Shugargal:
Who marriage epp? Men be feeling they're doing you favor by marriage, mtww! I blame some of you women that are desperate about marriage, if you see some of these marriages ehh, like living in bondage, but I wonder what men enjoy making their women a slave in their marriage. Mtww wetin concern me sef

I can 100% beat my chest that ure in ur husband's or a man's house and giving other ladies wrong advises...Na people like u wey Bible refer as Pharisees. Those type wey dey talk another and do another. Pls if uve got nothing to say try read comments

Emaprince:
Your aunt wants to be appreciated? Everybody in your familly seems to be full of themselves.

Is that guy really poor and your familly ver rich..that your people feels that he is very lucky marrying you?

And the women in this thread refused to tell you the truth.

I congratulate that guy for being a man that doesn't take nonsense.

Yeah!Alot of ladies on this trend are not helping her at all and she thinks she's on the right part...Truth remains that after 3yrs ull regret ur silly actions, so if u like dont look for ways to reconcile with ur man very soon u and ur siblings go dey drag ur papa house thats if dem no go chase u comot from d house... make ur follow genders dey brain wash u

EmahBoss:
I love that man. He is a trophy. I am so raising my boys this way. I will scream it to their hearing you my boys are the prizes. So because he wants to marry you he should crawl before your parents and worship them? You called off the wedding expecting him to drool over you and your family? No way! That guy knows his worth

Leave that mummy and daddy's girl alone...Marriage is not for infants like her oh. Let her ask her Daddy, Mummy, Uncles and Aunties to hire a husband for her. Since na dem dey tell her wetin she go do to make her life better

To cut stories short...Madam please go and work on urself, try to understand that there should be no third party in your relationship this is why you need have a mind of ur own and not ur entire family telling u what and how to run ur relationship cox this is the simple truth and main reason why ur man left cox he saw the redflag on time and paid attention to the signs... Even if u meet 20 different men, with such behaviour only simps (women wrappar men) will want to be married into a family where they will be used and controlled like rags, no real man will ever accept marrying into such family...Pls Forget all those people telling u that God has done it for u...na lie!God never did anything for u rather u allowed the devil to use u and destroy urself by u not being decisive enough to stand ur foot on the ground and take ur decisions without ur family especially ur mom intruding. My advise here is try and work things with ur man, call him and plead with him pls remove pride or u can even use any of ur trusted friend or close relative to pacify him and also avoid listening to anyone cox whatever decisions u take today will decide ur tomorrow and note that even ur parents and family will not be held accountable of destroying ur life cox they've finished running their own race so its ur race now and u need start running it by taking ur own decisions into ur own hands and not someone babysitting u on what to do...alot of our family members are there to ruin us so pls dont be decieved!all those aunties and uncles they dont mean well for u so the high time u understand this the better for u cox i see no reason why ur aunty will vex cox of mere wedding engagement stuffs she assisted u with over ur future...let them mind their businesses when it comes to ur relationship cox ure an adult which means ure grown to absorb ur responsibilities. So pls forget whatever happened and pay attention on reconcilling and doing things better and by so doing ur man will be so relaxed enough to share with u the reasons for his actions. Alot of our parents (family members) have destroyed the lifes and futures of many of their kids all in the name of trying to protect them so pls dont fall for this otherwise ull never forgive urself cox the truth remains that ur man loves u but left u cox u could not stand, defend or speak for him before ur family members which is absolutely wrong of u. Nothing gives joy other than u believing and defending ur love before ur family no matter their errors always stand in for them in the presence of ur family cox this alone interprets how ur family members will start seeing him and it makes men feel more comfortable, relaxed, respected and valued around u and ur family members and friends and they will never take u for granted for this singular act. Men are scared of marrying into a family that will control them cox it kills their morale so pls dont always make any man feel that way cox there's a reason for being a man cox from ur write up ur mom seems very controlling and no man will ever be happy in such situation nor even want to be involved with such family. Learn to understand that there must be boundaries btw ur relationship and family and draw the line...The truth remains that ur man ur man loves you but can't talk love without respect cox they work together and this was what u never gave ur man before ur family that made him leave so please overlook whatever that happened, drop ur ego and pride, accept ur errors, seek for forgiveness and how to reconcil with ur man and i gurantee u he'll forgive and work things out again with u

Redstubpen:
I am growing tired of being hopeless, frustrated and depressed . I wish someone would Dm me or just give me a huge bear hug giving me reassurance things will be alright because my heart is heavy and weary

Please dont give up cox it's not worth it...Just cast ur burdens and worries to God with faith and prayers He'll come through for u.

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Antihypocrite:
I have been married for 3 years now, I have known my wife for 5 years altogether. She was and is still the best thing that ever happened to me.

I don't know where to start from, I can't come to terms with the fact that my wife is leaving.

Guys, I think the problem started last year after some hoodlums stole my bike. That was my major source of livelihood apart from some home lessons that I used to do, but stopped due to health reasons.

It's been difficult financially and I honestly don't know what else to do.

Shortly after my bike was stolen, I got a loan from lapo and added with my little savings to enter palm oil business. I wish I had not done so as I ended up losing about 80k because the guy I worked with cheated me whole heartedly.

My wife had to get a job as a teacher in a private primary school. I told her it was just temporary as I was working to raise money for her start a poultry.

In order to clear the lapo loan, I had to do odd jobs and take loan from loan apps. My wife's little salary of 20k became the major source of feeding while I battled to clear the loan.

Sometimes I would borrow from friends to pay the loan app to be able to borrow a higher amount from the loan apps again. This was a mistake and a trap cos now I am so much indebted to these loan apps. I am even owing some friends and right now I am unable to pay back.

I have been in debt for over 8 months now to these loan apps. They have tarnished my Image to all my contacts.

I even stopped going to church because most of my church members who received messages from these loan apps did not even care to hear me out. They believed the loan apps that I am a fraudster on the run.

My wife started feeling ashamed of me. She stopped associating with me in public spaces. I know she has tried. Nobody deserves to pass through what she is passing through.

This afternoon when she came back from work, she told me that she would be going back to her parents house

She said that it is best she goes back to her people until I am able to sort my self out.

Guys I have tried to be strong for so long. Right now I don't think I can hold on anymore. I have always believed that things would turn out well, but right now I am in a low place. I don't know how long I can hold on again.

Last month I tried to even get a security job that pays 25k monthly. But I feel so discouraged to do the job. How long will I work to clear a loan of 320k that keeps adding interest daily.

Thoughts of suicide have been crossing my mind today. I really need help

What can I do? I don't even have the energy to pray. Has anyone ever been in my shoes? If yes how did you come out?

Bro dont ever think of paying the loan people again cox paying them seems foolish to you after they've spoilt ur image before your loved ones so i see no reason why ull be thinking of them again cox after paying them they'll will not rephrase ir retrieve the wrong image they pushed out to ur loved ones about u...so i urge u to focus on just paying ur friends by taking the 25k job and with time ull get over all worries. Things are hard every where so loan people should have been considerate on there part cox susposing u were dead will loan people come and make noise up and down. Please just concentrate on how to build urself and regain the trust of ur wife back

iiifedimma:
Please the main reason of still be reporting this criminal and the well known fraudsters here is that he is never tired of scammings people's here, he now use a different tactic and strategies to still be scamming people's here with a video of crying baby with full of fake stories and when he's scams accounts is block he instantly open anothers one, he open account every day to keep scamming people's please just be careful to not fall in to a victims of him with your money again


Please Anthony okeke also known as Faith S. H, has opened another account today he is a criminal He has been bust on a several occasions. Don't fall in to any victims of him with your hard earned money please, he is well popular here as the greatest scammer on nairaland please be aware of him alrdy



He has scam a lots of people's here with a touching heart story, he even add a video to it to fool a lots of people's please try to ignore him please only for ur own benefit

Hello!i think you tagging the scammers post would help everyone identify him when such person come across them

iFESTAC680:




Correcting an impression here, do not say a particular region can not rule this country

Did you believe GEJ will ever be president?

Please tell him the truth...our prayers are not in vain cox the God factor is still effective and Nigeria is not too big for God's intervention (Mark 11:24). No matter how manipulative they wanna be God's will which is the will of the upright will prevail and e go shock everybody just the way GEJ miracle happened

Abudu2000:
see mumu, so my cousins not my blood brothers oh, cousins choose their path them I must leave whatever I'm doing and join them. If they took a deadly risk of going by land and succeeded then the chances of someone going by plane no matter the type of Visa is very high.

I'm sorry you talk and reason like age 9...I'm sure ure still being fed by ur parents cox you dont sound adult at all. The only difference btw Naija and West is the currency inflation otherwise if Naira was equivalent to Dollar no one would wanna travel out. The bills over there are too loud compared to a free style country like naija and also note ur so called wealthy relatives are still hiding the truth from u although they might be working for a legit company over there but have an illegal side hustle that pays them more like u put it...so pls dont be decieved rather I'll advice u to try and get a visa and join them over there maybe by then ull understand better how it works over there cox ur first class experiences will teach u alot and that is what u need to clear ur doubt... i have friends over there that do push drugs but still works for legit companies legally as cover up just not to attract attention or land themselves in trouble, i was also doing such illegal stuff but my conscience was not pleased then i had to stop when my friend landed himself in trouble but it was difficult though but i just took the faith even my family down here taught it was the white man job that gave me such amased wealth but na only me and God no dt one...Please always try to make findings from alot of person's out there before u argue like a baby. Oyibo man country is hard to survive compared to naija unless u have a better job that can slash some of ur bills down there otherwise na from hand to mouth u go dey feed, its not about being smart cox those countries are digitalised not like naija where u can manipulate things

Indeed we all should have a course to believe and serve God in spirit and truth cox we re no where better than these personalities but only Gods grace has kept us...God still loves u

Bro!its really a touching experience but the truth here is uve got to stand ur ground by pushing ur brother to get ur own place or rather u look for other hustle outside ur brother's shop cox the truth be told that such woman will kick against ur settlement if ur time is due. so its practically ure running a wasted race. Start making little personal savings on ur own now and same time also looking for some other hustle to stand on ur own cox ur story tells that ur brother has no say in that house anymore its a clear notation that the wife has more say and stand than ur brother so u better start thinking about ur independency now other wise ull have nothing to stand on soonest

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Every child can be bad or good, it got nothing to do with being a pastor's kid cox its an individual decission so it all lies on the individual to choose which part of life is best for him/her...