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Oga Chima and Chimette!

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A human with a penis.

[quote author=*Kails*] ok so even if the father's last name comes last you would still have a problem with the hyphenated thing?

OT: i know in spanish speaking communities its a bit more interesting because it is standard to have both your maiden and surnames.

the thing is the father's last name comes first, then the mothers.
to me that is a bit odd.[/quote]You already know...some men do not care as long as their name is in the picture SOMEWHERE...it could be on the license plate, coffee mug, or even on booty cheeks.


Matter fact...I may have to rethink the hyphenated names thingie...hmmm.

I have seen children with hyphenated names and some of them were nice combos. There is a child's name...Something Aire-Love and I was digging it!

[quote author=Lord_Reed]You dumped me for lefulefu....[/quote]You obviously didn't see the thread...I AM NOT IN LOVE WITH LEFULEFU!

[quote author=*Kails*]fail.[/quote]

[quote author=*Kails*]My favorite character in Oz was "Simon Adebisi".

that man was SICK!!! It was effed up how he died though.

but what he did during the series was even MORE effed up! [/quote]I kinda liked Said!! He was a mofo.

[quote author=*Kails*]YES,

sur = sir.
honestly i plan to keep my last name and do the hyphenated thing but
i dont exactly see taking on the father's name as "oppressive". I am just saying the culture/tradition began from chauvinistic societies and laws.

for example "johnson" in the old days meant you were the "son of john". Same for "Robinson" etc.

anyway, the only children i know who have their mother's last names are kids born to single mothers or who changed it due to the divorce of their parents.

Case in point Bobby Brown and the late Witney Houston's daughter who dropped her father's names "bobby and brown" from hers.[/quote]You made an excellent point because I have seen many female celebrities who have maintained their maiden name even after marriage and some said it to maintain their brand but my thing is this....how come we don't always know their spouse's name but their maiden name?

Speaking of children...not all children will keep their name even if they are married. Some kids will grow up with some kind of epiphany and decides to change their name because of whatever. If they do so...the line is lost anyways. So we need not to make a big deal about surnames because we all live in the world where people are creating pen names and brand names that has nothing to do with their spouse or father.

[quote author=*Kails*]LOOOOOOOOOOL!

SOMEBODY JUST FINISHED WATCHING "OZ"! [/quote]Yanno! Tunde is my favorite character with his masturbating ass! Girl he kills me with that lil hat sitting on the corner of his head!

[quote author=Lord_Reed] [/quote]Cheater!!

nyameke: @ chima Naa I don't take stuff personally I say what's on my mind and keep it moving

I do too.

[quote author=*Kails*]its not just africans who go through the name change, so do asians.
i too make an effort to learn however you know as an american, our country isn't the most tolerant.

for example, in the second grade my best friend was a FOB Taiwanese girl with the name "Sharon".

That wasn't her real name however she like most of the immigrant children were all given "western first names" to enroll in school and make the assimilation process easier.[/quote]Read the above post again.

[quote author=*Kails*]because it is hard for westerners to pronounce their names. [/quote]Actually there are some names that are African easy to pronounce just have to listen to how they pronounce their names. Some people are too lazy to learn about the person whom they are conversing with and when I meet a foreigner...I always try to imitate their accent while sayng their names. They always laughing....saying you are verily good.

Believe it or not...when I listen to people talk for a minute... I can imitate them well. My brother in-law travels to UK for business from USA and he have adopted the accent and when I first met him I spoke just like a Brit..he was confused...he was like I thought you were a Yankee and I laughed...and I imitated his accent and he was like oh my goodness!

He is in California with a Brit accent...you know how those people in Compton gon treat him! No offense to the Brits but men with Brit accent sounds like battyboys!

[quote author=*Kails*]with what?

a butter knife? you gon' butter me to death? [/quote]My toothbrush shank.

nyameke: lol its all good mami

I am glad it is...sounded like you took it personal.

Nym...you forget what you write don't you?

As far as the fathers name thing. I had asked you initial if you uses your fathers name and you said something like " my kids will honor their father ....we agreed to it before marriage." So inductively I assumed you meant your kids will use your husbands name, therefore you are probably using your fathers name.. glad you not offended though

You have posted two different statements saying it is the same....this is what you said below.

nyameke: @chima are you using your husband surname or your surname?

You mentioned nothing of my father...you said husband....were you dreaming when you wrote both statements? My children ARE PART OF MY HUSBAND therefore the answer was RELEVANT.

[quote author=*Kails*]truth be told, i am not as busy as I was before.
I have plenty of idle time to waste as all I do is work at the moment.

I game once in a while.
my systems are all in storage because i moved not too long ago.
but anyway, it has been a while. I see you're ok and I hope all is well
offline too. [/quote]Back off Lord Reed...I will cut you heffa!

[quote author=Lord_Reed] [/quote]

nyameke: lol see what I'm talking about. You were wondering when I was going to throw the gender card ? So you came to the convo with an already prejudiced mindset.

I see sarcasm isn't your strongest suit...stick to creating wild assumptions...you do it very well.

Sagamite: x

[quote author=Mynd_44]^^
I was wondering when you will show up[/quote]Hush your ass.

nyameke: what do you mean by fallen christians. i believe there are alot of ignorant christians though
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lol if it is quote you want tell me what you believe in and i will help you. theist, atheist, agnostic i got you..what facts? not the answer i was looking for but i get the picture lol

so in your case what made you want to keep your fathers name and was there resistance from your husband before he gave in?

Where did you see that I kept my father's name? I spoke of children not me. Keep up suga.

nyameke: lol this is intellectual claptrap yet you are more concerned with the price of fish.
are you a market woman,hungry or by any chance a starving somalian?

He is not Somalian and he is Nigerian.

[quote author=Lord_Reed]Story story, story. Once upon a time, time time.

Ain't gonna change the price of fish or any couples names.

This is just intellectual claptrap.[/quote]Why you mad boo?

nyameke: @chima are you using your husband surname or your surname?

My children will honor their father's...it was agreed prior to marriage.

Any more questions?

nyameke: [size=44pt]you dont have to follow the bible to know that when a positive and a negative charge meet they stick together [/size] ;Di tell those that care to listen. i never said they should be applauded. thats my stand all along. but i think you re comparing apples and oranges here in my opinion

And yet you have many fallen Christians. I guess you can't give me anything else without retorting to the Bible. It is okay...I figured as much.


And to your last sentence...it still won't change facts.

omotola1: So many cases of abuse, maltreatment, infidelity, promiscuity etcetera in relationships/marriages.
Not to mention gender discrimination.
Women are always at the receiving end.
I pity them sometimes.
It‘s really a man‘s world!

You wish!!!!

Nym....

You said:

ami the man being the head of the family does not mean he is greater or more important than a woman.

My answer:

Tell that to the manbitches that think otherwise.

Nym.

You said:

tw are you suggesting that just because some slave owners treats their slaves better than some husbands, it makes their inhumane acts right and should be applauded?

My answer:

Neither should the husbands who beat/mistreated their wives and later repented shouldn't be applauded either. Either way it doesn't change what was done therefore are we going to punish them in totality?