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tochez24:
You're right 💯

All my siblings are in total disunity and that's why we're still struggling till date..

I will definitely raise my kids differently and in unity

Confirm.
Bro, just check houses where there is unity, u wud see how things are flowing very well.
If u can't coordinate within a unit, how can u cope with an entire state/ country?
My dad was always pained because of the issue of disunity and he knew that unity is what brings progress.
See Adeleke's, even if they quarrel sometimes but their collabo and togetherness is top notch. it will take a very powerful family in Nigeria to fight or Exploit them, infact; E NOR DEY SEF!

thesicilian:
A man can feed his family for years and no one will hear about it. He's often proud to bear the responsibility. But the moment a woman starts bearing the responsibility, all hell must break loose, sooner or later

If what the woman wrote was 100% correct, i wonder why you would type such rubbish.
From the post did you see anything wrong she did?
Judges like u are the reason this country is in a mess.I bet u haven't seen how some men beat and maltreat women.
So because he is a man, we should start supporting any rubbish but if the woman were to be your sister; you would roast him alive.
Women mostly are the ones to be blamed because some got married to boys in men's clothing.
Ordinary job he lose, he has started feeling depressed, what if REAL life happens to him?

patrislayqueen:
YOU REALLY NEEDS TO WAKE UP!!

You really need to work on your comprehension skill because its clear you read only the quoted part.
Keep dreaming and working hard and allow the Rich to be networking/Connecting.
How on Earth do u intend beating or joining a group that are united with a single aim, it takes THE VERY RARE GRACE TO DO THAT.

Samakus:
18 year old is pricing car. And here I am


Motivational speakers, what do you have to tell me?

You don't know ANYTHING about life!
Na people like una dey commit suicide so.
Y u nor die when your mates they die?
I always feel sorry for this kind of your mentality.

Living in a polygamous home with a lot of quarrel and few fights taught me a great lesson in life.
My dad called my kid sis. and I. He gave us a broom stick each and asked us to break it. We broke it thinking my dad was running mad, lol.
Then he brought a full bunch of broom and asked us to break it, we tried, no way. He asked us to combine efforts, still no way.
He later went ahead to ask if its not same broom stick that we broke easily that formed the bunch we couldn't break, we answered yes.
He went on to tell us that the ONLY reason we couldn't break d broom was because they came together. So he stressed on the importance of togetherness as a strong tool to achieve a lot in life.
To my post ...
Togetherness, Unity or Connection is Very very underated!
why the poor man thinks he can get to his destination on his own, the rich man works tirelessly to network, Unite or connect his way to greatness. RICH PEOPLE VALUE CONNECT MORE THAN MONEY WHY THE POOR WOULD CHOOSE MONEY.
A fool still don't know that what 20m can't do; A SIMPLE CALL WOULD DO X10!.
NEVER underestimate connection,that which u so desire somebody u know, somebody that knows somebody u know has it in ABUNDANCE!.
The Adelekes (Davido's Family) is one family i love so much. These people keep working together supporting each other and it is evident the way they are excelling in their various endeavors.. If they continue this way, it will take a very big devel to Stop their wealth till eternity. CONNECTION OR UNITY IS EVERYTHING.
Check most poor people or families, you would either see people that lacks connection or people that are not working together. A single successful person can change even a community not to talk of a family.
Families today no longer work together, rather everyone running his own race that will lead to nowhere. Me for instance, My extended family is so disorganised that i don't even know some of my cousins that is to say in 20years time i will ONLY have my siblings as the only family i truly know, VERY PATHETIC! Now tell me; if not for God; how can i ever hope of getting either referrals or assistance to get to places.
The leaders of today were yesterday's leaders or referrals and the circle will continue because the poor keeps failing to understand the power behind unity or connection.
Working on ur own will lead to nowhere, We all need each other to get there THE RICH KNOWS THIS AND THEY KNOW THAT THE POOR DON'T KNOW AND THEY ARE HAPPY WITH THEIR OPEN SECRET.
Dangote has NEVER and will NEVER tell you openly that his family"s connection got him to where he is and not investments, planning or hard work as he would tell anyone that care to listen.
U CAN NEVER MAKE IT WITHOUT CONNECTION OR A HIGH LEVEL OF GRACE (VERY RARE).

Its very sad but true that our Presidents for the next 50 years have already stand in queue. It will take ONLY God and someone with a very scarce high level of Grace to change it. only intelligent people will know this.
The ONLY reason our leaders are oppressing us is because we have decided to fight separately instead of coming together (They know this).
Ibori, Uduaghan, Okowa and Sheriff were all Alumnus and close pal in UNIBEN and today they took turn in ruling Delta while MAJORITY are dreaming that they will get to Limelight simply by working hard. UNA GO WORK TIRE.
The poor man's mindset is very terrible that is why most wealthy people hardly give their children out to them for marriage. while the rich are holding ladders for each other to climb, the poor are busy cutting the ladder so other poor men will remain down. We prefer worshipping the rich than working together to be like them, Very terrible!
Either a very high level of Grace (very scarce) or CONNECTION is ALL you need to get there.
*Connection in this post means working together and not bribing or dubiously influencing things, THANKS.

This is not a motivational brouhaha but rather d plain truth and reality of life.
Today we have a lot of people wasting their life as a result of impatience, EVERYTHING on Earth has a process; its like charging a phone. The moment your phone charges from 10-80 within 2 seconds, it means something has gone wrong. This scenario is also applicable to everything. One secret Rich people won't share is THE SECRET BEHIND TIME!.
A rich man knows that if he invest 1m and wait patiently for years; the money would yield great profits but a pior man believes in getting it done instantly (very bad and impossible)
Take a look at ALL the top celebs. in d world 2day; They ALL started with a dream and Patience and Consistency was the ONLY reason they made it.
Majority of youths these days see our celebs. and envy them, instead of tapping from their story and patience that brought them to where they are.
The truth is NOTHING on Earth is for free!
There is ALWAYS a sacrifice to be paid. Very few people are lucky because someone has paid theirs and even that of generations to come. So if you find yourself in a mess; the first thing you must know is that; STRUGGLING IS PART OF LIFE and NOTHING LASTS FOREVER.
If we take our time to observe, the we would know that a lot if our prayers have been answered without our knowledge and we don't even show appreciation, rather we keep complaining. Always know that; THERE IS NOTHING LIKE TOTAL SUCCESS; No single person on Earth CAN achieve his / her dreams completely! We MUST take CONTENTMENT very seriously if we must be happy in Life.
Your retirement age could be someone's beginning.
I have a lot of friends that are still struggling to get a job after so many years of graduation, while i didn't even spend more than 6 months before i started working (different timing) I have a lot of rich friends and ex course mates. I have lose a lot of friends also (different timing).
Nobody is you and you can never b anybody. Rejoice the winnings of others and don't envy or wish to be them because urs will come when it will!. Avoid trying to fast track things; it has never and will never end well. ALWAYS FOLLOW THE PROCESS and be patient.
It took a lot of process to get an Iphone done and a fool would want to skip the process in acquiring one.
Take a look at Lionel Messi; This nigga can afford ANYTHING MONEY CAN BUY but a fool would fail to ask questions about how he suffered, hustled and waited patiently to be where he is today.
Psquare, Davido, Olamide, Mayorkun, Timaya, Pato Ranking, C-Ronaldo, Portable etc are today living large but people usually don't remember that; these people started with only a dream and they were patient hence; the reason they made it far.
For those of u that are contemplating suicide becos life is hard; please DO!. If u think you will just press one botton and everything would fall in place, keep dreaming.
Life is a place of different time zone. Grace also is very different.
The ONLY thing i can stake my life on is that; I CAN NEVER GIVE UP. Even if i am 99.9% defeated; GIVING UP IS A NO FOR ME and People very close to me know this.
The ONLY people that can ever make it in life are the DOGGED (very patient and consistent).
Have a blissful week.

donshady:
Contact via WhatsApp

Can d network b unlocked easily?

100fix:
Neatly used Tecno wx3p 1gb/8gb 2 day battery champ Working Perfectly
15k
Ijegun, Lagos


08138081735

If u can send to Delta. (Pay on delivery) 10k, i will sort d driver's charges.

Calabar1stSon:
Not selling anymore. I'm gifting it out.

If it pleases you bro, AM SERIOUSLY IN NEED OF IT, CURRENTLY USING MY NEIGHBORS PHONE, THANKS.

Finegood:
Is there any Oppo or Samsung one can get around budget of 60k that is good?

Get S8+ UK or look for any good 2nd hand + power bank. U CAN NEVA GO WRONG WITH SAMSUNG.

Finegood:
Hello everyone, I seriously looking for good phone to buy that can me do online things. I spend much time going online.
I am looking at the following phones to consider.
Itel P40 , Itel A60 or A60s, Infinix Smart 7, Tecno Spark Go 2023 and Tecno POP 7.
Please recommend the one you feel is the best. Thanks

Dey play...
Get yourself a UK used Samsung S series + Powerbank and maintain ur sanity.
Anyone recommending Tecno and Infinix doesn't know anything about phones or value for money!

michlins:
why are you guys so negative?


So we should stop buying good things because the replacement costs? A child born today can die and the parents will give birth to another one.

I have had a Samsung for years and I can't remember when one fell not to talk of crashing. My current phone is almost two years and I am a welder yet nothing has happened to it. I don't even use tempered glass cause I find it diminishing the quality of the screen. I can not buy a phone for hundreds and then use mumu glass ruin the viewing experience.

To op, enjoy your phone and if you damage the screen, you work hard and buy another phone. Person no die

Don't waste ur time educating them,
its ONLY a fool or someone that wants to manage that patronises this modern trash called phones.
Iphones are very very over hyped and price
Samsung has and will always be d king of phones. Mehn their display, dopeness and smoothness is out of this world.
Sometimes i feel tempted to fix my S7edge. that phone would still beat 2023 Tecnos and Infinix hands down.

Breastfeed:
With your budget you could land the spark 10 pro.

OP said he needs a phone, not a packaged Calculator Powerbank.

Finegood:
Please house what is your experience with Itel P40? What is the down side of the phone? Is it good for one manage because I am considering going for it.

Go get a UK used or a good 2nd hand Samsung S series and enjoy ur sanity.

Anything aside SAMSUNG (MOSTLY S-SERIES) is not a good choice.
Iphone is a branded big SCAM!, It takes a guru to know this.

shantti:
At times I wonder the crime I must have committed in my previous life that resulted my being an Africa in this present life. Look at how developed and sane the white society is. Everything is smooth and seemless. Come to Nigeria, everything is upside down.

I developed malaria last night. Had to hold it till this morning. Went to the bank very early around 5am only to meet a very huge crowd. They was no guarantee that ATM would even dispense that day oh. They were just hoping. And I was afraid to use a different bank cos many banks were dispensing only to their customers. I collected number and left, came back around 8am, ATM wasnt dispensing yet and I was getting down with malaria. I resorted to POS, unfortunately, no POS operator had cash available.

I decided to try my luck with transfer. Went to a pharmacy. Luckily for me, the girl said she accepts transfer. She packaged the drugs for me. I tried paying with bank transfer, but it wasn't going through, access bank is a very useless bank. I tried and tried, no way. She told me she had POS, maybe I should try it, omo, I gave her my card, the same issue, no network. I couldn't buy the drugs again.

I went home with my malaria, annoyed with everything. Like, why can't things work out as it should in Nigeria. Why must we have to suffer for everything. I've looked at how the whites even have the time to go for hiking, sky diving, surfing the waves, picnics etc. They aren't under pressure simply because everything works for them.
Here in Nigeria, the struggle start right from the second u are born, heat will bombard ur new born body till you start to cry and the nurses will even be shouting at you as they bathe you as if you are the cause of their misfortune.

Den no born you well to go and surf the waves in Nigeria. Even the waves are angry at the hardship, dem fit tear u hot slap for disturbing them. In fact, Mami water fit kidnap u and demand for ransom in new notes.

Go and sky dive nah, while in the air, u will realize that your parachute is aba-made, and fabricated from a restaurant curtain.

Ordinary bank transaction is hell here. I wouldn't be surprised if access bank's internet service provider is mtn or glo, instead of them to utilize superior internet service providers. I wouldn't even be surprised if they don't have their own personal servers, they might be sharing servers.


Why is everything just upside down in this country. Make this malaria no sha kill me.

Awon Japa is bad and not for everyone.
The orderliness, comfort and sanity in yanky can never b compared to being a millionaire in Naija!
Our wack Money, money, money mindset is d major thing bringing us 100yrs backward in dis country.

SucroseDeport:
I can't afford basic needs, nothing is working for me.

I've not eaten today, I can't afford to buy food, there is no way survival work anymore in the estate.

I still don't understand how my life turned into this.

I'm 25, can I still make it in Life?

If u can say this @ mere 25, then i am sory but not sory to tell you that, NIGERIA IS NOT FOR U and if u fail to accept d harsh reality of life; U MAY NOT GO FAR (MOSTLY WITH UR WACK MENTALITY!).
Just hit d streets and see what MAJORITY of ur elders are passing through and u will thank God for ur life.

smalldivk111:
I stay with my parents but in a separate self contain that I stay alone… sometimes I do bring girls to spend time with me now yesterday I brought a girl and the screenshot below is what my mother sent to me

I’m an adult I think I have a right to do what I want since I didn’t bring the lady to the house they live in,, they just heared our voices and started saying shit

Is it right?

Sory, i dont advise kids!, TIME is the best person to do that.

Goodlyhrt:
If not why are things going south no matter how hard someone prays.

I tell you what works smart work with a lot of luck.

I try to be smart but I don't have much luck so I get stuck each and every damn time.

I am a failure in all ramifications health, business, love, family.. just fucck!!

Anything you say or think on Earth; YOU ARE RIGHT.
But on this your assumption; YOU ARE A FOOL!.
What do u even think you are passing through that millions of people haven't passed through?.
U are very far behind clock