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r231:
she said that she dont like asking

that the guy suppose to be a mind reader

he was suppose to offer without asking

The only way the guy wouldn't know if his girl doesn't need anything if they are living in separate housing and she is jobless.  

Don't like asking and have never asked are two different things.  You can ask someone indirectly or directly and if the person still do not get it then that an issue on both sides.  

You can tell whether someone is stingy or not by the way they conduct themselves and what they say about certain things.

Eiregirl:
Yep, I'm happily married & couldn't care less who does what with which colour.

Hmm. So you asked the question for the hell of it huh?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=756922.msg9131450#msg9131450 date=1315842470]CORRECTION. The longest ralationship Mrs Chima ever had waz 1 week. They all ran away! [/quote]I won't tell them all of the one week relationships were you.  Shhh  Did you get the flat tire fixed?  You left your singlet and belt at the house.  

r231:
den she should kp her peace and stp calling the guy stingy

If he is stingy why wouldn't she call him stingy?   Would you tell a stinky person they do not smell?   

Maybe she have asked him in the past and concluded that he is stingy. People don't always tell the whole story and there are two sides to every story. We don't know the half of it.

Eiregirl:
Mrs. Chima, do you have a partner?

Do you have a partner?  Since we getting in each others' business.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=757810.msg9131379#msg9131379 date=1315841874]Tosinville. Bro. start showin respect to Black women and I will hoook you up with Mrs Chima.    She dates anything!! [/quote]Apparently I don't date anything because I wouldn't date you even if you was six feet under.

jay bee:
Please no more e-fights guys
On me knees begging

What is exactly e-fighting? If someone have a comment to make shouldn't they be able to express it? Isn't that what a discussion is? I understand discussion without insults however is cussing consider insults?

Maybe she didn't want to be coined as the typical Nigerian girl who begs for money and things.

Right. I am mad that people changing their stories.  You are exactly right!   

I know for sure people with partners wouldn't be worrying about if other people have partners or not. They are too busy investing in theirs.

Pennywise:
OP,
There are ways to get round this. Dont stop loving your BF but keep a generous sugar dada very close otherwise u might end up lapsing into prostitution.

Interesting how the story changed.  People need to remember what they say ONLINE.

Just saying.

Behind every bad woman there is a bad man.

Remember that.

Behind every bad woman there is a bad man.

Remember that.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=154313.msg9131154#msg9131154 date=1315840110]Mrs, Chima. Sweeery, it dosent hurt to say: Mr Cork, I think am in love with u! [/quote]I would rather sleep with a piranha.

[quote author=deal_ordea link=topic=756922.msg9131255#msg9131255 date=1315840797]That was Hilarious, AM still looking up to see what other think about this[/quote]Yeah that should be hilarious seeing you online looking for a white woman.  Right.  I would also like to see what others think about that as well.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=756922.msg9131231#msg9131231 date=1315840656]Mrs, Chima.  with this kinda language, you will NEVER find a man. EVER!! [/quote]With the way you look you will never get any punny nor Joystick.  Not even the dead wouldn't touch you. 

Keep begging for punny online.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=756922.msg9131092#msg9131092 date=1315839624] Its women like u that make black men age quickly (no oofeinse) [/color][/b][/quote]Then you should be dead.

debosky:
Show me just ONE black woman without drama and I'll pay you $1000. I challenge any woman here to counter the claim that black women have drama.

Didn't you see your black sista showing off her drama at the US Open Final?

Show me just ONE white woman without drama and I will pay you $0.  

As far as Tennis, you think a white woman wouldn't get upset if she knew her shit was legit?  Oh, I forgot!  They are such perfect angels.  

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=756922.msg9131092#msg9131092 date=1315839624]Mrs, Chima.  No need to be rude, u schuupid goat. Dont hate coz u dont have real hair. Its women like u that make black men age quickly (no oofeinse) [/quote]Stealing monikers huh?

(vomits)

debosky:
As for the generalisation, if it's related to black woman drama, that is 100% factual. Even my 2 year old babies already exhibit traits of blak woman drama.

Of course you will say YOUR GENERALIZATION is factual. Duh.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=756922.msg9131013#msg9131013 date=1315839104]Proofs me point: Mrs Chima didnt reply. She wears weave (Case closed) [/quote]So does your mammy.

I see you unable to perceive sarcasm as well.  How sad.  

No matter how much you dissect it or saute the facts, it doesn't change the fact regardless if these Black men stationed in Germany flocking to the hoes.  

The dumb hoes are the ones left standing ALONE with half breed children while the fathers are MIA.  

I hope the buck she earned will suffice.  

debosky:
How many German women did you get told by? 10? 20? is this representative of a country of over 60m people? I think you need a flight on Google Airlines to clear the cobwebs in your head.

Tsk, tsk. . . .are you now unable to perceive sarcasm? If nookie was that easy in Germany, you'd have many more black men flocking there. But it clearly isn't as easy as you paint it.

As for the generalisation, if it's related to black woman drama, that is 100% factual. Even my 2 year old babies already exhibit traits of blak woman drama.

debosky:
And you know this for a fact? 

Go ask all the randy blackmen in Germany that aren't getting any nookie except the paid for type.

Too many bland generalisms here.

@ topic

Yes - it all depends on what the man wants. If he misses the black woman 'drama', then he won't be satisfied.

PS - that is not saying that white women don't have their drama, it's simply saying what we all know - black woman drama is unique.

I don't need to ask anyone.  I was told this from BOTH SIDES.  Not everybody travels through Google Airlines.

A hooker getting paid to have children? Hmm.

Did you just make a generalization?  Hmm.

(throws a shitty diaper with YOU WELCOME written on it)

Goat tail?

You are surely welcome and just be careful.  You will be okay.  Just keep in mind what you are willing to compromise and what are deal breakers to you.  Do not settle.  Make a list and pray on it. 

Talina gave you a good advice.  Listen to your heart and women intuition.  It will tell you the truth.  I am not talking about the kind that tell you if you like the guy but that will tell you if he is the guy for you.  Once you get married that's it.

You will experience some things you have never experienced and that's when you fall back on that women intuition. 

Good luck and hope your journey to Africa is a good one. 

Run your hands through Paris Hilton and Kim Zolciak' hair and then tell if you think its true.

(leaving the thread)

What Tom said about Germany is true. Black American and African soldiers that are stationed in Germany will sleep with Germ girls and leave them with children soon the sack orders tell them to leave. Only a few of them will marry the Germ girls and bring them to the States.

Germ girls love BLACK DICKS and will do anything to get them. They fall for the hype that black dicks will bring them prosperity from their wretched lives. What a sad hype to believe.

People in the States made noise about Germany being the new America. Now you know why.

lefulefu:
You can see that the non nigerian babes got lots of love for we naija bobos.Its the naija babes who always hate us
Seems a king can never be appreciated in his kingdom

You sure about that?

andromida:
All i see in your posts are a lot of worries and fears about the future.

I want you to have this at the back of your mind- It seems to me from your posts that your Nigerian man is made and does not need your money, he is also into his forties. I very much doubt if he will be willing to relocate to the states seeing as he has kids here and family and is used to a certain way of life. In Nigeria when it comes to marriage most of the compromises is expected from the woman. She follows her man and i bet you at his age he is not looking for drama but support, companionship, love and care and someone who will fit into his life. Can you do this?

You talk about mouthaction and how much you love it, what if he is willing to do it only fourtimes in a year will you love him all thesame? is mouthaction so important to you that if he is a good man you will let go of him because he cannot give mouthaction are you willing to teach him, cajole him, until he is comfortable with it which may be a while if at all. Thesame way you are evaluating the rship is thesame way he is evaluating it and wondering if you will fit into his life If he is a made man as you say.

You are 100% correct on the first paragraph and that is what I tried to tell a few of my friends who have married or dating Africans not just Nigerians. I told them to learn the culture first and see if you are willing to adapt to it.  Older African men are set in their ways and most likely will expect the women to compromise just as you said.  

That's why I said she need to learn HIS culture if she is going to be with him.  If she is willing to compromise on a huge scale then she will be okay with him.  Its sound easy over the Internet and people can dream big online however when reality kick in its a hard pill to swallow because you are looking for that dream you guys painted together.  

Once she spend quality time with him in Nigeria she will see things that I would have shared with her but prefer she experience it first.  I suggest she take it easy and open her mind.  

She will be okay.