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ppogba:No one is praying bad for her since she needs a better man and its that easy to find then let her kuku carry her problem and go to avoid putting OP into huge financial debt since she can't cope with his current situation. Its not by force to stay with someone who lives in a self-contain apartment since she can't help grow OP's current state then what's the point of wasting time with her since she has made her stands to him already. Somebody's son will not come and die cox he wants to impress a lady who is not willing to help him do better in life . We pray she finds a better man for herself nothing more nothing less let peace reign |
Bro!She's not your wife as long as she can't hustle with you from bottom to top please dont be decieved its not about doubling ur hustle but about she accepting you the way u are and also encouraging and helping you to achieve ur future goals. Staying in a one room or self-contain apartment isn't an issue for any lady who truly loves and cherish u. The truth remains that alot of Nigerians see Crypto and Forex or should i say any online stuff as side hustles not knowing that online jobs pays well compared to our physical onsite jobs here in Nigeria cox it comes in foreign currencies and only when you have good knowledge about them or have a good mentor then ull understand that crypto and forex pays massively anyways only few people have the idea of what am talking about. So please just make ur stand [color=#006600][/color]clear to her and move on with ur life definitely someone better is around the corner waiting to accept and appreciate ur self-contain apartment |
Please Free those domestic staffs notwithstanding it was out of their negligence oh cox holding them back wont bring the young boy to life again...God knows why this happened just for the Adeleke families to draw more closer to Him cox life without God is messy and will lead one to a grave eternal consequences |
Its just a thin line btw life and death and that is why one needs be prepared to face eternity cox death comes like a visitor no matter who you are nothing can stop it from happening...Heaven is calling on some person's today and now that u still have breathe in you to take that bold step and decision for Christ cox there's no forgiveness in the grave |
Since the so called President to be has started giving out bribe at this early stage to win people's vote...Then please tell me if one can count on such personality if he becomes the President of this country. Make we try dey tell ourselves small truth wey we already know...Any man without Character, Honesty, Uprightness, Good principles etc outside public office can never be a good leader when in office |
Feminews:In this 21st Century our dear Nigeria is still talking about health care...Chai!we re really doomed |
obembet:This method has never worked in our Naija relationships cox majority of our ladies believe they must be taken care of by a man in a relationship and this has been the major reason why alot of our ladies are craving for a relationship from well to do guys?Pls lets stop decieving if ure not sex ready in a relationship dont also be money ready cox this is the only method a relationship can be free and fair in our Naija today. A relationship can last longer without sex and money...so if ure not ready to give or recieve any of the above mentioned pls stay single to avoid plenty complains. |
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Chidi2022:This ur talk don touch God cox u were just sincered to urself (reality)but i assure u in no distant time ur desire go fall on u... |
Romanoff:Please can you boast of even 5% of the so called hard working women u talking about here...Even the so called hard workers and business entrepreneurs still cohabit such traits in them so its already a norm amongs large chunk of our Naija ladies that's why its rare to find modesty amongs your gender...You meet a lady today, tomorow her gas don finish, If no be gas na something else reason why men now wants to hit and run cox relationship is now a billing institution for majorities of our bebs. |
Shugargal:I can 100% beat my chest that ure in ur husband's or a man's house and giving other ladies wrong advises...Na people like u wey Bible refer as Pharisees. Those type wey dey talk another and do another. Pls if uve got nothing to say try read comments |
Emaprince:Yeah!Alot of ladies on this trend are not helping her at all and she thinks she's on the right part...Truth remains that after 3yrs ull regret ur silly actions, so if u like dont look for ways to reconcile with ur man very soon u and ur siblings go dey drag ur papa house thats if dem no go chase u comot from d house... make ur follow genders dey brain wash u |
EmahBoss:Leave that mummy and daddy's girl alone...Marriage is not for infants like her oh. Let her ask her Daddy, Mummy, Uncles and Aunties to hire a husband for her. Since na dem dey tell her wetin she go do to make her life better |
To cut stories short...Madam please go and work on urself, try to understand that there should be no third party in your relationship this is why you need have a mind of ur own and not ur entire family telling u what and how to run ur relationship cox this is the simple truth and main reason why ur man left cox he saw the redflag on time and paid attention to the signs... Even if u meet 20 different men, with such behaviour only simps (women wrappar men) will want to be married into a family where they will be used and controlled like rags, no real man will ever accept marrying into such family...Pls Forget all those people telling u that God has done it for u...na lie!God never did anything for u rather u allowed the devil to use u and destroy urself by u not being decisive enough to stand ur foot on the ground and take ur decisions without ur family especially ur mom intruding. My advise here is try and work things with ur man, call him and plead with him pls remove pride or u can even use any of ur trusted friend or close relative to pacify him and also avoid listening to anyone cox whatever decisions u take today will decide ur tomorrow and note that even ur parents and family will not be held accountable of destroying ur life cox they've finished running their own race so its ur race now and u need start running it by taking ur own decisions into ur own hands and not someone babysitting u on what to do...alot of our family members are there to ruin us so pls dont be decieved!all those aunties and uncles they dont mean well for u so the high time u understand this the better for u cox i see no reason why ur aunty will vex cox of mere wedding engagement stuffs she assisted u with over ur future...let them mind their businesses when it comes to ur relationship cox ure an adult which means ure grown to absorb ur responsibilities. So pls forget whatever happened and pay attention on reconcilling and doing things better and by so doing ur man will be so relaxed enough to share with u the reasons for his actions. Alot of our parents (family members) have destroyed the lifes and futures of many of their kids all in the name of trying to protect them so pls dont fall for this otherwise ull never forgive urself cox the truth remains that ur man loves u but left u cox u could not stand, defend or speak for him before ur family members which is absolutely wrong of u. Nothing gives joy other than u believing and defending ur love before ur family no matter their errors always stand in for them in the presence of ur family cox this alone interprets how ur family members will start seeing him and it makes men feel more comfortable, relaxed, respected and valued around u and ur family members and friends and they will never take u for granted for this singular act. Men are scared of marrying into a family that will control them cox it kills their morale so pls dont always make any man feel that way cox there's a reason for being a man cox from ur write up ur mom seems very controlling and no man will ever be happy in such situation nor even want to be involved with such family. Learn to understand that there must be boundaries btw ur relationship and family and draw the line...The truth remains that ur man ur man loves you but can't talk love without respect cox they work together and this was what u never gave ur man before ur family that made him leave so please overlook whatever that happened, drop ur ego and pride, accept ur errors, seek for forgiveness and how to reconcil with ur man and i gurantee u he'll forgive and work things out again with u |
Redstubpen:Please dont give up cox it's not worth it...Just cast ur burdens and worries to God with faith and prayers He'll come through for u. |
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Antihypocrite:Bro dont ever think of paying the loan people again cox paying them seems foolish to you after they've spoilt ur image before your loved ones so i see no reason why ull be thinking of them again cox after paying them they'll will not rephrase ir retrieve the wrong image they pushed out to ur loved ones about u...so i urge u to focus on just paying ur friends by taking the 25k job and with time ull get over all worries. Things are hard every where so loan people should have been considerate on there part cox susposing u were dead will loan people come and make noise up and down. Please just concentrate on how to build urself and regain the trust of ur wife back |
iiifedimma:Hello!i think you tagging the scammers post would help everyone identify him when such person come across them |
iFESTAC680:Please tell him the truth...our prayers are not in vain cox the God factor is still effective and Nigeria is not too big for God's intervention (Mark 11:24). No matter how manipulative they wanna be God's will which is the will of the upright will prevail and e go shock everybody just the way GEJ miracle happened |
Abudu2000:I'm sorry you talk and reason like age 9...I'm sure ure still being fed by ur parents cox you dont sound adult at all. The only difference btw Naija and West is the currency inflation otherwise if Naira was equivalent to Dollar no one would wanna travel out. The bills over there are too loud compared to a free style country like naija and also note ur so called wealthy relatives are still hiding the truth from u although they might be working for a legit company over there but have an illegal side hustle that pays them more like u put it...so pls dont be decieved rather I'll advice u to try and get a visa and join them over there maybe by then ull understand better how it works over there cox ur first class experiences will teach u alot and that is what u need to clear ur doubt... i have friends over there that do push drugs but still works for legit companies legally as cover up just not to attract attention or land themselves in trouble, i was also doing such illegal stuff but my conscience was not pleased then i had to stop when my friend landed himself in trouble but it was difficult though but i just took the faith even my family down here taught it was the white man job that gave me such amased wealth but na only me and God no dt one...Please always try to make findings from alot of person's out there before u argue like a baby. Oyibo man country is hard to survive compared to naija unless u have a better job that can slash some of ur bills down there otherwise na from hand to mouth u go dey feed, its not about being smart cox those countries are digitalised not like naija where u can manipulate things |
Indeed we all should have a course to believe and serve God in spirit and truth cox we re no where better than these personalities but only Gods grace has kept us...God still loves u |
Bro!its really a touching experience but the truth here is uve got to stand ur ground by pushing ur brother to get ur own place or rather u look for other hustle outside ur brother's shop cox the truth be told that such woman will kick against ur settlement if ur time is due. so its practically ure running a wasted race. Start making little personal savings on ur own now and same time also looking for some other hustle to stand on ur own cox ur story tells that ur brother has no say in that house anymore its a clear notation that the wife has more say and stand than ur brother so u better start thinking about ur independency now other wise ull have nothing to stand on soonest |
You're not vulnerable with Money but vulnerable with Covid-19 |
Leadership is service and service is action...that is what our humble Ebele Jonathan Goodluck represents. Thank u sir for having the poor at heart |
Ned is doing empowerment programme for women oh...After regina now he'll incorporate another woman. So regina make ur administration worth it before another aspirant unseats u. Remember Soldier go soldier come!Na turn by turn... offer last while stocks last |
Every child can be bad or good, it got nothing to do with being a pastor's kid cox its an individual decission so it all lies on the individual to choose which part of life is best for him/her... |

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