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Henry22:
He left us long time ago

You are far behind clock bro. God has and Will ALWAYS be with us, even if we think we know better; God will ALWAYS make us to learn the hard way. HE IS TOO FAITHFUL TO FAIL.

culf:
You've said it all, nothing more, nothing less, God bless bless you

Thanks.

I doubt if u read my post.
pls comprehension is ALWAYS the hub of learning, Thanks

Rayban25:
Nobody said ONLY women have entitlement mentality.

It's more common in women than in men generally.

So rest.

Thanks.
please; i don't understand the part of; if you are genuine, so people wake up and start typing unserious things??
Back to the topic; I am not good in maths @ all but i am fairly good in computer stuffs... Tech. has always been my dream area. i believe i need a physical mentor, that is y i am seeking for one.
And to say that, no one would give up is time to teach you, is not correct.
i have a lot of skills i can gladly teach whoever that wishes to learn.

woginid967:
No one will be so generous as to leave their own job and teach you any skill for Free.

Be realistic if you are genuine.


Go to youtube and learn the skill that suits your personality.

If you're not a mathematician and for me i make money remotely with mathematics.... How will you start learning when it is not inside you to understand.


See, be wise and think for yourself. Do your own research online and discover which area is best for you and follow it through.

YouTube is an open university, you can learn any course or skill there for free.

Jah bless

The rate people are committing suicide now is very alarming and to think that we ALL have each other's medicine; is very surprising. Please lets use this thread to reach out to one another in order to know the little way we can help. As broke and frustrated you may think that you are; you have something someone out there craves for and the funniest thing is that; That thing means nothing to you or you can live comfortably without it. * My desire---- Am currently in need of an Android phone and i will be glad if anyone could teach me ANY Tech. skill. *Who i can help now----- I think God can use me to help @Dbull ( Our Nairaland musician). I just gave it a thought now that; A lot of Nigerians are dying, in depression, some are frustrated and we ALL are in places (Both financially and Graciously) to uplift others . ---I live in the house of a TOP celebrity who is into show biz. (A very kind man) I just gave it a thought now that; even in my broke state; i could help someone here to achieve his or her goal. @Dbull or anyone close to him should contact me ASAP... this DECEMBER may be your best to get to spotlight!. I believe that it would be fun seeing our own Dbull performing with the likes of top celebrities and it would be a dream come true. Thanks

The rate people are committing suicide now is very alarming and to think that we ALL have each other's medicine; is very surprising.


Please lets use this thread to reach out to one another in order to know the little way we can help. As broke and frustrated you may think that you are; you have something someone out there craves for and the funniest thing is that; That thing means nothing to you or you can live comfortably without it.

* My desire---- Am currently in need of an Android phone and i will be glad if anyone could teach me ANY Tech. skill.


*Who i can help now----- I think God can use me to help @Dbull ( Our Nairaland musician).

I just gave it a thought now that; A lot of Nigerians are dying, in depression, some are frustrated and we ALL are in places (Both financially and Graciously) to uplift others .

---I live in the house of a TOP celebrity who is into show biz. (A very kind man)
I just gave it a thought now that; even in my broke state; i could help someone here to achieve his or her goal.


@Dbull or anyone close to him should contact me ASAP... this DECEMBER may be your best to get to spotlight!.

I believe that it would be fun seeing our own Dbull performing with the likes of top celebrities and it would be a dream come true.
Thanks

Everything is possible!

This thread was inspired by @Slawomir's comment on a thread; where he mentioned that EVERYTHING in life is embedded in TIME.
Truth be told; if humans can position their life based on TIME AND PATIENCE, then we would have a lot of happy and satisfied people on Earth. Time is Everything.

I have said it countless times, NOBODY on Earth is EVERYTHING and no one also is USELESS but lack of contentment makes us continuously to be chasing shadows.

Whether you like it or YES, Life revolves around TIME and PATIENCE and one thing i like about life is that; The moment you try to bypass its process; you MUST surely pay the severe price!

If a day old child cannot walk or talk, then ANY reasonable human ought to know that THERE IS TIME FOR EVERYTHING. Michael Jackson made it before 10yrs, same age Dangote was struggling to figure out life; THAT'S D POWER OF TIME.
Wealth and Fame is NOT for everyone but EVERYONE can still be happy and contented without the above.
The essence of life is NOT to come and have RICHES ( ONLY the creator knows). We are all in a temporary zone, so NOTHING here lasts forever.

The ONLY thing any sane person ought to be concerned with is; What happens after death!

No matter your worth on Earth; the moment you stop breathing; you are NOBODY!

Its funny That God created this life perfectly but humans are tirelessly working to destroy this sweet world.

Why would ANY sane human kill his fellow just to prove some selfish points.

Wealth, health, death and prosperity will come whenever and however it will.

*Where you are today is not as a result of your hard work or smartness but simply by GRACE! that thing that is working for you is what millions are doing 10x better than you but are still far below you; BE FUCKIN HUMBLE!

-----I could remember vividly last year, how i was being sent out of my comfort home because of hatred; not knowing that it was a step to take me higher. Where i am today now is far greater and better; i am proud to say that i have been living in in a house with 24/7 electricity(Solar) for almost 10months + without paying a dime!. (Rent-free).
in addition to that; i am currently connected to a TOP well-known CELEBRITY in Nigeria.(My Landlord) i achieved All these with 0% work or prayer; I NEVER THOUGHT i would be here today, ALL thanks to TIME and PATIENCE.

*Be Patient,
*Believe God's plan,
*Love more,
*Trouble less,
*Help / smile more,
*The world is beautiful.

The race of life is NOT for the faint hearted neither is it for the weak and quitters.

*Stay strong
*Get positive vibes ALWAYS and be contented ; that is the secret to staying alive!.
*Live and let others live.
#NoBodyIsFree!.

---GOD IS D GREATEST-------

The popular notion MOSTLY hear on NL., that Naija Girls have entitlement mentality is almost very correct but for the fact that we hardly see threads where people bash males on the issue of entitlement, is something to pay adhent attention to.

If you have lived and experience life; then you would know that; HUMANS; MOSTLY AFRICANS ARE VERY WICKED.

Having the notion that; ONLY females have this mentality is VERY wrong!.

The truth is that; whoever that is bad is bad!

Seeing or Having people that CAN appreciate good deeds is VERY rare.

The truth is that; WOMEN have the highest percentage of Entitlement mentality but that doesn't mean men are totally exempted.

I have a lot of experiences that are too numerous to share, i hope EVERYONE realise on time and change their notion.

Thanks.

@OP, they are everywhere...
An average man is ALWAYS left unsatisfied; just that the konji nature of man will not make them complain.

A young guy in my neighborhood committed suicide yesterday. As usual; Nigerians would be quick to judge and condemn the action (Very right though) little did they know that, the society has a part to play in order to curb this menace.

The earlier people realise the term; INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES, the better they will understand why simple; "Your Papa" that, Mr. A will react negatively to while Mr. B, will just look at you and say; God bless you or thank you!.

Everyone must know that; we All have our different strength, flaws and weaknesses, that is why it is very essential for humans to be trained properly, both at home, school and religiously, which would go a long way to shapen how we see life.

God made this life so sweet that We ALL have the cure or solution to our problems but Greed and wickedness wouldn't allow us to extend a helping hand.

Now, let me share some common reasons why i believe the society is contributing to this issue of suicide.

1. An average Nigerian is VERY wicked and don't see the need to support one another-----
In as much as we have a lot of ingrates; that doesn't change the fact that; watching your neighbors back can go a long way heal broken hearts.
Pulling someone even when you are trying to stand, indirectly means that you are standing firmly. Funny but true; God created this life in such a way that, WE ALL NEED EACH OTHER and EVERYONE is important but a lot of people don't know..--we truly rise; by lifting others!
Gone are those days when an entire community would contribute to someone's education.
2. The i don't care syndrome----- This is very common MOSTLY among blacks, most white people CAN go a long way to help even a total stranger. In Nigeria today; a lot believe if someone is not related by blood or very close to you; that makes him/her not entitled to benefits from you, Total lie!.... A lot of people today are guilty of these:
----Prefer disposing unwanted food/belongings rather than giving it out or sharing. No matter how useless something is to you; trust me, it will put smile in someone's face or even change lives.
---- Prefer showing off rather than helping. Someone that refused to lend his/her friend in need 2k, may be seen spraying money lavishly in ceremonies just to earn praises, VERY PATHETIC!
----Prefer mocking/gossiping rather than helping: A lot of people today die with their problems because most people will never help but will prefer gossiping and mocking you round town to whoever that care to listen.
A lot of people are NATURALLY SHY and can't take such, a lot of people i called friends have done it to me severally.
---Prefer you be under them forever. Gosh!, No one is God. Some people are not just happy when you stop begging them for survival, hence they prefer you be at their mercy always, very bad.
----Prefer medicine after death. Some people will prefer you steal and get caught in order for them to bail you rather than giving you the money for survival. How can a normal human being prefer donating for burials rather than helping when you are alive?.

Summary; Most Nigerians are wicked to others and Most people are not that open to sharing their problems. There is nothing as sweet as having a friend / neighbor that sees your pain and help without you even asking or complaining.
Look around you, if you see someone wearing only one palm/ jean or cloth and you have more to spare; Why waiting for him/her to ask?

We are ALL fighting one demon or the other and it is not easy to live and survive in this life...WHO IS FREE?...

*Be open minded,
*Make yourself accessable,
*Give out, without being asked,
*Love more,
*Hate not (Even those against you)
*Always check on your friends and neighbors
*Try to make others laugh/ smile.

***** A Man killed himself last week because of 250k debt but a lot of politicians have good billions they will NEVER need even in 50years time. IS IT NOT FUNNY?.
****I have been praying to God for a smartphone because am currently sharing with my neighbor but a friend that has extra 3 that has not been used for almost 2years now and he may never have use for it. IS IT NOT FUNNY?.

-----Suicide is very bad both in sight of man and God.----

Always remember that; a small act of kindness can save a soul and you will be rewarded greatly. WE ARE ALL PENCILS IN THE HANDS OF THE CREATOR.

I really envy some parents the way they bring up their children...

My aunt's late husband who worked in shell (Rich and comfortable) NEVER allowed All his children access to smart phone until Uni. level. Luxurious living and lavish spendings were totally out of their lifestyle and till date; All the children are so humble like their late Dad. They have houses, cars, well educated and they go abroad anyhow but you will never know when you see them. THEIR DECENCY AND HUMILITY IS TOP NOTCH.

If you read my post carefully, you would have seen where i mentioned govt. bro., whether you agree or not, most govt. decisions are geared towards their selfish interests, these people know that Nigerians are foolish and so they root for the shortest means of governance (Getting very few and using force on the populace) how do u expect a good business man (politician) to provide amenities for the populace when he/she could easily buy the interest of few thugs that would disrupt the process in order for them to achieve their aims? Look around you and would see the govt has fulfilled their promises (Ironically though) don't you see bikes, keke etc being distributed after elections? My caretaker have one from the previous election--- bro. these people have sold our future, and funny enough; They are fellow commoners that their children will still come online to complain in the nearest future. These people were brought up poorly, go out during elections and see your fellow commoners causing havoc and selling us to politicians cheaply, who would gladly buy (Everyone will) I grew up meeting a lot of politicians meeting my Dad, promising him everything to join politics, but he always didn't comply and i grew up to follow same step because my parents brought me up with the mentality that; Money is not Everything unlike MOST parents these days...
Bro. Politicians are not our problem, the people are. If we are are ready to move forward; then we MUST work on our mentality and Politicians don't have any other option than to dance to our tune. Parental upbringing and positive mindset is the ONLY way to achieve this .
For the aspects of Adults sleeping with kids; Bro. Not everyone out there is good, we have a lot of heartless people that don't think twice provided its not their child, A good parental upbring would go a long way to reduce this issue of Sleeping with under age.
If you see how teenagers sleep with anything for money these days ( Most of their parents are aware) then you would know why we have a lot of Baby mamas, mature singles and unreasonable dirvoce these days. Parents are lagging a lot bros.

UnfairLife7:
yes i know most average Nigerians generally are corrupt minded persons. My point is why would those bosses of yours be sleeping with young girls when possibly they are married? Why would they sleep with female job applicants before they give them jobs? I didn't see you blame government in your comments. Lol, one thing you should know is that you are not more Nigerian than anyone calling out government. You're not more Nigerian than anyone telling government their failure. Tell your government to reduce costs of governance. Tell your government to provide jobs for those young guys coming out of school yearly. Tell your government to change and amend the constitution. Tell your government to make political offices unattractive. We want those that'd serve only not those corrupt entity. Tell your government to provide saner environment. Tell your government to give us power please. We're not asking too much. You can't put the whole blame on parents and these children. These children had siblings who graduated from school but still jobless or underemployed. They aren't blind. Have you ever imagine why do we have much more cyber fraudsters amongst our youths and prostitution this time of the day compare to 2-3 decades back? There's hunger in the land. An isle hand is the devil workshop. How many family can feed now in Nigeria? How many family can afford paying those high tuition fees in our tertiary institutions? How many family can afford federal government college now?

You see those small small boys and girls doing Yahoo and prostitution, i blame them completely not government. They are greedy. They are too obsessed with quick money at their young age. Most of those guys are not even ready to work. Give them 100k job, they'd reject it. They're used to quick and fast money.


Government has so much to do, parents/guidian has a whole lots to do.

Well said...
i always tell people. Nature is fair, just that humans forget that; whatever your input is determines your output... We are suffering aggressively from a lot of previous sins. Only few would know this.

Newborn27:
I feel honoured for the mention Sir.



The rate at which this generation is rotten...I wonder what grannies would look like in the next couple of decades.



They easily tag you as being holier than thou and local if you can't emulate their waywardness.


See them everywhere glorifying prostitution and yahoo....pikin dey use iphone when her parents are striving to feed.... they'd blame government for the poor upbringing of their kids... stylishly cheer their boys on to do yahoo.... when it backfire ... They'd be shedding crocodile tears.



Forgetting that....we always reap whatever we sow.

I understand you perfectly bro. but one thing i must tell you is that; There is no excuse for crime and i am not coming here to pose as a saint; we have All erred one way or the other but One thing i know for sure is that; This generation parents are grooming disaster, look around you and you will find answers.Truth be told; this generation is heading to failure! i know a lot of under 18yrs old girls that has slept with my bosses in offices and senior colleagues, funny enough; its a local village and majority of the parents are 100% aware of their children's madness.
I have said it countless times, this generation are very lucky with the advent of latest technology. If i were to be in my 20's and active times; i would have been rolling in millions because i know how hard and manual i worked to get to where i am today.
Buhari was 100% right when he said the youths are lazy. If i tell you the amount of money flying on air (Technology) now, you would cry for those bringing down their fellow humans just to rise selfishly.

UnfairLife7:
government too failed Nigerians. Their parents also failed them. There are lots of graduate jobless. It takes only God's grace for such persons not to indulge in cyber fraud. Parents support their children into fraud since they couldn't get job after school. It is not easy. I only blame those small small boys in secondary school and university doing cyber fraud. Those ones are thieves. But you see graduates jobless for years or doing work that hardly take him home at the end of the month, i wouldn't blame them o. What have i offer them that warrant me to blame them? I don't judge people easily.

First and foremost, i want to thank all those that always comment positively on my invaluable threads; you guys are amazing and creative thinkers! you are the reason i still write.
To those that are still wandering in darkness, i pray you NEVER live to regret your inactions.

------Back to our topic--------

I have been reading a lot of comments/posts on this important topic and whenever i come to conclusion, the ONLY thing that comes to my mind is; AFRICANS, MOSTLY NIGERIANS ARE VERY BACKWARD IN THINKING! (No insult intended, its a fact)

Before i highlight my invaluable reasons why ANY sane and capable person MUST Japa! ; Lets see what makes a society prosperous.

1. The attitude of the people--- There is no single developed country on Earth that is great today without the effort and positive contribution of citizens.

The USA, CANADA etc we all crave for, was and its still being built by people who believe in the future of possibilities, THIS IS SOMETHING THAT NIGERIANS lack.
In developing a country; ALL HANDS ARE ON DECK!
2. Mindset----- Whenever i see the behaviour of an average Nigerian, i just laugh.
People that wants to see the downfall of their neighbor, just for them to laugh, people that will call black, white because it will favour them, people with the mindset of working like an ant and eating like an Elephant (FUTURE IMPOSSIBLE!) i wonder how such a place CAN EVER progress, a country that MAJORITY of citizens believe that its not my business attirude and lots more.

Finally, MOST People don't believe that the failure of the government in NIGERIA and AFRICA has EVERYTHING to do with the COMMON MAN!;

--The common man steals bilot boxes.
-- The common man is a political thug.
-- The common man guides his oppressors.
-- The common man kills his fellow commoners just for the interest of his oppressors.
-- The common man doesn't want the progress of his fellow commoners!
--- The common man makes life unbearable for his fellow commoners.

With the aforementioned defects in Nigeria; i wonder how and why a sane person will chose to endanger his family's life when he/she has the means to enjoy life.

------------WHY YOU MUST JAPA!---------------
This ought not to be a topic of debate at all, The fact that ALL our top politicians have their children abroad but are here just to milk our last milk and live large, ought to send a loud message to even the dumbest.
But as usual,MOST people still need to hear.

---REASONS WHY YOU MUST JAPA IN ORDER TO HELP POSTERITY-------

As the popular saying goes, "If you can't beat them, you join them". MINE goes like this; " If you want to make your life better; you MUST run away from them.

1. MAJORITY of people in Nigeria don't want your success and will go a long way to make sure you don't succeed.---
This is a common knowledge though.
I laugh at people that advise people to invest in businesses. Bros, if you don't have the grace; the business will fall!
A lot of evil people that will bend the system just for them to rise and fall you, they can even go as far as going spiritual to bring you down. This is common among AFRICANS, sad but TRUE.
2. An average NIGERIAN is wicked!---With the mentality of; if its not me then its no one else, i wonder how a lot of people are expecting progress. If you want to see the practical; Go abroad and see a lot of hard working people that were previously suffering in Nigeria, living large abroad. You just can't compare a country that seeks for the prosperity of their neighbors with the one that can go any length to fall you
3. An average Nigerian wants to work like an ant and eat like an Elephant.---- Advanced countries are programmed in such a fair way. If you want more, then you must give more. Its ONLY in NIGERIA/AFRICA you will see a Pry. 6 Councillor earning more than Doctors, Teachers and even cleaners that work day in day out for the betterment of the society. VERY PATHETIC!. This system can never favour hard work and dignity.
Saner clines are created to favour Hard Work and Honesty.
4. The Nigerian system is created to make the poor get poorer!----- A country that laws don't affect you when you attain a particular social status, is not where any sane person should be. In saner clines, the richer and more powerful you think you are; the law MUST catch you!
5. Nigerian Government don't care about its citizens----- Though, this is MAJORLY the fault of the common citizens who bring rogues to power through illegal and bierce means, you can never expect that govt. to take you serious .
6.In Nigeria, the more smart you are; the more useless you are!---- The deceitful nature of the country does not support honesty and creativity, rather it promotes ONLY deceit, dishonesty and illegality. This is the sole reason why majority of citizens are fed up.
All these cannot be said of Saner clines that see greatness and support it to the later.
7. The Money, money , money mindset of Nigerians--The whites seeks for comfort and sanity while majority of Nigerians believe in making money mostly to intimidate others, Very pathetic!
8. ALWAYS pray not to let Nigeria happen to you-- If you have anyone in the civil service, retiree or a professional; feeding from hand to mouth; then you would understand better.
If you have ever had a police case or being oppressed by the rich, then you would know that THIS COUNTRY IS GONE!
9. The idea of dignity of labour----- Most times, people complain of the fact that majority of those abroad are menial workers. And so what! Whatever a man does legally, provided you satisfy someone and it also satisfies you and pay your bills is a 100% welcome development. i wonder why Nigerians see problems in going abroad to be a cook, cleaner, mortuary attendant, fuel attendant, security when IT PAYS THEIR BILLS PERFECTLY + the good life AND see nothing wrong in doing these things here. What a malfunction brain.
There are lots of Nigerians working as professionals everywhere in the world also. Your certification determines your State in saner clines.
Cobblers, Cleaners, Securities, Mortuary attendants and ALL casual workers are all needed in ALL countries, STOP SEEING GOING ABROAD AS A CASUAL WORKER AS A CRIME because even their citizens that have worked to develop their countries indulge in it too.

--Just think; Why are celebs. and high earners rooting for yanky life for their families? . Funny enough; none of them would come out to admit that japa is good!, i don't blame them sha, Everyone has a brain for a reason and A GOOD PRODUCT DON'T NEED UNNECESSARY ADVERTS.

*KEEP WAITING FOR Peter Obi that has saved his 10th Generation to come and save you!... VERY SORY!*

Failure to use your head is automatic signing for your head to use you and Failure to take risk is a BIGGER risk, WHO GET EAR MAKE E HEAR!

Finally,
Without a high level of Grace, its impossible to rise from nothing to something in this country where people believe much in Nepotism, Tribalism and Narcissism rather than a combine effort in creating an enabling society for ALL.

If you have the means, stop coming here to ask unnecessary questions. I wonder how a sane person with even 10m. be claiming he is enjoying Anything in this country.
If u are not a politician or a high earner ( Majorly those gaining from the corruption of the country) i wonder what you are doing in this continent.

please, before migrating, know that EVERY society has its own ills, NO SINGLE COUNTRY ON EARTH IS 100% GOOD, BUT AS USUAL; WHEN THE ADVANTAGES OUTWEIGHS THE DISADVANTAGES; THEN IT WORTH IT.
NEVER go to a good country to alter its sanity(a lot of nigerians are good in this).
*Remain bless*

God bless you for this dear. i just wish more people could think like you.
Just imagine this evening; i was @ a family's friend's house, this lady's daughter that just wrote jamb (no work/skill yet oo) ordered a 10k palm slippers from facebook, if u see the way the mother was praising her, "uhmm, my daughter, the palm is fine. "hope you go dash me", instead of asking her where she got the money. Imagine a parent directly selling her daughter because of material things. I always warn this lady about how she spoils her kids but she never listens but this people are quick to blame the government, little did they know that the monsters they breed has so many impact in the society ...
once again; Thanks for seeing the light with me.

Newborn27:
Hmmmmmmmm


What a nice write up you've gotten up there! ...I can feel the pain of creating this thread.

I pray God intervenes in this generation..things are really happening of truth.

According to the popular phrase during Buhari era....*change begins with me*

How are you sensitizing the people around you? Despite the ill-state of things...we still have responsible parents and individuals just fewere than they are decades ago.



This is a generation of " if you can't beat them ...you join them".

"If you don't risk anything...you risk more"

How are we training our kids and the kids of our relatives?

Train a child in a way he should go......many mothers are slay mamas today....nobody wants to be black...no one wants to manage and these kids learn through observation...imitation and practice


If you train yours..and I train mine and the next neighbor train his ....this problems wouldn't have gotten to this stage.


But .."I don't care" attitude of our fellow Nigerians and their hypocritical ways of life bring us here.





I wonder what we'd be saying come 2030!


May God heal our land.

Sequel to this wonderful thread created by an amazing soul...
https://www.nairaland.com/6128419/reality-70-people-dont-know
One thing i will tell Everyone for free is that; God acts and does whatever he chose to. No single human on Earth has ANY power to alter nature ...
Its funny seeing/hearing an average Nigerian thinking and acting as if Opulence is a necessity. I have told whoever that chose to listen that; Earth is an experimental place, where we are ALL acting a script, whether you like it or YES. The money, fame and acquisitions MUST all go with us to the grave but what happens next is greater and far important than life!, very few people know this. THANKS O.P FOR SUCH A WONDERFUL THREAD.

From the comments so far, i will simply state that; I NEVER said All parents ANYWHERE, I used most and majority has ALWAYS been d basis of assumptions
I never stood as a judge but am only doing what any NEUTRAL human would do
Finally, the fact that some parents are strict and still have children going astray doesn't change the fact that ALL our behaviour from birth to death depends on
more than 90% of parental upbringing.
There are a lot of illicit things i can NEVER do 2day because whenever i want to; i always hear my father's warnings.

God day Nlders, This post is not to bash ANYONE nor to stand as an authority but to air my honest point of view about the falling of our once GREAT AND WELL MANNERED CONTINENT. Before my post let me air my observations here: 1. Most members here prefer watching BBN, Tik tok etc from morning till night but can't read an educative post for just 15 minutes, What a generation! 2. I noticed that Nairaland is becoming boring lately and most of the mature and Neutral minded members are no longer active. The reason is not far fetched. Most of the active members now are mostly below 30yrs, i knew this because of the kind of comments and topics that are seen on a daily basis on NL. 3. As a result of Age and low experience; it is expected that some members could wake up and post a lot of premature comments and not to talk of the constant bashing of few of the extremely intelligent posts and comments, KUDOS TO THOSE MEMBERS; U guys are the ONLY reason why i find here very accommodating, because i can't imagine my daily life without this platform. "imagine a 20yr old boy coming here ystrday to seek for advice about being arrested by his 19yr old girlfriend's family" because he harbored and took her in as a wife!, VERY FUNNY but not as funny as the advise MOST COMMENTERS were dishing out. For christ sake, how can advise such a boy to sue the family and seek for damages?. instead of taking him to vigilante to be trashed again and to think the boy has parents to tell him what he did was wrong but they didn't still baffles me. Imagine 20 and 19 year old kids that ought to be in school, trade or one skill are practising what ought to come to them Naturally. ---Back to my post--- As God is our universal Landlord, so Parents are our Earthly Landlord. This goes a long way to prove that whatever u become on earth has a lot to do with your parents/upbringing. Today, the Nigeria society is sinking and very few people are working to restore sanity to the system, very pathetic!. Gone are the days when parens moulded/bred a lot of great men and women but from what we see today, GREATNESS MAY BE VERY FAR FROM THIS GENERATION. I laugh when people argue with me that this our generation will smell 90s to 100yrs unlike our Parents/grand parents. Now, lets highlight Most areas Parents are failing woefully today; 1. The area of dressing--- Shit!, menhn, how most people dress these days is very absurd. Mostly the girls, no bra, exposing boobs and bleached body up and down, i wonder the men that marry these ones. gone are those days when parents burn their daughters provocative clothes. MY DAD AND MOM DID THAT TO MY 2 SISTERS. 2. The area of punishing for offence---- You hardly see parents that punish their children for misbehaving. Gone are those days we had laws like No bath no food, No staying out above 6:30pm, No sleeping above 6am etc.. in my neighbourhood; teenagers even girls stay out till 12 midnight, imaging the parents breeding these children. 3. The area of dishing out good advice--- Failure to do this MUST result to bad friends doing it for you and we all know the result. 4. The area of teaching their children, mostly on the area of preservation, honestly, contentment and dignity--- This has resulted badly to the mess we are in today. some of which are; --------Fraud (yahoo yahoo)---- Nobody is perfect and we have all stolen or cheated one way or the other but that is not a justification to indulge in duping people for your greedy interest. Parents are the major contributors to this. i have seen 50s of parents buying phones for their children to dupe people, very shameful. I have seen a lot sending their under 20 kids to Ghana. little did they know that they are wasting their kids and generation's life. House, cars, luxurious life are all good but the end is what matters in everything. LOVE UR NEIGHBOR AS URSEF, and we will have little problems on Earth. i have asked a lot of parents this question: HOW WOULD U FEEL IF SOMEONE DUPE U OF UR BIZNESS MONEY?, None of them could give me any reasonable answer. The rate our boys and girls are dying, running mad and losing their destiny because of mere vanity is something that needs urgent attention. Nowaday,s no matter how decent you look; the ladies CAN NEVER look your side if u are not a Gboy, their loss though. Good guys, please know your worth and raise your standards and avoid all these "chop remain" They will add nothing but sorrow to your life. If you know the type of drugs and nasty Bleep they give to these generation girls, you will dodge them. Someone was proud telling me that he once hung a girl upside down, Bleep her anus and came in her mouth!... i believe theses are the type that a man will use all his life struggle to wife. MEN WEN GET EAR, MAKE UNA HEAR. --Today, we complain about bad leadership little did we know that parents failed to raise their children properly in order for them to shun all sorts of violence during elections, LAST LAST: The problem of common man na common man, not POLITICIANS. Finally, with the parents we have now, this generation is heading to disaster. You will see a lot of girls carrying expensive Iphones, hair and clothes with empty brains and zero ambition aside Tik tok ete... I know a guy with just 3.5m car, if you see the way he USELESS'S GIRLS you will know that THERE ARE NO LONGER WIVES BUT SLUTS. ALL THANKS TO THIS GENERATION'S PARENTS.

Thank you for bringing sense to this thread

Kobojunkie:
All this na meaningless religious gibberish! God no make you or anyone class monitor wey you get dey say you dey pity others. The work wey Him tell you say you must do if you ever dream of being His child let alone entering into His Heaven you never even start, but you get mouth to talk say you dey pity others. Pity yourself first and begin by being honest with yourself where God is concerned.

As the world continue to evolve, a lot of people who claim to be knowledgable keep propounding various unrealistic theories and assumptions about our creator.
The MAJOR reason the world keeps failing is because we have used God's given wisdom to propound distruptible ideas for ourselves and this keeps getting worst daily.
In the dictionary of God, there is no questioning! You just have to be 100% obedient.
It is 100% impossible to see/hear of ANY obedient follower of Christ that God led astray. I wonder how funny it would seem when the flock decides to underestimate the leadership qualities of its master and decide to lead themselves. Even with the properly documented book he gave us and the holy spirit in us directing us 24/7; people are still doubting/disobeying and questioning the potency of God, What a pity!.
The BEST thing anyone can do for God is TOTAL OBEDIENCE!.
God is loving,
God is caring,
God is patient,
God is all knowing,
God is the Greatest!
The kind of inner peace that comes when we obey God is unimaginable.

Buharidgeneral:
Nice piece but didn't agree with all. But can I share it in our platform?

Of course.

quote author=RomanGreen post=124665195]You were making sense until you mentioned Tinubu, like wtf[/quote]Please read the part where i said that when it comes to Life or taking sides, I AM COMPLETELY NEUTRAL.
I don't like or support ANY naija politician, But d Fact is that; OUR PRESIDENT IS 10x more smart than 5 professors combined.

e author=OmarEl post=124663421]Nice Piece….More Wisdom To You. Keep The Good Work Going.[/quote]Thanks bro.

talented321:
Very beautiful write up. that 50 it must be a very understanding friend

Thanks man, the Nigga has such a beautiful soul, E PAIN ME SAY MY KID SIS. DON MARRY, If not...

Just as the topic stated...
I am going to indulge your attention to these basic truth about our daily existence on Earth. Please before comments and observations; know that I would be opining from a NEUTRAL point of view. Let's Ride--------
1. Fear God!-------One thing i love about our maker is that; he is VERY IMPARTIAL and his patience and mercies baffles me.
2. No One has ever or can EVER cheat Nature!-----Trying to outsmart the universe is someting that has 0% posssibility.
3. Love ALL!--------The more you love your enemies, the more you weaken their chances of hurting you!
One thing i love about my parents and something that has earned them more life is their ability to LOVE ALL!
4. Whatever you enconter from birth to Death is NEVER by accident!
5. Always keep the doors of your heart open, welcome ALL, the world is filled with a lot of beautiful souls.
6. NEVER underestimate the power of PATIENCE------EVERY good thing on Earth is embedded in TIME and PATIENCE!
7. You can NEVER rise by cheating or bringing others down!
8. Any man that can conquer his urge for women has solved more than 90% f his problem on Earth!
9. The fastest way to bring someone down is through a woman!
10. Always believe God's plan-----Why bordering God for a car when He is planning for u to have a car shop!
11. Money has NEVER and will NEVER be compared to sound health and peace of mind!
12. Family is EVERYTHING!
13. ALWAYS have ONE person in life you CAN DIE FOR!
14. Reasons to LIVE gives reasons to DIE!
15. POVERTY is a state of mind!
16. Never believe the words of ANY Politician!--One thing i love about them is that; they know how to play with the mases and they are good in networking and planning ahead. (ONLY few people like Me know their true intentions)
17. President Tinubu is a VERY smart/intelligent man!---- i don't and can NEVER have interest in POLITICAL activities but this man's wisdom baffles me!----From the electoral acts 2022 to d Naira swap saga shows how long he has been working cunningly.
18. Having and keeping money can NEVER guarantee happiness!
The joy i get when people smile and are happy because of a kind gesture is out of this world.
19. Never play with the power of CONNECTION, What 100million CANNOT do; a 1 minute call Can!
20. Everyone MUST and SHOULD have something that is priceless!------My siblings are very special to me, II can't trade them for ANY AMOUNT!
21. Never look down on ANYone.------Anyone one on Earth can rise or fall from 1 to 100% within seconds.
22. The ONLY to truely rise is; BY LIFTING OTHERS!
23. One thing a rich man will NEVER tell you is that; Giving is the fastest way to Prosperity!
24. Everyone on Earth has a
severe weakness/ Negative Addiction.-----Very few people on Earth know how to comfortably deal with their weaknesses.
25. The best prayer on EARTH is THANK YOU LORD!
26. NO matter how bad things goes; You are 100% better than others and a lot would sacrifice heavily to be U!
27. NEVER envy or wish to be someone else, its a big insult to God.
28. The ONLY key to happiness is CONTENTMENT!
29. The fastest way to fall is by Greed and dishonesty
30. As slow as snail is; it will still get to Lagos with time.
31. Never live your life from the point of view or words of others.
32. NEVER doubt YOURSELF!
33. Live everyday as if it would be ur last
34. LOVE is the sweetest thing on Earth!
35. The evil that men do live before, with and after them.
37. A little mistake can take hundreds of years to correct.
38. Never b scared of standing alone when it comes to doing the right thing!
39. Everybody is doing it can never make a bad thing right.
40. Never Allow your situation to reflect on your face.-----when i made my first 1million 2020, i was living a very a very quiet and decent life, now i can't boast of even 5k. I am still living like my old self.
41. Everyone is fighting one demon or the other.
42. If you are passing through hard times; go quietly, trust me, you don't want to know what others are going through behind their smiles. Hard times is part of life.
43. EVERYTHING on Earth is vanity!
44. For everything on Earth; YOU MUST PAY A PRICE!
45. Everyone on earth are operating on a different TIME and FREQUENCY.
46… A little FAITH can do WONDERS!
47. ALWAYS seek the face of God in Everything.
48. You are not the owner of yourself.
49. For everthing you think about your dreams and ambition, YOU ARE ALWAYS RIGHT.
50. Never be afraid or shy to ask for help, we all are debtors one way or the other.---- i remember asking for finance from a close friend some days ago, before i even finished explaining; he said how much, i told him and he instantly told me that; 15k is not what i ought to be explaining up and down, that he was thinking it was something huge!.
51. That man you are neglecting could have the cure to ur problems and could help easily.
52. We are all living in someone's dream!
Finally, Iphone 14 that you are dreaming of, "na person get the company" with millions of units; WE ARE ALL RICH IN OUR OWN WAYS AND MINDSETS!.
----As achaic and old fashioned as Samsung S7 edge; can go a long way to improve my life during this trying times!-------

Lalami3232:
Madam we don hear your side of the story, let's hear from your husband before we give our judgment

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