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Rozross:
So you don't know the bible highly kicked against it? It is said that do not meet your wife from the rare, it is demonic. Why wont i know what MouthAction is when i use the internet.lol

So doggy style is out of this as well?

The internet? Rev sister dey watch porn?

youngZee23:
Is having oral or anal sex a demonic act..u know the way naija girls are sharing the pussy this days,u hadly see tight pussy ..so guys now using the analsex to hold body..though some are just fantasy like MouthAction..but i want to know if having oral or anal with ur patner a demonic act..for the new generational sake..

If you married, anyhow you both decide to pleasure yourselves is allowed..As long na una two.

Like you said, it could be fantasy. You may like Oral..Your partner may like anal.

You both can hate it as well..Or vice versa...

Rozross:
Oral no, anal yes(very demonic)

Rev sister so you know what MouthAction is? That's you understand Mouth Action abii cunninglingus?

What is demonic about Anal?

Rozross:
Lol but after giving king treatment they will still sneak to cheat, it's heartbreaking

Overcome your fears before entering into it.

Not all men misbehave. And some that does, do meet that lady that makes them quit rubbish life.

Just choose right and do it wisely..He will appreciate everything you do.

mariahAngel:
Oh! Bent wu ihe ha zagazi?

@bolded, You see why they should not be left to do as they please? Most times, they target young naive boys especially, to seduce and initiate them into that act.
A similar experience happened with one of my brothers, while growing up.
What gave the man away was a statement he made.

We have to speak against these acts before it spreads and corrupts our society.
We have to protect little boys and girls because they're the future.

Lol..No na me give them that name..Since ha di hu straight.. Nwoke weputa onu ya na ata nwoke ibe ya kissing.. Irritating.

They boy child must be educated more before that puberty..Likewise the girl child.
Ya wuru na awuhu m onye shi na afo wara anya puta, that man would have had his ways.

If I tell you where it happened, you will be shocked..But, it's a sensitive stuff..Maybe I will tell you in place off public eyes and ears.

I huru umu m, na me go dey monitor and follow up on them..Ma ndi nwoke ma Nwaanyi. Uwa erepiala..

Gone are days when you can easily Identify them, now they look more straight than we that feel we like women pass

Even ndi nke nwaanyi same..No longer tomboy sef..very feminine..But running it on code even while married.

Surely we will..It isn't in our culture to practice..The white condemned polygamy, but want us to accept same sex

Rozross:
how are you doing? Have you connected with daniella already? I'm sure it will reach you and you will be her saving grace of wifing her up

Who is Daniella?

Rozross:
I disagree, a man should love his wife more so that he wont cheat and elop with another lady. Men always dissapoint and punish the women that loves them more

Emphasis on who loves more.

From experience, best relationship is the one the lady loved more..The man gets the King treatment and in turn reciprocate with a Queen treatment for her.

Worst mistake any man will do, is settling with a woman he forced to love him..E go choke or ticket go cut like Arsenal when you expect more from them..

Despite the male ego, we value the love you ladies show us..The special treatments are part of what we discussed over chilled drinks on hangout.

It's fun when a guy tells his fellow guys, this thing, my woman bought it for me or some special treats.

But, we won't tell you all this in your face, make your head no swell up.

mariahAngel:

They are evevrywhere now..

Sometime in 2017, I entered a bus, the foolish guy closer to me, his actions became irritating.

You know when a guy di straight batara bus hu Nwaanyi mara nma, that rush in him.

This fool looked at me in an uncomfortable way.. .

My second experience with a serious bent guy..My straight face destabilized him .

Another was in my junior sec school days, the idiot man married with kids o, bia na agwa m na o likiri m..I took it as a friendly stuff...Until he started saying nasty things around me, my senses woke up to reality of this Fool na bent man.

I cut off immediately...Mu nwa likiri nwaanyi chukwu kere ofuma..
In uni days I was soo conscious..Ebe ahu ka ha juru.

More especially ndi umu nwaanyi ha..

May God help us..How humans found pleasure in same sex..

mariahAngel:
Lend me that your Monalisa meme.


Seriously o.

armyofone:
Christian mother hands.

Hope Ned won't start looking for a slimmer wife again.

Somebody was there when she entered.

She is probably prepared for it.

mariahAngel:
Homosexuality is a mental disorder, just like schizophrenia.
How you feel is not who you are.
Don't allow the world put a label on you, then tell you it's ok to be that. No, it is not.
You're not "gay"!
You're not a "lesbian"!
You're not one of those letters!
You're a HUMAN BEING!

Oooh!!! Preach on preacher!.

The society is fast fading.

mariahAngel:
Damage control.

Lol..

Things are happening.

franchasofficia:
For any marriage to work, the woman must love the man more than the man loves her.



Any man that marries a woman he loves more than she loves him is on a very long thing.



Na women de uphold marriage not man

I can't but agree more at bolded.

Everything she does for you will be from a place of genuine love and care...Which motivates the man more.

Zonefree:
There's nothing to fix again in that marriage. The earlier OP understand this, the better for his sanity.

They have kids bro.

gloryhomemaker:
Hmmmm, everyday soup making no be here oooo
I know some ladies that know how to handle the situation.
Oga insists of eating only fresh soup.
The woman makes bulk Egusi soup without vegetables and pack in the freezer.
Anyday Oga wants Egusi, she warms up the Egusi and adds fresh vegetables.
Oga doesn't know the deal.
Same with Ogbono, cooks it in bulk, anyday Oga wants, she warms up the Ogbono, adds fresh Okro and vegetables.
And everyone is good

I grew up with that everyday soup..Though not really everyday per say.


Freezer meal, My wife will have a lot to do in that kitchen department as the HOD

The description you gave, is the best way to handle it.The vegetables makes it a fresh one.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

The problem now, we can't hear from the other partner involved.

If what you said is nothing but how it is 100%, and you are sure you didn't commit or tried to run small away match. Then, you have a huge problem that may snatch the peace, love and joy you've been enjoying in your home.

First, you allowed things get messier to extent your wife cannot comfortably give you her cell phone...What then is the long talk of 2 becoming 1..

How do you guys keep a Woman who entertains calls at odd hours no mata her profession.

Or even chats and exchange voice notes with men other than their romantic partner or family at odd hours of the night..

For the sake of your kids, go and have a heart to heart with your wife..Find out what is wrong with her.

It could be something eating her up.

If not, follow your instinct.

Lastly, when a woman you are having romantic affair with, start acting withdrawn, just know their could be a deviation likely.

Act now, and act fast..

Zonefree:
He's SIMPly in love. A man in love is a foolish man. My last relationship with a Nigerian girl made me understand that it takes a man without brain to love a Nigerian girl.

Easy easy...bro.

OP is passing through that see finish stage..Where he allowed a lot get out of his control as the head.

It will cost him a lot to fix his problems.

I mean a married woman entertains calls at odd hours and even hides her chats from her acclaimed husband..smh

Zonefree:
I'll lead South East zone protest.

I will head Abuja own..

gloryhomemaker:
This weekend has been very work full as I had to prepare this 30 liters of soup single handedly.

How has your weekend been?

Enjoy your day.

So soup is now measured in Litres? Lol..

Freezer soup just tire me.

Rozross:
Only husband wey get money and caring go enjoy this type of meal else na iya basira get am bdat

Smh...

BadRadio:
Is it possible to use spiritual methods through voodoo, black magic or native charms to make someone love you?

If it is real and true, how is it possible? If it is true then it is easy for any woman to make seun or Lalasticlala or wizkid or Davido fall in love with her.

E dey do you like them don tie you?

Mind can play games on you when it comes to things of the heart..

Well, charm is real for those who believe..But works if you are spiritually weak.

Hushbingo:
Nigeria Girls Are Useless

Una no dey tire?

Zonefree:
E no go work for them. Our God pass them

Nna eeeh...kiss wey dey help men keep body and soul together o...

Unless they want a protest..

Idrisk19:
Love Arsenal with all my heart.

Easy ooo

Kyase:
EPL refs working for arsenal this season walahi

Careless talk..

His sexual orientation, his business..

Zonefree:
These people no just want our happiness for this country. Ordinary kissing wey we dey use hold body na em dem dey issue warning.

Wetin man do man for this country

From stop eating kpomo.

Now na kiss..

They want take away our joy sha..

Number 2 sure pass..

Ebenman:
I have received a lot of bashing.

I guess I didn't really explain the situation well, so a lot of people didn't really get my points.

This lady in particular mum is late. Her dad is battling with stroke.

I stay in a 3-bedroom flat as a bachelor in a high-income area while she, her dad, and 3 other siblings stay in a room and parlor in a low-income area. I fear that one day her family will tell her sis and bro to come and start staying with us if we end up together since they will feel we live in a 3-bedroom flat.

More so, her yearly income is always not up to my monthly income.

She is not the First Lady to show interest in me. I asked her why is she interested in me, and she said that I don't drink, smoke, gamble, or womanize. I am always focused.

In essence, I am also a standard.

You have your doubt and worries already on your palm.

If you don't see her as your Queen, let her go..

You don't manage a partner in marriage.You marry who you wake up every morning, smile and Thank God.

Happy searching bro.

Lastly, remember life can flip in seconds. E dey happen steady.

MatrixReloaded:
It's just a mere scenerio where the man couldn't control his sexual escapades . I have melt with such scene where this woman happen to be my cousin wife , I lived with them while searching for job back then. Btw she was so beautiful that even her curves were irresistible while her front melon was a haven to seek comfort.
I resisted the urge to even look when ever she wears her bumshort and walk pass to the kitchen
Or when ever I hear her voice calling me to come takemy meal from the kitchen, opening the door to the kitchen will be a see through night gown that protrude her pointing nipples and her v pant shape that melts my throat.
My cousin was a guy I knew his manhood is like catapillar, each moment I want to draw the useless picture of him hitting the wife bossom I feel unrepentant and alas I jettison that and flee to a safer harbor where I won't be deceived by the Eve kind to eat the forbidden fruit.

This is the reason why I feel couples deserve some privacy..

And won't entertain the visitor stuff that mich..

Genuinely I will be helping a brother, but he is lusting after my beautiful wife who is being comfortable in her comfort zone.

This life sef...

To the topic under discussion, Many people ar3 doing that currently..Some are banging their sibling's partner..

Ndi Ara!

Ebenman:
I meant a lady 3 months ago. After we talked, she began to show interest in me, but she wasn't my standard, so I wasn't feeling the same way.

My standards are:
1. At least she must be a graduate
2. She should be self-sufficient (earning something reasonable)
3. At most 5-6 age difference between us
4. Looking calm and understandable
5. She must be an average-height lady

This lady, in particular, is an NCE holder, working as a teacher, earning little because of her level of education. She is just in her early 20s, and I am almost 8 yrs older than her. She is from a poor background and has 2 other younger siblings. She is also not tall and looks like an average girl.

She is very decent (a virgin) and loyal to me. I have told her severally that she is not my standard and I wasn't interested in her, but she refused to listen and began to feel very insecure. Maybe because I earn well and she knows I will soon get married.

She now comes to my house almost every weekend because I am very accommodating. Recently she has been telling me to delete the pictures of other females friends, in which I asked her on what grounds I should do that.

Note: I don't want to invest in a lady that is not my wife, and I am afraid her family will see me as a rich guy from which her other siblings can benefit if I proceed with her.

Should I block every contact with her, or should I forget about standards and risk and look at the good side?

Please advice

The problem we face when we achieve a bit comfort of at least good food and a roof over our head.

You set the standard too high..The risk of ending with who isn't yours are also high.

The lady you described is an average decent prayer point of some brothers.

Emphasis on A decent, loyal and at least educated lady for marriage.
As long as she is not entitled, have a mind of her own, open to learning and upgrading, you have yourself one of the few good ones out here..

She can be a professor tomorrow if you are willing to...

Like flavour will say, If you have a good woman, hold am tight..If you lose am, everything go nyamanyama.

The standard you are looking for may attract the real problems in disguise.