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rokiatu:
This is freaking hilarious.

A guy that bleach? Are you kidding? I luv my man dark not like ashes black but dark.

I almost gave the woman a cape for Christmas but thought it would be very rude. I am trying wifey. Sighs.

saint9:
there is no good reason cos they will continue to cheat if they want to

Exactly. Changing a number won't change a damn thing. If the woman is trifling she will be trifling with a new number.

Who to say she won't give her stalkers the new number?

Bottom line: Select a partner that is not trifling and respects you to the hilt.

[quote author=ozo_emeka link=topic=663553.msg8374146#msg8374146 date=1306116755]@tom28 you've got to brush up on your public awareness skills bro. Down Low men are eminent in every culture. Nigeria is not an exclusion. Did u attend Nigerian boarding school to hear of atrocities that went down? I'm gonna need you to rep the high intelligience of nigerian men. No. DC does NOT have the highest case of HIV compared to Nigeria. That's unintelligible and preposterous. 

[i]The table makes clear Africa's unfortunate position in the worldwide HIV and AIDS epidemic, as the 19 countries worldwide with the highest prevalence of reported infections are all African countries with more than 24.5 million, and more than 60% of the HIV-infected population. South Africa is reported to have the largest population living with the disease, at well over 5 million people infected, followed by Nigeria in 2nd place and India being the 3rd largest population of HIV infected with more than 2 million people reported.[/i]

WHO places Nigeria at #3 with 3.6m people and US is way down with 950k. Apologize to the lady with your facts straight.

I'll believe that Nigerian men DO NOT believe sex with a virgin cures AIDS.
[/quote]That why I said SOME African men and did not specified any African countries but I guess he assumed I meant Nigerians.  If that what I meant I would have stated it. 

I didn't think he understand the impact that black down low men have on the black community.  I also stressed that homosexuality is a taboo in the black community which explains "down low men" phenomenon.  There is a book written by a heterosexual black woman who was married to a black man on the down low.  She is blessed that she didn't contract the virus however many black women who are married, engaged, and dating black men on the down low have no idea their lives will change forever once they have engaged in unprotected sex with their down low partners. 

I do agree that heterosexual males and females are spreading HIV/AIDS infection in America however majority of the clueless victims are black women who are MARRIED or DATING down low men. 

To expound more on what you have stated about the infection comparisons

Mathematical speaking, if CDC did announced that the city of DC has more HIV/AIDS infections among blacks than Nigeria and Ethiopia combined which doesn't make sense when blacks only account for 12% of the total population in America. 

311,409,429 people in America (approximately 12% are black americans)
152,217,341 people in Nigeria
82,825,000 people in Ethiopia

I found the link where Tom28 may have gotten his source from but if he had read thoroughly he would have seen that DC has the highest HIV prevalence in the district not the country and most certainly not the world. 

http://www.avert.org/hiv-african-americans.htm

I can choose to love Jaybee today and hate him tomorrow.

Do you have saggy nuts?

Hmm. Who resurrected this bullshit?

rokiatu:
huh

Sweetie, here's a small advice from me. . . do not trust anybody 100%.

Excuse you wifey?

tutuwater:
@ mr jay in polyamory the wife is not restricted.


@chima. I ll ignore you.

Good idea LovePeddler.

MRbrownJAY:
how can anyone love someone they dont know?!

That what I have been asking for the longest. It is sad to see people online and offline "fall in love" with someone that they haven't even MET in person or do not even know the person is a male or female. I wonder if they know the different between LOVE and LUST? Hmm.

But hey! When you are lonely and desperate anything is believable and lovable.

Some people I know directly and indirectly stated that they have switched teams because they were tired of the other team.

There is nothing worst than people telling other people what they were and would become sexually.

That just like me telling President Obama that he never smoked weed. How the hell would I know unless I was on his arse the entire time.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=674043.msg8380372#msg8380372 date=1306194370]Why the Frapuccino should a woman change her phone number (if she doesn't want to)? Does that reduce the tendency of promiscuity? If she still wants to do the do, won't she still go ahead? Wetin be telephone number these days? **smh** You guys never Jam o! Levels don change.

Oh some guys probably  think it may reduce "temptation". Well can't the babe save the number(s) , throw the sim card/phone away, get another one, and re-store the number(s)?


OP, you no try abeg, throw another one. You can ask her to change her whole identity: change her:

1) Social security number
2)First name and last name
3)Face~~Plastic surgery (so non of her Exes will identify her)


Insecured Much![/quote]Girl! I know.

To the topic,

Some of you niggas are something else. First you want the woman to change her name, close her facebook account, delete her yahoo account, change her pants, change her weaves, change her families, change jobs, and now you want her to change her numbers? I am surprised you niggas are not asking her to change blood type!

The only thing you mofos need to do is change your INSECURITY.

tom28:
Many of us africans do believe HIV aids is real and that is why many young africans now go on preventive measures using condoms or abstaining from sex.Yes sex is not the only you can contact it but also through intravenous drug use and come to think of it intravenous drug use is very high in the AA community.Many africans now use the ABC method in the prevention of HIV aids were A stands for abstinance,B stands for being faithful to a partner and C stands for using of condoms.Churches and NGOs in africa are now preaching for partners to engage in safe sex and they even make it mandatory for couples who want to get married to go for compulsory HIV test.In america many church leaders ignore the scorge of HIV in the AA community and they dare not talk about the issue to their congregation with the fear of offending them.Many AA men have sex with multiple females in some cases were a single black american man has eight to ten female sexual partners and they dont use condoms.Black american women are scared to encourage their male partners to engage in safe sex because they fear if they bring up this issue many of these guys would leave them and its a fact that it is very difficult for blk american women to have partners because many of their men are dating out while the others are in prison.A black american woman is 15 times more likely to contact aids from her partner than her white american female counterpart.HIV aids is even getting higher in the AA community because many AAs ignore the truth.Take a look at africa and u would see its reducing in some cases.Even india and china have much higher HIV cases than africa.

Lack of awareness and truthful information about HIV/AIDS are the reasons why many communities are dealing with the soaring epidemic of HIV/AIDS.  However, HIV/AIDS treatment have came a long way and the prognosis of these patients are extending more than ten years.

You have mentioned CDC before and stated that DC alone have more infections in the Black communities than Nigeria and Ethiopia combined.   Blacks in America makes up 12% of the total population since the last US Census.  This includes mixed children and adults who considered themselves black.  

A portion of blacks that are infected with HIV/AIDS in America doesn't represent the 12% and CDC can only announce what Health departments have reported to them.  The government offer free testing and preventative seminars for citizens as a ploy to reduce the amount of infections yearly.  Lack of awareness and truthful information about HIV/AIDS  prevent those who are at high risk (sexually active teens and young adults between the age of 12-25) and because they are not aware of their infections.  

I was a part of a seminar a year ago where we were teaching school aged children about safe sex and prevention.   I was astounded at the questions and comments by the student.  One student asked if we were going to exterminate all HIV/AIDS infected patients to prevent the spread of the disease.  The school was considered to be one of the top white schools in the region and one parent stated that as long as she bathe in bleach she is "IMMUNE" from the disease.  SMH.  

Now getting back to Africa, there is a catholic church who sponsored a trip to Africa every year targeting West and South Africa to promote awareness of HIV/AIDS infection along with WHO (World Health Organization).  There are approximately 25 families who fosters orphan West and South African children who parents died of HIV/AIDS.  

No one really knows which country has the highest infections of HIV/AIDS but we do know that in every COUNTRY, CONTINENT, and REGION hundreds of people are suffering from it and passing it around knowingly and unknowingly .

tom28:
Same way that some african men believe that having sex with a morbidly obese woman makes you rich and talking about those sick men despoiling babies i am yet to hear about a nigerian man who goes about violating children because he believes that will cure his aids except in South Africa.

There are Africans that believes that if they have sex with MORBID OBESE women that they will have riches?   Seriously?   

Excuse me, (laughing out loud and hitting the computer table)

Ooh!  I am back.  What's were we saying?  Oh!  So is that why I see a lot of African men with those morbid obese women?   You mentioned before that your brothers always go after white obese women because they are trying to find a way out of poverty and why those same brothers can't get white women that are not obese? 

Just because you do not hear about it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.     There is nothing new under the sun even for Nigeria.

deniyor:
It works. I once had aids but I got cured by sleeping with a virgin.

You should write a book.

tutuwater:
you dont have to list your attributes LovePeddler CHIMA to make a valid point. You just have to ask nicely.
What most people think is love is not love at all, it is the feeling of wanting to be loved.
Loving someone is like giving a gift at christmas, you do it cause it makes you feel good, they dont have to say 'I love you' back for you to feel that love.

Wrong chick Nigga, you are on the LovePeddler boat alone.  Did you get tested?   

Whoring and loving are two different actions. There is nothing loving about whoring. Wake up your kini is talking too much.

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=655537.msg8370955#msg8370955 date=1306066492] [/quote]Do not get in trouble while I am gone. Real life is refreshing! Do not make me send the Online Area Boys to you!

Step away from the drug!

And homosexual touched men would think Shriver is sexy or hot. Go figure.

No. I am not asking for her.

[size=22pt]Help! Where is that girl at? [/size]

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=672843.msg8371072#msg8371072 date=1306068107]Dem swear for you . . or na you swear for yourself? [/quote]Jealous?

Pennywise:
^^^I luv u baby

Pennywise:
No. But thanks for the offer anyhow

Oh well! Your loss. You are welcome.

Some people actually becomes smitten when someone's flirting with them.

Pennywise:
Mrs Chima. You can only laugh. You cant boast of more than 4 inches

But I know those are quality inches

Are You itching to see 'em?      

Don't worry it won't be yours.

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=672140.msg8370944#msg8370944 date=1306066390]You offer some? [/quote]Did you cooked, cleaned, and started the celebration yet?