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Boyfriends aren't ATM?!!! Then what are they good for?

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=787433.msg9402433#msg9402433 date=1319386130]
LOL, your a trip! [/quote]Blame it on the hormones!

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=787433.msg9402159#msg9402159 date=1319383596]
It's not spooky to me. I like nice looking clean men. Speaking of walking in heels, I was at my old high school watching students from the dance class practice a routine when one of the guys walked out wearing heels and struttin'. We all laughed because it was cute and funny at the same time--then I shouted out "Hold up!! Why the hell does he know how to walk so well in those?" and everyone started laughing. Seriously though, the dude was doin' a good job

Also, there's a neighborhood in Brooklyn called Sheepshead Bay that has lots of Russian. While I was passing through the neighborhood in the summer, I saw lots of the older Russian men in the salons getting pedicures and I was giggling a bit--not because I think men can't or shouldn't get pedicures but the men in that neighborhood tend to have a very stern look on their face so to see them getting was refreshing. [/quote]I see what you mean however I am saying it is interesting how men would say that women should do this and that to define their femininity but in turn do the exact same things they defined as feminine.  

If women are to get their feet and nails done to show the world they are feminine then why are men doing it?  Now you see what I mean?  Contradicting ke?

Gbenge 77:
disgusting.

I see that dollar store diamond sparkler on your left ear.

Cute^^^^

A perfect man:

[size=33pt]working a steady good job and isn't into fuckery.[/size]_{With a small kini.}

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=786945.msg9402306#msg9402306 date=1319385021]
Sista kistehsia, I wasn't bashing white women. I was bashing people who abuse the welfare system. I don't care about the color of the person, I just don't like the idea of my money being sucked out of my wallet. I'm sorry that the thread offended you

I hope no one drove home after all that alcohol
[/quote]Unfortunately with children as well.  Some of the parents were reported to the hotline.

kistehsia:
So this has turned into a Bash The White Woman thread, ? Once again label all without knowledge of all, !

leaving thread, kistehsia

Why aren't you as vocal when they bash Black/African women?  

Keep it real.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=786945.msg9402105#msg9402105 date=1319383076]
Speaking of benefits, while I was in London, every once in a while I'd overhear conversations from white girls about dropping out of school, getting pregnant, and going on benefits. I wasn't shocked but I was a little. . . Come to think of it, I didn't think much of it, I just felt sorry for those girls [in a pathetic kinda way]. It reminded me of some of the girls I see here in the US who talk about gettin' knocked up and living off of welfare. It's pathetic, regardless of the person's ethnic background. I have no problem with people being on welfare/benefits, what I have a problem with is people who purposely abuse the system. I don't like using my motha flippin' tax dollars to feed some lazy fool and their village of children!!!

Some people just don't like the truth, even when its smackin' 'em in the face! [/quote]Yes!  I was visiting my cousin in another state and she invited me to go with her to her friend's party.  I thought it was an adult party and not expecting to see any children at the party.  Okay!  I was wrong!  Now mind you, the host was serving beer, wine, and shots at the party saturated with CHILDREN.  

The mothers of those children were WHITE and the fathers of those children were BLACK._{ages range from 18-25 and jobless}   Check this out, a white chick got the nerve to say that BLACK women are the reason why the social system is broke.     Does that make any sense to you?  

The host is white with FIVE kids by FOUR different black baby daddies.  She is 19 years old and doesn't have a job.  The host's boyfriend is not THE FATHER to any of her children.  She lives in "Council Flats" and receives child support for two children and benefits for the rest of the children but BLACK WOMEN are the reason why the social system is broke._{Majority of the receipents on aid are non-black.}

Do I need to break it down some more?

rokiatu:
Honestly, this sound like heaven but I'm not in for it.

I want someone with some imperfections so I can look pass those reasons and still love em.


Who wants a perfect robotic kinda person? That is like calling boredome upon yourself.

I love all of your imperfections and crooks Wifey!  

pendo89:
How to make my ideal man.

Ingredients
>Care
>Generousity
>Respect
>Hardwork
>Industrious
>Humour
>Food colour(Black)
>Tall
>Handsome
>Smart
>Romantic
>Financially stable
Recipe

Mix care,generousity,respect and hardwork together in a large bowl. Now add Industrious and financial stability.When all your mix is saturated and sinks to the bottom,add the essential smartness and romance.Drizzle the black food colour over the mix.
A touch of smile makes this product so refreshing.
Pour this mixture into a tall cylinder and serve with lots of humour.

Take a siesta after eating and pray that you dont wake up.

You were on point until you said pray that you don't wake up!  You know we got to wake up at one point to see if he gave us some bambinas.  

I have seen some of the links! What's interesting that some of them can walk in the heels better than MOST women!

I saw STRAIGHT men in salons getting their hair did (twists and ponytails) and pedicures! Now I don't see anything wrong with a man taking care of himself but when majority of the men define what a woman should be goes out and does the same thing is spooky to me!

Oooooh damn! We asked for realness and we got it!


(still laughing at Obo man's statement about Linda being angry)

[quote author=obo_man link=topic=786945.msg9401975#msg9401975 date=1319381976]@ Linda, lol, allow it.   

I'm sure you one of those angry black women. You keep repeating yourself without making any valuable point. You just jealous ''you black women in western hemisphere' are seen as lunnies.

You talking about white men winning most gold medal? You mad? White men dominate certain support, so do black men,  How many white men have been WBF, wba champions?  From MOhammed ALi to Mike tyson


Pele,  Best ever footballer is a black man

NFL-- dominated by black males

NBA---black males

AThletics-- black males

Football--- split

You don't do your research b4 talking trash, You 1 of those dump 9ja girls that neither watch sport nor go gym. Typical lazy black 9ja girl putting his men down.


Mrs chima, I fear for mr chima, lol[/quote]LMAO@Linda being an angry black woman because YOU DISAGREE with her opinion.   

(laughing and screeching like an eagle)  Ooh that was funny!   

Sorry ladies! (laughing some more)

OP

Wait a minute! Are you telling me GROWN MEN are still wearing earrings?

What's next? Men wearing stilettos? Oh wait! They are wearing stilettos!

lailaiwala:
lol.  you don't know your place.  listen, you GRUEL!   you are TOLERATED NOT WANTED on this site.  you, being a jobless unwanted wife of a smart igbo man who wanted a green card, you POST A LOT which keeps the money rolling in for Seun. 

your brain is really full of mush to think a true nigerian will be banned for a wandering unwanted lowlife akata. 

i didnt respond because i dont live on nairaland or the internet. unlike you and the round-heeled akata-nigerian friend inked-slut.

you know what, i dont ever converse with trash like you dirtbags.  its too bad the internet has made it unavoidable that decent people have to be in the company of rejects like you.  i havent got your time. 

but please keep posting 24/7. 

It pains you huh?    Furry Arse just revealed himself! Welcome back!

[size=33pt]Somebody is hurting[/size]     Keep doing a good job being a faithful fan for 24/7    Make sure you click on "like" next time.   

(doing the Stomp the decaying cockroach dance)

Damn Linda! You beat me to the punch!

Handle it!

lindabon:
First and foremost, to all those claiming that Nigerian men have been proven to be the best, i wonder in which dream you people got that statistics. . 

well . . . even if a guy is not good, he can learn, so i think most times the problem is that the women don't complain. there is a difference between a terrible guy in bed, who wants to learn, and a terrible guy in bed, who doesn't want to learn. if he is bad, i go tell am point blank . . .  no time to hide mouth, especially if he is all these bragging big head guys. . . . they deserve to know the truth!period! . . .

well to answer the op's question, "yes, there are African men that are good lovers".

Many of them think just because a woman didn't speak out about their bedmatic skills that they are doing something right. Some women aren't vocal like you and I.

Women are responsible for their pleasures and letting their mate know what pleases them and what is not pleasing to them. Some women are taught to be quiet and docile in term of their sexuality versus coaching their mate. Each women have different desires and points of ecstasy A man can only do what he knows how to do and if the woman sitting there like a log in the river then she is the one missing out.

There are SOME good lovers and bad lovers everywhere.

CyberG:
I am Naija (African) and YES an excellent lover! Not just when hitting the thang but all pre-action moves . . .even before the bedroom! It's natural 'cos I don't even have to plan or think about it. . .it just flows! And lyrics? Well, you will be in boomland even before the plane arrives. . .LOL!

Did you get any foreigners' numbers since you advertised yourself?

Nothing like a fit and athletic man. Tall and handsome.  Sexy chiseled abs.  Lean thighs and legs.  No double necks. Lean arms and bulging biceps. Lean face and back.  Nice. 

Now how many men on this thread LOOKS LIKE THAT?   

[quote author=James-dman link=topic=683887.msg8502026#msg8502026 date=1307825202]@mrs chima, so u tk pride in being a pain in pples' arses? Wel, gudluck 2 u in your endeavor. Bt in my case, wud u pls reduce d pain, my arse is so hot its threatin 2 go off, if u don't do sumtin soon![/quote]You are going to get enough inviting people to your arse. Clench tight!

kistehsia:
TRUE love kows no limits, whether it be color, race, age ,  whatever!  WE are but ONE race HUMAN!  Can't we stop bashing one another and maybe try respecting each other?  Hatred is sooooo cruel,  Every nationality has good and bad persons, but to label is not right,  we wonder why war amongst the human race, well look around.  There are beautiful people in every country and beauty is not only about outward appearances,  Any human could have an exceptional a heart of gold that would make anyone fall in love with them and color or anything could not stop that, JMO

kistehsia

True love is still about individual choices.  Just like you made a choice to be with a black man from another country so does the next person who made a choice to be with someone of the same race. 

Some people are so quick to throw out true love without really understanding what it means because true love is also about forgiving and forsaking all others.  I am willing to bet if the man does something beside character _{getting another woman pregnant or murdered thousands of people} would you still forgive him and forsake all others?  Would you still parade around with a known murderer or cheater for the sake of true love?  Be honest. 

Again, even true love has conditions. 

The point of this thread is Some people are into interracial relationships and some people are not into interracial relationships.  A justified relationship is just as bad as an incompatible relationship.

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=787479.msg9398538#msg9398538 date=1319322759]Where have you been? You been away for almost a year. Good to have you back thou.

@OP----Mrs. Chima are you g[i]a[/i]y?[/quote]Why you need a hook up? I know some cool batty boys.

lailaiwala:
brilliant akata mathematics! ingenious akata population statistics!!  so wherever you go, you see 8 times as many women at men. in your child's school, there are 8 times as many girls as there are boys?

listen, we have enough problems with silly nigerians and africans on this forum, and slutty ones spreading it around like inked-nerd, we don't need your silly akata uneducated brain screwing things up even more for us. just go wherever akatas talk crap. okay. thanks.

Awww.  Admins banned dum dum huh?      Look at yourself in the mirror and see why Africans have enough issues and problems.  Deal with it_{not my problem.}

Inkie! Keep stomping that decaying cockroach.

Preach sisters Preach!

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=787480.msg9397679#msg9397679 date=1319312903]Hey Chima . . U suck  . . Missed you Love . . .U know wah?
I just feel like touching u right now babe . . .come on AIM . .got couple of things to ask [/quote][quote author=D-sense link=topic=787480.msg9397679#msg9397679 date=1319312903]Hey Chima . . U suck . . Missed you Love . . .U know wah?
I just feel like touching u right now babe . . .come on AIM . .got couple of things to ask [/quote]Touching me? Oh lawd! Somebody help me! _{On there cussing you out.}

You know Koyoke and Jaybee are jealous men.

I was channeling Creflo Dollar and Joy Myers all at once!

Let the church say AMEN! ATM'S are outside the hall for your pleasures.

How the hell I missed this thread?!!!!  

Some of you all done started some poo on this thread but I respect keeping it real honest.  

Flavor of Love is one of the MOST DUMBEST reality shows in the history of reality shows next to Surreal Life and Jersey Shore.   I have a few more but these would do for right now.  One thing I would say about Flavor of Love is that they showcased gold digging hoes in EVERY nationalities. I am so glad that they didn't show JUST BLACK WOMEN chasing ugly arse men for money.  I always laugh when chicks shout out they are classy and cultured but the moment someone rejected them, called them out, and exposed them they become "ghetto" and "loud".  

A few white chicks on Flavor of Love swore up and down they were classy and cultured against the minority but look at them acting like shanaynay.  

Granted black women more likely to stay with their black men so does Asian women with their Asian men.  It's natural to gravitate toward something in commonality.  If Nigerian women want to stay with Nigerian men WHY'S THAT AN ISSUE?    We all have preferences of whom we are attracted to and anyone that tell you they do not have preferences lied to you.  We live in a world where we are drawn to similarity and often times think the grass is greener on the other side.  

Sometimes 80% is better than 20% in most cases.  People kills me when they say, "I found love outside my race"  Is that suppose to be an accomplishment?    I have said it before and I will say it again, anytime a man or woman declare nationality a reason for loving their partner is deceiving themselves of the real truth.  Justifying a love is not the same thing as loving someone as they are, A HUMAN BEING.  

It's a choice to be with someone and it's not necessary because you can be alone if you wanted to.

LMAO@Black American women are single because men running after other women.

Trust me, women aren't the only ones some Black men are running after. _{Other men also are getting attention from Black men.}

There are 8 women to 1 man in this world, do the math.