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freecocoa:
Well i use to wonder what causes stretch marks too o,Mrs C i really don't get what you mean by someone's skin being stretched beyond capacity,care to elaborate?

I thought the description was self explanatory. How about this, get a clear colored ballon and stretch the balloon out as far as you can. You should notice squiggle lines on the balloon and the balloon will either extend or "break".

Our skin is one of the largest body organs and it has amazing abilities. Read some books on it and you will be amazed.

I will pay ANYONE to take Mr. Cork.

Stretch marks are indication that your skin are stretched beyond capacity.

Stretch marks are usually prevalent among pregnant women and in some cases obese individuals. Some individuals who had plastic surgeries have experienced stretch marks or skin grafting (replacing dead skin with local body skin).

One thing that people take for granted is their skin and it is an amazing organ. I encourage everyone to read books on dermatology and skin care.

Dextra:
I'm a Nigerian (Igbo) in a relationship with a Sierra Leonian guy who adores me. Everybody keeps telling me how he is not good for me and that it'll be best for me marry an Igbo guy. All I know is that this is my life and [b]I know who makes me happie[/b]r,. So, we are all different individuals and most do what we know is right for us. We mustn't allow what other people think to influence our lifestyle.

That's very important.

aurenflani:
@ chima - are u stereotyping against my being hausa? no sounds word without meaning to me o.

Maybe if I type in big font, you will get the message. 

[size=44pt]I am MARRIED and detest polygamy with a passion.  [/size]

Your nationality has nothing to do with my decision, but my integrity does. 

charlyjayden:
Yes mrs chima that would be a very nice idea because after all underneath our skin we are the same and we are all made from Gods fair hand , my point to this post is that not every white woman is being used for papers . It is not nice to be viewed in such a way and also what does that say about how you view nigerians in general. I am aware it happens but not all four fingers are the same , have a nice day .

I hate to bust your utopia bubble, but in this world everything isn't going to be the way we wants it to be.  However, instead of worrying about why other people are obsessing with why you as a white woman chose to date/marry a black man, you should be focusing your life with your man.  

A person who really love the person they are with wouldn't waste their time defending nor debating their choice in whom they have decided to partnered with.  

You can't change other people, but you can change who you bring into your life.  It is that simple.  
Good luck.

I will not seek advices regarding my marriage from an ex. WTF.

Seek an intelligent elder of your family if you really want sound advices.

pedestal82:
@Killz and Mrs Chima, thanks for ur contributions, who says u can't get meaningful advice on NL. And guys no fights on my thread pls, lol! Come to think of it, that's what makes it NL sha!

Don't worry! Killz and I will be back smooching and laughing at each other. We don't hold grudges with each other.

(giving Killz a big slobbery kiss on the forehead)

OP

Would it make you feel better if the WHOLE WORLD supports interracial dating/marriage?

Nwoka:
The person that posted this poo shld proly be a fishseller, dumbass

Aww. Truth hurts huh?

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=874317.msg10226292#msg10226292 date=1329594671]^^
Nigerians don't believe that oooo. Most of them believe that a marriage without children is not worth it[/quote]Marriage has nothing to do with Nigerians.  Nigerians aren't the only group of people that engages into marriage.  Marriage is an individual thing and NO ONE SHOULD stipulate how one should marry nor establish the purpose of marriage. 

There are individuals who are married without kids and DOES NOT LIVE IN the "WEST".

LesbianBoy:
Why am i not suprised to find Mrs chima in this kind of thread
''messy-messy'' married woman

Are we still in dilemma?  

You don't want to get married because you don't want kids or you don't want to get married because you are not ready personally? 

Just because you are married doesn't mean you are by force to have children.  Just so you know.

tellwisdom:
No Mshew chima . The last time you tried entering McDonald, Chima had to open the 2doors,cos of u

I touched a nerve huh?    

If you can dish it, you should be able to take it.

tellwisdom:
Ever since mshew chima had her children; she has never remained d same . She cant even pass through a normal door

Is that what happened to your mother?

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=873916.msg10225572#msg10225572 date=1329587977][color=#000030]Sorry if i beg to differ. people plan their families, before they actually come. So what's that about not knowing what i can handle until i have kids? [/color]
[color=#000030] course yes! People's orientation change. Individuals think differently, and did you find out why they ended up with 2 or 3 kids? Is it obtainable for everyone?[/color]
 
[color=#000030]Money wont make having kids and raising them easier, but money helps! If he is experienced, and can take care of 6 children, are you to stop him? What if he can take care of kids more than you think he can?[/color]



[color=#000030]What is life?[/color][/quote]Sure. Curve balls are hilarious.

talina:
Stereotyping is nothing but  destructive. It just narrows the mind and causes judgment in situations that Always need to be seen and taken on an individual basis. Sterotyping can box and label people who dont stand a chance to be truly seen. Sterotyping is boring and rigid and will not add to any relationship. It confines and limits growth.

Nice.

lefulefu:
abegi even a two yr old child get more brains than the average american
on CNN when dem asked Bush the capital of pakistan he said the capital is dubai
ehn even a president nah blockhead
i said it, too much junk food blocks the function of da medulla oblogonta

Once you get over being jealous and ignorant. You will definitely thrive in your life.

Scamming and sham marriages are ethnic specific?

lefulefu:
u mean those oyibo men with pot belly who wear white bedsheets and white pillow cases and their head and yell white power!?
americans are so stup!d sha

And you are stup[i]i[/i]d just like them.

aurenflani:
okay chima, i'm a hausa male. if u are single can we pls meet? i want a to date u. what says u?

No thanks.

lefulefu:
not to worry wen i enter america i will change my eithnicity from african to black american.i will start wearing baggy fubu jeans and sag them and wear those over sized t-shirt with blings on and start speaking yankee slangs

No need to claim Black American identity, just remain an African and see if Klu Klux Klan and Skinheads treat you any different.   

Make sure you wear your kufi and native attire.  Pay attention to the very words they label you. It is earth shattering literally!

Because of your "dark" skin color, you are a nigger in their eyes.

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=873916.msg10225133#msg10225133 date=1329584698][color=#000030]There is absolutely nothing wrong having as

Waiting till after the first 2 to make up your mind may not really work to your expectations. Trash out the issue before you head to the altar. . . To prevent future emotional & marital catastrophe.
Personally i will like a minimum of 2, and a maximum of 4 and i have made up my mind already to settle for 3 if need be. . . Sacrifice! [/color][/quote]Talk is cheap.  It is easy to say I want this and that and this and that, but when push come to shove IF YOU DON'T HAVE KIDS, you don't know what you can handle until you have kids. 

I know many couples who have sworn they will have million of children ended up with 2 or 3 kids. 

Having all the money in the world will not make having kids and raising children easier.  People need to be realistic. 

Talking about it and making an affirmed decision will not change THE CURVE BALL we call LIFE.

don buchi:
U are a silly woman

Who are you talking to?

lefulefu:
mrs chima i am not staying in america so i dont know much about ur welfare system

The smartest thing you said EVER.   

You may continue stereotyping. You are doing en excellent job.

chidyhels:
Abegii, do d caling and txtin joor. Maybe u shud stop calin n txtin ur family 2.pls marriage is nt a bondage,afteral he was stil dia wen u tok d decision 2 marry hm instead of ur ex, men sf,una own 2much joor

Her family and her ex are TWO DIFFERENT people. If the shoe was on the other foot, I am sure she would be displease with the fact her husband is contacting his ex for whatever reason.

It doesn't have to make sense but if it is causing issues in the marriage, REMOVE IT no matter how "stupid" it is.

If it was a family member then HER HUSBAND DOES HAVE AN ISSUE, but it is an ex that MEANS NOTHING TO HER or does he?

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=873525.msg10225288#msg10225288 date=1329585959]We need to distinguish between stereotypes and poor choices. That 22yr old who married the 68yr old made a poor choice imho, that is not me stereotyping because I am evaluating the man's choice from several angles and I believe he could have made a better choice.

We may fall into error if we begin to label every opposition to our actions as simply stereotyping. If indeed we are intelligent then let's reasonably examine our actions and make sure we are not "rebelling" for it's own sake.[/quote]Hello Mr. Reed.

But do you think it is stereotyping the guy simply because he is 22 years old and the woman is 68 years old?

Do you think it is possible that the woman's nationality is part of the reason for their uncouth comments?

lefulefu:
most black americans are on welfare because they dont want to work

So you still can't tell me what you know about the welfare system other than what you hear other people say? Don't worry, I didn't expect you to.

Is that the same thing with Nigerian men marrying foreigners to escape poverty and hard knock life?

lefulefu:
4th option is true

What do you know about the welfare system other than what you hear other people say?

If fourth option is true for all, do you think it is because of their African ancestry?  Because that is what many non-Black people thinks of ALL BLACK PEOPLE regardless of where they are from.  Except there are no welfare programs in Africa.   

According to MBJ, those who engages in scamming are lazy and doesn't want to work for their prosperity.   

Farting is good for you! I would like to enter the Nairaland's Farting Contest!