Always note that no man will give a lady the soft life that sje craves for without a price tag...it might not come immediately but very soon it will
Also you can not be in a committed relationship and be seating out or seeing other guys all in the name of friends. Truth is no man wastes his time, energy and resources on a lady without an affect effect all in the name of friends. Please don't be decieved
Focus and fight with your guy to help him overcome and be up and doing again since he is a smart dude like you said. I believe in no due time freshness will smile at him
Finally... Please keep your eyes off material things, money.. money...money all the time is really not a good story to tell about people
You think those guys are better than your guy because they've been taking care of you. Just wait until they devour you then you will understand the true meaning of the word " The devil you know, is better than the angel you do not know"
Vikto17: My mother is becoming something else honestly... l don't know if it selfishness or something else...
l will be 30yrs next year ,have a business that is paying me well , my fiancee is also doing well for herself .....
l realize that each time l raise issue regarding marriage. my mother keep on emphasizing on building house first and riding cars...l feel she is either not in touch with reality or she is afraid the help l am giving the family will stop once l get married...
In either way l am gradually smelling danger...my parents may disapproved my marriage because of their selfish reasons...
The thought of it annoys me honestly,, because l intend doing this marriage with or without their concept.. how do l start handling this issue? l intend getting married highest by 2026.please l need ur advice nairalanders..
You are a man... balance both ur family and ur relationship by learning to have a mind of ur own and work things out for the good of all parties. This will not only give ur parents more reason to trust ur ability as a man in handling future projects. Stop acting like mummy's boy cox this is where the problem is coming from
TheBillyonaire: Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?
You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?
When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.
Marriage is an institution btw two adults...Each has his/her responsibilities. So please dont make it seem like giving birth to kids and taking care of them is a job....
Rebuker: A lady shared her experience of how a restaurant in Lagos gave her a robe to wear before allowing her to enter because they felt her outfit was too revealing.
Do you think it's right for a restaurant or any business owner to do that?
Jewessgratitud3: Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should have tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.
The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.
Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.
There are some red flags you don't need to give a second consideration...The bible says out of the heart the mind speaks. So every attitude both in words and actions is being nursed nor nurtured inside. 10years relationship and she still could not fit in to being an understanding girlfriend
Jewessgratitud3: Yeah.. my twin attested to it that since she started giving birth hers stopped. I can't give birth now until I'm married so that can't work for now.
Build and invest in her, make her look clean again and u will be glad you did...Our problem is we keep chasing an already made forgetting that they were ones in a rough condition.
Bros just reduce her upkeep with the excuse that salaries have been cut down at your work place due to high inflation and you go see how she go immediately get sense...Na she go even begin manage pass u sef
Bro dont go direct to the woman rather find a govt environmental agency and speak to them about it but also tell them not to mention you when approaching the mama in regards this to avoid throwing you into wahala... Mama will alternate ones she's been approached by the govt but if you go straight to mama na trouble u wan buy for yourself. Good luck
Alot of Nigerians need get schooled on how to eat decently and matured in public places...some eat so annoyingly and irritating to the point that you just need leave that environment for them. Please nobody dey chase ona abeg make we learn how to eat cox its very important