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[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=867791.msg10167947#msg10167947 date=1328894455]Mrs Chima. I will be in New York on 15th of March. We should link up for dinner [/quote]No thanks. I would rather play cards with the Lions.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=867791.msg10167736#msg10167736 date=1328892801]really. which one? [/quote]Not you.

Awww. You are still grieving?

LilMizzGood:
yer i know they r cool but don't the whole romantic get in ur face 2much and how can you handle a lovey lovey guy.

You have described an emotional guy, not romantic guy like my Wifey Rokiatu said.

My husband is romantic and very loving but he isn't emotional.

rokiatu:
Yea where are the married people?

Mrs Chima where art thou?

Getting to know your spouse beforehand reduce potential future headache, but it doesn't make everything peaches and cream.  You will always have curveballs thrown at you, but what people should be focusing on is compatibility.  Are you guys compatibility to deal with anything that comes your way and TRUST is imperative.  It will always be women and men that will test your marriage to see if they can grab you.  

If your husband trust you and you guys are honest with each other then nothing can be difficult.  It won't be smooth sailing, but it won't be difficult.  

Also it is important that you do not let anyone have a say in your marriage, because you have to answer to your spouse about your decisions.  It is okay to gather advice and opinions, but YOU MAKE THE FINAL DECISION about your marriage AND SHOULD ACCEPT consequences for your decision.  If it doesn't work out at the end, accept it and move on.  

It is important to move on so that you can embrace someone else new who may be the person meant for you all along.  That's how you keep romance in YOUR LIFE.  

Romantic guys are cool.

This is nothing new. Many Nairalanders have been doing that WAY before Nairaland.

They knows themselves.

I can't stress how many times i have stated that REGIONS/COUNTRIES placement has nothing to do with why people divorce or have issues in their relationship/marriage.  It is the PERCEPTION and CHOICE that cause issues in relationship/marriage. 

Sexkillz (Nigerian) and I (American) have both agreed that we would divorce only if infidelity or Death Threats occur in our marriage to our spouses. 

It doesn't matter what culture you were raised in or what you have been indoctrinated with, it doesn't change YOUR PERCEPTION NOR CHOICE in how YOU WILL conduct your life/relationship.  If that was the case then Africans, who were raised in African culture will not flee from it even in America. 

Why do you think the world is filled with many different religions, cultures, ideas, and traditions?   Think about it.   

Lack-of-exposure individuals are making grand generalizations regarding if you are married outside of America, your marriage would be prosperous and happy.  Seriously?  Really?     If I had a dollar for every complaint and threat I have heard/witnessed non-Americans say or have done in their marriage, I would eradicate world hunger.   

Inkie made an excellent point when she said, it is sad in other countries many women would rather stay in an abusive relationship due to societal, religious, and cultural pressure/inflictions.  With all that being said, it still boils down to PERCEPTION AND CHOICE. 

Only an ignorant person will blame a country or culture for their lack of common sense and intelligence.

kokoye:
heyy

I'm definately too old for this site, if theyre complaining of who makes the most calls

. . .how have you been??

You been old 50 years. I am doing splendid.

Did you have a superbowl party last Sunday?

kokoye:
juvenile deliquency,

phone calls??

I'm getting too old for Nairaland

Getting old? Hmm. Heey suga.

[size=44pt]Fainted.[/size]

Hottie Tima, it is hard for us virgins to maintain in this sinful world! But keep your head up and know virginity is yours to brag!

I will be celebrating my virginity party on Valentine Day!

Just use boiling grits or fish grease in a big pot! It have been said to do permanent damages!

Just grab a few men with favorable fashion and kiss them. I promise you a great change!

[size=44pt]No shit, Sherlock! [/size]

School is out?

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=866350.msg10158010#msg10158010 date=1328790633] [/quote]Did I forget to pack something? Oh! (throwing singlets in box) Thanks!

Effective communication and intellect.

(packing Chima's clothes and shoes in a big box) Eve of Valentine Day is just around the corner!

(looking at nyansh and color chart)

The worst thing I ever did was fall asleep in the middle of Oga Chima's strip tease performance.

Make sure you wear red singlet and bosom tassels.

rokiatu:
So wifey you telling me you are a farting champ?

Yes Wifey! I always tell women if you can fart with your man and you both laugh in joy, HE IS A KEEPER.

We often times play the farting game and whoever wins get two service wishes. It is fun!

A good fart is good for love.