

Boboedom:
1. Bearing a child with someone does not make her his wife
2. If a marriage is not contracted in court, it is not legal as far the law is concerned
3. People should stop saying negative things about their countries as the same type of ëvil"that exist here equally exist in the US and even worse
4. You cannot have two or more court marriages in Nigeria, the law recognises only one
5. @poster: Allow your friend to give it a try and even there is a mistake, she will learn from it

So all of those POLYGAMY MARRIAGES IN NIGERIA is a fraud huh? So only the first wife is LEGALLY MARRIED and the rest of the wives are HOES?

You stated that if the marriage isn't recognized by the court it isn't legal. So you saying there are bunch of bastardized children and fornicators in Nigeria huh?

It take it you didn't comprehend my point. Allow me to reiterate. 

My point is this, America is a diverse country with PEOPLE who are not native Americans and census bureau does not specify WHICH group of people are divorced but rather records the amount of divorces. 

Census is recorded by the testimony of those who live in America and is not VALID.  Anyone can say that they have been married for x amount of years and divorce for x amount years WITHOUT proper verification.   

Again, are you employed with American Magistrate Court?  You can continue dodging the question if you must.  IT is EXPECTED. 

Are there a website source for the amount of divorces in Nigeria?   

Yes, she is indeed. Not everybody going to put up with situations like that.

However we have to realize that not everybody internalizes things the same so we have to be considerate that each case is different.

jay bee:
Census Bureau: Number, Timing, and Duration of Marriages and Divorces: 2001 (Issued February 2005) reports that: Roughly 1 in 5 adults has ever
divorced; First marriages that end in divorce last about 8 years, on
average. http://www.census.gov/prod/2005pubs/p70-97.pdf

http://www.divorcereform.org/rates.html#anchor168283

LMAO@website source.

In America, we have these following:

Naturalized Citizens
Native Citizens
Green Card holders (Permanent Residences)
Non-Immigrants
Refugees
Political or Social Asylum citizens

See my point? Exactly. So you work for the American Magistrate Court too? Damn yall everywhere.

I guess to whomever that said it, if there aren't a legal contract of marriage then the marriage is not valid which is BULLSHIT because there are MILLIONS of people who are traditionally married around the world even in America but only recognized in SEVERAL states that supports Common Law marriages.

claremont:
^^^^
Well said my friend! The average American marriage lasts only between 5-10 years anyway, anything above that is a bonus. The OP is just plain wicked!

Oh I didn't know you work for the American Magistrate court.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=720181.msg8797136#msg8797136 date=1311734442]^^^
You have to be married for atleast two years after which you are free but the government can/will monitor the marriage if they suspect foul play.
Your green card can also be revoked just like citizenship but the government don't bother doing that cos that takes a long process
Damn girl read your own laws this is getting boring[/quote]You need to read the immigration law as well. The person has to be LEGALLY in America for at least three years to five years. Most Immigration process takes longer because of the surge of requests for Visa/Green Cards.

Somebody said that marriage isn't the only way to get a green card and they are right. However marriage is the fastest way to get a green card.

Smootheb,

You can contact the embassy in Nigeria and request that they review the court registry however it would be tricky considering any other factors I prefer not to mention.

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All that for a dowry?

So you are saying they wants to marry me before asking me to spread my cheeks?

Why not just give me a dowry without proposing?