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minasu190:
My grandma is 84 years, kindly come for her,orzo!

What is wrong is what Op is asking about?
You guys take everything for joke, na wa 4 Una self.

The Migration to other parts of life is one thing that is very difficult but it is the best way to get to your dreams.
The few people that had/will have the courage to move out of their zone MUST experience greatness.
I laugh at people telling me to be comfortable with less than 100k job, saying it's a life time job because these people don't know that very few top successful people abandoned millions paying job to start from nothing and rose to Everything.

OP, you made 100% sense and they are all very valid. Of a truth, I have made a lot of your points in my posts but as usual an average human resists knowledge, very pathetic!
The only issue in your post is that you fail to add God or having a strong Faith and Patience.
If u don't believe in God, please do because a lot of people are creating different unrealistic theories for themselves.
For Christ sake; Someone that created u from scratch, u wake up one morning and start creating theories about the person, HUMANS FOOLISH SHA.

Good day dear Nlders.,

Please I plead with you all to read this thread very carefully. This could save someone or contribute positively to u or your loved ones.

The distance between EVERYONE and death is just like a 1% phone (Anything can happen!)
BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL!

I just got back home from an impromptu trip, tired and exhausted; I fell asleep , waking up with lots of missed calls. I called one of them ( My nigga in my neighbourhood) this Nigga shocked with the sad news of the DEATH OF ONE OF OUR FELLOW YOUNG PROMISING NIGGA, Very pathetic!
This late guy was my close pal, we were taking bottles together some few nights ago, discussing and laughing.

***I have and will keep telling our youths to be very, very careful because this is not the same life I was living joyful in my childhood and teen days-----

-----CONTROVERSIES SURROUNDING HIS DEATH------
1. This guy has 3 littles kids (The last is just few weeks old)
2. This guy was learning how to drive heavy duty vehicles before he switched to abandoning his dream and started staying with a younger YAHOO BOY (H.K/Office).
__The said Yahoo Boy this late nigga was staying with; is just in his 30's but very wealthy, with good houses, cars, trucks, lands and a very large agriculture farm etc, He buys cars like boxers!
I know him very well. Infact; He is perfect example of chop life gang.
Rumour has it that; as rich as this Nigga (has a lot of houses in different cities), his mom still lives in a rented apartment.
3. A lot of people will feel and think that he was used for rituals because he wasn't sick (He slept and didn't wake up yesterday; THEY MAY NOT BE FAR FROM THE TRUTH THOUGH!

------ MY VERDICT ON THIS ISSUE--------
I don't jump into foolish conclusions without a first hand strong evidence, it's ONLY a fool that does that.
While the supposed rumour that the YAHOO BOY used him MAY be right but that doesn't change the fact that; I BLAME THE LATE GUY 100%!

Leaving your good handwork that will help you in the long run to join people in shattering people's life in the name of Yahoo, was a very foolish move and to think of the fact that, the guy he moved in with made overnight wealth and a lot of Yahoo boys now use different diabolic means to up their games (Even if it takes sacrificing their own blood) and the guy still fell for the trap, is not reasonable.
LOOK @ THE SORRY STATE HE LEFT HIS FAMILY, WIFE AND CHILDREN.


-------MY MESSAGE----------
Please my Nlders, Always strive on Earth to make your hands as clean as possible, if you value yourself and your offspring. I learnt this from my dad a long time ago and it has and will forever be useful and applicable to EVERYONE.
2022 /2023 taught me a great lesson I wouldn't have known till I die, Sometimes pray that you fall in order for u to know the true snakes you have been taking VERY close to yourself as friends.

There is nothing in Life that is and can EVER be by your power, smartness or hard work. God has clearly said it that; All things on Earth belongs to him and He alone has the power to give to whoever He wishes ;whenever,and however He wants.
I remember some years ago when I was always busy chasing money, my father called me telling me that; "Son you don't chase money; rather, you position yourself in a place and money will start chasing you" (This is something ONLY the wise would understand).

Life is 100% God's timing, is only a fool that thinks He has any power of to alter things.
The only way to scale through life smoothly is; TO BE EXTREMELY PATIENT and under that; Inside this life; there is another new life that modernization is constantly creating (SOCIETAL TRENDS).
This trends is what any sensible person should and must desist from (It leads to nowhere but agony and generational bondages).

Whether anyone agree or not; God created this life PERFECTLY and there is nothing you have and will ever do that will not have a result or consequences. YOU / YOUR OFFSPRING MUST PAY THE PRICE NOW OR LATER. I remember our old neighbour when I was still a child, will always say: "If you do good, you do for yourself; if you do bad, you do for yourself, R.I.P Papa, your words still fresh in my memory.

One mistake people constantly make is; The mistake of thinking that because Me. A is doing it and it's working for him, that will automatically make it work for me (FOOLISH THINKING)
OR because Everyone is doing it, automatically makes a bad thing correct. EVERYONE IS DOING IT, CAN NEVER MAKE A BAD THING RIGHT.
Different faces, different timing and destiny.

One thing I Love about my life is that; Whenever I do any evil, be it cheating or any bad sin, I RECEIVE MY KARMA IN A VERY SHORT TIME, Unlike a lot that will pass theirs to their generations. I love my unborn child too much and I can never make her suffer for what she knows nothing about; hence, the reason I desist for evils as much as possible.

The menace of Yahoo is a place I have a surface coaching on, a long time ago (Thanks to my ex that warned me to quit and focus on an honest life) because she stated that she had dated a lot of them and she had seen what the end looks like.--- God bless you wherever you are dear.

When we talk about the fact that Yahoo is bad, it doesn't mean anyone is coming out to claim being perfect but the fact that; When you make someone cry, tears must always follow you.

Even the fornication I constantly engage in and other sins I commit sometimes; I am still not happy with myself. (It always haunt me in my heart) not to talk of going about making others go through pain and taking lives. HUMANS ARE REALLY TERRIBLE!


Let me put MY WARNINGS TO THE YOUTH AS FOLLOWS:

1. NEVER under rate yourself, we were all made from sand and to there we are all returning.
2. No one is bigger or better than you.
3. With patient ANYONE can get ANYTHING done but without it; NOTHING can be done.
4. Defrauding someone can NEVER take you to where you ought to be, rather; it will send you and your generation to the pool of regret sooner or later.
5. Never play with the power of time and patience while you work to get to your dream.
6. True happiness lies in self assertion that you have inner peace.
7. Nothing good comes easy.
8. Think of when you prayed to passed pry. 6 exams, God did it, Think of when you prayed to pass WAEC, God did it, Think of when you prayed and studied to graduate, God did it.
He is still with you and will continuously do it for you if you can be patient and work with ONLY faith as you have been doing during those times.
9. One secret to get faster to God's blessings is through a very strong provocative FAITH in him irrespective of your circumstances.
10. Nothing is too late to change when there is life and remember; we are all sinners striving to get it right.

Finally, it's only a fool that will tell you that money or flashy life is not good but when it comes @ the expense of illicit things, it means automatic signing for a life long regrets. BE WISE!
Money is good but if u have it, you will understand that nothing beats PEACE OF MIND.

I LOVE GOD,
I LOVE MY LIFE,
I LOVE MY FAMILY,
I LOVE NAIRALAND,
I LOVE YOU ALL.

******R.I.P MARO***********

Nairaland is a big blessing to me, infact; this is the ONLY place I can comfortably say I would miss for a day without phone.

God bless the nigga that told me about Nairaland,
God bless Seun,
God bless ALL the people that has inspired, Educated and motivated me with great threads,
God bless the creator of this thread,
God bless Nairalanders.

----The kind of love and satisfaction I feel when I scroll through threads is out of this world!.

Newborn27:
The increment only affected the government workers....how about we..private workers?


We work like elephant and got meager salary.


We can't truly blame the masses for increasing the cost of their products...no matter what they're selling...they'd also buy fuel..pay school fees and other bills like any other Nigerians.

Depression is on the rise ...hungerbis in town and people do all sort of illicit things to make ends meet.


A cup of rice is now #200-#250


This was the amount I was buying a congo of rice during GEJ regime and people were abusing him then



I learnt dollar is now 900+....which was around 250-300 in GEJ regime

The subsidy he planned removing in 2011 then resulted to massive protest in Lagos then that brought out prominent celebrities then.....today we're buy #800 per litre and everyone is cool about it.


If things can be this rotten within 8yrs...I wonder how our tomorrow would look like.


Many Nigerians are suffering in diaspora... some went to prison..some engaged in all manner of job and illegal acts to stay away from this country... some had even done change of citizenship and refused to be identified as a Nigerian.



The question is...for how long are we going to live like this?


I weep for my dear country!

When I told u that an average Nigerian is wicked, u said No; it's because of hardship.

listen, whenever Fuel or any other hike that affects the Nation, it simply means that every sector MUST follow suit but as wicked as we are to ourselves, we won't agree to increase even when are enjoying the increment.

How can a school owner increase school fees but refuse to increase workers salary?
is this not pure wickedness?

Not until the masses (Majority) come together irrespective of religion / tribe; then we should be ready to remain like this forever.

Newborn27:
APC had brought us nothing but pain.

It's we salary earners I pity most in this present administration.

Salary doesn't increase but prices of commodities kept sky-rocketting.


Lord , please heal our land!

Civil servants salaries were increased by 10k this month in my State. But the Govt. can still do better in order to reach out to the masses.

One thing we ALL should also know is that; Nigerians are very wicked people!
They use every opportunity to hike the prices of things unnecessarily without considering the fellow poor masses. A lot of people are using the opportunity that; Things are expensive to deliberately rip others, THIS IS VERY BAD.

Bros. NEVER judge how the world works based on ur own experience and to even say true friend is none existence makes me want to question your level of education / experience.

Listen, we ALL have @ one point or the other been betrayed severely by people we call friends but that doesn't change the fact that ; TRUE FRIENDS EXIST.

Funny enough, we have @some point or the other met and under look that true friend unknowingly to us.

2022/2023 taught me a great lesson of my life also. ALL the people I called friends are the ones now turning their back, simply because; I am not as buoyant as I used to. But I am happy because. I learnt my lessons early in my life.

I am still praying to God to give me a kind of wife like my 2nd ex- girlfriend of my life, THAT GIRL WAS A FRIEND, LOVER AND ADVISER in one pack. (She caused the split though). Seeing her part 2 would be very very difficult, SUCH A NICE PRETTY SOUL.

foolwithmoneyon:
pretty easy, all they gotta do is avoid dates,club and just stay home.no big deal

So the ones I see daily being pestered by numerous guys @ d back of their houses are in clubs?.
Guy, Guys should shun this I need a virgin stuff, it's stale already. If we all can zip up, then virginity as it were those days; would be greatly restored. Thanks.

Some people go say na lie, Sorry 4 people without Weird experiences.
The guy man should move out of the home if he is of age.
It is highly spiritual.

The Lady was very foolish to remove her brother from the transport business.

You see ehn, I don't believe in MOST popular conception that there are no good ladies out there, NEVER!
"Who bad, bad" be it a Man or Woman.

See how this mumu man dey play with woman sane men would die to get. VERY SHAMEFUL.

Take this ur rubbish thread out of here man.
Who took their virginity before the age of 15 ?. I believe they disvirgined themselves.

The way guys keep disturbing ANYTHING in skirt ( Be it underage) honestly, it takes a very high level of discipline to remain a virgin. Some stupid guys can do ANYTHING to get access to Puna.

2moro u guys would come here looking for virgins, after destroying a lot of mostly underage.

Kingosytex:
You must be tolerant and learn to overlook many things.
Staying together comes with sacrifices; overlook the shortcomings of others because you aren't perfect either.

Please bear it in mind that because we aren't perfect doesn't mean we should take any rubbish thrown @ us.
Some people's nonchalant and unreadiness to change positively is just not bearable.

O.P, If u like stay here and blame Ladies from now till 20 infinity, it won't change the fact that; GUYS ARE THE ONES SPOILING RELATIONSHIPS THESE DAYS.

Gone are the days we used to have strong and no nonsense taking men,.MY LATE GRAND DADS WERE PERFECT EXAMPLES... In fact; those men were men. Not the babies in Men's clothing we are seeing around now.

I know Someone in yanky that sends good thousands to random girls, JUST for naked pics and videos. So do u now blame the girls for having the mentality of pay before seeing with other men?.

I know a guy during UNI. days that was good in hopping around spoiling his friends for ladies in order to gain access to Puna!, very foolish.

Guys are constantly teaching these ladies that they are sex starved and can do ANYTHING to get access to it, this will definitely make them to misbehave.

THE LAST THING THE DEVIL CAN USE TO GET ME IS THROUGH S*X because I always dance to my own tune whenever, however and whoever I want to get it from.

Girls are prostitute, Do they sleep with themselves?

A guy buying a Benz willing for a girl while his mom is struggling to pay rent, was he forced?

You need a virgin, u need a virgin; The ones we keep lashing, will it be easy to see a virgin?

Girls are old newspapers but a lot of guys keep fvcking, deceiving and promising random girls marriage, after expanding the puxx, they Japa; Would the girls marry themselves?...Though some are ill-mannered.

I PITY A LOT OF GIRLS SHA because;
What bad guys have done to girls in my presence is a very big eyesore.

BTW, a lot of this generational girls are very unruly and ill-mannered ; ALL THANKS TO D GUYS THAT ARE NURTURING THEM!.

Whenever you see ANY act of entitlement, ALWAYS address it immediately, hence u will be creating problems for the next guy.

I have a close single mother neighbor that I always give money to without her even asking, most times my boss come around; I send foods, drinks and others to her without her even asking.

This same lady took it as my job to always provide for her, so she took it as a task to ask me for stupid things even in the midst of people.

She has called me stingy man severally but I can never care again because I have noticed how ungrateful and entitled she is . This same lady has been begging me for common malt whenever she sees me going out but SHE DOESN'T KNOW THAT SHE HAS SINCE LEFT MY LIST OF PEOPLE RECEIVING FAVOURS.

BigBlackPreek:
I'm 31 and I've fvcked ashawo mamas beetween the ages of 50-60...chaiii they are so sweet


And their pussy pubic hair is grey though shaved but so slippery and soft..


I fvcked 28 times, she's TIV and 53


I fvcked one in Ibadan 14 times, she's from warri and 58 with a swollen black pussy that so soft and slippery and elastic that chaiiiii


I fvcked one big eyed mama too in Ibadan once, her pussy was big puffy and soooo sweet chaiiii, went there for a rematch but she already left the place, she should be in her early 60s...

Chai!!!,
Abeg make Angel try blow the trumpet, I just one check how dis guy with e BigBlaqPrik go make heaven.
Na wa!,
And I thought Boogyman and ChildOfDoom were the worst.
This guy; u be werey wahla... lol.

As I have said b4 and I will keep saying that; The difference between the wealthy and we commoners is our mentality!

Who truly know me must know how I hate the word POLITICS not to talk of indulging in it. (I don't support or will ever support ANY politician) reasons becos; THEY ARE GOOD IN USING THE COMMONERS JUST FOR THEIR SELFISH AMBITION!... But I don't know why I see a lot of good politicians and smile, truly it's almost impossible for the common man to get to any useful place in most especially this country.

The ONLY reason why majority of us commoners will never get close to our dream is because; WE DON'T KNOW HOW TO CONNECT OR NETWORK!

By the grace of God and through the help of a good pal., I have been able to get close to a lot of politicians; Mostly in my State. One thing I like about my current boss is that; He will always advise people; NEVER TO QUARREL OR FIGHT because OF ANY POLITICIAN. Reasons becos; THEY DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT U BUT THEIR AMBITION!.

The current NDDC Chairman is a man I know and have seen severally. He is a very close friend of my Landlord same as the out going DESOPADEC chairman. Shockingly, the current NDDC Chairman is a close pal to James Ibori and I believe the later influenced his appointment.

I know several S.A's and S.S.A's to Governor's and I know how they networked to get there.

----------TO MY TOPIC--------------
As I have said severally; NIGERIA is a very complex place. Reasons mostly becos of the diverse cultural background.

Yoruba's,Igbo's , Hausa's and the other minorities are ALL fighting a different course and will do everything possible to outshine each other. This behaviour is the sole reason why it is impossible for Nigeria to come together with a single aim.

While the Elites are joining their minority force to seize and control Us; The majority are busy fighting themselves, VERY SHAMEFUL.

It burdens me to know that,, same class ruling us for ages are busy recycling themselves or networking their cronies to continue from where they stopped, while the populace are busy killing themselves. VERY SHAMEFUL!.

It takes a very rare and Strong Grace of God to rise from NOTHING 2 SOMETHING in this country without a STRONG CONNECTION / NETWORKING.

The ONLY reason why the masses won't go far is that; WE KILL OR BRING DOWN OURSELVES JUST TO RAISE OUR OPPRESSORS WHO ARE BUSY PLAYING ON OUR INTELLIGENCE RAISING THEMSELVES AND THEIR CRONIES.

Politics is a game and in Every game; u MUST learn and perfect the rules of the game.

I don't like nor support ANY Politician but;
I took more than 5hrs till dawn to study the previous elections few months ago and I MUST sincerely say that, the bitter truth is;
PRESIDENT TINUBU IS A GURU WHEN IT COMES TO POLITICS!.. Any unbiased human ought to know this.

@ Oga O.P, What is fuckvng wrong in getting attached to older women?

If not for a lot of heart breaks and lack of trust in older women; I would comfortably say that; THEY ARE THE BEST!.

Their romantic level and sexual prowess is out of this world.

One thing I will Always tell people for free is that; MAJORITY OF FAILED PEOPLE ALWAYS FOLLOW SOCIETAL STANDARDS!

For Christ sake, Everyone on Earth operates on a different frequency, that means; THERE IS NO EXACT AGE to acquire anything in Life.
I left home and started staying on my own since 20yrs and I have a friend that still stay with his parents @ 29yrs. But this guy can comfortably chest a bill of 3million why I can't!. Different human; Different Time and Frequency.

While I spent Only less than 6 months Job hunting; my same friend is still @ home jobless, doing business. I also have a lot of very intelligent class mates that have and still jobless for more than 7yrs now, I have a lot that are dead too, a lot that dropped out of school and still doing very well till date.

My Childhood friend's Grandfather was and still the MOST successful King in the history of my community. The man suffered till about 90yrs before he finally made it in Life and I can bodily tell u that; IT WORTH IT because; this man removed his entire lineage from extreme poverty, SOME ARE TO PAVE THE WAY FOR OTHERS TO ENJOY, Such is Life!

Study the Adeleke's, Otedola's and Dangote's and u would know that not EVERYONE CAME TO LIFE TO SUFFER. Always accept ur fate and sacrifice to change the tale.

The day we know that there is No age to attain ANYTHING in Life, is the day we truly unlock our door to TRUE HAPPINESS.

As I have said b4 and I will keep saying that; The difference between the wealthy and we commoners is our mentality!

Who truly know me must know how I hate the word POLITICS not to talk of indulging in it. (I don't support or will ever support ANY politician) reasons becos; THEY ARE GOOD IN USING THE COMMONERS JUST FOR THEIR SELFISH AMBITION!... But I don't know why I see a lot of good politicians and smile, truly it's almost impossible for the common man to get to any useful place in most especially this country.

The ONLY reason why majority of us commoners will never get close to our dream is because; WE DON'T KNOW HOW TO CONNECT OR NETWORK!

By the grace of God and through the help of a good pal., I have been able to get close to a lot of politicians; Mostly in my State. One thing I like about my current boss is that; He will always advise people; NEVER TO QUARREL OR FIGHT because OF ANY POLITICIAN. Reasons becos; THEY DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT U BUT THEIR AMBITION!.

The current NDDC Chairman is a man I know and have seen severally. He is a very close friend of my Landlord same as the out going DESOPADEC chairman. Shockingly, the current NDDC Chairman is a close pal to James Ibori and I believe the later influenced his appointment.

I know several S.A's and S.S.A's to Governor's and I know how they networked to get there.

----------TO MY TOPIC--------------
As I have said severally; NIGERIA is a very complex place. Reasons mostly becos of the diverse cultural background.

Yoruba's,Igbo's , Hausa's and the other minorities are ALL fighting a different course and will do everything possible to outshine each other. This behaviour is the sole reason why it is impossible for Nigeria to come together with a single aim.

While the Elites are joining their minority force to seize and control Us; The majority are busy fighting themselves, VERY SHAMEFUL.

It burdens me to know that,, same class ruling us for ages are busy recycling themselves or networking their cronies to continue from where they stopped, while the populace are busy killing themselves. VERY SHAMEFUL!.

It takes a very rare and Strong Grace of God to rise from NOTHING 2 SOMETHING in this country without a STRONG CONNECTION / NETWORKING.

The ONLY reason why the masses won't go far is that; WE KILL OR BRING DOWN OURSELVES JUST TO RAISE OUR OPPRESSORS WHO ARE BUSY PLAYING ON OUR INTELLIGENCE RAISING THEMSELVES AND THEIR CRONIES.

Politics is a game and in Every game; u MUST learn and perfect the rules of the game.

I don't like nor support ANY Politician but;
I took more than 5hrs till dawn to study the previous elections few months ago and I MUST sincerely say that, the bitter truth is;
PRESIDENT TINUBU IS A GURU WHEN IT COMES TO POLITICS!.. Any unbiased human ought to know this.

PMONEY6:
S9 for 2023 is a very bad idea
Go for Sammy A32 instead

u don't know what u just typed.
S series are forever good.
S8 is a very great choice even in2024, it depends on one's budget .
BTW; S and A series are phones with different levels, I have used a lot of both.
S series is d king!

Breastfeed:
keep fooling yourself, the spark 10 pro is an amazing smartphone.

The moment ANY reasonable person hears this, it simply means; End of Argument.
Guy u WON!
Advising someone that can afford a true smartphone, to buy Spark 10 pro, shows that u know NOTHING about phone.
No sane person can even compare future Spark 50 with Galaxy S10 sef and to think it's even cheaper is one reason Naijas are dumb and keep patronizing what saner countries would totally reject.
Continue enjoying thrash while u pay handsomely.

@OP, Anyone that has and will advise u NOT to Japa is VERY wicked and i MUST tell u that; Your success starts counting the day u took this decision.
God be with u.

All except 3 and 10

idady2njsd:
thank you boss i always thinking too much about too many things, like things are not going to work for me anymore in this life but i just need to be patience. one day i will make it for myself, my family and parent and sibling as well. that's what i promise my mother

Man trust me; u have not seen half of what MOST successful people today had gone through.
SUCCESS IS NOT FOR THE FICKLE MINDED!.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Nice write up

Your contentment aspect is okay

Following due process I don't quite agree on that

We can actually cut corners in this life

My Nigga Slawomir,
There is no short cut to palm tree.
ONLY TIME will teach u dis.
We are ALL sinners but ALWAYS strive to do good ALWAYS.
Alhamdulilah.

[quote author=thesicilian post=125310921][/quote]U re one million miles away from reality.
Alhamdulilah.

WesternPanzer:
Words of wisdom never told in plain words like this before.

This is the reason millions will die poor in Nigeria.

Most of them don't even know that the Politicians they are fighting for no send their papa.

Everyone is all about selfish interests.

Very shameful!
Imagine people still fighting and siding people that have secured their 10th generation while they and their future will languish in poverty!
A lot are killing their fellow commoners to protect the rich.
Everything about the poor circle is just very wrong hence the reasons the rich wud rather die than to mingle or marry from the poor circle.

Sequel to this thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7812688/guilt-locking-husband-up-two
If u read this thread carefully u will notice a lot of premature, gender biased and sentimental people.
Wrong is Wrong irrespective of who does it, be it your father, mother or siblings. Personally, even if my family member misbehaves; i must always point out the truth, rather than supporting them, every sane person ought to do the same.
If the woman's post was correct, then i don't see how she did any wrong.
The only mistake is that; she married a boy instead of a man. You lose your job and u re going through a lot, U have a supportive and understanding wife yet u took solace in killing yourself with Alcohol (probably being funded with the woman's money), tell me is the fool not complicating issues for the woman?
Even if she says anything out of frustration and later apologised; SHE IS VERY CORRECT!.
For the biased people commenting thrash; If she were to be their sister or daughter; would they blame her? Capital No!. E nor concern me right?
A lot turned it to gender war.
Though a lot of ladies find it difficult to remain sane when they are the breadwinner of the house but that doesn't change the fact that; we must address issues as they occur and not generalize unnecessarily.
There are a lot of good and understanding women out there, just that majority of the faulty ones are covering them.
I bet a lot of people haven't seen the animalistic behaviour of some men, u won't even advise ur enemy to marry them because of how they maltreat their wives.
An Animal (very useless guy) did I.T with us for 1 year, we later discovered after he got a job in another state and left that; He had been lying to his wife that he was not being paid and has never been given a dime for almost 1year!
The woman was in charge of feeding and taking care of everything in the house of 5, from the proceeds of her Akara and bread business and the Animal husband was being paid 30k monthly.(what a wickedness!). Some ladies were fully aware of certain rubbish before they jump into marriage but they always turn blind eye mostly because of money.
I used to have a stupid friend that beats his girlfriend now wife anyhow, sometimes He hits the girls head on the wall and abuse her anyhow, a very light skinned pretty young girl.
This girl continued enduring this shit just because the guy spoils her with money and expensive gifts, He used a ring of 300k to engage her last year, Tell me since they are now married;
HOW DO U EXPECT D GUY TO TREAT HER?. Later she will start shouting men are evil up and down.
I told my kid sist. that the day her husband beats her anyhow and i notice; that would be the end of the marriage and up till now she hides
some misbehaviours of her husband from me because I DON'T GIVE OR TAKE NONSENSE!.
I know how i treat the ladies i come across and i know how difficult it is to see a good, caring and understanding lady like her.
Poor and biased judgement of Nigerians is the reason this country is in a sorry state.