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Odunnu:
Hey Mudley,d speed at whch u 'bought' ds thread is alarming!You sabi d yahoo guy or ths white babe b4?
Take am easy,u'v made your point,we all knw u r tryin 2help bt plz take am easy ooo,biko,ejoo,dan allah!

i nor need to sabi dem but we all as naijas know whats up. na only those wen hand nor clean nai dey try to encourage this obvious case of double 419. . .i been wan take am easy but for big mugun like this to even gather the nerves to one play smart-azz nai make me take the matter like govt work. . .and at the same time i dey try to helep the mumu (even tho she dey too foolish to decode)

ice234:
so  want to useless 8 good yrs.

what if he's not happy in the relationship? so you want him to stick it out for a lifetime of unhappiness or an unhappy marriage?

oyewolejos:
For u to go this far that means u guys love each other which is the only thing u need not uncles and aunties.

they're obviously not in love with eachother (or rather the OP obviously is not in love with his woman no more) if not he wouldn't have created this thread. only advice i can give is if the reason for you coming up with all these excuses is cos you're eyeing another girl right now rethink your thoughts, for the grass is not always greener on the other side

first off, how old are you? cos if you're still in your teens or very early twenties you probably aint ready yet for a COMMITTED relationship and need to go and explore more ("find yourself" as most females put it), for in a serious/committed relationship (like marriage or one that leads to marriage) there's no "finding my space" or "taking a break"

secondly, the love in your relationship (if there ever was any) has evidently worn off. people "in love" dont need space or take breaks, rather they cant get enough of themselves. something apart from the space issue is definitely missing; matured people stick it out to find and fix that. so, if you're still young i'd advice you to free the guy and go "find yourself" but if you're older, then, you're just not the relationship type

[quote author=en-fuse link=topic=475289.msg6364122#msg6364122 date=1278799661]@ Mudley
You've made your point, but please be less aggressive with proving your point knowing the poster's already gotten in too deep in this. Put some coating to the pill she's more likely to understand you that way.[/quote]this mumu needs no coating but a huge knock to her demented brain that still will not even clear the fog

femmy2010:
Notsure,its a thing of the mind and i wish u the very best.

ofcourse you're gonna encourage her when you yourself are involved in the same yahoo-yahoo business. ewu

notsure:
You all have been great with very good advice with the exception of 1 bitter soul who just feels he needs to insult and get nasty to get his point across.  Wow, glad I'm not his partner getting verbally abused by him.

atleast my partner is in a "genuine" loving "real life" relationship not based on a lie unlike your fat ugly expired self thats proud to be in love(?) with a scammer she hasn't even ever met. your picture should be posted alongside the words FOOL and STUPIDITY in the dictionary. whatever you get you TOTALLY deserve

If and when the time does come, this is America.  My assets are protected and IF I EVER marry again I will do a pre-nuptual agreement that states he gets nothing of my assets which I have now.  I'm not dumb.

Yes my dear, you are correct; you are not dumb, you are the dumbest of the dumbs. dont worry, he's not necessarily out to get your assets, just an easy way to AMERICA and eventually a GREEN CARD

He was the first person I ever chatted with on the internet and did not know these things happen.  People posting fake pictures WOW!  I learned about the internet the hard way, by getting hurt financially and emotionally.

@ bolded. . .you have not learned one bit and still entangled in the delusional world of deceit which will eventually come back to bite your azz in the long run so enjoy your foolishness while it last but dont come back here to post about how bad nigerian men are when you've been warned severely before hand. silly goat

We are all humans and no one is perfect.
If the meeting does happen I will certainly be prepared.  I do trust him but will keep my eyes wide open.  If I have any issues with him I will get the police involved but it's not gonna happen.  We are about each other and after 5 years it's time we meet and talk face to face.  I am not scared of him or anybody, he's 1 human being.

continue deceiving yourself. let me tell you exactly whats gonna happen here. you're gonna see him and he's gonna be the nicest and sweetest thing you ever had (since you're too ugly to get a decent man out here and he'll be playing to get what he wants) as he bombards you with sweet nothings (ofcourse not forgetting to constantly employ the name of god and christianity in the same breath). you're then gonna fulfill he's dreams of coming to america after pummeling you with some hot african s.ex and pretend love. as in every normal relationship u both are then gonna be seeing the flaws of eachother and all the fantasy of internet romance is gonna wear off but you're not gonna wanna let go cos of all the emotional and financial investment you foolishly provided while he plots his get away and then alas after acquiring his green card he's gonna leave your sorry azz for a better looking, younger nigerian chic while your ugly pathetic azz mourns over your gross stupidity. ask around, nigerian men hardly marries someone older than them, and with kids for that matter, not considering the obvious fact of you being overweight, ugly and with alot of unresolved psychological/mental/behavioral issues. you're one pathetic dummy

This isn't about self esteem mogley or whatever your name is, it's about having long time feelings for another human being who made a mistake in his life and has moved on to be a better person.

i agree its not about self-esteem, its way more than that. a person as overtly silly as you is fraught with alot of issues that you need to sought out before embarking on the fantasy of dating an internet fraudster its why i suggested earlier that you seek professional help and FAST. the last sentence of your post doesn't even deserve a reply as your blind defense of this person you never even met summarizes what and who you are: A VERY FOOLISH PERSON

Now go curl in a corner and weep for your pathetic existence

Seems like you already got your mind made up so no amount of cajoling can make you change your mind or if you do, you'd most probably do it for the wrong reasons. So, apart from all the reasons excuses you posted above, its pretty clear this relationship is already over and the love is gone so do what you got to do. . .as they say, follow your heart

8 years is a pretty long time so it sure is gonna bring alotta pain and even resentment on her part, but its better than pretending to be in a relationship your heart no longer is in, for it will only lead to more pain and a prolongation of the inevitable. So, be prepared for what they call a woman's scorn, but better yet, do what you got to do. . .goodluck

femmy2010:
change is always a constant thing and nothing is impossible.

agreed. . .but clearly not in this case

the OP defense of her scammer e-boyfriend reeks of what yahoo-yahoo boys call format (with all that overuse of religious innuendos like using the name of god in vain or being a christian and all that bullcrap--unless you wanna tell me you've never read a 419 email before). and since change is always constant and nothing is impossible, next time you receive one of em emails with promises of hidden millions somewhere in africa, dont hesitate to provide em with all your personal info like credit card number and bank a/c statement. . .there's a clear difference b/w giving someone the benefit of the doubt and being an outright fool; TWICE

luizworld:
. . hehe its workin for him

working for him how? by wanking off to internet p0rn after spending all his time massaging the egos of screen names with a pink f by the side on nairaland?

VPersie:
@Muddy


It seems you are thinking in a muddy manner. Have you taken a look at mama-gee's profile picture? If you have, you will see that she is worth every fight I can give. She is not an e-chic. In fact that is insulting, and if you said that to my face, I will slap you. She is the real deal. I have a life outside the internet, but my life on the internet seems more interesting. There are females where I live, but my liver dey always fail me. Finally, I advice you to peruse mama-gee's inane, vacuous, glib and meretricious posts and you will that we do have much in common and that is why I will fight for her anytime, any day.

*shake my head*

You seriously need help

femmy2010:
Mudley,
I see no point for me to play DUMB.you made your point and i made mine.The Poster has her own decision to make so what is the issue?

no issues bro. . .but try n be more realistic n don't come issuing advice you wouldn't be giving if it were your sister in the same position

another lame internet nerd fighting over e-chics. . .seriously, don't you guys have a life outside of the internet? are there no females where you live at out in the real world? no-game-having-azz lames

netotse:
OMG. . .who is this? you deserve to be popular . . .lol

smh @ seeking for e-popularity

femmy2010:
Sir,
Nothing wrong with expressing your views or opinion and nothing wrong with me expressing mine too but there is definitely a whole lot of wrong in it when you start talking to another in a wrong way without no reason.
Thanks

@ bolded. . .are you serious or you just feel like playing dumb?

suzy:
i caught my boyfriend in bed with my sister and i says they were just talking and i knew what i saw,my eye can not be seeing something else,help me.he loves me and i do too.but i do not trust him for doing that to me

5 Reasons Why You Should Take Him Back after this^^^(i.e if this is even a real story)

1. You are/were blind
2. You are a fool
3. You are a mumu
4. You are okay with being with a cheater
5. You don't know what you really want in life

makajibbz:
this is 5 reasons why you should go back to him!
1= if you are a total foool
2= if you and your sister share everything
3= if he buys you a Lambroghini as a ''sorry gift''
4= if your eyes saw somthing else
5= if you are the sister,

^^^beat me to it

femmy2010:
Ever heard the life history of a certain PASTOR ADEFARASIN?
Because he use to be a drug addict that means he would always be same?
There is nothing wrong with giving someone a chance to be a better person an that that is nothing close to encouraging scam.
The Poster is not a baby and if God can always give a chance to start afresh inspite of our many shortcomings does why cant we give others a benefit of doubt?
I have wrong people in the past and there had been reason to give me a second chance to redeeming myself so the self confessed scam-mer deserve that too.
My view though.

but guy, this situation is too obvious na. an older white woman with kids and self esteem issues meets scammer online. scammer senses how so vulnerable mumu white lady is and after sweet talking her into parting with her money, switches game to exploiting her stupidity by sweet talking the obvious maga into e-love, for the obvious reason (opportunity to travel abroad/greencard). lets not beat around the bush here cos there's nothing here to even speculate about. abi you nor be naija? abi you too dey the yahoo-yahoo line thus wanna protect your comrade?

dat british espn commentator is starting to overact to the normal boos reaction to suarez to the point of being insultive

femmy2010:
My Advice is meet him.He asked to be forgiven,forgive him and start on a new slate.
What if it would work?you wont know till you try it but do not hesitate to pull out if he shows any more tendencies of cheating you.
Meet him and i do wish you the best.

why are you guys encouraging scam/fraud? naija sha (*hiss*)

if she were your sister will you give her this same advice?

Mr. OLAADEGBU, google conspiracy "nut-jobs" to better understand the lunacy that plagues the alex jones and no-life-having peeps that espouse all of these conspiracy bullcrap in the US. From the bogus illuminaty claims to how obama is kenyan born to how 9/11's an inside job. All that demented rockerfeller/new world order/secret society claims are just one way white-supremacist losers at life uses to convince themselves of how one of their arch enemies next to blacks, The Jews, somehow controls the world satanically (just like their hero hitler did prior to WWII and the gas chambers). Its one thing to be on the fringe with these lunatics who think the world is controlled by some lizard people but it's just bat-sh1t crazy for a black african to be vigorously promoting these fear theories with mostly racist agendas. don't worry, obama is an anti-christ with intent to take over the world someday like lex luger the villian character in superman. . .hope that helps you sleep better at night




OLAADEGBU>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

[quote author=African_queen link=topic=475289.msg6360997#msg6360997 date=1278750921]You probably look like a dog dat's why u re pissed of my looks. Eya sorry dummy[/quote]i see u still aint taken down dat ugly azz pic. . .if people wanna see the pic of a female chimpanzee they'd visit the zoo or go watch the discovery channel or sumthin, ms. i've-lived-and-eaten-with-scammers-before-so-becos-they're-all-humans-you-should-fall-victim-as-well

Ryan Short:
This silly poster is a textbook example that the juju some of these scammers dabble in, works How pathetic and desperate and rusty can one be And then deciphering someone telling you the barefaced, raw, undilted, bitter truth is not the brightest crayon in the box, oh the irony Go ahead and meet him, over ripe glutton for punishment

i shook my head in utmost pity at the irony of the "not the brightest crayon in the box" line by the mumu poster. she's probably ran to look for another online forum to seek for people to help her validate her stupidity which she wont be getting anywhere. maybe she can try www.i'mwithstupid.com

spoilt:
Which you are fixing to lose.  These women never learn.

its what i've been trying to konk into her coconut head but the maga already got her mind made up for the inevitable disaster that awaits her mumu self (notice how she's astutely defending somebody she never met). she earlier stated she previously visited anti-scam websites were she was told the obvious truth but she seem to be looking for where people can help her validate her stupidity and since this is a nigerian website she thought she'll be getting what her disillusioned self wants to hear. like i said earlier, go for it (since thats what you want to hear), you guys deserve eachother. a scammer and his mumu white sugar mummy

and hey mrs notsure mumu, i might be sounding off kinda mean to you, but the truth is always bitter and as i stated earlier, only tough love can slap you out of your okpemurism. i am originally nigerian and american as well, just looking out for a sista and sick of people like your scammer e-boyfriend tarnishing the image of my country nigeria. a word is enough for the wise but i've taken my time to ditch out several just to possibly wake you up from your disillusionment. if not, you're doomed to a life of heartache, pain, and possible bankruptcy and its all gonna be due to your own unimaginable stupidity

[quote author=African_queen link=topic=475289.msg6353108#msg6353108 date=1278617032]Jealous[/quote]jealous ko, jealous ni. . .obasanjo/taribo west looking azz female

obojo:
Hey comon na, y r nairalanders so hostile

it's called tough love cos people as stoopid as this nor get the word "logic" or rationality for their dictionary

notsure:
Hey Mudley - isn't that a dog's name?

**Can you read ok?  If you read my first post it was asking if anyone here had a realtionship with a scammer.  I did not come here for approval as I don't know anyone here or do I need to be verbally abused by someone who has a dog's name.  I have plenty of american men who want to take me out and have been married in those 5 years also.  How can you be so ignorant to compare a scammer to a cerial killer?  Your not the brightest crayon in the box 4 sure

Are you a FOOL? (you definitely are one big one from your posts thus far). You came here to ask if anyone had a relationship with a scammer and were you expecting anyone here to answer YES to such a dumb azz question? someone who sweet talked you outta your cash is in the same vein sweet talking you into granting him entry abroad and you're here with the nerves to throw insults at peeps trying to slap you back to reality. The truth is always bitter and if you cant bear to swallow it now you're in for a life of eternal pain and misery owing to your overt mumurism.

I have plenty of american men who want to take me out

yea right

and i'm not comparing no serial killer to a scammer but a situation where u fall stupidly for the obvious. . .on a more serious note tho, hope you seek some professional help as i mentioned earlier cos something is most definitely missing upstairs. okpemu

TEE MAMA:
i met this guy am dating online, though is a yoruba guy, not too long we met each other, and he called me always but just few days later he stop calling, then i called him and he give me the excuse that nigeria network is bad that he will call me ,since then i didnt hear from him anymore, and am in love already, so my fellow people i need your advice cos am dying for him.

you guys shoud pls stop abusing the use of the word "love" on here when you evidently dont know what it is. . .love ni, love ko. . .what you're feeling is lust; cut your losses and move on

OLAADEGBU:
You wished.

wished what



mehn, i'm done with bickering back and forth with you. . .you seem quite literate and obviously a staunch christian fanatic, but you most definitely are not too mentally okay upstairs

queeneve:
WAIT!

POSTER IS OLD?!!!! HOW IS AN OLD FUCCER GON BE PICKY?!!! YOU BETTER BE LUCKY AND THANKFUL THAT SHE THINK YOU MKAE HER DAY, YOU MUST NOT BE THAT FINE IF U MEETING CHICKS ONLINE,


SUSPECT!!!!


ANYWAY, GET TO SAWIN OFF your DICC, IT LUNCH TIME!

you need to get off this thread cos you're not making any meaningful contribution. i blame your irresponsible father for not using a condom when he paid your mum for sex. . . just know dat DRUGS KILL

Maple:
@Mudley313

Nope! however, your comment raised a very important point which need to be addressed as well.


And come to talk of superstition, If you think outside of the the box, it becomes obvious how Christianity and Islam are ridden with superstitions. Pls, do not get indignant, get smart!

Christianity and Islam is as based on belief in the superstitous as native african beliefs; the europeans were just smarter. the belief that a talking snake deceived the the first humans to eat some magic fruit which now bears a curse on all humanity is as superstitous as the belief in the olodumare mythology or the moon bowing down to muhammed; nothing spiritual bout all that bullcrap

queeneve:
MUDLEY,

SERIOUSLY GET OFF MY KITTY, I DONT SPEAK DYKENESE,


YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME, YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING, BUT TYPE, GO TYPE A JOB RESUME,

BETTER YET, GO TYPE SOME GRANTS FOR YOU A DECENT EDUCATION,

see grammar. *shake my head* i feel much pity for your parents

queeneve:
If you going to stroll through a dictionary, YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THE DEFINITION OF THE WORD that you are narrating, if you are improperly using the dictions, to prove a point, you look like a helmet wearing, drooling mouth, bubba the shrimp man, and forest whitaker eye looking NITWIT

I stated my opinion to the POSTER and you dogs wanna bark at me, go right ahead, MY STATEMENT STILL STAND AND I SURELY HOPE THE DICC RUN  OFF,

you'd have been taken more seriously if you'd had made any sense. its not our fault your dad sexually molested you as a child. haba

queeneve:
you need to thoroughly kiss my well examined azz

you need to get yourself an education so that you can quit typing like someone who just escaped from a mental institution

queeneve:
I don't care what HE DID WITH HER, I am only concern with the chit he wrote, I PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT PEPE SAY AND WRITE,

I SUGGEST YOU DOGS DO THE SAME,


AND I WILL NOT TAKE A CHILL PILL, ASK ME TO TAKE A CHILL PILL AGAIN,

you need to get your head examined. . .seriously

queeneve:
FRUSTRATED

WHAT THE bleep AM I FRUSTRATED ABOUT? I DON'T HAVE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS, WE A BIT TOO MATURE FOR THAT CHILDISH CHIT ALOT OF YALL HAVE IN YALL RELATIONSHIPS, FRUSTRATED

DO U KNOW WHAT THAT MEAN NUKKA? I THINK NOT!
^^AND YOU NEED TO QUIT TELLING ME WHAT TO DO, IF THE SHOE FITS, WEAR IT, ARE YOU GUILTY?

NUKKA,

english please. . .do you speak it?

Omolulu:
really what is nukka?? sounds like a new lame slang u just learnt

i think she just finished smoking igbo before logging into her computer

queeneve:
FRUSTRATED

WHAT THE bleep AM I FRUSTRATED ABOUT? I DON'T HAVE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS, WE A BIT TOO MATURE FOR THAT CHILDISH CHIT ALOT OF YALL HAVE IN YALL RELATIONSHIPS, FRUSTRATED

DO U KNOW WHAT THAT MEAN NUKKA? I THINK NOT!

whats up with all the nukka this, nukka that. how old are you? you need to take a chill pill and quit taking your period out on faceless online "nukkas"

[quote author=African_queen link=topic=475289.msg6349386#msg6349386 date=1278580910]Dear, I've stayed in the compound wit scammers, I've eat in the same tables wit scammers, some scammers were even my friend and one thing they all have in common is this: they dump their victim once they are through wit them. But the the fact that he came clean means two things; one he truly likes you or two he's not done scamming you and he sees u as a free visa to your country. See him if you want to but pls be very very careful. Scammers always have the tendency to scam but they are humans too.[/quote]stop giving her wrong advice. . .you and i know as naijas whats going on here. . .this sh*t is what gives my country nigeria a bad name so lets stop beating around the bush round here and tell it like it is. truly like you ko, truly likes you ni

and pls take down dat ugly azz thing u call a pic on ur profile

Just tell her straight up. . .the earlier the better for the both of you

queeneve:
^^^ANOTHER FOUL AZZ NUKKA,


READ WHAT HE SAID, THEY EXCHANGED PICTURES, AND THEY PLANNED MARRIAGE AND LOVE AND HE TOOK HER HOME AND GAVE HER WHAT SHE ASKED FOR AND NOW HE READY TO DUMP HER,


DON'T TELL ME THAT poo AINT FOUL, oh wait, YOU A FOUL AZZ NUKKA OF COURSE U DON'T,

^^^don't listen to this frustrated woman

timothy001:
It a Lie Girl, Go for him, I know wat you talking about.Yes he did scam you.Because he was a scammer.But now he sent u his real Pics and everything why think he still want to scam you?

He would never confessed to you if he never loved you.
He would have ignored you yrs back since he is done scamming you.but he still stayed because he love u.
yes he was once a scammer.but he might not be, Everyone has bad side okay.
Follow your heart but if u love him, follow him.he is no more after your money.

^^^Scammer (yahoo-yahoo boy) ALERT !!!

notsure:
[b]Hey Mudley [/b] - if I wanted to hear from an a**hole I'd fart.  I wasn't born yesterday, don't you think 5 years of knowing this nigerian man and countless phone calls back and forth, countless chat conversations, countless emails I know what a MAGA means?   I am blond, 34 yrs old and 117 lbs from California by the way.  Bet your some ugly *** the way you talk to people.

i know you came here to hopefully hear what you'd like to hear but sorry, i tell it like it is and sorry if it got your feelings hurt; its called "reality", ever heard of that?. . .why wont the scammer hold unto communication with an obvious mugu through countless emails et al over the lure of life abroad and green card? if you were in anyway close to the word attractive you'd have had countless "real life" suitors within that 5 year span instead of holding on to the illusions of love with an obvious scammer whom you've never met in your life. . .you most definitely got serious issues and need professional help. . .i said it once and i'll say it again: you're most probably an ugly old hag and a morbidly obese skank with a frightening case of low self esteem. . .both of you deserve eachother. ewu

all these oyibo girls dey craze nor be small. you even have the ones who claim to be in love with serial killers like jeffrey dammer and that dutch boy that murdered some american chic and just committed another murder in chile

Timothy - thanks for your kind advice and having an open mind.  I tried to add u on yahoo but said it was invalid address.

you seem to be easily drawn to shady characters. any abusive childhood experiences you'd like to tell us about? cos there's definitely something missing upstairs