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[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=863443.msg10143805#msg10143805 date=1328634730]

[color=#000030]You can have the special privilege. . . Just talk to the cuddler![/color] [/quote]

Is this Igbo friend the same guy that you said took advantage of you, the one with kids you never seen?

MarcAnthon:
^^^ neither. Thanks for the offer though 

You are not welcome.

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=864201.msg10138126#msg10138126 date=1328568848] [/quote]What?

MarcAnthon:
@Chima, please answer the following question: are you looking for a fresh blooded younger man? I am asking nicely, pls

The thread has nothing to do with my personal life. You can answer the question above or you can find a piece of my WHOLE arse to kiss. Which one you prefer?

I do not evaluate my husband base on how frequent he opens the door for me, I guess I am the rare few that focuses on substance and quality than quantity and shallowness.

It is not important to me but I do not deny my husband when he wants to open the door for me.  

Elders say that the "old school" respect to open doors for women, but this is a new era and things have changed.

Flashaldrin:
Just tell how old Mr. Chima is and we will advice accordingly!

Not that it is any of your business, but he is younger than YOU.

Ojobojo1:
Safari girl i didnt say i want ugly girls but im nt looking for a girl as fyn as kim k,my naija babes don do me,to d tyson beckford question i think God made me finer than him.

Kim K is attractive with caked on make up and can suck a dick backwards, however what else is she good for?

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=864290.msg10135277#msg10135277 date=1328545680][color=#000030]^^^
Of course she's head of house when i'm away from the "house!" That's the only time![/color][/quote]With you in the house. (running off thread again)

Lawd have murcee! The devil quoted a scripture!

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=864290.msg10135000#msg10135000 date=1328543508][color=#000030]What kind of reign? [/color][/quote]Head of household. (running off thread)

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=864201.msg10135043#msg10135043 date=1328543783][color=#000030]Love? Unless it's love for their money! Or love because of the advice they give me as the grandma that she is! But romantic love? I dont buy that! Seriously speaking, why would any young hotblooded man prefer a flat bosom a.k.a slippers bosom and wrinkled skin to a fresh lady? Beats me!

If my grandmom trys that, i'll disown her! [/color][/quote]Hmm, I see.  What do you think about older men choosing younger women?  

Do you agree with my husband when he said older and younger men typically choose women base on age (for procreation) or men have different set of criteria when it comes to women?

pendo89:
ok Here is my answer

It depends on what one is seeking after in the older or younger man.
If I find a young girl dating his Father's agemate then I know something is def NOT ok.
Same applies to the young dude dating his mother's agemate. Sickening to me.

People have this craving they try to fulfill its no wonder they date people outside their age brackets.

Are older men better than young men? Answer lies in your age.

I hear you.  I do not have attraction to my grandpa nor father, so I wouldn't date men that reminds me of my grandpa and father.  It feels funny to me, however people have claimed real love knows no age.

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=864201.msg10134964#msg10134964 date=1328543196][color=#000030]Yes i would! Why o why would anyone want to nack his mum's age mate? For chrissakes, my grandmother is 65!  I cant imagine any 30 year old going for her! That is pure undiluted catastrophic obfuscation! [/color][/quote]I understand your sentiments, however many have claimed they love their granny/gramp mates. 

Do you think it is possible to fall in love with elderly men and women?


At first, I always said age is nothing but a number but I have taken some things in perspective and realized how important age is one of the determining factors in selecting partners.  I remembered when Chima asked me my age before he even went further and he always said men who wants children tend to go for child bearing-aged women.

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=864290.msg10134730#msg10134730 date=1328541148][color=#000030]Loving her as i love myself! I try to put myself in her situation and see things from her own perspective. Trust is very important too. There's no smooth paved relationship. Your relationship is what you make of it. True, there are risks and there could be heartbreaks. But looking for an excuse to base your decisions on never works beneficially. Honesty is really the best policy especially in relationships. I do my part and leave her to do hers![/color][/quote]You should also accept her taking reign sometimes too!

pendo89:
define old man.
At what age does a young man start displaying those qualities? 40'50'60's?

As far as am concerned any man in his twenties still has a lot of things to learn and lots of growing up to do.

I can only take a 30-45 year old man serious cz most seem a bit grounded not playboys with untamed/immature testosterone.

I can't define older and younger men because everyone has their own age ranges, however I have heard many women say the bolded.

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=864201.msg10134762#msg10134762 date=1328541439][color=#000030]What's the age range? You cant compare a 60 year old to a 30 year old! Any lady that goes for a 60 year old is pitiably lopsided and pathetically discombobulated! [/color][/quote]Would you say the same thing for men that goes for 60 years old women?

Okontami:
Mrs Chima,  You would have just told him the truth that me OKONTAMI is your new SuGAR BOY . I love MIL.Fs

Good for you.  Didn't your Greek MILF married a 23 years old Nigerian man?  

Chimezie198:
Mrs. Chima are you looking for a sugarboy?

If I was, it wouldn't be you.

Hmm.

lefulefu:
well to many naija girls the answer na yes because the granpapas na cash cows wey dem go chop finish

Don't you do the same thing?

Okay.

Woooow.

Ladies, Are older men much better in relationships than younger men?

Do you think age is a direct correlation with maturity and wisdom? 

On Dr.Phil (talk show), several women have expressed their opinions about the difference between older and younger men.  I will summarize some of the things they have shared because I know some of you have ADHD.   

Younger men

Excellent in bed
Energetic
Physically fit
Eager to learn new things in life
More likely to cheat
Superficial
Clueless in relationship expectations
Struggling in finances and establishing a name for themselves
Wants to be cater like a child and aren't romantic
Immature in communication

Older men

Boring in bed
Too laid back/move like a snail
Set in their ways and too stubborn to learn new things in life
Less likely to cheat
Aren't too picky
Have experience in relationship expectations
Can provide great stability and loaded with finances
More family oriented and caters to their women
Are more romantic
Mature in communication

These are some of the things they have expressed and some people feel that it is base on life experience and lack of exposure.  Do you think women pick men base on some of the characteristics provided above? 

Do you agree or disagree?

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=862491.msg10133754#msg10133754 date=1328532862][color=#000030]Jaybee?

You cant wear it cos Chima who happens to be an Igbo man says SO! [/color][/quote]I mentioned Jaybee because he is online reading the threads.

What does Igbo have to do with this?

lefulefu:
yooo madam chima hws it hanging?

You wants to know how are my nuts hanging?   Why don't you come taste and see?