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obembet:
Sex is still something special and valued. It’s still better to have sex with someone you really love expecially when you are legally married.

Having sex as a single man or lady doesn't really make relationship survive ( my opinion).

I believe that's Having open and honest communication is essential to a long-lasting relationship.

Therefore, Communication is the backbone of a healthy relationship, and it's way more important than sex. If you can't be open and honest with each other about your needs and desires, then the other person is never going to know what is going on in your head.

Source: Obembet

Sex that happens in a relationship where two people are genuinely open and honest with eachother, happens naturally.

And sex doesn't keep or scatter relationship, rather character, openess and communication does the keeping and strengthen.

Sex is a bond or spice to it.

I feel it is deception if we say we are lovers and no romance in the relationship.. All attraction must connect for me.

Mental, physical and sexual attractions must be on same page. To make it make sense.

We are not talking about secondary school under the Gmelina tree relationship here o

Ebubu:
yes all my female lecturers in my eyes seemed moral-istic. sadly i can’t say the same for male lecturers.

female teachers are indeed good wife materials i confess.

Male lecturers is a 50/50 case..

Some are fathers, especially the ones that I met..

We still have the anything under skirt testers.

But female teachers, awesome!.

Ebubu:
for a woman to be a lecturer she is already mostly 30 years plus and married.

why not find an academia loving young girl “who wants to be a lecturer”, then marry her young.

or you want her to use her money and train herself in Msc and Phd then you come and marry her ?

Quite a lot of young ladies in the lecturing field now..

They usually make a good home..Just say female teachers..Whether tertiary or not.

The nature of their Job has already assumed morals on them and in essence position them to impact.

ettelinhno:
i think i would go for a woman that is a nurse.i think the profession is so noble.

my second option should be a a chef. i too like food oo no blame me

Everybody likes food...

Just pray to have a lady who understand the kitchen game perfectly.

You and your kids are covered nutritional and health wise.

Then, she has a decent Job or business that doesnt expose her to pressures of adultery or nasty behaviour.

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Nurse or nutritionist.

Need a woman who'll have enough time to keep home, who'll return from work before I do and whose job wouldn't put her under unnecessary pressure to commit adultery.

Too much sense in this comment..

Landmack:
A farmer

Though married to an MD. I for like marry woman wey be correct farmer o

I like seeing food

This got me

Seun:
Fellow Nairalanders,

I have noticed the fake likes by Tinubu Bots. Unfortunately, I'm still trying to find a permanent solution to this problem.

I have failed to deploy the solutions that I have because I feel they will either be circumvented pretty easily or cause too much collateral damage.

1. If you have ideas, please post them here.
2. Please use this page to report any post that has a suspiciously high number of likes.

I apologize for the delay in fixing this problem. We will fix this and any other problems as soon as possible.

Regards,
Seun.

First of their is no smoke without fire..

Summon a meeting with your Moderators..

Put mynd44 on the hot seat and grill him..Their must be a compromise somewhere..

A lot of accusations on him being a core Tinubu supporter and a biased human regarding political views of members and posts that hit FP.

People in such positions must be Neutral as long as they keep working here.

Too many lapses lately.

FalseProphet1:
As a prophet it's is my desire to marry a prophetess so that we can both continue to see the future uninterruptedly.

This I have seen.

chatinent:
Sadly, the bunch contesting for presidential positions are renowned failures, thieves, and selfish entities.

Finally, I found who shares same Opinion as mine.

Even the OBI we talk about, isn't left out.

Solofresh2:
There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.

So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.

Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.

However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.

Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.

What do you guys think over this issue?

She has her family going, she want to destroy you for life.
Very wicked of her.. to think you still call her a friend is ridiculous.

She will destroy your star the moment you touch her.It is time to delete her for life...Or be friends from a far distance.

Rozross:
you wey be like bbn whitemoney go fit swim, you will drown ooo

No be only whitemoney, add Mr Ibu join..

Hope you have gotten your Bikini.

Haland no chop the heart and liver today

Rozross:
Is this not munzy.14 community

Wear your Bikini lets go and swim. GOD don provide emergency swimming pool..

As for the bikini, a sexy one though

mariahAngel:
When I saw it, it got me excited.

O tee la anyi wuwarala.

Immediately I saw the headline, My curiosity wanted to know which side from IMO wu ihe ahu..As I saw Mbano...Gbada small hu gi ma si uka agwula

Ngwanu o..Mbano wuru ebe Ihe oma o wu lawara, ya rukwa m aka o..

MufasaLion:
I don't think it's necessary to bother people about marriage, irrespectice of age, even if they are one's sibling(s). it's wrong to expect people to follow the norms that everybody follows. We all have different ideologies about life and it's constituents, we should respect people's choices and decisions.

The said lady is doing well financially and she is most likely to be fulfilled. Many people see marriage as an achievement or ultimate goal, which I don't agree to. Not everyone is interested in marriage or raising offsprings, and some want those things but they only want them when they are mentally, financially and psychologically ready.

Africans needs to understand that!

Sometines, one can be soo focused on one thing, while neglecting the basic things.

So, every human at a point will need tha person who set their head straight to basic things.

Africans do..We are more of an Egalitarian.

This is our continent, I mean "Nke a bu nke anyi" in Igbo. We have our traditions, we must uphold it wherever we find ourselves.

The western ways we tend to uplift usually backfires with time.

A lady was chasing money, and shouting I don't need marriage, what do I need man for..While her mom was going for alter calls, booking mass on her head to get married.

When she got pregnant, her status was " Whatever you heard about me, believe it"

Anyways, she did her trad on August or so..you needed to see the excitement of Mother and daughter.

There are ways to go about this. OP can talk to her in a way she will process the massage clean.

MufasaLion:
WTF is your business? She's an adult and she's fulfilled! What's norms to you, your mother and everyone else, is not norms to her!

I'm glad I have nobody like you as a sibling. Disgusting thing!

Nobody wants to be in OP's shoes...It's been attack attack all the way.

The reality is, if I have a sister approaching 30, unmarried, I will genuinely be in his shoes but think differently.

I mean, You pass from Who born am, to who marry am as a lady.

Same goes to a man Approaching 40 and unmarried, It calls for urgent Umunna meeting as well.

Necessary things must be done as at when due.

mariahAngel:
No. They're just doing their thing, and it's not their fault if anybody is feeling intimidated.

Asi m ka mu kpoo gi oku, ka i bia lere Ogor unu Nwoke I never knew he married from your place.


O di kwa ka o wu Mbano wuu ga zi now...My relative kuru m mgbe ndi ntakiri, luru di yesterday.. onye Ehime Mbano luru ya.

OgaTheTop2:
Dirty man...Dirty wife

As in eeeh..

But, I like it when partners are this fun and playful with each other..

GeneralPula:
Lol. They must have seen how the cruise had been going in South Africa..

I don know say the cruise go reach Naija..

Nah inside potholes dem dey swim now for southy..

This is some how...A woman comfortably sitting in a dirty water..Almost unclad
Make she no go gather dirty down there sha.

So his prick can rise at the sight of his own minor daughter?

Dirty dirty human.

VeryWickedMan:
Gazzuzz is now a marriage mechanic.

Lmao
Their could be possibility of that...

mariahAngel:
Obi a gbawala the woman.
O fugburu'm mgbe m guru ya sef.

I don't know if this particular story is true, but it happens quite commonly.

Life is a good teacher..We learn as we live.


We pray not to learn the hard way..

Parenting is a total far Journey..God willing it will come to reality..One really need to prepare very well.

mariahAngel:
Munz.y14, see what I was talking about the other day.

Homosexuality is evil, and we must condemn it without pity!

It is a pity..She neglected the boy child strict monitoring..
The result is here.

It will take grace of God to prevent that boy from being a Gay, or at least a Bisexual.

Imagine his first sexual experience coming from fellow man.. And he is the victim..It means a lot, physically and spiritually he has been Emasculated .
Chai! Legodi a promising boy that could av been an Alpha, Nwaanyi ekworo maka ebe ana chu ego kwere ka nne ya kporo Gay kpobatara ya na ulo.
Ya a bia na pu nwa ya his Star..

Young ladies married, should learn to draw boundaries with how their mother influences some of their decisions.

The man who is heading the home, said no househelp..The wife's mother eshi azu kporo homo bia..And the lady couldn't gather courage to say no to her mom

Fathers give their sons the space and respect ones they marry, but mothers want to be there even when it doesnt matter

Do you think her husband will genuinely forgive this disaster?

And if he gets to know his MIL brought the culprit into his home, how do you think he will see her on wards?

mariahAngel:
I imagine it'll be kinda bitter...in a pleasant way.
I'm sure I'd like it.

No..Never bitter, but doesn't give that feeling based on the hype..

Oha anyi will beat it black and blue in a competition..

You will like it.. Umu Nwaanyi I know, love it..Including my mom.

mariahAngel:
To tell you the truth, e ribehu'm afang mbo o, mana bragging ha kariri, so I won't allow it.


Have you ever been with any of them before?

Umu ejima di nke oma. Thanks.

E rie la ma afang, ike ya gwuru m.

It's over hyped.. Water + Ugu is best for me.

Afang wunu ukazu+ water leaf.

As friend yes..Never dated.

Good.

BigCowHornn:
Hmmmm....

No one does this unless you are sure he's your next president.
I hope rigging and supreme court won't rob us all and give it to APC at the end of the day

Everybody is worst hit by this government.

You think this elites are happy exchanging dollars at high rate?

Or You think they are smiling while paying ransom to kidnappers

He just completed a spiritual assignment with deep message...

The weak ones won't understand what happened..I mean Urchins..

mariahAngel:
With all due respect, anybody can make afang abeg.
It's pretty straightforward, and not complex.

Infact, one can make it blindfolded.

Over hyped soup...I will choose edikaikon over Afang..

Meanwhile, he was right though..Ladies from there do wonders with kitchen and the other room activities..

Joke section post..

Talk about Dr wey no fit treat himself first.

Seeing the headline alone, My guess where.

1 Igbo man.

2. From Anambra..

Blessed people..

mariahAngel:
OK.
I'm not that weird after all.

You eehh

I toro na mba, mana ihe ulo doro gi anya to an extent..So I ga wurila onye ulo.

Atimes I wonder ma toro ebe a ofuma, before gawa ebe a i no ugbu a.

You raise the curiosity Bar higher all the time.

Kedu maka umu ejima? It's been a while.

Rest on Nice guy..One of the entertainment Industry coolest dudes..

Guys drive carefully and avoid over speeding..

Where person run reach, personae wey walk go reach there.